I love romance.....what women doesn't? Might I suggest that a good way of kick starting romantic behaviour is to go back to what is was like in the early stages of your relationship and trying to rekindle the feelings you had for your partner when it all began...... It's fun, romantic and cheap, providing you didn't meet in Paris or Italy while on a vacation....then it could get a bit pricey.....
Tell your partner that you want to go to the first place you ever met or the place you went on your first date. Go there, look at each, remember what is was that you first noticed and how did it stick out in your head above all the other things? Ask him/her to talk about what you loved most about each other at the beginning....for this is where it all began....and if he/she is Mr/Ms Right, you'll have a story to end all stories that will be passed down to your children and your grandchildren. Memories are something that are priceless and one can never take from you.....locked in your mind and your heart they will always be. Keep a journal, some day your romance might be a novel that many read, and like me can only wish to have someday.......It's just one evening like that can get you both thinking more romantically, generating positive feelings to kick-start the process of making sure you keep romance in your relationship for the future.
1 ALWAYS.......Celebrate those special occasions. Take the time to show your partner extra love and appreciation on special dates like your anniversary and birthday. For example, make plans for an intimate dinner at the restaurant where you had your first date. Request the same table. This shows that the time you have spent together is valuable and worth remembering. It keeps your relationship alive and renewed!
2 Remember how you became romantically interested and linked. Did you notice her beautiful smile or his unique sense of fashion? ......or did she fall stepping off the subway and you caught her? I'm the klutz and that's how Mr Right someday will remember me, that I am almost 99% sure of. This helps keep your mind focused on your partner and not the new neighbor across the hall, the person at the grocery store or whatever walks by with a hot ass and good looks.
3 Make their heart skip a beat.....rekindle the flames. The goal is to revive old feelings while seeking new experiences to share in together. For example, taking a cruise together will provide a special moment to relive the way you felt on your honeymoon. Walk on a beach if that was where you first met...be rational but naughty and adventurous this time around,....it adds zest and spunk and we all love that! Look at it as learning to act "out of character" in a good way for your partner.
4 Create new memories. Take the time to acknowledge any powerful moments shared between each other. Know that powerful moments can spring from ordinary daily events. By saying a simple " I love you" may be remembered by your partner forever....often its that one particular place that you happen to whisper it in her/his ear that stands out in their mind vividly.
5 Keep doing the little things....dont' stop.....romance, relationships and love are not about getting to that point and then disengaging because they already love you, or because you've already done that to make them smile.....NO NO NO.....keep doing it again and again! That was what made them fall in love with you in the first place, so why on earth would you want to change now? Most people envy what you have......cherish your partner and always show them appreciation! Don't take them for granted. I can tell you from personal past experience that I did, and what happened? Well....here I am, single and unattached. When was the last time you told your partner she was special...or beautiful/handsome and the love of your life? What may seem trivial to you might brighten your partner's day. Remember that everyday is a new opportunity to build the relationship and keep the romance alive and burning.....next stop.....romancing in the bedroom!
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