Why Do Men Want Skinny Woman?

Did you know that statistics state that women’s waist sizes have grown by six inches over the past 60 years? Do you wonder why? They say that it is because they don’t do as much housework as their forebears.  They also don’t have the benefit of modern household appliances, 1950s housewives used to burn up to 1,000 calories a day simply by doing the chores. However, today’s women have much more sedentary lifestyles, as many work full-time and spend most of the day sitting behind a desk.The extra elbow grease needed for cleaning, washing and sweeping in the 1950s meant that the average middle-aged woman had a 28-inch waist. Today, the average measurement is 34 inches. These days women are no size "0" or even a 2 or 4. We are not built in that shapely way that our mothers were and men just have to find a way to deal with it. I'm offended to hear how many men said that they wouldn't want to date a women over a size 4. Really? I'm sorry that would wipe out my entire circle of friends.

Women are not the same as years ago and for many reasons our bodies have certainly changed. We exercise less, we eat more, or we eat foods that have things in them that some 50+ years ago they didn't. Should we be punished for this? No. I am content being a size 8. Sure I would like to get back to my old size 6 but menopause kicked in last summer and my entire body changed. It's taken me a year to figure out what to do to fix it. A new survey has found that nearly half of men would dump a woman who gained too much weight. The poll, of 70,000 people across the United States showed that 48 per cent of men would not want to be with their partner if she became fat. By contrast just 20 per cent of women would stop seeing their man when faced with the situation. The poll found that over a third of men believed that women started to loose their looks at the age of 40, while a quarter believe that a woman is beyond her prime after 50. What does this mean to us gals over a size 4? It means think twice before you let that deluxe chocolate chip cookie enter your mouth!

 Another well known fact is that men want to date women who are fun and attractive. Attraction, as you well know, is a chemical kind of thing and it just happens, so good luck avoiding it when it does. And fun, frankly, is an attitude, an ever vigilant determination to find the element of play in any given situation  certainly something you could cultivate, but not a physical attribute. Best of all, if you and a guy are having fun together, chances are the attraction thing is happening too.

Ever wonder why the best looking guys out there always seem to date the skinny women ?
What makes guys jump to attention and break their necks when a skinny woman walks into the room? Here are just a few reasons for you take into consideration. This post is not intended to make anyone feel bad, but rather shed some light on some of the dumb-ass reasons as to why
most guys are only really attracted to skinny women. Listen, this article doesn’t apply to all guys. There are plenty of guys out there that find “not so skinny” girls perfectly attractive. It’s just harder to find them because most men that I know are all about image. So what contributes to this you wonder?

1. Society
Take a look at any magazine cover or t.v. show and you will see nothing but size 4 and under women.
Hollywood and the media perpetuate skinny women as being “hot”. Back in the mid-1900′s, this was not the case. Women that were “pleasantly plump” (obese) were seen as beautiful because their size suggested that they would be good child bearers and mothers. Skinny women back in those days were looked upon as poor and malnourished.Today they are what makes so many women sick, especially young girls because society has taught us that it's all about skinny and having no body fat.

2. Porn
A good portion of the guys out there watch insane amounts of porn, sad but true. Almost all of these porn models have perfect asses, skinny legs and arms and big breasts. To a guy, porn is like a sacrament. It is how most guys learn about sex and what a girl looks like with her clothes off. I would go as far as saying that porn for most guys is like having a second girlfriend. She doesn’t care how hung or buff you are, wrinkled, whiskey dick, or whatever else you may call it...she is always there whenever you need her and in those times when a real woman is hard to find…..She will be only a few mouse-clicks and a credit card away.

3. Sex
This will certain upset many of you woman as it  surely upset the hell out of me.....But did you know that guys don’t like to see arm fat and belly fat and insane amounts of leg fat on a girl they are having sex with. Most guys would say that this is a complete turn-off. When a guy sees a girl
in real life, he sometimes pictures what she would look like having sex with him.Most of these men would pass on a women with body fat.

