Lingerie... Why Women Love to Feel Sexy

There are oodles of reasons why women love to wear sexy lingerie. However the most common reason would be is it makes them feel pretty. Lingerie is sexy and we love wearing it as much as men love seeing it on us. There is something to be said about a woman and what she wears hidden underneath her street clothes or business attire.There is nothing better then going lingerie shopping for new sexy lingerie. This is time to pick out something sexy that suits you and your needs. Every woman should treat herself once and a while to that sexy little piece or two. 

 Aside from hiding flaws in the body, sexy lingerie can be considered as a confidence builder. Confidence is a serious issue, but wearing a sexy lingerie can help change your low self-esteem. Find a perfect lingerie that fits you well and shows off your body to its advantage. It will make you feel sexy and at the same time more confident about yourself.There are a lot of things that are important that factor in to making your lingerie decisions.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie we bring our store right you your doorstep. Our online boutique is open 365/24/7 and you can shop in the privacy of your own home The main thing to remember is make sure that whatever you choose that it was a selection for you. We want you to  love it! Confidence speaks volume. In the mirror, a woman will examine herself in the clothes and like what he saw as he would often buy products that will improve his body and conceal flaws.

 

Here are some tips for lingerie shopping;

Is it Flattering? Make sure you feel like a true goddess in you choice of lingerie. Make sure that it compliments your body and does not expose areas that may make you self-conscious. This is supposed to make you feel sexy not awkward. If you do not like the way your butt looks try a camisole or chemise instead of a G-string and garter. If you want to have more cleavage then go for a bustier or corset. Show off your arms and thighs with a great teddy. It is all about what makes you feel and look your best.

  

Step out of your comfort zone: Determine what lingerie strikes your fancy and then turn up the sexy. Get creative and kick it up a notch. What does that mean? Get daring. Step outside of your comfort zone and see how you feel? Maybe you can try on the leopard print you have always wanted but were afraid to buy. The point is to enjoy yourself and find things you know you love and discover new thing as well. You can get that cute little bra and panty set that comes in hot pink. I love it! Sexy is an understatement with that little number. Then go for the bustier and matching thong. It is all in the name of fun and sexiness, and sister , you only live once, so get a little risque'!

Colors: Do you now what colors make you look fabulous and glamorous? You don’t want to look washed out. Blondes can pull off just about any pastel color there is. While brunettes look fabulous in those earth tones, stronger colors, and prints. Redheads look amazing in bright sassy colors as well as earth tones too. Nevertheless, go for what you like and try it on. You will be able to tell if it flatters you or it doesn’t. If it makes your eye stand out that is a huge plus.

Soft to the Skin: Feeling like silk and satin on bare skin and enjoyable for most women this is another reason why women like clothes. Lingerie good use of quality fabrics, like silk, which feels good against the skin. There are many lines of silk lingerie makes a woman feel comfortable and sexy. You should enjoy touching it as much as wearing it. Make sure it feels luxurious on your skin. If you think it might irritate you then do not get it. Silks, satins, and crushed velvets are not only sexy they are comfortable to the skin and senses as well. Stay away from too much lace or lace that covers delicate parts. This can be scratchy or irritating after a very short time. Beware of crotchless panties they are dangerous if they remain on for too long. Take my advice, DON'T wear them to work. You will regret it, and it will be a very long day. If you are going for that lace look make sure the fabric underneath is soft and gentle to your skin,..you sure don't want to develop a rash.

Get Comfy for heaven sakes! Update those intimates with some comfortable items like tank tops cutesy pajamas, and sweet little nighties. Sexy is not just skimpy it is cute and sassy and cozy. You can look good and still be casual at the same time. Look for soft fabrics like satin. On the other hand, go more traditional with cottons, jersey knits, and flannels. Yes, even these can be down right sexy and appealing if they are the right cut and look. 

Buy the right size: Find your size. We all know that saying 'less is more' but in lingerie, when it comes to sizes and getting the right fit, you want comfort and you want to feel good in whatever you put on. Don’t assume because when you were fitted for a bra 10 years ago that you'll still wear that same size. You will want to know not only what bra size you are but also whether you are a small, medium, large, or something else. Many lingerie boutiques, especially those found online come in a variety of sizes. Finding the right size is the key to your comfort and enjoyment. You want it to feel comfortable, not painful and tight. 

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Test Drive Dating...

When I lived in Grand Rapids Michigan for 24 years I watched the same news station WZZM 13, day in and day out. I watched this show hosted by Lauren Stanton called "Try It Before You Buy It!" It was a great way to sit back and wait while someone else, or a panel tested a product(s) that you were interested in before you purchased it. It was a way of assuring the customers, and the televisions viewers that they were safe buying a new product on the market. What an awesome idea! I loved that show.

Products, like relationships have their ups and downs and they don't always appear as they seem that they would. Sometimes there are hidden agendas or surprises. Often they don't hold up well at all as they said that they would and most often more so than not, you just invested your time and money into a product or person that was not indeed at all what you had anticipated they would be, nor were they at all what you had hoped for. In all, products and people are somewhat the same.

With products we can take them back to the store or ship them back up to 30 days after purchase stating that it was 'false advertisement' or that the product didn't work properly. That the product failed, or broke. In new relationships, although, nothing at all like a product, you also have the option to say 'no.' No you can't send a person back, unless of course they are a mail order bride, and then 'can you?'

Think about it...you wouldn't hesitate to take a sweater back to the GAP after you bought it because you didn't like how it looked. You wouldn't think twice to take your sunglasses back to Chanel because the case was broken, or your Michael Kors dress because the clasp was missing, nor would you think twice to return a coat with a broken zipper, you wouldn't think twice to send a meal back because your sirloin was too pink inside and it turned your stomach,... so why on earth would you allow a person to linger in your life that was a negative influence on you, that might be putting you down, that is rude, and deceiving?

