In a nutshell.....Here's how this thing works......You've been peeking around dating sites and you've been interested in one in particular for a period of time.....So let's get you started! Create a profile, upload a photo of yourself (a recent one, not one from 5-10 years ago or more) and post it....One day, you come across a great match..... You find that perfect date. After working up the courage to reach out to this person, you send an email....then you wait, and wait, and the anticipation overcomes you. Check your mail, but not every five minutes. Excitement can get the best of us all, ...this is completely natural. Much to your surprise and with great joy, determination, and a little faith, your would-be date sends a response to you! So then, when exactly do you to take it to the next level? When do you go on your first date? Are you nervous?
Check out the tips below to help ease your first date jitters;
Ready, Set.....Go!
Establishing a time limit for your first online chat date can make all the difference. Pick a place to meet. If the conversation flows, and you both want to extend the date (you'll know within the first 15 minutes), go for it. But if you feel like the date has been heading south since you launched the chat, rest assured, your online date has no future, so be nice and say thanks, but no thanks.
Making the Right First Impression
If you've taken it to the next level, pulling out all the stops for a web cam chat.....you need to make the right first impression. Before you sink into that comfy computer chair, spend some time getting ready for your big date. The best bet it to treat this rendezvous just like you would any other first date. Whether your personal preparation involves a trip to the gym or the hair stylist, take some time to feel and look your best. You never get a second chance to make a first impression.This mean look classy, sassy and be yourself....no "hoochie mama" not 40 looking like she's 20, no dirty talk. My thoughts are if you do this to him/her they'll wonder how many others you do this to. If a man did it to me, I'd really question it, and most likely NOT want to continue this after the first web cam. Personally, I hate web cams, and refuse to use one. That's just my personal opinion. My preference is the butterflies of the first date and being with him in person.
Flirting with some Flare
When your match makes their online entrance, remember to smile.....casually exchange some small talk, and if the chemistry is off the charts, bring out your secret weapon: the BIG flirt. Flirting is just a matter of showing your date how open you are to the experience. Smile, laugh and enjoy yourself. remember to show confidence!
Follow the Leader
Ladies, I can almost hear your collective groan, still I offer these words of wisdom: let him take the lead. Sure, it may seem old-fashioned, (I am old fashion so I totally agree here).....but you already know all there is to know about you. Aren't you really more interested in getting the scoop on him? I would be! Have a loose checklist of questions prepared before your online date. Ice-breaking questions designed to dig a little beyond the basics. Look for red flags, there might be some.
Consider asking your date about what he did last night; what foods does he like/dislike; movies; music; books; magazines......discover whether his Saturday routine consists of a cup of steaming coffee and a newspaper, a trip to his neighborhood gym. Conversation will definitely flow both ways, but don't miss this golden opportunity to check out your compatibility.
Set the Tone
Keep the conversation light,positive and simple. No matter how tempted you are, resist talking about your ex...their faults, your faults, the break-up and any other juicy details. Hold back on sharing any intimate details about your life. You may also want to avoid no-no topics like finances, marriage and politics. At least until you know each other a bit better. It's all about making the right impression and sometimes pushing the political envelope too soon can be a big turn-off...especially if you end up on the wrong side of a heated debate about a would-be presidential candidate.
Chemical Reaction/Physical Attraction
Are feeling the jolt of that all-important chemical connection? Is he/she a hottie? Are you attracted to this person in a sexual way or just a physical way? If you are attracted to them, isn't that awesome? Gals, don't panic if the sparks aren't flying; some of the best relationships begin with a slow sizzle. Nervous habits have a lot to do with this.....sometimes we try to hard to fast and it back fires, "just be you" ....it may really surprise you! Plus, an online chat can be a tough place to feel the love.
So, tell me.......are you ready to get your feet wet and get started with your first online date?
Are you ready to make a date with destiny....
Check out the tips below to help ease your first date jitters;
Ready, Set.....Go!
Establishing a time limit for your first online chat date can make all the difference. Pick a place to meet. If the conversation flows, and you both want to extend the date (you'll know within the first 15 minutes), go for it. But if you feel like the date has been heading south since you launched the chat, rest assured, your online date has no future, so be nice and say thanks, but no thanks.
Making the Right First Impression
If you've taken it to the next level, pulling out all the stops for a web cam chat.....you need to make the right first impression. Before you sink into that comfy computer chair, spend some time getting ready for your big date. The best bet it to treat this rendezvous just like you would any other first date. Whether your personal preparation involves a trip to the gym or the hair stylist, take some time to feel and look your best. You never get a second chance to make a first impression.This mean look classy, sassy and be yourself....no "hoochie mama" not 40 looking like she's 20, no dirty talk. My thoughts are if you do this to him/her they'll wonder how many others you do this to. If a man did it to me, I'd really question it, and most likely NOT want to continue this after the first web cam. Personally, I hate web cams, and refuse to use one. That's just my personal opinion. My preference is the butterflies of the first date and being with him in person.
Flirting with some Flare
When your match makes their online entrance, remember to smile.....casually exchange some small talk, and if the chemistry is off the charts, bring out your secret weapon: the BIG flirt. Flirting is just a matter of showing your date how open you are to the experience. Smile, laugh and enjoy yourself. remember to show confidence!
Follow the Leader
Ladies, I can almost hear your collective groan, still I offer these words of wisdom: let him take the lead. Sure, it may seem old-fashioned, (I am old fashion so I totally agree here).....but you already know all there is to know about you. Aren't you really more interested in getting the scoop on him? I would be! Have a loose checklist of questions prepared before your online date. Ice-breaking questions designed to dig a little beyond the basics. Look for red flags, there might be some.
Consider asking your date about what he did last night; what foods does he like/dislike; movies; music; books; magazines......discover whether his Saturday routine consists of a cup of steaming coffee and a newspaper, a trip to his neighborhood gym. Conversation will definitely flow both ways, but don't miss this golden opportunity to check out your compatibility.
Set the Tone
Keep the conversation light,positive and simple. No matter how tempted you are, resist talking about your ex...their faults, your faults, the break-up and any other juicy details. Hold back on sharing any intimate details about your life. You may also want to avoid no-no topics like finances, marriage and politics. At least until you know each other a bit better. It's all about making the right impression and sometimes pushing the political envelope too soon can be a big turn-off...especially if you end up on the wrong side of a heated debate about a would-be presidential candidate.
Chemical Reaction/Physical Attraction
Are feeling the jolt of that all-important chemical connection? Is he/she a hottie? Are you attracted to this person in a sexual way or just a physical way? If you are attracted to them, isn't that awesome? Gals, don't panic if the sparks aren't flying; some of the best relationships begin with a slow sizzle. Nervous habits have a lot to do with this.....sometimes we try to hard to fast and it back fires, "just be you" ....it may really surprise you! Plus, an online chat can be a tough place to feel the love.
So, tell me.......are you ready to get your feet wet and get started with your first online date?
Are you ready to make a date with destiny....
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