Did you know that statistics state that women’s waist sizes have grown by six inches over the past 60 years? Do you wonder why? They say that it is
because they don’t do as much housework as their forebears. They also don’t have the benefit of modern household appliances, 1950s
housewives used to burn up to 1,000 calories a day simply by doing the
chores. However, today’s women have much more sedentary lifestyles, as many
work full-time and spend most of the day sitting behind a desk.The extra elbow grease needed for cleaning, washing and sweeping in
the 1950s meant that the average middle-aged woman had a 28-inch waist.
Today, the average measurement is 34 inches. These days women are no size "0" or even a 2 or 4. We are not built in that shapely way that our mothers were and men just have to find a way to deal with it. I'm offended to hear how many men said that they wouldn't want to date a women over a size 4. Really? I'm sorry that would wipe out my entire circle of friends.
Women are not the same as years ago and for many reasons our bodies have certainly changed. We exercise less, we eat more, or we eat foods that have things in them that some 50+ years ago they didn't. Should we be punished for this? No. I am content being a size 8. Sure I would like to get back to my old size 6 but menopause kicked in last summer and my entire body changed. It's taken me a year to figure out what to do to fix it. A new survey has found that nearly half of men would dump a woman who gained too much weight. The poll, of 70,000 people across the United States showed that 48 per cent of men would not want to be with their partner if she became fat. By contrast just 20 per cent of women would stop seeing their man when faced with the situation. The poll found that over a third of men believed that women started to loose their looks at the age of 40, while a quarter believe that a woman is beyond her prime after 50. What does this mean to us gals over a size 4? It means think twice before you let that deluxe chocolate chip cookie enter your mouth!
Another well known fact is that men want to date women who are fun and attractive. Attraction, as you well know, is a chemical kind of thing and it just happens, so good luck avoiding it when it does. And fun, frankly, is an attitude, an ever vigilant determination to find the element of play in any given situation certainly something you could cultivate, but not a physical attribute. Best of all, if you and a guy are having fun together, chances are the attraction thing is happening too.
Ever wonder why the best looking guys out there always seem to date the skinny women ?
What makes guys jump to attention and break their necks when a skinny woman walks into the room? Here are just a few reasons for you take into consideration. This post is not intended to make anyone feel bad, but rather shed some light on some of the dumb-ass reasons as to why
most guys are only really attracted to skinny women. Listen, this article doesn’t apply to all guys. There are plenty of guys out there that find “not so skinny” girls perfectly attractive. It’s just harder to find them because most men that I know are all about image. So what contributes to this you wonder?
1. Society
Take a look at any magazine cover or t.v. show and you will see nothing but size 4 and under women.
Hollywood and the media perpetuate skinny women as being “hot”. Back in the mid-1900′s, this was not the case. Women that were “pleasantly plump” (obese) were seen as beautiful because their size suggested that they would be good child bearers and mothers. Skinny women back in those days were looked upon as poor and malnourished.Today they are what makes so many women sick, especially young girls because society has taught us that it's all about skinny and having no body fat.
2. Porn
A good portion of the guys out there watch insane amounts of porn, sad but true. Almost all of these porn models have perfect asses, skinny legs and arms and big breasts. To a guy, porn is like a sacrament. It is how most guys learn about sex and what a girl looks like with her clothes off. I would go as far as saying that porn for most guys is like having a second girlfriend. She doesn’t care how hung or buff you are, wrinkled, whiskey dick, or whatever else you may call it...she is always there whenever you need her and in those times when a real woman is hard to find…..She will be only a few mouse-clicks and a credit card away.
3. Sex
This will certain upset many of you woman as it surely upset the hell out of me.....But did you know that guys don’t like to see arm fat and belly fat and insane amounts of leg fat on a girl they are having sex with. Most guys would say that this is a complete turn-off. When a guy sees a girl
in real life, he sometimes pictures what she would look like having sex with him.Most of these men would pass on a women with body fat.
4. Bragging rights with the guys...all men feel the need to do it.
Most guys like to show off their skinny trophy girlfriends to their friends and the public in general. Of course they do, because even if they are old, wrinkled and ugly as shit it takes the focus off of them and all their friends see is a bombshell on the arms of their buddy. It gives them a sense of pride and ownership of such a “valuable asset” and some might even go as far as to revel in the fact that they are making other men jealous.These men in particular would never date a women less than perfect. I guess that the look out-weighs the brains behind the body. So beauty is all they seek? They better hope that she doesn't open her mouth then. Shame on you guys...