Out with the old and in with the new my grandmother used to always say. She used to tell me "Michele, men are like bus stops...if you don't see one you like, get off at the next corner and you may just find him there." Relationships are not set in stone. There is a trial period. If there is no real chemistry or connection, I don't think twice to say 'thanks, but no thanks.' I do it in a very nice way and tell him the truth, and then I move forward. I don't beat around the bush like so many men that I have dated did. Why would someone do that? What is the purpose exactly?

Why is it that people are afraid to say something to you directly, and more importantly, why on earth can't they tell you to your face? Why do they find it much easier to tell you via text, voice mail or over the phone? No guts, no glory. You aren't some piece of sirloin that they can send back just like that... with no reason. You deserve a response, and a good one at best. One should have morals and integrity. A man/woman who says they are sincere and that they have integrity that waits a week to call and state that they realized there were no sparks shows me that he/she was not worth it, nor are they the kind of person that any of you would want to date...NOT because they did not want to see you again, BUT because they did not have the guts to say it to your face.

 In terms of dating...aren't you glad that you have the opportunity to try it before you buy it? Aren't you glad that you can sort of take it on a test run so to speak to determine if it is going to be right for you? Nothing is permanent these days. Men, and women like products have limits and warranties. Figure this out BEFORE you get in too deep. Why do some people wait, and wait, and wait until then it is far too late to say something to the other person and the next thing you know you are sharing the same last name? That is just crazy.

So how do you find true love, or Mr Right? While you are out searching for him, and test dating...always instill in your mind that you need to be patient. You can't expect the right guy to come appearing out of nowhere. He won't come knocking at your door the very moment you decided to come and find him. He will come in the right place and in the right time. How to meet the right guy is all about patience.

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The Key to a Great Sex Life

 As George Michael once sang..."Let's Talk About Sex"...and what a hot topic that is! Those three letters 'S-E-X' are the most erotic, intoxicating, sensual words on the planet...BUT if you don't know how to use them correctly (and I don't mean directly under the sheets) you won't have a snowballs chance in hell to land the man or woman of your dreams. If you want a great sex life, there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It's not having a super-toned body or being naturally blonde. It's not having big boobs, a hot ass, a six figure salary or owning a fancy imported car. No, the essential element is conversation. 

So you might ask, "who needs all this chit-chat when you're making love with an attractive guy or gal?" Ummm...this is essential folks, so PAY ATTENTION! Well, let me rephrase that for a minute...If you're just having a short fling, you may be able to get away with little or no conversation, that's a given, why talk, he/she means nothing to you really... But if you want to keep your love life passionate and exciting making it long term, you're going to have to start talking more and getting to the core of what each of you truly wants. I wrote about this topic before, but some of you must have fallen off the turnip truck and hit your nugget too hard on the pavement because you're still not getting it? Not to worry my friends...you'll be fine.

Here are three ways to use conversation to improve and sustain your sex life as well as your love life;

Communicate about what you want from your partner...In better terms; "Speak Up and Spit It Out!"

Hey listen, don't be shy...now's not the time. He has seen you from head to toe and everywhere in between, so please, spare me the 'I"m old fashion' story. You can talk, talk talk, but that doesn't always necessarily mean that you are communicating. You can talk until you are blue in the face...Now, body language on the other hand is fair play and it gets the point across much faster. Your lover can't read your mind any more than you can read hers (or his). Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, eye catching and alluring. If that still isn't getting you what you want, it's time to try putting your desires into words and as Madonna sang "Express Yourself!" 

This is where you put phase 2 into action. Always bring along a can of Reddi Whip. Turn a nervous night into a positive spin...who doesn't like a 'body sundae?' No need to talk, just use your lips and tongue. Now they know what you want, but finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you're a guy who's a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. Crazy huh? It works really it does. Many women (and quite a few men) are just dying to talk about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that. If you are still having a difficult time, and the words just don't seem to be flowing, use what God gave you, your natural instincts and talk with your body.

Spice up lovemaking with some hot topic conversation

No, this isn't a suggestion to discuss the latest stock drops on Wall Street, ESPN News, or which famous celebrity was spotted on the strip. However, a little naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how gorgeous your partner's body is and how aroused you are getting. Talk about what you're doing, what you're about to do, and how it's going to make your partner feel. Even if you don't normally use explicit language, this may be the time to get a bit naughty. Relax and shed those inhibitions.It would certainly help if you were wearing our lingerie from Simply Delicious Lingerie, or Simply Luscious Lingerie, all affordable, sexy lingerie, bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, sexy matching sets, bra & thong sets, babydolls, teddies, chemises, stockings and garters...we sell it all from $9.99 - $29.99, check out our online boutiques.

Give your partner some positive feedback

If there's one thing we all love, it's a sincere compliment. It attributes to our attitude and our self-esteem. No one, and I mean no one wants to hear what they did wrong in bed, or how disappointing they were...so have a heart and be nice. Remember, if it was disappointing...that means that it wasn't just one of you, it was both of you that made it as such. Communication is key and without how will you know what the other wants in bed? Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed? Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. Telling them that they were a 'hot piece of ass' is not romantic and intriguing to a woman, so lose that and try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel. Remember, you need not make a big deal about it. Even a few whispered words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure all day long. 

If you're already doing some of these things, great! But if it's never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. When you communicate about what you want, talk naughty at appropriate moments, and praise your partner's skill and desirability, you'll find that the payoff is much more than you could have imagined. If you really want to turn up the heat, check out our Delicious Deals where we sell a variety of adult sex swings that will give you and your partner hours of pleasure. http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing 

Isn't it time that you took your love life as well as your sex life to the next level? Always remember that “We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” Communication...it is the key to a great sex life!

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The Ice Breakers Men Use on Women...Do They Work?

It’s never a really good idea to walk up to a woman and say, “Do you believe in love at first sight or should I want by you again?"...or,...."Are you tired...because you’ve been running through my mind all day".......or how about this cheesy one liner...."Are you a parking ticket because you have FINE written all over you!" OK fellas, STOP...openers like that are sure to make your intended target run real fast in the opposite direction, not to mention they'll think that you are a loser at best, so for goodness sakes, THINK before you open the yap!

