This seems to be the story of my life.Why? Why do they finish last? Too nice, sweet and so very naive. Ever wondered why despite putting your best face and foot forward, and treating your dreamboat like a prince, he seems to go for someone smarter, sassier and sexier - aka 'The bitch?' First of all, men want what they can't have.....
Lets go over this..... It's possibly because:
- You're making it too obvious that you're looking for a man and your happiness is dependent on that. I disagree...not always the case....sometimes we good girls are more than they can handle. Maybe we are too forth coming? Our independence frightens men at times because they don't want the woman to make more, or to know more, be better educated, etc.
- You are unable to be alone. Are you the kind of gal that is a "clinger?" If you are, you need to back off a little. Guys want a woman that is compatible to themselves, not a woman that they have to take care of and worry about often. Stand on your own two feet girls!
-Are you a whiner? Good Lord if you are, grow up. Stop it, are you listening to how pathetic you sound? Get a backbone and show him you are strong and can do your own thing. This is something that sends men packing, running, and everything else....if you are like this ladies, read up on building a greater confidence, charge your look or hairdo perhaps, and definitely, get out of the 80s or what ever time warp you may be stuck in. Personal appearance is key....men love sex appeal! Develop the look that makes him do a double take.....that will make him want more!
- You don't want to wait for the right person. You to rush into a situation you wouldn't have otherwise.....sound familiar? Yup, it happens all the time! Don't be a little picky....BE VERY PICKY! After all, it's just as much your time and your life that contribute to this happiness.
Do men like strong women?
You bet they do! The general consensus is that men get intimidated by strong, opinionated women who pose a challenge. But the truth is that any extreme is a turn off. On the contrary, there is nothing more attractive than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is. I keep saying it....confidence is so sexy and sooooo over the top! So to woo the love of your life, be someone he desires. And he can't desire something that is too easily available. It simply means you must be in control and keep him guessing. Besides, never forget the golden rule of relationships: You don't marry a perfect person. You marry an interesting person.
The 'bitches' don't...
- Call or text him frequently.
- Ask where he is or what he's doing.
- Say 'You don't call me enough,' or, 'You never tell me you love me.' Unpredictability is your asset. Don't let your loved one decode you easily.
- Agree with everything he says. When you never express your opinion, a man starts feeling bored.
- Go looking for him or chase him down at three different places where he said he might be having a drink. To be his 'one and only' let him come track you down. Mom always used to say "Let the boys chase you!"
- Get mad when he doesn't call you in four days. Who cares? If he can't be more considerate than that, who needs him? I wouldn't want him.....Next!
- Rearrange your schedule to spend time with him. Ok tell me you ladies don't do this? Never,ever, ever.....
-Don't give him the time of day if it doesn't suit your needs. Well, that might be a little harsh, but truth be told, keeping your distance will make a man want you more.
-Never drop your friends because he doesn't care for them...that's about the time I would have to say "Hit the Road Jack!" What happens is, us good girls, we give a lot, and wear our emotions on our sleeves. If men take us for granted, or take advantage of us over and over (emotional, not sexyally) it wears on us, until one day you are the bitch. After my divorce I turned to stone, could care less about men and my friends called me the "Ice Princess" ....why, I was a bitch, and how could I fix it? I missed the nice girl I've always been....I learned that I'm nowhere near perfect....I have faults, and I make mistakes. Unless you live in a glass house, you have NO right to throw stones! You either see the great qualities that I have or it is truly your loss.
My advice is take your good qualites and polish them for the next guy who might be much more sincere, and more understanding......the right one will come along, it's just a matter of time.
The bitches ......Where do they finish?......Oh ladies....If I have to tell you that, you didn't get anything out of this article. Why are women bitches? How can you pick them out in a crowd?
They've got the look!
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