4. Bragging rights with the guys...all men feel the need to do it.
Most guys like to show off their skinny trophy girlfriends to their friends and the public in general. Of course they do, because even if they are old, wrinkled and ugly as shit it takes the focus off of them and all their friends see is a bombshell on the arms of their buddy. It gives them a sense of pride and ownership of such a “valuable asset” and some might even go as far as to revel in the fact that they are making other men jealous.These men in particular would never date a women less than perfect. I guess that the look out-weighs the brains behind the body. So beauty is all they seek? They better hope that she doesn't open her mouth then. Shame on you guys...

5. Very low self esteem
This one goes hand in hand with the #4 reason. Guys that tend to like to show off their girlfriends usually have very low self esteem, so they need a beautiful skinny woman to raise their spirits and make them not only look good but feel good too. By having other guys (including their friends) look at their girlfriend and in some cases act jealous, it reaffirms their self worth on a daily basis. Not often am I left with no words to say but this time I am at a true loss for words...for you men who think that only skinny women are beautiful, I say to you... that's pathetic.

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Do You and Your Mate Fight?

For as long as I can remember, fighting with your spouse/partner/lover/etc was nothing more than a small argument that started out as nothing (like he didn't take the trash out, or she didn't wash the dishes earlier and now she used all the hot water and he just took an icy cold shower.) It happens, little things set us off and make us want to take off our gloves and box this one out to see who's right and who is so so wrong!

Ask yourself this....Do the differences between men and women contribute to the levels of fighting in relationships? They surely do. Scientists assert that men and women have different ways of dealing with arguments. Men are more left-brained and logical whilst women are more right-brained and more in touch with their emotions.

In earlier days when men went out to hunt animals, they had to switch off their emotions such as fear, in order to achieve their aim of capturing their prey. Women, on the other hand have always tended to be the nurturers and child-rearers and thus tend to have developed a richer emotional experience through their caring responsibilities. Although these differences apply less these days as many men have become more feminine and many women more masculine, there still seem to be patterns that are biologically programmed which affect the way that you act in your communication, both generally and with the opposite sex. It seems that, as the identities of the genders have merged, it has created a generation of angry men and women and much confusion about expectations and gender roles. When you read this, you may see yourself as fitting in more with the masculine patterns if you are a woman or the feminine patterns if you are a man. This is perfectly OK - in order to change your patterns you first need to become aware of what they are and how they are not serving you.If they are not serving you well, it's time to reevaluate and take charge making the necessary changes!

How Relationship Fighting Starts

Let's look at how arguments and fights normally begin in relationships. Generally something is said or done which may be relatively minor. It triggers feelings in one partner of being unimportant, taken for granted, used, or giving more than they are getting back. However, this may just be a perception and may not be accurate. It is easy to forget about your partner's good points and all the things that they do for you when your anger is sparked habitually. My grandmother always used to say that communication is "KEY!" Without your relationship will not survive!

So, basically, one partner is unhappy because the other has said or done something which is not in accordance with their wishes. One way or another they let the other know. If communication patterns are poor, this generally doesn't go down too well. If resentment has been building up over this or other issues in either of the partners, this can cause a backlash which is far worse than the perceived original "crime".  I've got an idea? Take off the gloves and fix this mess before it spins out of control!

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Where to Find the Right Woman for YOU!

In today's busy day and age, we don't have the patience, the time, nor are there enough hours in the day to search out and find the man or woman of our dreams. So what's a guy to do? Think like a woman and get smart...ask yourself where would a woman go? Once you figure that out, you'll in the clear and on your way!  There are a lot of great women out there just waiting to meet the man of their dreams but finding these available women can take a little creativity on your part!