If these cheesy lines do not work, which I can tell you right now, 98% of the time, THEY WON'T...what does work? What do you say as your opening line, and how can you say it so that you don’t come off as a total idiot? First, don’t pre-plan your icebreakers...if you do, you're bound to screw up totally! They’ll sound forced and your potential date will not be impressed whatsoever. Do stay away from anything cheesy and even the over-used, “Don’t I know you from somewhere?” There are better ways to break the ice and get a conversation started. Think about what you are going to say, and make it good,...for you know that famous saying..."Sometimes you only get ONE CHANCE!" 

Give a sincere compliment

It's no secret that women enjoy compliments. However, they can always detect when the compliment is an insincere one. No matter the situation, you should always be able to find something unique and legitimate to flatter your target with. It may be risque or a more tame form of praise, depending on her body language toward you. This is KEY, so pay attention! Be sure to follow through with a negative hit, so that she doesn't believe you're in awe over her.

Introduce yourself

This almost goes without saying: If there's been no previous flirting, she's not going to know you exist until you make her aware you're there, so step it up a notch and make it happen fellas! To use a golf analogy: It's always the approach shot that sets up the hole, and it's no different with the ladies. Stride up to her casually and introduce yourself.

What to say:
"I'm Joe, happy to meet you." ...(or)....
"Hi there, I'm Joe. I don't believe we've been introduced."

Buy her a drink

Whether you're at a bar, restaurant or coffee shop, a great icebreaker involves the classic buying of the drink. Have the waiter send her another round of what she's already having (if you want to be more aggressive, you could send her your favorite drink) accompanied by a playful note, with your phone number included. Be sure to have the waiter let her know the source of the drink. On your way out, stop by her table and introduce yourself. It's a bold approach without being invasive. 


 Be blunt!

Here's an icebreaker for those willing to be even more direct. In many cases, walking up to a woman and letting her know you're a take-charge kind of guy can be really appealing, and even a turn-on. She'll likely take your confidence as an indication that you're someone worth talking to. You know....it all starts with small talk.

Make her smile

That's right, women LOVE their egos stroked just like guys though, although, we tend to show it a bit differently. Getting her to smile works magic for breaking the ice; women love a man who can make them laugh. Cracking a joke could prove the difference between picking up and striking out. Humor sets up a pleasant context and hints that you're a fun guy.

You’ll get far more points for noticing that she has a nice smile than if you try to come off as some sort of misguided Don Juan sort of mush/slang that will make her want to puke. Pick up lines and cheesy icebreakers seldom work. If you need to practice and think of possible lines in order to be prepared for any chance that might present itself, that’s fine, but you have to remain flexible and relaxed so that you don’t sound like you were just waiting to use that line on the first girl that happened to come along. Try this....just be yourself. Don't act all nutty, be you. That's what will really catch her eye. Make good conversation with her and leave her with a gesture that is sure to make her think about you long after you say good-night!

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Crash Diets...Do They Work?

What I am about to tell you, ya may not want to hear, but it is my duty to share with you the known facts of dieting. This article addresses a simple, unavoidable, and in cases of extreme resistance painful fact, that being: why crash diets don’t work. Oh we try and we try...and there are so, so many diets that suck us all in. For me it was the grapefruit diet, which btw, now the smell of this fruit makes me want to hurl. then there was the cabbage soup diet...now this one didn't change my thoughts about cabbage,...I still LOVE cabbage, BUT it isn't something that you want to eat a lot of and then go out in public. Do they work...these crash diets? For a short time yes, sure they do, but in a few months, you'll see the weight creeping back up on you again. There are a ton of fad diets and crazy crash diets that I see every day in tabloid magazines with celebrities (of course) whom, hey for them it might certainly work because they have thousands of dollars for a personal trainer...I don't. Despite what bright, loud, attention-grabbing ads from the TV to the magazine racks tout about so many pounds lost in so many days, the weight lost usually comes back in no time at all.

Weight lost quickly is most often water and carbohydrate (glycogen) loss, not fat. The body’s interpretation of this water and carbohydrate loss is that you are starving, and therefore it slows down its metabolic rate, in effect to help you live longer on less energy. You have to drink WATER! Keep stocked up on the h20. When you do ultimately start eating again (as, by definition, all crash diets end) the body believes the food emergency is over and determines its next best way to serve your longevity is to store this food you’re putting into it in case such a food emergency should arise again. 

To put it another way, the effect of a crash diet is to keep the body always in a crisis management mode, rather than help sustain a healthy body weight. This in itself is bad enough, but it gets worse. Glycogen loss is muscle loss, and since muscles are a critical part of maintaining an active metabolism, with less muscle, our bodies burn less calories. And when we burn less calories, we gain more weight. To lose weight for good, lose weight slowly. Try to keep it down to only a pound or two each week. It may not feed your need for immediate gratification, but you can keep yourself excited and committed to the process by knowing that the results you achieve will be lasting and you'll keep the pounds off for good!

 Did you know that in order to lose 1 pound of weight..., you have to cut out 3,500 calories!It amazes me how so many people don't know that. My advice, (unprofessionally that is)...Take it slow, weigh your food and count your calories! If you do this, you’ll notice the program you set for yourself is actually quite reasonable and easy to stick to. Discipline isn’t hard when the steps you’re disciplining yourself to take are practical and realistic. Take the concept of the crash diet out of your vocabulary and replace it with a far easier, more enjoyable, and more enduringly effective form of weight loss: behavior modification. Simple shifts in one or two behaviors can have dramatic and lasting effects on your weight. Drop the pounds and feel sexy, especially if you are buying sexy matching sets and affordable lingerie at Simply Delicious Lingerie!

Yes...crash diets achieve false and fleeting results. They lead to frustration, disappointment, despair and more weight gain for many people. Stay away from them, for your own good, and the good of your body! Do what's right...take it slow, eat the right foods, drink plenty of water and exercise.

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Women, Stress and Anxiety....

