Men avoid conflicts like it was the plague. Yes, this is quite true! They won't tell you when you do or say something that turned them off.....that would be far too easy,.....instead, they will simply disappear. It is really important that women understand what it is that men get turned off by. Stop doing these things no matter what it takes ladies....if you don't realize you are doing these things, you're in big trouble.... Here's what men really don't like.......
1. Ladies, PLEASE don't talk about the Exes...especially if it's while you are out with him for the first few time. It's true that women have their share of having their hearts broken and the men that broke them. Some of these heartbreaks can be blamed on the guy but other times it is our own fault for not standing up for ourselves.
2. Your Biological Clock is Ticking! Making mention that your time is running out and you have to settle down. You're not getting any younger and you want to start a family.....It that wouldn't send a man running for the door without his feet hitting the floor I don't know what would! NEVER say this ladies,.....its a sure way to go from a high to a low and an aloneeee in a real hurry! No, you aren't telling him you want to settle down with him, in particular, just that you think it's time. He really won't feel very special. Use the ole' reverse psychology on him......You actually want the guy to think that you aren't looking to settle down right now. Ummm Hello, it's called playing hard to get....we all do it. You have a busy, full life and if he becomes very important to you, you may consider settling down. He will have to prove it to you though. Guys are famous for this.....hey, whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
3. Absolutely NO Gold Digger talk.....Talking about money and making him think that it is one of the most important things to you is not a good idea. It's okay if you feel this way but not when it comes to choosing a mate. We already know that it's every one's dream to find that perfect man that is very successful and ambitious but you will have to avoid talking about money if you don't want him leaving you before you even have a chance to see if this relationship would work out. Men are very afraid of making a mistake in picking a woman that would be a gold digger and marrying her just to have her divorce them.You should be able to spot a gold digger a mile away.....and guys, if you can't, start researching what one is so that you don't fall into her trap. If you show him signs of materialism he will pick up on it and he may just run the other way. He wants you to be in love with him with or without money before he will show the least bit of generosity towards you. If you really do like him,......don't screw it up. If your only after him for the chase and for his assets, enjoy it while it lasts, because your days are numbered. If he doesn't open his eyes, you can certainly bet that a good friend or a family member will paint him the picture!
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