  Sure there are plenty of single women at bars and nightclubs but the competition is also tough with many men also trying to meet women and women are usually on guard at these locations so getting through their defenses can be difficult. Instead of battling other men for a woman’s affection at a bar, try meeting women in new locations. My grandmother used to say that relationships won't last when you meet in a bar...this may not be true, in fact some people tell me that they did meet in a bar, but do they go long term? An old friend of mine met her husband in a bar and had she not gone out that one night with the girls, the love of her life would never have found her, you see, often, fate does step in,

 

Specifically locations that sport a high female to male ration will enhance your chances of meeting new women, and in my personal opinion, there are a variety of places other than bars and clubs to meet great people. While bars and nightclubs are certainly full of available women the likelihood of meeting a woman at these locations is slim to none. Although many women frequent nightclubs and bars in the hopes of meeting a man, these are also locations where women feel vulnerable and are likely to have their defenses up making them unapproachable. Try frequenting other locations and you may have an easier time meeting available women with interests similar to your own.

A woman’s clothing store is a great place to meet new women. Not only is this location filled with women but it is also almost completely devoid of other men. Many men avoid a woman’s clothing store like the plague so if you are brave enough to venture inside you will have an assortment of women to choose from. You can start a conversation by asking a woman for advice for a gift for your sister or by complimenting her on her purchases. That;s right boys, find a way to strike up that ole' conversation!

The gym can also be another great place to meet new women. While you may already spend hours a day pumping iron in the weight room try spending some time on a cardio machine or drop in on an aerobics or yoga class. These activities are typically dominated by women so engaging in these activities increases your chance of meeting women while at the gym. Meeting a women here will also show you that you are about to meet a woman who most likely takes great pride in her body as well as her appearance.

The Internet is always an option for meeting women. You can try placing a personals ad online or join a dating service to read profiles of available men. Rule #1; BE HONEST! No photos that are 10 years old, and no lies! There are so many personals sites available that it would almost be impossible not to find a suitable match. Just be sure to exercise caution and not give out your contact information or agree to meet anyone in a secluded location.

Tanning spas or salons can be great places to meet new women. Again, these locations aren’t frequented by men so you are most likely to be one of the only men present. If you are attracted to women who put a lot of effort into their appearance the salon is definitely the place to go. Here you will find women who are committed to their appearance and who will appreciate you for your ability to understand that a manicure is just as important to men as it is to women.

Sporting events can also be a great place to meet women who either share your love of sports or are in search of men themselves. You may attend a baseball game and wind up meeting a woman who shares your love of sports or you may at least meet a woman who is trying to meet a man. Sporting events are typically well attended by men so it’s possible that the women you meet at a sporting event are trying to put the odds in their favor and use this opportunity to meet men.

Another great place to meet new women is the theater. Women are typically drawn to the arts and if you begin attending local theater productions you may find the opportunity to meet a variety of new women. Not many men take in plays or operas on their own so doing so will help you to stand out from the crowd and single women are more likely to notice you..and after a while, the opera and plays will be something that you can both do together!

Finally a grocery store, yup, you heard me....a grocery store is a great place to meet new women. Women make up the larger percentage of grocery shoppers so as one of only few men the odds will be in your favor. This is sooo true. Who would have ever thought this? Find a cute man and ram his cart in the frozen food isle. Also, women typically are experienced shoppers and you can take this opportunity to ask for their assistance in picking out produce or choosing a pasta sauce. Women will be flattered by you asking their advice and may be open to inviting you to their place for a home cooked meal.

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Holiday Travel- Beware of the Tourist Traps that Bleed You Dry!

Trips to Embrace with your Family and Loved Ones this Holiday Season!

1. EuropeFor Americans these days, traveling to Europe is not quite the jarring experience it once was -- most Europeans speak at least a little English, consume copious amounts of American entertainment and are extremely accustomed to U.S. tourists. Christmas, however, remains a totally different deal. While the U.S. entertainment industry can overwhelm the movie theaters and radio waves, it is a lot harder to infiltrate centuries of religious, family and holiday tradition that rule during this time of year.

For example, living nativity scenes pop up all over Tuscany and in Portugal, while Christmas markets can be found throughout Germany, Austria and Switzerland. Back in Italy, the seven-fish Christmas Eve dinner still rules, while Germans drink traditional mulled wine. And it was the Germans who came up with both the Advent wreath and the Christmas tree (the former in the 19th century and the latter in the 16th century). Not to be outdone, the Dutch lay claim to Santa Claus himself.


