How does one determine if a man is only coming around for sexual favors? Can he tell you 10 things he likes and or admires most about you? Does he know what means a lot to you and what you dislike? Does he know your favorite drink, your ice cream, your most liked color, does he call you just because or has that all stopped? My guess is that the chase is over.....the thrill is gone and you are left with a lot of questions and wondering?!! I've been there. You need to smarten up to know if your man wants only sex. There are some signs that you cannot miss..... signs that will confirm to you his actual intentions, and hopefully they will assist you in determining if you are heading in the right direction or are you at that fork in the road and there is NO getting around it?
Does every meeting culminate in SEX?
Has every visit in the past ended in having sex? Does your guy continue to come by and every meeting culminates in sex. This indication should be as clear as crystal that this is his only intention of meeting you and there is nothing more to it. Or....is he like someone that I know who talks the talk, then back out and now you can barely get him to be sensual at all. Where is the romance, or did he sugar coat it?
Has every visit in the past ended in having sex? Does your guy continue to come by and every meeting culminates in sex. This indication should be as clear as crystal that this is his only intention of meeting you and there is nothing more to it. Or....is he like someone that I know who talks the talk, then back out and now you can barely get him to be sensual at all. Where is the romance, or did he sugar coat it?
Are his eyes fixated in an embarrassing way?
If the guy's eyes are fixated on you in an embarrassing manner on a particular part of your body and shows little interest on other things besides your physical form, then this guy is only out for sex. Gals, this guy truly has no sincere love or feelings for you. Perhaps you should just walk away?
If the guy's eyes are fixated on you in an embarrassing manner on a particular part of your body and shows little interest on other things besides your physical form, then this guy is only out for sex. Gals, this guy truly has no sincere love or feelings for you. Perhaps you should just walk away?
Has he been concerned with your needs
Has the guy been a selfish person when it came to sex with you? Did he think only of his satisfaction and finishing his side of the act or has be been concerned with your needs too. Has he taken you right to the end till you have been satisfied? Most guys love foreplay and can go long after we've screamed "uncle" and yet they are so unromantic right afterwards. Go figure? Why is this? Do you go to his place, or does he come to you? Is there a rule that says he can only be seducing and provocative behind closed doors? What about you....how do you feel after you have had great sex and then you feel like he is pushing you out the door?
Has the guy been a selfish person when it came to sex with you? Did he think only of his satisfaction and finishing his side of the act or has be been concerned with your needs too. Has he taken you right to the end till you have been satisfied? Most guys love foreplay and can go long after we've screamed "uncle" and yet they are so unromantic right afterwards. Go figure? Why is this? Do you go to his place, or does he come to you? Is there a rule that says he can only be seducing and provocative behind closed doors? What about you....how do you feel after you have had great sex and then you feel like he is pushing you out the door?
His Response? Are they genuine?
What about his comeback? Do you see him as a sincere guy who tries to show more concern and consideration and understanding towards you? Does he show an intention to see you happy, or does he fake these things only, with the intention of sex with you?
Study the way he reacts to you
It would be well worth it to study his reactions to you when he comes to meet you and refuse him sex. Would he stay or does he come up with a reason to cut the evening short? He may try to coax and convince you or arouse you to give in to him, but you have to be strong and not allow him to have sex with you. How does he react? He is either sexy and aroused by you or you get nothing at all.
It would be well worth it to study his reactions to you when he comes to meet you and refuse him sex. Would he stay or does he come up with a reason to cut the evening short? He may try to coax and convince you or arouse you to give in to him, but you have to be strong and not allow him to have sex with you. How does he react? He is either sexy and aroused by you or you get nothing at all.
False Hope & Empty Promises?
Does he come up with false hopes of having a relationship with you and then "poof" it disappears soon after you are intimate? Does he deliver sexy behavior? If so, when? When it's right for you, or for him? Is he being more considerate or not wanting sex too often? If you find him trying to cajole around you with these false promises then you know that he is using you for sex! No easier way to say it than that....don't fall for this ladies...you deserve a man who wants to talk on the phone, who actually cares like he likes you and doesn't stand so far away from you in public that you'd think you have the plague. Know what I'm talking about? Sound familiar? Do you sit around and wait for him? If you do, STOP right there! NO MORE is it about him. If he can't pick up the phone or tell you he misses you or ask you out in enough time for a date then it's time for you to start looking for someone who will.
Does he come up with false hopes of having a relationship with you and then "poof" it disappears soon after you are intimate? Does he deliver sexy behavior? If so, when? When it's right for you, or for him? Is he being more considerate or not wanting sex too often? If you find him trying to cajole around you with these false promises then you know that he is using you for sex! No easier way to say it than that....don't fall for this ladies...you deserve a man who wants to talk on the phone, who actually cares like he likes you and doesn't stand so far away from you in public that you'd think you have the plague. Know what I'm talking about? Sound familiar? Do you sit around and wait for him? If you do, STOP right there! NO MORE is it about him. If he can't pick up the phone or tell you he misses you or ask you out in enough time for a date then it's time for you to start looking for someone who will.
Is there passion in his eyes for you, does he kiss you like he really means it? If so, then the answer to the question is No, he doesn't only think about or want you for sex. If a lot of this sounds like your partner, now would be the time to give your relationship/friendship, what ever he calls it some serious thought!
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