I am the kind of person who can't sit still. Even if I try to, somehow I always find something to do to keep moving. Often I think that by doing these things I am avoiding the inevitable, STRESS. Stress leads to anxiety. It can build up and if you aren't careful, it can do great damage. Over the years, and in my own personal life I have learned that you can't hold it all inside and take on the world yourself. Believe me, I have tried. At one point I might have commented "Says who?" Now I know better. I've learned that great friends and family that love and support you can make all the difference, you just have to let them in! 

Taking steps for reducing stress and anxiety in your life will not only give you serenity but can add years to your life, too. Stress puts both your body and your mind under strain. Short-term stress can’t be helped and we all have to make it through stressful situations. 

 You know how it is: You’re cruising along, feeling that all is well, when wham! — everything seems to fall apart at once. Your dishwasher breaks, the ice maker stops working and the cubes don't come out crushed, the lawn becomes infested by grubs, laundry piles up, work stress gets worse, oh... and your kid needs 40 cupcakes — by tomorrow morning! It’s all too much and now you feel like you’ve lost control of your life. Surprisingly, while we expect to be thrown off balance by the big crises in life (an illness, the loss of a job, the end of a relationship), experts believe it’s more often the steady pileup of smaller annoyances that makes us feel really powerless. So what do you do? Take control sister! Slow down, and take a deep breath. Did you know that long, slow breaths send oxygen throughout your body, which relaxes you and, in turn, helps clear your head. Try one- or two-minute deep-breathing sessions each morning and evening. Chores and responsibilities will build up if you allow them to, but who cares? They'll get done eventually. Don't try to be superwoman. Make a list of what needs to be done and prioritize it. Trust me, you are not the 'Drama Mama" you are just a woman trying to take on the world and even you could use a little back-up!

There are so many things that cause us stress, which leads to anxiety. The worst thing that anyone can do is to ignore stress.  No matter how long you don’t deal with it or how often you push it aside, it will always bounce back into your life unless you root it out. Did you know that by reducing stress and anxiety it enables you to move beyond the emotions and the struggle that keep you standing in the vast ocean trying to keep that ball away? Yes it does. The first step you should do is to limit the amount of external things that bring on more stress or aggravate the stress you already have. For example, if hearing sad stories on the radio upset you, turn the radio off. Don’t fill your mind with negative stories in any type of media. In case you haven’t noticed, the uplifting, positive articles rarely make the news. I almost hate watching the news because it is always so sad and depressing...at least 8 times out of 10 it is. Bad news can fill a person with anxiety. This too can be quite harmful.

Get rid of the negative from your life. If you have a friend who’s always pulling you down emotionally or tearing down your self-esteem, this is not a healthy relationship and it’s time to move on and do it quickly! Get rid of the negative people in your life that just keep adding to it. In the long run, it's not going to do you any good whatsoever! Look for events and people that introduce more laughter and joy into your life. Shut off the television and get on your feet. It’s a proven fact that exercise is a great way to get rid of anxiety along with stress. If a negative thought pops into your mind, refuse to dwell on it.Don't let the negativity win and control your happiness. I am a good example of this next one....Don’t bottle up your emotions and assume no one wants to listen to what’s going on in your life. Make time with a good friend to sit and talk about how you’re feeling. 

 By reducing stress and anxiety in your life, you’ll start to feel more relaxed and happier and in the end you'll be a much better you! Don't try to do it all by yourself. ASK FOR HELP! Don't try to take on the world alone. Make that list and check and don't get upset if it doesn't all get done today. I'm the queen of sticky notes and at times I get overwhelmed and feel like I am never going to get everything finished...fear not. You will. Tomorrow is another day...

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How Important is Sexy Lingerie?

Good lingerie turns up the heat and makes your partner take notice!

Over the years I've known several women in a committed relationship complaining about lack of passion in the relationship. So many couples fall into that rut where it's all the same, and nothing is ever different or changes...ahhh but it should. Do you wear ‘comfort-underwear’? You know what I'm talking about...the panties that feel great but don't look so hot and spicy? We all have a pair or two but that doesn't mean that you should wear them every day. Ask yourself? "Have I been wearing panties that are old and boring just because they feel good on me and against my skin?" That's all well and good, really it is....but it's time to stop being complacent and try to put on something sexy every now and then to keep that fire buring! Will he remember it? You bet he will.

Put some effort into bringing the sexiness back out in you, and the relationship.
Think about it, shouldn't your relationship should be so hot and spicy that it makes others wonder what the heck you are doing to keep your partner/lover so aroused all the time? Good lingerie will change all of that. It is a breath of fresh air, set to send the temperatures soaring. Wouldn’t you love to see a naughty look in your partner’s eyes the minute he sees you in that sexy laced black lingerie after work? There's no time like the present to make a small change and drive him wild! What goes on behind your closed door will have everyone talking!

You spend nearly 1/3rd of your life in the bedroom, so pull out the pretty lingerie!

Yes ladies that’s right. We spend nearly one-third of our lives in the bedroom. So why not look good while we’re in there? Let's face it, sexy is being confident. If you are confident in what you are wearing, and it makes you look and feel pretty....that my friend is what really matters most. It is all about YOU! Surely you don’t want your partner to have a dull image of you lying on the bed in that loose, sloppy and bland white underpants, do you? So make the stay in the bedroom worthwhile with some exciting lingerie to spice it up and turn up the heat! Make memories that he won't forget for a long time, and leave the image of how sexy you looked in his mind for hours afterward.

Trust Me...Good lingerie will please all fantasies!

We all have fantasies, oh yes we do both inside or outside the bedroom, don’t we? The problem is, most of us are too shy to rally express what those fantasies are. My guess is that your partner has them too! Even he will fantasize you opening the bedroom door, standing with a whip in your hot-red underwear, ready to tease and please you. You get the point, don’t you? Fulfill his fantasies and make him fulfill yours too. We have a beautiful Fantasy Costume section in our websites both at Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie. $9.99-$29.99 Check them out and turn up the heat tonight!

What you wear underneath can literally make or break the dress!