2. Hawaii
If Europe is too ambitious for you during your holiday downtime, Hawaii might be a better fit. Sun and sand sub in for cold and snow without sacrificing the Mele Kalikimaka spirit of the holidays. Oahu in particular puts on a blow-out Christmas spread, with holiday decorations everywhere you look, and more than a dozen annual Christmas parades. There are also major surfing contests until the last few days before Christmas, so you can get into the spirit of the islands as well as the holidays.

Might I  recommend setting up house outside of the major tourist areas, however, as Hawaii attracts visitors from all over the world, and can be overrun with people in a way that rivals only Orlando at this time of year. The Big Island, Kauai, Maui away from the west coast, and the interior sections of most islands are very promising in this regard.


3. Midtown New York City
I love, love love NYC BUT...beware, they are quite expensive to visit especially during the holidays! So much to see and so picturesque! It's everything you remember seeing from the eventful movies in the big apple that take place...remember "Home Alone?" That made me want to take my family there,...so I did. From the tree and skating rink at Rockefeller Center (not to mention the LEGO store) to the horse carriages and FAO Schwartz store (and underground Apple store for the tech geeks) at 59th and Fifth, the upper Midtown neighborhood of New York between Rockefeller Center and southeastern Central Park may be the most Christmas-y dozen blocks in the world, bar none. Yes, it is crowded, and undeniably commercial, but you don't have to go inside amidst all the crowds to check out the life-size diorama window displays. Or you can stop in at St. Patrick's Cathedral at 51st and Fifth for a spiritual or architectural  fix.

The Times Square area holds its own as well, with a giant Toys R Us store, a three-story M&Ms store, a Disney store and, of course, the New Year's countdown.

When it comes to New Year's in New York, here is an insider tip: for most of the night, the folks who actually attend the New Year celebration largely get cordoned into small pens, which keeps the streets somewhat open. This allows you to stroll through the famous and nutty scene without committing to a full night out in the cold waiting for the stroke of midnight, which of course has already happened in other parts of the world. Don't try this too close to midnight, though; at some point, all bets are off when it comes to Times Square.

4. Casino Towns (But See Below for a Crucial Caveat)
Casino towns pull out all the stops on the holidays -- they want to get you out of the comfort of your home into their hotels and attractions -- and also pull the rug out from under their prices to do it. For example, Christmas is the most affordable day of the year at most Las Vegas restaurants, and many "50 percent off" holiday lunch specials last the whole season. In Atlantic City, many shows are heavily discounted, and you can get almost ridiculous deals on hotel rooms.


5. Your Childhood Home Town
Home towns do not necessarily bring back the fondest memories for everyone, but you might be surprised what spending a little bit of the holiday season in your childhood home town can feel like, even if it is not exciting, interesting or your real home at all anymore. My strong recommendation: Get outside early in the day, on foot, as you did when you were a little kid out of school and enjoying new toys and neighborhood friends. The air, the light, the lack of activity except your own, all can capture something that has become an inexorable part of your being, whether you know it or not. If the holidays often bring on bouts of (sometimes unwelcome) nostalgia, this experience can be more tactile, elemental and sometimes deeply resonant than mere memories. There are parts of ourselves that took shape in early childhood that we may never know or understand, but this may give you just get a small glimpse of the kid you were in the adult you've become.


TRIPS TO AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE!



1. Famous Big-City Luxury Hotels
Most big-city luxury hotels are not in a charitable mood when it comes to the holidays, as they know that a romantic luxury holiday for you translates into maximum income for them. Don't think so? How about a room at the Plaza in New York City, across the street from FAO Schwartz as well as the main gathering spot for horse carriages, which will cost you $895 per night from December 23 - 26. On New Year's weekend, it is $1,195 per night. The Plaza is expensive to start with, and holiday markups are nearly 100 percent.

