Just Because it Glitters Doesn’t Mean It’s Gold
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies......Don’t be impressed by the unimpressive. Too many women sell themselves short by settling for a man with an attractive exterior. A man who is overly concerned with himself and his material things has no room to value you. This is a dynamic that has always baffled me. Just because a man is good- looking, wears a shiny new suit, sports some Now and Later gators, drives a shiny new car, and profiles a new Tag Heuer on his wrist does not mean he is a good man. As a matter of fact, that’s usually the joker who can’t rub two nickels together, but somehow he manages to lead everyone to believe that he's all that and a bag of chips!
What’s wrong with the guy in jeans and a T-shirt, driving a mini van, checking his Timex to see exactly when his check is going to hit the bank? You’re tripping over dollars to get to pennies. Never allow yourself to be impressed by a man’s depreciating assets (cars, clothes, expensive rental apartment). That’s just a reflection of his debt. If you’re going to be impressed with material things, at least be smart enough to start with his net worth. Watch out for men who spend money frivolously...they are the ones to be leery of ladies. Remember....it might look shiny and new today, but it might be your debt tomorrow. Pay Attention!!!!
Don’t ignore the red flags. Some women are notorious for turning a blind eye to the warning signs, even if they’re staring them right in the face. Instead of those flags just sitting there while you ignore them, let me wave a few of them for you. You'll be surprised when you hear all of these......bu not to worry, your man can;t have all of these terrible traits? Can he????
1. If your man is living in his mother’s house for more than a couple of months — I give a small grace period — RED FLAG. I can relate........
2. If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG. If his car payment is more than his rent, there is a big problem.....
3. If he overaccessorizes — RED FLAG.
4. If your man wears more than one ring per hand, more than one bracelet per wrist, and more than one necklace per neck — RED FLAG.
5. If he is always the one who’s overdressed for the occasion — RED FLAG.
6. If your man is constantly spending money on you without regard to price (i.e., clothes, trips, jewelry) and he can’t afford it — RED FLAG.
7. If your man constantly asks to “hold” some money or expect you to pay while on dates — RED FLAG.
8. If he approaches you with a flattering, yet rehearsed line — RED FLAG.
9. If he says he has a job but can’t articulate exactly what it is he does for a living— RED FLAG.
10. If he talks himself than more about he inquires about you — RED FLAG.
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