If your dress is sexy as hell and you feel like a million bucks, you best have on sexy lingerie under that dress to set the tone and give the self-esteem a rush of YES! Stop wearing the same black bra when you’re wearing your sexy dress. Did you know how many women swear by pairing the right dress with the right lingerie? It could be your sleek black panty hose that you want to show off in a black skirt with a slit on the side. Or it could be hints of that silky purple bra when you’re wearing your favorite off shoulder dress. Good lingerie will make or break your dress. Don't blend in, wear something that give hint that you have something 'oh so sexy' on underneath. It is small things like these which will give your partner the confidence to hold you in his arms wherever you are. Buy some sexy pieces at our store at affordable prices, ignite the fire in your relationship, and bring back the good times with our beautiful lingerie.

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Men...What They Really Want in Relationships?

Just when you think that you've heard EVERY lame excuse that a man could us to try get to know you better,...they open their mouth and out pops a bunch of crap that you weren't expecting at all. Remember, I've heard it all and nothing generally surprises me, HOWEVER...what if a man told you that he wanted to get to know you, wanted to take you out to play 18 holes to see if you 'clicked' but told you that you had to dress ultra sexy? What if we women have to dress up for work or business day in and day out and prefer dressing down or just being themselves sometimes? Then what? God forbid we don't have all of our makeup on and we don't look like the goddess on his arm at the country club or where ever?!!?? Are they serious or are they just simply testing us to see if we would go the extra distance to look sexy 'just for them?'

I decided to dig more on topics related to men, and what it is that makes them tick. What do they really want from us? First at hand what that I wondered...and most women do; What motivates men?  What is it that men want?  In particular, what is it they want from women?  Did you know that Sigmund Freud tried to sort out men's desires by pointing to three divisions within the mind, the id, the ego, and the superego, all of which may want different things?  yes, but Freud seemed to believe that what really motivated men was the libido-- essentially, sexual desire. 

What I have learned over the years and after a lot of research is that this is a great mistake.  What men want, deep down, is not unlimited promiscuous sex but something rather different.  What men really want is to win the love of a princess (or of a girl who deserves to be a princess), to fight against great obstacles, to deliver her from dragons or a wicked witch of a stepmother or some other great danger, to marry her, and to live happily ever after. This is the universal fairy tale...oh but most often they don't want us to know that they feel this way....and here women thought that only we wanted the fairy tale? 

 Maybe he’s cocky, but he’s still insecure. Guys need to know that they’re respected and appreciated just like we do. When being around you increases a guy’s esteem, both internally and in the eyes of others, he’ll naturally want to be attached to you. What about Love? How do men feel about love and relationships?

What men want in relationships

Men crave unconditional love

When they screw up, boy do they know they screwed up. Sometimes it is hard for guys to admit that they’re wrong, but they are harder on themselves than anyone else would ever be. Unconditional love means that they have someone who will love them and be there for them in the best and the worst of times. When you have someone that loves you unconditionally, it is the greatest feeling in the world.

What men want in relationships

 Complete trust

Men want a woman they can trust no matter what, and they just want to be trusted in return. Nothing is more of a turn off than being accused of cheating or being questioned unreasonably about what took so long to get home. On the other hand, if a guy is unable to trust his girlfriend, he will quickly be looking to move on; worrying about whether their girlfriend can be trusted or not is time-consuming and stressful.

 men want 'man time' in relationships

 Adequate time & space to do what they want to do.

Guys need some time to be alone, as well as time to spend with his friends or hobbies. Keeping a man from doing the things that he loves is the best way to push him away. Of course, there needs to be some balance between the girlfriend and other friends; too much of anything is never a good thing. Simply put, men want to be able to have time with you and still be able to see their friends without feeling bad about it.

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A Must Read Book..."This Generation, No Imagination"

We often wonder  day in and day out...what is going on with this generation? Nothing is the way that it used to be. When we were kids there were so many things to do and we never got into any big trouble, and if we did, it was nothing like what goes on in society today with kids. We had chores to do, and we listened to our elders. This meant listening to our parents, and our grandparents and we did what they said. We didn't talk back, and if we happened, it only occurred once. We respected others. Today, there is more violence, and bullying is on the rise not just amongst children and teens, but now even so with more and adults. Things are no longer the same, and boy have times changed!

A good friend of mine has recently written a book about his life and his past. I highly recommend that you pick a copy up today! My name is Michele Savin and I am the owner of Simply Delicious Lingerie, and it's sister company; Simply Luscious Lingerie. I have been friends with Ed Dwyer for years. He always supported me whether it be in my personal life or in my business ventures. Please help me as I gather support now Ed now. He is a really great guy that writes from his heart. He tells stories of his childhood past like that of no other. His book is selling currently at Amazon.com. This is the first of hopefully many books. Best wishes to you Ed! Everyone...Pick this book up today!

Here's a little sneak peek about the book;

THIS GENERATION, NO IMAGINATION

Ever wonder what makes a person want to write a book? Well, now I have the answer! For me, it was a matter of simply reliving my childhood, a little reminiscing about the good ol’, care free, never-knew-we-had-it-so-good days of just being a kid.

Actually, to be honest with you, it came to me only after trying to help two women raise their kids at two different times in my life. I quickly discovered that the kids could not entertain themselves; they were totally lost without some outside medium to focus their attention on – clueless as to what the good Lord gave them brains for. Never once did they attempt to use their imagination.

For us, it was a different story. Our parents kicked us out of the house, per se, and we dare not return until later in the day. We had no video games, no twenty-four-hour cartoon network, no computers or Internet, and no iPods. There were a large number of kids and small houses, and we had to come up with things to do. So, the following stories were born. We were jackasses long before them; of course, that was just a symptom of passionate imaginations. Years had to pass – at least until the Statute of limitations was up. Mother and Father, forgive us, for we definitely did not know what we were doing.  

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Ladies...Make Your Dating Check List!