5. Very low self esteem
This one goes hand in hand with the #4 reason. Guys that tend to like to show off their girlfriends usually have very low self esteem, so they need a beautiful skinny woman to raise their spirits and make them not only look good but feel good too. By having other guys (including their friends) look at their girlfriend and in some cases act jealous, it reaffirms their self worth on a daily basis. Not often am I left with no words to say but this time I am at a true loss for words...for you men who think that only skinny women are beautiful, I say to you... that's pathetic.
Women are not the same as years ago and for many reasons our bodies have certainly changed. We exercise less, we eat more, or we eat foods that have things in them that some 50+ years ago they didn't. Should we be punished for this? No. I am content being a size 8. Sure I would like to get back to my old size 6 but menopause kicked in last summer and my entire body changed. It's taken me a year to figure out what to do to fix it. A new survey has found that nearly half of men would dump a woman who gained too much weight. The poll, of 70,000 people across the United States showed that 48 per cent of men would not want to be with their partner if she became fat. By contrast just 20 per cent of women would stop seeing their man when faced with the situation. The poll found that over a third of men believed that women started to loose their looks at the age of 40, while a quarter believe that a woman is beyond her prime after 50. What does this mean to us gals over a size 4? It means think twice before you let that deluxe chocolate chip cookie enter your mouth!
Another well known fact is that men want to date women who are fun and attractive. Attraction, as you well know, is a chemical kind of thing and it just happens, so good luck avoiding it when it does. And fun, frankly, is an attitude, an ever vigilant determination to find the element of play in any given situation certainly something you could cultivate, but not a physical attribute. Best of all, if you and a guy are having fun together, chances are the attraction thing is happening too.
Ever wonder why the best looking guys out there always seem to date the skinny women ?
What makes guys jump to attention and break their necks when a skinny woman walks into the room? Here are just a few reasons for you take into consideration. This post is not intended to make anyone feel bad, but rather shed some light on some of the dumb-ass reasons as to why
most guys are only really attracted to skinny women. Listen, this article doesn’t apply to all guys. There are plenty of guys out there that find “not so skinny” girls perfectly attractive. It’s just harder to find them because most men that I know are all about image. So what contributes to this you wonder?
1. Society
Take a look at any magazine cover or t.v. show and you will see nothing but size 4 and under women.
Hollywood and the media perpetuate skinny women as being “hot”. Back in the mid-1900′s, this was not the case. Women that were “pleasantly plump” (obese) were seen as beautiful because their size suggested that they would be good child bearers and mothers. Skinny women back in those days were looked upon as poor and malnourished.Today they are what makes so many women sick, especially young girls because society has taught us that it's all about skinny and having no body fat.
2. Porn
A good portion of the guys out there watch insane amounts of porn, sad but true. Almost all of these porn models have perfect asses, skinny legs and arms and big breasts. To a guy, porn is like a sacrament. It is how most guys learn about sex and what a girl looks like with her clothes off. I would go as far as saying that porn for most guys is like having a second girlfriend. She doesn’t care how hung or buff you are, wrinkled, whiskey dick, or whatever else you may call it...she is always there whenever you need her and in those times when a real woman is hard to find…..She will be only a few mouse-clicks and a credit card away.
3. Sex
This will certain upset many of you woman as it surely upset the hell out of me.....But did you know that guys don’t like to see arm fat and belly fat and insane amounts of leg fat on a girl they are having sex with. Most guys would say that this is a complete turn-off. When a guy sees a girl
in real life, he sometimes pictures what she would look like having sex with him.Most of these men would pass on a women with body fat.
4. Bragging rights with the guys...all men feel the need to do it.
Most guys like to show off their skinny trophy girlfriends to their friends and the public in general. Of course they do, because even if they are old, wrinkled and ugly as shit it takes the focus off of them and all their friends see is a bombshell on the arms of their buddy. It gives them a sense of pride and ownership of such a “valuable asset” and some might even go as far as to revel in the fact that they are making other men jealous.These men in particular would never date a women less than perfect. I guess that the look out-weighs the brains behind the body. So beauty is all they seek? They better hope that she doesn't open her mouth then. Shame on you guys...
5. Very low self esteem
This one goes hand in hand with the #4 reason. Guys that tend to like to show off their girlfriends usually have very low self esteem, so they need a beautiful skinny woman to raise their spirits and make them not only look good but feel good too. By having other guys (including their friends) look at their girlfriend and in some cases act jealous, it reaffirms their self worth on a daily basis. Not often am I left with no words to say but this time I am at a true loss for words...for you men who think that only skinny women are beautiful, I say to you... that's pathetic.
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