Women love dating men with high values, integrity, morals, and those who are honest and successful. They like to see men who are confident and
real, not phony bologna. They want to feel like you need them... but only if you already
have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals. Women do not like nor do we want men that drive us insane.The moment
a man becomes too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the door, and who can blame her? Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much
support, validation, and the ever so constant reinforcement. Remember guys, you are
trying to attract women, not turn them off. Below are 5 signs that you
are being too needy, so... if you suffer from any of these signs of
neediness, you need to stop those actions immediately. If there’s anything a man shouldn’t be – it’s desperate.
1. You call, email, and text wayyyyy too much
You start calling and texting a woman you just began dating several times a day. You are over-texting her, leaving message after message on her voice mail, and even driving past her house to see if she is home since she is NOT responding to your calls or texts. You don’t need to be checking in every two hours. If you want to run a woman off quickly, this is one of the best ways to do it so chill...
2. You are overly-emotional and you whine....You share all of your feelings with women right away, you always doubt yourself and you need constant reassurance about your relationship, work and friendships. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her, she might doubt your ability to do this. Remember, women want a man who is confident and independent--not insecure and dependent. Stop being a baby and act like a grown man.
3. You always make yourself available
You are too available. Women don’t want men who are always available because it makes them think that you don't have a life of your own, making you far less desirable. Listen, being a challenge to a woman makes you more desirable. When you meet a woman you like, show interest in her, but ensure that you keep your regular schedule and don't be available every single day.
4. You do whatever she wants you to do....
You let a woman walk all over you and then continue to be her doormat and allow it over and over, giving up things you really value in an effort to align your life with her wishes. Wake up buddy...no one deserves to be treated like this, not by anyone. Women are not looking for a man who agrees with everything they say. They are looking for confident men someone who can stimulate their minds with intelligent conversations and not bore them out of their minds. Are you picking up what I'm laying down here?
5. You need constant reassurance
You constantly need to hear how great you are and you constantly need a woman to stroke your ego. This is a sign that you have low-self esteem and a poor self-image of himself. This behavior can become tiresome to most women because they don't want to deal with a guy that needs constant assurance. It's too much work, you are too much work.
What we want strong and independent men....So listen, strength does NOT mean that men cannot cry, they will and they must
because before being man, they are human. It is vital that someone
listens to how THEY feel as well, men are more fragile than women. Men,
If a woman is interested in you, you will know, believe me you will.
If she isn’t however, please STOP hounding her! It creeps the average
woman out and you’re completely screwed if it’s a strong woman that
you’re dealing with.
Most average women will say “Eww… he keeps bothering me all the time!” The strong, articulate woman will just know up-front that it’s the eww-factor because if there’s ONE thing a woman relies on a man for – it is for strength (be it physical or mental). What’s the point of being with some needy guy who won’t let you out of his sight for 10 minutes and blows up your phone with messages of “Where are you? And why don’t you answer the phone”. Guys, if you do this – BE PREPARED for the woman to just to tell you to go straight to hell. Some will be polite about it; others like me will not be concerned at all about how we come across. It’s creepy guy won’t leave you alone and wants to make you “His World.” Just let it go....
1. You call, email, and text wayyyyy too much
You start calling and texting a woman you just began dating several times a day. You are over-texting her, leaving message after message on her voice mail, and even driving past her house to see if she is home since she is NOT responding to your calls or texts. You don’t need to be checking in every two hours. If you want to run a woman off quickly, this is one of the best ways to do it so chill...
2. You are overly-emotional and you whine....You share all of your feelings with women right away, you always doubt yourself and you need constant reassurance about your relationship, work and friendships. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her, she might doubt your ability to do this. Remember, women want a man who is confident and independent--not insecure and dependent. Stop being a baby and act like a grown man.
3. You always make yourself available
You are too available. Women don’t want men who are always available because it makes them think that you don't have a life of your own, making you far less desirable. Listen, being a challenge to a woman makes you more desirable. When you meet a woman you like, show interest in her, but ensure that you keep your regular schedule and don't be available every single day.
4. You do whatever she wants you to do....
You let a woman walk all over you and then continue to be her doormat and allow it over and over, giving up things you really value in an effort to align your life with her wishes. Wake up buddy...no one deserves to be treated like this, not by anyone. Women are not looking for a man who agrees with everything they say. They are looking for confident men someone who can stimulate their minds with intelligent conversations and not bore them out of their minds. Are you picking up what I'm laying down here?
5. You need constant reassurance
You constantly need to hear how great you are and you constantly need a woman to stroke your ego. This is a sign that you have low-self esteem and a poor self-image of himself. This behavior can become tiresome to most women because they don't want to deal with a guy that needs constant assurance. It's too much work, you are too much work.
Most average women will say “Eww… he keeps bothering me all the time!” The strong, articulate woman will just know up-front that it’s the eww-factor because if there’s ONE thing a woman relies on a man for – it is for strength (be it physical or mental). What’s the point of being with some needy guy who won’t let you out of his sight for 10 minutes and blows up your phone with messages of “Where are you? And why don’t you answer the phone”. Guys, if you do this – BE PREPARED for the woman to just to tell you to go straight to hell. Some will be polite about it; others like me will not be concerned at all about how we come across. It’s creepy guy won’t leave you alone and wants to make you “His World.” Just let it go....
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