Should women have a 'check list' of what they want in a man? Should we be picky? Should we settle? If you think that you should just settle for a man because that's the best you can do...then girlfriend, you have the wrong attitude, and you are using the wrong approach in finding a great guy. Reality has a way of sneaking up on us and really giving us a dose of  what we need. I truly do believe that timing is everything and I have always believed in paths crossing for a reason. Whether they be positive, or negative, there was/is a lesson to be learned from it. What I realized just recently was that most people are not who they proclaim to be and even the ones that you thought my have been something special at one time turn out to prove every gut feeling that you ever had about them to be right.

My grandmother used to always say follow your heart, but listen to your gut. Sometimes men of our past that we thought might be the 'potential' guy turn out to be a really misconceived mess. I believe that reality gives us a happy dose of 'good medicine' and points us in the right direction. Things happen for a reason and after last night, my past and my thoughts about men came back around full circle making me wonder 'why do guys act like dicks, and why can't they just be honest and upfront?' I find that most men that we meet aren't really real men. What does that mean? It means that when push comes to shove and it comes right down to it that a lot of men don't have the balls to lay their cards on the table and just say what it is that they feel or what they want. They build up this facade of what they think a woman wants in a man, but they aren't really 'that man.' After being out with the girls, I realized that some people that we held high regard to, and that we respected at one point turn out to be nothing more than a real piece of work, or a 'real hot mess' ...if you will.

Most women that I know will put their thoughts right out there. So why is it then that men beat around the bush and have no idea how to express themselves in person? (not all men, just some) They hide behind an email, a phone call or a text message. In the past few months I have gone out with some real doozies for sure. For example; Why do guys lie? Why say you've been married twice when you've been married oh I don't know say maybe 4 times? BIG DIFFERENCE...2 and 4. RED FLAG? You bet it is! What does this tell me? They are doing something terribly wrong and I'm not about to fall into victim #5! Why do men say "let's do this again" when they have NO intentions on wanting to see you again whether it was chemistry, or just an uneasy feeling? Why not just spit it out and say "Hey, it was nice, but this is the end of the road here?" Why not face to face, why hide? Why do men say that they'll call, and then they don't? Why all the excuses? It's like the Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson movie, "He's just Not That Into You!"

 Why do men say that they would do anything for a woman when that isn't really necessarily true? It could be something as little as saying that they'll travel with her only to find out later that they've never stepped foot on a plane nor will they ever. Are women disappointed by men that act like this? You bet we are! So what is it? Are they cowards that can't really say how they feel? Are they hoping that if they tell you what you want to hear it will prolong the inevitable? Or do they just want to get into your britches and say what they 'think' you want to hear?

Last night I was out to dinner with the girls and we talked about 'a list' of qualities; wants/needs that some women have. They use this list when they begin to date a man. We all agreed that this particular list that my friend shared was over the top and pretty intense, nevertheless, every woman should have a list of her own with her own realities of what she would personally like/want/need in a relationship. We left dinner and went to a bar where the crowd was different, but the atmosphere was fun. After being there a few hours I spotted across the room an old friend that meant something to me at one time of my life. He was another one that couldn't just be honest or honest without some liquor in him to spit out what he really wanted to say, and even then he did a half ass job at doing it.

 For months I thought maybe I was too harsh, or maybe I just expected too much. Maybe I needed to come down off my high horse list of my own dating rules...and then I realized NO! I was not going to cave and just settle for any man when I could have THE MAN. You see ladies, things DO happen for a reason, and last night when I saw this man who would NEVER have stopped to say hello to me had I not put myself in front of him to see if he really had the guts to stop... and although he did, but only because he had to pass me to get to the men's room, it was just what I had expected it would be....short meaningless words, a few smiles and a 'hey it was nice seeing you again.' 1) after months of beating myself up, I realized that we were two completely different people indeed, 2) He wasn't really anything special, and 3) He was meeting a woman for a first date in this particular bar of all places. That was when I realized that maybe my standards are high, BUT high they will stay. This is when I realized that we were two completely different people and I wanted so much more than he ever will. This is when I thanked my gut as I starred across the room thinking to myself...'I deserve better.' This is when I realized that with or without a man in my life, I am just happy being me. This is when I realized that I was glad that I was not that woman who would just settle.

The bottom line here again is honesty,integrity and trust. Wake up boys...no woman wants a user or a loser. Perhaps we all need to rethink our 'list' of what we want in a relationship? Is a list too critical? Sure it is, (and if it isn't, it should be!) This is your future we're talking about here. My time is quit valuable and so should your time be. Never invest all of your time with someone making them a high priority when they only see you as an option. Never settle for 'just OK.' The moral of the story here is listen to your gut...it knows what it best for you.Trust is the most important building block of a successful relationship. If you can't trust a man, it makes no difference how great he is in bed, what kind of money he makes or how great the chemistry is between you. If you find yourself with a guy who doesn't honor his word and agreements with you there is only one thing you must do.... Run! Isn't love supposed to make you feel good? Isn't a man supposed to enhance your life and make it better? Ladies, don't settle for Mr Wrong.

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Arriving Soon....Sexy New Lingerie!

Welcome to Simply Delicious Lingerie! Visit our Bachelorette Boudoir! Stay tuned for a few sexy new pieces coming to our store soon! This private line of Carrie Amber Intimates represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. We are an online boutique for USA orders. We are passionate about our luxurious intimate apparel. At Simply Delicious Lingerie, our character is defined as Classy. We are discrete and we always respect your privacy. Your confidentiality is of the most importance to us. Our extravagant selection is alluring, appealing and has a certain magnetism about it. We've hand selected a variety of undergarments just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. Our belief is that the quality of our lingerie is charismatic and boosts confidence within every woman. Our mission is to take your flirtatious lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. Let us seduce your mind, tantalize your imagination and pursue the fantasy!
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Say YES to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® (your everyday sexy)

5 Easy Steps to "Host a Bachelorette Lingerie Party!"

1) Pick a date to host the party then start planning it! It can be online, or you can all Skype and have girls night in the privacy of your own homes!

2) Invite all of your friends, family, coworkers to join in the FUN!

