Sex, Lies, and more Lies.....

Honestly, In my days of dating, being married, and dating again.....I've seen and heard it ALL! I have given advice, taken advice and tossed some advice right out the window! Look, I'm no expert ladies but really....don't you find that men make the same mistakes over and over?
Oh, really? Let's find out if that's true or not. Here's a list of ten things men can do to really mess up somthing good.......

1. Hello....Do I Know You?

It never fails. You meet a guy and think you know him and all of a sudden, presto, he turns into somebody else. This is the best kind of magic I've ever seen. Or should I say, acting. What happened to the days when guys offered spending time with you to get to know you and have fun and actually meant it? Long gone are those days gals....Seems as though once they've conquered their mission, sex, they let the gloves off. They reveal their true identity. You know, the one that doesn't give a crap, says what you want to hear, but has no idea what he just said because he only did it to shut you up. Guys there are many ladies out there whom like yourselves, are of equal matches.......Some gals really just want sex too! I don't really go for the wham bam thank you ma'am.....Stop pretending to be the guy of a gal's dreams just to get what you want. It's beyond lame and in this day and age, quite dangerous. You;re playing with fire, yes....but her heart is on the line and now your entering at your own risk!!!!!!

2. Someones Nose is Growing! 

Alright ladies, let's stop asking guys to look us in the eyes and tell us the truth. It doesn't work. They lie anyway. They're amazing at it. Some claim they learned it from us. What? We could never be as fast on our feet with some of the things that men come up with and most often get away with....I love to go to the bar to people watch, you'll hear it all there....the lies, lies, lies....some are married, some in relationships, and some dating multiple women. Tell me, how do they keep us straight? I could never do it!
Fleetwood Mac sang it best....."Tell Me Lies"

3. Hey.....Is Anybody There?

 Sure we ladies do talk a lot. But that only means we have a need to be heard. Guys, are they really listening? Not all the time. How about the classic nod and constant yeah while they watching a ball game? They couldn't tell you what we said. I used to wait until a ball game came on to ask my husband for something. At that time he'd hand me his wallet and say "get out of the way".....I couldn't have danced naked in front of that man and he wouldn't have even noticed! Do you think sometimes we can be a little rough on men? Sure we are, but in the end it all evens out.

4. So You Say She's Just A Friend....Really?

If you are my man, why do you need a female friend? Why would you want a woman to know all of your business? Unless, you're out making a life with her as well, I don't see the need for a friend like that. I just don't buy the just a friend bid. A guy is all for getting calls from other women and they immediately claim friendship until the shoe is on the other foot. Respect the feelings of your girl by adoring her above all others. If you really love her, you wouldn't even second guess a decision like dropping the flies to commit to the queen bee. Better make your moves quickly, because the buzz is that there are a lot of guys she calls honey buzzing around to swarm in on your "friend" territory! You snooze, you'll lose....are you ready to say goodbye to what might be the best thing you've had in a long time?

5. Romance?...Fat Chance!

You don't have to deliver a dozen fresh red roses everyday to provide a little romance in the relationship. Just saying "I love you" isn't enough. There comes a time when you have to show it. Get creative and make it special. Listen to her needs. This is something that you and her will remember for the rest of your lives.Make it special and make it memorable! When you are too old to do most of the things you can do now, don't you want be able to reminisce on moments that were priceless. Not ones filled with the routine activities of life. But the ones that you know were worth living with the girl you felt you couldn't live without....now that's love!

6. I'm Always Right. You're Always Wrong. So What Now?

When two people can't get along, someone always have to be right. Guys you don't have to be right to do the right thing. We make mistakes and sometimes we need to know that when we're wrong, you are willing to help our mistakes instead of criticize them. We can be pretty emotional when it comes to taking criticism from the one we love. And guys, when you are the ones who are wrong, be willing to admit it. Don't let your pride keep you from making up in the relationship because you're unwilling to accept guilt. We are able to forgive if you are willing to allow some change in your life. It's all about working together.

7. Your Ego Shines like Kryptonite!

When a guy knows he's got it together, he can be unbearable to be around. You suddenly find yourself in a relationship where you are doing all the work, the calling, caring, loving, etc. Guys stop using your looks, sex, and anything else you have to lure women to do what you want. At some point in your life you're going to realize this game you're playing is a living nightmare to the women you've lured in the game with you. And things have a way of coming back around, only it brings a double portion of what was put out. Be careful.

8. You Don't Understand!

Funny how women take on a mountain of emotional pressure and men sit back and seem to utter "you'll be alright". They so minimize our feelings. Guys, I know that you will never be able to truly know what a woman goes through but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't do everything you can to try an be as supportive and sympathetic to those needs and feelings. Being understanding is not an act, it's an attitude, and you're attitude should be one of complete assistance to the one you love.

9. Do You Really Want Me?

Some women feel as though they have to compete for their men's affections daily.The moment a guy pays more attention to another woman by staring at her in front of his woman, watching her booty as she walks by, and even overly admiring famous beauties in the media, it gets our insecurities mounted up and standing in line. Guys, you have to understand that one of the worst things for a woman is to know that she's made you her world while feeling like you've made her your pet. Something that just cute to be around and hang out with. Now fellas, you may not be the cause of her insecurities but you should not provoke them either. Women have emotions and our hormones are nuts sometimes.....There are some things you just don't do. Don't compare her to other women you've had. Don't use porn as a way substituting sex with her. Don't disrespect her by constantly staring at other women in her presence. It's considered a low blow and one that might just get your ass kicked to the curb.

10. Do I Always Have To Do Everything

Ever felt like your man was your child? It's not hard to feel that way. Most of us cook, clean, do the laundry, take care of household needs, make sure the bills are paid on time and take care of the kids. It can seem as though we do it all. If this is your life, men, you must step up and take some pressure off your lovely lady. She needs it. If not, she'll be extremely burnt out which would be the cause of many arguments even if those arguments that have entirely nothing to do with housework. Give her a break once in a while. Make a plan that once or twice a week, you'll be the one taking the responsibilities of the household all on your own. A less stressed woman equals a happy household. Some days wouldn't you just like to send him to the moon?

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