The Ice Breakers Men Use on Women...Do They Work?

It’s never a really good idea to walk up to a woman and say, “Do you believe in love at first sight or should I want by you again?"...or,...."Are you tired...because you’ve been running through my mind all day".......or how about this cheesy one liner...."Are you a parking ticket because you have FINE written all over you!" OK fellas, STOP...openers like that are sure to make your intended target run real fast in the opposite direction, not to mention they'll think that you are a loser at best, so for goodness sakes, THINK before you open the yap!

If these cheesy lines do not work, which I can tell you right now, 98% of the time, THEY WON'T...what does work? What do you say as your opening line, and how can you say it so that you don’t come off as a total idiot? First, don’t pre-plan your icebreakers...if you do, you're bound to screw up totally! They’ll sound forced and your potential date will not be impressed whatsoever. Do stay away from anything cheesy and even the over-used, “Don’t I know you from somewhere?” There are better ways to break the ice and get a conversation started. Think about what you are going to say, and make it good,...for you know that famous saying..."Sometimes you only get ONE CHANCE!" 

Give a sincere compliment

It's no secret that women enjoy compliments. However, they can always detect when the compliment is an insincere one. No matter the situation, you should always be able to find something unique and legitimate to flatter your target with. It may be risque or a more tame form of praise, depending on her body language toward you. This is KEY, so pay attention! Be sure to follow through with a negative hit, so that she doesn't believe you're in awe over her.

Introduce yourself

This almost goes without saying: If there's been no previous flirting, she's not going to know you exist until you make her aware you're there, so step it up a notch and make it happen fellas! To use a golf analogy: It's always the approach shot that sets up the hole, and it's no different with the ladies. Stride up to her casually and introduce yourself.

What to say:
"I'm Joe, happy to meet you." ...(or)....
"Hi there, I'm Joe. I don't believe we've been introduced."

Buy her a drink

Whether you're at a bar, restaurant or coffee shop, a great icebreaker involves the classic buying of the drink. Have the waiter send her another round of what she's already having (if you want to be more aggressive, you could send her your favorite drink) accompanied by a playful note, with your phone number included. Be sure to have the waiter let her know the source of the drink. On your way out, stop by her table and introduce yourself. It's a bold approach without being invasive. 


 Be blunt!

Here's an icebreaker for those willing to be even more direct. In many cases, walking up to a woman and letting her know you're a take-charge kind of guy can be really appealing, and even a turn-on. She'll likely take your confidence as an indication that you're someone worth talking to. You know....it all starts with small talk.

Make her smile

That's right, women LOVE their egos stroked just like guys though, although, we tend to show it a bit differently. Getting her to smile works magic for breaking the ice; women love a man who can make them laugh. Cracking a joke could prove the difference between picking up and striking out. Humor sets up a pleasant context and hints that you're a fun guy.

You’ll get far more points for noticing that she has a nice smile than if you try to come off as some sort of misguided Don Juan sort of mush/slang that will make her want to puke. Pick up lines and cheesy icebreakers seldom work. If you need to practice and think of possible lines in order to be prepared for any chance that might present itself, that’s fine, but you have to remain flexible and relaxed so that you don’t sound like you were just waiting to use that line on the first girl that happened to come along. Try this....just be yourself. Don't act all nutty, be you. That's what will really catch her eye. Make good conversation with her and leave her with a gesture that is sure to make her think about you long after you say good-night!

www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com