3) Prior to the party, share with them the store website so that they can take a peek! You'll also have access to the "Bachelorette Boudoir" where there is a variety of bachelorette books, games, gags, and gifts!

4) Send us a list of everyone that you invited so that our office can start a file for you.
You will get a code to enter in the coupon section to share with your party members! Everyone needs to enter this code for you to get the referral credit for sale!

5) Close the party date no later than one week later, and wait for your guests lingerie and purchases to arrive shortly afterwards!

You get paid after the orders have all been placed to the warehouse! Pay outs are on the 15th and the 30th of each month via through your PayPal account. If you do not have a PayPal account you will want to open one so that your cash commission can be wired directly to your bank.

It's so easy! Sign up NOW! Contact Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com or go to the "Contact Us" section on our homepage.

We have two websites to host parties at;
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www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com (our plus size sister store)

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Mr Right...Is He a Rare Commodity?

Sure everyone wants to meet Mr Right, BUT that won't happen until you follow a few steps, and take a good look at the big picture. Life and dating in general is not at all easy, not like it was 30 years ago. Things change, people change, and attitudes have become far worse. Men have super big egos, and they  think that they are a rare commodity, but they aren't. He’s skeptical about marriage and wants to prolong settling down-of course he does. What do I think? He's afraid of commitment. I think men are less likely to be patient and persistent with a woman and more likely to find a deal breaker early and quickly move on to the next.Today, men think that traditional dating and courting is a waste of time.  Much like in the real world, relationships take time and can be undone in a few wrongly calculated moves.

 So you want to find someone that will give you that special feeling? With that being said ladies, here is how to get on the right track to find your Mr Right; It all starts with YOU!

  1. Get a life. That's right, you heard me....GET A LIFE! The most important thing is to be Ms. Right yourself. Finding the right man is not going to change you into a better person than you already are. If you are lazy and self-centered, finding a generous hard working fellow is not going to transform you. If you are boring and a one-dimensional person, finding an intellectually challenging man is not going to change who you are. Learn how to be interesting, kind, caring, and unselfish. Model yourself after women you admire. Work hard at changing your character defects. Become more well rounded. Complete your education. Get yourself a hobby. Volunteer and expose yourself to people who are less-fortunate than you are. Learn some humility by volunteering to serve others. So many people need our help! Find a charity or organization and lend a hand. My personal favorite; find a women's shelter in your area and call them and ask if you can donate women's business attire from your closet that you no longer wear. They need your help! A lot of us should do this next one; Take a listening class. We talk, talk talk, but do we really listen? That is imperative in a relationship as is communicating in general. Get some counseling if you need to learn to be assertive or how to share your feelings. If you have some childhood traumas deal with them now, with someone who can give you professional help. Learn to be happy with yourself, first. No man, no matter how right is going to make you happy. You will only be happy in your new relationship if you are happy inside first.

 2. Evaluate your physical attractiveness. Not everyone is Ms. America. Nobody looks like the models in magazines. We aren't airbrushed to perfection. But we each do have something going for us though. Find out what your best feature is and accentuate it. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Do not try to be a size 6 if you are really a size 12. Accept yourself for who you are, but don’t use that as an excuse to let yourself go either. Some men like a woman with a little meat on her bones, but no one wants a slob. Big can be beautiful if you manage things correctly. If you are overweight, consult your doctor and find out what is healthy for a woman your size. Rather than living up to some super-model or stereotype of femininity you should aim to be all you can.

3 . Look in places where you would expect to find someone with the qualities you value. Is he someone that you would consider bringing home to meet the family? If not, you may want to re-think your moves and choices. If you want someone who cares, look at the local soup kitchen and see who is volunteering on Saturday afternoons. If you want someone who is good with kids, look for a coach or a teacher or a mentor. If you want a generous guy, ask yourself: Who in your crowd has a generous spirit? Who shares his Pepsi with you without your asking? Who gives you the seat on the bus? Who goes out of his way for his grandmother or aunt? Who sacrifices his day off to work for Habitat for Humanity? Who works Sundays at the homeless shelter? Who volunteers at the Children’s Hospital as a clown? Who shares freely about himself and his needs, ideas, hopes and dreams? Who doesn’t care if his generosity is noticed or even appreciated? This is the type of man to look for.

  4. Please do remember that we are all human beings, so don't go looking for someone perfect. You'll be looking for a very long time! What do I mean by this? Don't set the bar so high...No one is going to be everything you have ever dreamed of. Give the guy a break. You already know that you are not Ms. Perfect, and honey, if you think you are...we have even bigger problems here. Listen, he will make mistakes just as you do, so go with the flow. Relax a little and don’t be too picky. Allow for human frailty. Look beyond physical attractiveness. You don’t want a slob any more than he does, but he doesn’t have to be Mr. Hunk either.

5. Be patient silly girl! Rome was not built in a day. It may take some time to discover what appeals to you and why. You may make a few friends, and even break a heart or two. You may get hurt. Keep at it. There are good men out there. You simply need to know where to look!

 Many men want the grand prize, the bulls-eye, but guess what...there is no such thing. Sometimes what you see is not what you get! There is a man out there for you. Give it time, and don't push it. Sit back and wait....it will happen when it is supposed to!

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Life is ALL About Friendship...

When people ask me..."Michele, why are you always happy?" I generally respond with the same answer..."Life is good, family is wonderful and my friends are at what keep me going!" What makes a a good friendship? I have been asked this many times and after much contemplation my answer is 'loyalty and integrity.' I have decided to write an article around the words that I feel are essential to any friendship and of course the words integrity, and loyalty rank high amongst them. Friends are the fundamental element on which our life and the journey of relationships are based. It is all about meeting people who can really become true best friends. A person need not just have one best friend. I have several generous friends that have always stood by me. Can you honestly, tell the difference between an ordinary and a loyal friend? My friends are extraordinary!