While you won't find these astronomical prices at most hotels, the holiday season can be one of the hardest and most expensive times to book at a "name" hotel, worldwide really. My suggestion: Book at a less famous hotel in the same neighborhood, where you will get all the benefits of a cool location at a fraction of the price. For example, the new Jewel Hotel at Rockefeller Center costs $409/night for the Christmas dates above.

2. Casinos Proper
As noted above, casino towns pull out all the stops on the holidays -- but the casinos themselves are even more godforsaken and soul-crushing than usual. I grew up and had my first jobs in a casino town, and while the double-time pay was great on Thanksgiving and Christmas, it was almost not worth the money to experience the depths of human despair and loneliness on display. Casino towns have as much non-gambling entertainment as any major city, and you'll feel a lot more festive at a holiday show than you will at a slot machine.


3. Major Theme Parks in Warm Climates
The major theme parks such as Disney World are all but overrun during the holidays, beginning especially the day after Christmas, when families tear open their presents and then bolt from their homes to find a place to run out the rest of the kids' winter vacation. Save perhaps for spring break, the parks are never more crowded, lines are never longer, and your experience rarely more likely to be intense and even nerve-wracking. And that's not to mention flying into and out of the neighboring airports, which is an experience in itself.

That said, if this is your only family vacation and you really want to take the family to Disney, look into on-site hotel packages that offer extended theme park hours exclusively for guests. Many of the theme parks embrace the holidays full strength, with characters and staff dressed up in holiday gear, attractions decked out with wreaths and lights, and Santa showing up every few hours on a strict schedule.

4. Ski Resorts
In my experience, no crowd is quite so excruciating as a crowd at a ski resort. With beginners snowplowing down hills as experts plummet past, long lines in very cold temperatures, everyone trying to cram in as many runs as possible, and probably even some nipping at flasks on the lifts, at times it even feels borderline dangerous.

A lot of folks go nonetheless, and most ski resorts do all they can to make sure your white Christmas really feels like a holiday, so it's not all bad news.

Does your Mate,Lover,Partner,Spouse... Have a Wandering Eye?

How many times have you been out and about with someone you just began to date, your boyfriend, lover or spouse and you caught their eyes roaming on others they appeared to be attracted to in some way? Beside wanting to give them a fat lip or an ear full of what was on your mind at that very moment, take a step back and ponder this if you will. Is there such thing as looking “too much”? Is it disrespectful to you and the relationship? If you are seeking my opinion I would say YES it is totally disrespectful. My husband did it all the time and I called him on it. He blamed me for insecurities. What? I was not insecure nor was I ever with who "I" am, however, they say that people who do this do it for attention because they lack it. I say that there is NO excuse for this and it truly belittles the man/woman you are with when this occurs. Why would you do this?

Listen, it may not appear threatening early in the attraction, when everything seems innocent. Remember, though, that attractions grow quickly and can destroy your marriage.First off... Even if your relationship/marriage manages to survive, at the very least the lurking will weaken the foundation of your trust and rob your spouse/partner of your full captivation.Your second line of defense is to declare,repeat after me.. "I have no right to think these things." State this to yourself clearly, decisively, and often. You don’t even know this woman; who are you to be attracted to her? The third line of defense is to heighten your alert. What do you normally do when you feel threatened? You take off your jacket and breathe deeply. You ready yourself for what’s coming. Knock it off and keep your eyes where they should be, on your mate, lover, partner, spouse!

While finding other people attractive is normal and part of human nature, there is a way to go about it and not go about it.  When a person is on his or her own, he or she can feel more free about looking at someone else, without worrying about anyone feeling hurt by it. When one is with their partner however, it would be best to try and be discreet about checking someone else out. A quick glance is harmless, but if a partner is checking someone out in a way that is in the form of staring, exchanging smiles or undressing them with his or her eyes, it then become disrespectful their partner and the relationship. This can make their partner feel hurt, upset, disrespected and even unattractive- which can unnecessarily lower their self-esteem.

