Sure everyone wants to meet Mr Right, BUT that won't happen until you follow a few steps, and take a good look at the big picture. Life and dating in general is not at all easy, not like it was 30 years ago. Things change, people change, and attitudes have become far worse. Men have super big egos, and they think that they are a rare commodity, but they aren't. He’s skeptical about marriage and wants to prolong settling down-of course he does. What do I think? He's afraid of commitment. I think men are less likely to be patient and persistent with a woman
and more likely to find a deal breaker early and quickly move on to the
next.Today, men think that traditional dating and courting is a waste of
time. Much like in the real world, relationships take time and can be undone in a few wrongly calculated moves.
So you want to find someone that will give you that special feeling? With that being said ladies, here is how to get on the right track to find your Mr Right; It all starts with YOU!
1. Get a life. That's right, you heard me....GET A LIFE! The most important thing is to be Ms. Right yourself. Finding the right man is not going to change you into a better person than you already are. If you are lazy and self-centered, finding a generous hard working fellow is not going to transform you. If you are boring and a one-dimensional person, finding an intellectually challenging man is not going to change who you are. Learn how to be interesting, kind, caring, and unselfish. Model yourself after women you admire. Work hard at changing your character defects. Become more well rounded. Complete your education. Get yourself a hobby. Volunteer and expose yourself to people who are less-fortunate than you are. Learn some humility by volunteering to serve others. So many people need our help! Find a charity or organization and lend a hand. My personal favorite; find a women's shelter in your area and call them and ask if you can donate women's business attire from your closet that you no longer wear. They need your help! A lot of us should do this next one; Take a listening class. We talk, talk talk, but do we really listen? That is imperative in a relationship as is communicating in general. Get some counseling if you need to learn to be assertive or how to share your feelings. If you have some childhood traumas deal with them now, with someone who can give you professional help. Learn to be happy with yourself, first. No man, no matter how right is going to make you happy. You will only be happy in your new relationship if you are happy inside first.
2. Evaluate your physical attractiveness. Not everyone is Ms. America. Nobody looks like the models in magazines. We aren't airbrushed to perfection. But we each do have something going for us though. Find out what your best feature is and accentuate it. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Do not try to be a size 6 if you are really a size 12. Accept yourself for who you are, but don’t use that as an excuse to let yourself go either. Some men like a woman with a little meat on her bones, but no one wants a slob. Big can be beautiful if you manage things correctly. If you are overweight, consult your doctor and find out what is healthy for a woman your size. Rather than living up to some super-model or stereotype of femininity you should aim to be all you can.
3 . Look in places where you would expect to find someone with the qualities you value. Is he someone that you would consider bringing home to meet the family? If not, you may want to re-think your moves and choices. If you want someone who cares, look at the local soup kitchen and see who is volunteering on Saturday afternoons. If you want someone who is good with kids, look for a coach or a teacher or a mentor. If you want a generous guy, ask yourself: Who in your crowd has a generous spirit? Who shares his Pepsi with you without your asking? Who gives you the seat on the bus? Who goes out of his way for his grandmother or aunt? Who sacrifices his day off to work for Habitat for Humanity? Who works Sundays at the homeless shelter? Who volunteers at the Children’s Hospital as a clown? Who shares freely about himself and his needs, ideas, hopes and dreams? Who doesn’t care if his generosity is noticed or even appreciated? This is the type of man to look for.
4. Please do remember that we are all human beings, so don't go looking for someone perfect. You'll be looking for a very long time! What do I mean by this? Don't set the bar so high...No one is going to be everything you have ever dreamed of. Give the guy a break. You already know that you are not Ms. Perfect, and honey, if you think you are...we have even bigger problems here. Listen, he will make mistakes just as you do, so go with the flow. Relax a little and don’t be too picky. Allow for human frailty. Look beyond physical attractiveness. You don’t want a slob any more than he does, but he doesn’t have to be Mr. Hunk either.
5. Be patient silly girl! Rome was not built in a day. It may take some time to discover what appeals to you and why. You may make a few friends, and even break a heart or two. You may get hurt. Keep at it. There are good men out there. You simply need to know where to look!