There are a lot of things that a true friend is, and for those that I have, I say thank you for always having my back, for not judging me, for supporting me when things went good as well as when things went not so good...but most of all I say thank you for never letting me down, for never giving up on me, and for never throwing in the towel when so many others would have. Whether I see you all every day or once a year, or not for 5 years, I have much respect for all of my friends and appreciate their support and wisdom. We live in a world where selfishness seems to be the rule of the day, and personal gain the objective of most relationships and endeavors. One of the most honorable character traits a person can develop is the ability to be loyal.

There is a difference between an ordinary and a loyal friend. It is the support and care they provide. True and loyal friends will always stand by your side and they will ultimately provide you what you need in any of the circumstances. You would be able to take out a lot from his or her company and knowledge. They won’t ask for a payback even if they do a lot. You should consider the difference between an ordinary and a loyal friend so you can have a group of people that are worthwhile and essential. A friend's loyalty is a wonderful virtue. When loyalty is missing other values will certainly suffer in any friendship. This is a quality that you should look for in a friend, as friendships can be very complicated at times, but loyalty between friends will hold the friendship together.

Do you completely understand what being loyal means? You must be willing to allow your own interests to take second place to be truly loyal to another person or cause. Loyalty is simply the act of putting someone or something else ahead of ones self.

Look for reward and appreciation in your efforts to be loyal. Being loyal to an unappreciative person or group is not very rewarding, and although this implies a selfish motivation for your loyalty, it is a practical thing to expect the person or group to which you give your loyalty to be loyal to you in return. My friends all knew how difficult and how extremely challenging the business world would be for me, especially since I declined so many offers of investors. The problem.issues that were attached with taking on an investor or more was that my hard work was about to get put on the back burner and I would pretty much be working in a sense for them. I was not at all willing to give up share of my hard work for someone else that dangled cash in front of me. I'm sorry, but no job, nor my integrity, blood sweat and tears was worth that to me. These were my dreams and my visions that I have had and shared with my friends for as long as I can remember, and making these dreams my reality didn't come easy. I work endless hours, I have taken classes and more classes. I push myself and keep on pushing because one day, my dreams are for my business names to be known and when they are..., it will all of been worth this tough road that I have traveled for the past few years.

My grandmother used to always say that if you were going to dream, to dream BIG! That's how I was raised and that is how I raised both of my children. If you don't fail, you've never tried. If you give up, you'll never know, and if you quit, someone else will jump on the chance to steal your thunder. I am blessed with the friends and family in my life, for if it not have been for so many of you, I would not be the person that I am today...a woman with high hopes that wants to make life better, reality more than just a dream, and a work environment a much better place.

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Is it LOVE? How Will I know...

If you're wondering if he really loves you, your next question should be: Why are you asking? Is there a nagging feeling inside that makes you doubt his true feelings? Don't be too quick to want love...let it flow natural and come to you. Sometimes we women are in too big of a hurry to hear those magical words "I Love You"...but why? The answer is important because no matter how many times a man says those words, you have to take the time to reflect on whether you're feeling the emotion behind them. Listen, I know men and saying that they love someone doesn't come easy...so when they do say it to you ladies, don't be a schmuck and ruin the moment!

Lets face the facts, men and women are programmed a little different. This means that you should look at your relationship at a different angle. Men and women have a different language.
Men will show affection by doing things for you. Women are more of the verbal creatures. When there is not enough conversation going on in a relationship, it often makes the woman feel like she is not loved.Women are always wondering if their man really loves them. Women strive to find out by asking friends and making constant judgments about how their man feels.

Then the question of the day as Whitney Houston not so long ago sang is "How Will I know If He Really Loves Me?" Quite honestly, much energy and time is spent wondering that many of these women have trouble enjoying their relationship. I have come up with some tips on how you can identify the signs that a man really loves you. He has eyes only for you. You can tell if your man really loves you when many beautiful and sexy women surround you but he doesn't take a second to even stare at any of them. He gives you his full attention by showing eye contact and facing his body towards you. He calls you frequently. Hello? What else do you need? Ok, you want more...here you go...

 He wants to go places and do things. The relationship is not all about sex. He wants to explore the world with you and do fun activities. He spends money on you. He invests not only emotionally but also financially. You are a special and serious person in his life. Money means no object when it comes to you. His mission is not only for a role in the hay but to make you feel happy.He shows good manners. He wants to impress you and win your heart just as you have won his heart.He wants to date only you. Now, that may not mean that he is totally head over heels for you...BUT it says that he cares enough to get to know you much more and doesn't want to see other women!(take this as a sign ladies.) Do you still need more? 

Here are 3 ways to help you know if he truly does love you:

1. He makes you feel special. This is one of the most important ingredients in any love relationship. There are hundreds of things that the man you're with can do to show you you're the special woman in his life. It may be how he pays attention to your feelings and shows concern for your well being; or his willingness to go out of his way to do something that will make you happy. It's a sense that he has chosen you to be the most important person in his life. Feeling special to a man is just that, a feeling. You either feel it with him or you don't.
2. He doesn't try to change you. This is KEY! So pay attention closely...no man should ever try to change a woman, and vica versa. This doesn't always show up in the early honeymoon phase of a relationship. A man, when he's unsure about his feelings for you, will begin to find things he wants to change about you. But love and judgment can't occupy the same space. Trying to get someone to behave the way you want them to leaves little room for love. If you're not "living up" to his expectations of you then you're not the person he's looking for. He can't change you into the woman he wants and you don't need to be fixed. If a man appreciates the totality of who you are and enjoys finding out more and more about you as time goes by, that's really honest to good true love!
3. He trusts you with his feelings. Without intimacy there is no love. Intimacy is the ability to let someone see that part of you that you don't share with the world. It's one of the primary needs that a strong love relationship fulfills. We all crave having a special someone with whom we can safely share some of our most secret thoughts and feelings. Women are more practiced at this then men and it comes easier to us. But men need a woman they can open up to -- and not be judged as weak or wrong. A man needs to open up to you and share that part of himself that no one else sees, that gives love depth and meaning.

Happy couples are not at all hard to spot...why? Just look at them, it shows in the smiles, their touche, their embrace, and they're body language!

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