Boost a Mans Ego!

Men are full of surprises, and bedroom behavior is no exception. I can't follow every guide on "self help" for men, but I can tell you that they love role playing and love love love naughty!! How naughty are you willing to go?

1. He's so afraid he'll let you down 

 Men feel tremendous pressure to perform sexually. "In the past, men weren't evaluating their sexual performance  because women weren't supposed to judge them," ..........ahhhhhhhh but we do, don't we? Women aren't waiting for marriage to have sex anymore, and that means they have more experience in the bedroom. We have "LOTS!!"

Sexually satisfied role models encourage women to be open about their sexual desires and complaints. Suddenly, the pressure to perform is on, and he can't help but feel like he has to please you. Even though you might forgive him for a few poor performances, he has a hard time forgiving himself. Warning: If your man has a recurring problem getting aroused or maintaining his erection, he may start to blame you to protect his ego.

What you can do:  My guess would be to just relax and try to enjoy sex which will help to alleviate some of the pressure. In other words, don't take it personally or, worse, insult him. And never point and laugh!Agree Even When You Really Dont Agree......

2. Men need validation to get their groove on. Sex is a source of power, and it gives proof that one is masculine. "To a man, having sex means that he can move a woman, that he's an athlete, a provider and a lover," Warning: No encouragement means no mojo.
What you can do: It's simple. Say, "That feels good," or let out a moan or heavy breath when you feel like it. A good rule of thumb: NEVER FAKE IT.... but don't fight it.

3. Men don't like waiting too long to have sex with a new partner.... Out of One frying pan and into another!....Hmmmm, Unlike some dating experts, some truly believe that women should never hold out to have sex simply because of the so-called rules of dating. I'm sorry....totally old fashion here and you should wait.....What if he is more likely to commit if there is a sexual component to the relationship, and it is important for him to know that you find him sexually desirable. Well, listen gals, if he can't respect you and wait just a little bit....don't get involved! "A man goes through a lifetime hoping to find a woman who can't keep her hands off him" and if he thinks you are that woman, you can fool around without coming full circle.

Warning: "Frankly, if your guy is offended when you don't take his initiation towards sex, get rid of him!"

What you can do: We're all sensual beings; we might as well be who we are. So don't be afraid to act on your desires when and if the mood strikes!

4. Men wish they had better bodies too. Let's face it: Men may not worry about weight nearly as much as women do, but they do have their own image issues.
Warning: Most men are quite concerned about their penis size, general physical condition, height and baldness. In other words, they are hoping for mood lighting in the bedroom just as much as women are.
What you can do: Help your man by telling him that you find him attractive and showing him so real good affection. Seduce him in other words!

5. Most men will not forgive a cheating girlfriend. Men who have been betrayed, especially in the bedroom, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women in the same situation, says Weinberg.
Warning: Ladies, most men are wanting a woman who will stick with them.

What you can do: Show your loyalty not only by remaining faithful when in a committed relationship, but also by supporting your man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary. This allegiance will make your man more secure and will give him the motivation to let loose in the bedroom with you. Men want commitment just as much as women do; they just want it packaged differently. Speaking of packages.... I have some items in the "Adult Novelty" section at Simply Delicious Lingerie that you just might want to try! Men think that we cannot live without them, they think we were born yesterday and they think that have it all figured out....Enjoy the ride boys....we're on to you!

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