Many men want the grand prize, the bulls-eye, but guess what...there is no such thing. Sometimes what you see is not what you get! There is a man out there for you. Give it time, and don't push it. Sit back and wait....it will happen when it is supposed to!
So you want to find someone that will give you that special feeling? With that being said ladies, here is how to get on the right track to find your Mr Right; It all starts with YOU!
1. Get a life. That's right, you heard me....GET A LIFE! The most important thing is to be Ms. Right yourself. Finding the right man is not going to change you into a better person than you already are. If you are lazy and self-centered, finding a generous hard working fellow is not going to transform you. If you are boring and a one-dimensional person, finding an intellectually challenging man is not going to change who you are. Learn how to be interesting, kind, caring, and unselfish. Model yourself after women you admire. Work hard at changing your character defects. Become more well rounded. Complete your education. Get yourself a hobby. Volunteer and expose yourself to people who are less-fortunate than you are. Learn some humility by volunteering to serve others. So many people need our help! Find a charity or organization and lend a hand. My personal favorite; find a women's shelter in your area and call them and ask if you can donate women's business attire from your closet that you no longer wear. They need your help! A lot of us should do this next one; Take a listening class. We talk, talk talk, but do we really listen? That is imperative in a relationship as is communicating in general. Get some counseling if you need to learn to be assertive or how to share your feelings. If you have some childhood traumas deal with them now, with someone who can give you professional help. Learn to be happy with yourself, first. No man, no matter how right is going to make you happy. You will only be happy in your new relationship if you are happy inside first.
2. Evaluate your physical attractiveness. Not everyone is Ms. America. Nobody looks like the models in magazines. We aren't airbrushed to perfection. But we each do have something going for us though. Find out what your best feature is and accentuate it. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Do not try to be a size 6 if you are really a size 12. Accept yourself for who you are, but don’t use that as an excuse to let yourself go either. Some men like a woman with a little meat on her bones, but no one wants a slob. Big can be beautiful if you manage things correctly. If you are overweight, consult your doctor and find out what is healthy for a woman your size. Rather than living up to some super-model or stereotype of femininity you should aim to be all you can.
3 . Look in places where you would expect to find someone with the qualities you value. Is he someone that you would consider bringing home to meet the family? If not, you may want to re-think your moves and choices. If you want someone who cares, look at the local soup kitchen and see who is volunteering on Saturday afternoons. If you want someone who is good with kids, look for a coach or a teacher or a mentor. If you want a generous guy, ask yourself: Who in your crowd has a generous spirit? Who shares his Pepsi with you without your asking? Who gives you the seat on the bus? Who goes out of his way for his grandmother or aunt? Who sacrifices his day off to work for Habitat for Humanity? Who works Sundays at the homeless shelter? Who volunteers at the Children’s Hospital as a clown? Who shares freely about himself and his needs, ideas, hopes and dreams? Who doesn’t care if his generosity is noticed or even appreciated? This is the type of man to look for.
4. Please do remember that we are all human beings, so don't go looking for someone perfect. You'll be looking for a very long time! What do I mean by this? Don't set the bar so high...No one is going to be everything you have ever dreamed of. Give the guy a break. You already know that you are not Ms. Perfect, and honey, if you think you are...we have even bigger problems here. Listen, he will make mistakes just as you do, so go with the flow. Relax a little and don’t be too picky. Allow for human frailty. Look beyond physical attractiveness. You don’t want a slob any more than he does, but he doesn’t have to be Mr. Hunk either.
5. Be patient silly girl! Rome was not built in a day. It may take some time to discover what appeals to you and why. You may make a few friends, and even break a heart or two. You may get hurt. Keep at it. There are good men out there. You simply need to know where to look!
Many men want the grand prize, the bulls-eye, but guess what...there is no such thing. Sometimes what you see is not what you get! There is a man out there for you. Give it time, and don't push it. Sit back and wait....it will happen when it is supposed to!
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