Having been down this road in the past, whether it involved my past marriage, or men that I dated since my divorce, I pick up a few tips along the way and learned quickly how to spot the "wrong men" that all women should certainly stay away from. I have categorized them the best that I can to assist you in trying to get a glimpse of what to beware of. Most of these traits you should see early on....sometimes it takes away for these to transpire, so keep your eyes open and listen for heaven sakes....
These men may seem to be the "shit" but ladies....if you end up with any of these 4 you'll have some major relationship issues. This is a promise!
Mr. No-Money Bags
He has champagne tastes on a beer budget and a walk-in closet full of financial skeletons. But that doesn’t bother him because he also has a preternatural ability to get into women’s wallets as well as their beds. He’s counting on you to keep him in the style to which he hopes to become accustomed. It’s like stumbling onto a beautiful vintage Bentley: You see past the exhilarating automobile that appears to be a one of a kind, so rare, and you envision how magnificent it could be if you fixed up the wear and tear on it. You figure a little “investment” will pay off big. Besides, what’s a little money when he’s the man of your dreams? He's the guy whose wallet is always in his other pants, he left it at home, he’s short on cash until he gets paid.....bla bla bla kind of guy. Initially, it might seem reasonable to float him a little extra, but ladies OPEN YOUR EYES!!!!!!! Unless you are intending to be his "sugar mama" shake this one off like a flea!
Mr. Mama’s Boy..... He’s sweet, affectionate and understanding. Unfortunately, he’s still hung up on another woman – his mama Not exactly the threesome you might have had in mind. Mom still influences his professional decisions, his investment portfolio, where he lives, who he votes for. Project into the future and you can count on her influencing everything – from where you buy a home to how you raise your children. If you want another woman running your relationship and life...maybe he is the man, but if you are anything like me and want to grow a relationship based on your own wants and needs, you need to cut this one loose, otherwise before you know it she'll be naming your children and selecting your family vacations together! One big happy family. NOT!!!!!!
Mr. Peter Pan
Yep, you know the one....Though he’s in his 20s, 30s or 40s, at heart Mr. Peter Pan Syndrome is still like that of a frat boy in many ways. Life’s a nonstop, movable kegger and he’s the affable host. Yes the life of the party....everyone lovessss him! He’s on a first-name basis with all the bartenders in town, and is always ready for a trip to Las Vegas to stay up all night rill the dice and drink like there is no tomorrow. This guy loves the attention! He wants to be in the spot light all the time....beware of tough times though should they arise....Difficult situations aren’t in his repertoire, and when the going gets tough, you’ll be going it alone. Be careful, here's how he'll get you hooked; His spontaneity and sense of adventure bring out the kid in you. OPEN YOUR EYES!.... He would appear to have very few responsibilities. When it comes to dating, he'll do it with the catch phrase “let’s keep things light." Don't try to change him. I married one, and look where I am now! Do take my advice, it simply doesn't work. You can tame him, but don't dry to change him. It will backfire on you and he'll end up despising you. Unless you want to find your life like that of the fairy tale living with a man who thinks (as my grand mother used to say) in Never Never Land....drop him like a hot potato!!
Mr. Egomaniac
He’s brilliant, clever, witty, handsome, quite accomplished and has an unflagging belief in his own infallibility.You never see him waffling or agonizing about a decision. Oh no...he is sharp on his toes, and fast on his feet...watch out! He’s extremely decisive because the world revolves around him. On the rare occasion when he’s not 100% right, he won’t take it well if you point it out. He may want an accomplished woman, but not one so successful that you eclipse his glory. He may even undercut your success. He might embarrass you at an office party or run you down in front of colleagues in the guise of “being funny." When you complain, he’ll accuse you of being too sensitive. His confidence is irresistible.
Handsome, yet they know it. Seductive and they like it. Flamboyant to the core, and sexy in a way that will lure you in. Be careful of this type,...don't say that I didn't warn you.
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