When a Wandering Eye becomes a real problem…

Checking other people out is usually harmless if done casually every now and then. It can become a real problem when it is done constantly though. If your partner is more occupied checking other people out rather than focusing on his or her time with you and  admiring you, then it could be a sign that your partner is losing interest in the relationship and you should start paying attention to other signs and behaviors that can help you figure out what is really going on.


What you should do about it…
If you have a partner with a wandering eye and are tired of it, then it is time for communication! There is no shame in letting your partner know that you feel hurt and upset by his or her behavior. After all, a relationship is about being open and honest with each other and your partner should care about your feelings and want to make you happy. This is not about you being immaturely jealous either- it is about you claiming the respect you feel you deserve from your partner (the same kind of respect you partner would expect from you). So let your partner know that his or her constant wandering eye is upsetting you and makes you feel disrespected and you are not okay with it. If your partner truly cares, then he or she will make a real effort to stop checking other’s out in front of you, or at least keep it under real control so you do not feel so disrespected. If the wandering eye continues after you pour your heart out about it, then your partner has shown you how important your feelings are to him or her and you should then decide if you wish to continue putting up with it or not. I think we all have a little flirt in us...however, flirting to be silly and actually flirting while with your partner is wrong, not to mention quite disrespectful. Shame on you! Your eyes should be on one person....the one you're with.

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Holiday Shopping and the TRUE Meaning of Christmas

For so many of us, the holidays are about giving, family and love. Holiday shopping is that time when we make purchases for our loved ones, friends, coworkers to show them our appreciation for all that they do. There are those who will argue with you and tell you that we've forgotten what Christmas is all about. Really? Yes, some of us certainly have. I suppose that in a way, that statement is and or can be true.

When I grew up it was all about family. Waking up on Christmas morning to a room filled with gifts wrapped by Santa. We were amazed when all that we asked for was under the tree. As kids, we had no idea how much time energy and cash was put into making memories, or what our parents had to do to get these gifts, nonetheless what it cost them. So many things we took for granted... Sure we did, we were kids. How many of you did it too? What I never realized though until I became a parent was the love that went into everything that led up to Christmas morning. Yes sure it was the birth of Christ and that is what is celebrated. We see it all wrong today because stores and money and obsession took over....but really, if you were raised in a household like I was where we were taught at a young age what the true meaning of Christmas really was...you would agree that love, kindness and compassion are and do still exist in many many households. I was so very fortunate to have a loving family that did everything in their power to make our life good. If sharing and caring was only for Christmas Day as some say it is, then it would have been Christmas everyday at our house.

My parents took us to church. I was raised Catholic and we attended mass weekly. I think that a lot of people can walk through the doors of a church and say that they went on Saturday, or Sunday...but did they get anything out of it or were they there to put in an appearance? Christmas is a time of year where we celebrate and we give. This holiday season, if you can afford to give to those who cannot...please do so. It will make you feel so good. There are adults and children that don't have gifts to open on Christmas morning for a lot of reasons. I was a very fortunate child and blessed every holiday. Some people are not so lucky.

While you are out and about this holiday season, remember what Christmas is truly all about and donate your time or money to a charity that needs your help. Give generously to those in need. When my kids were younger and after my divorce I decided that they were going to learn what it was to truly give. Each year I took 2 gifts that they really wanted away from them and asked them to use the money that those gifts would have cost to select and shop for a child or family that was without.

At first my kids hated the fact that they had to give something up. Yes we spoil our kids and do too much for them sometimes...BUT my kids learned a very valuable lesson which was that love comes in a variety of shapes and sizes. Until you see what so many people have so little of, you won't or can't possibly understand what I am saying here. We do take things for granted...but what about that family whose parent lost his/her job and they cannot afford a tree let alone gifts? Who is going to tell their kids that Santa skipped their house? Giving out of love is what kids need today.

Call your local churches and shelters and ask "HOW CAN I MAKE A DIFFERENCE?" You want to feel like a good person? Try this and I guarantee you...you'll never let a family go hungry again at the holidays. My children learned because they saw the joy in other kids eyes when we dropped Christmas trees off in the inner city to those who couldn't afford one. My kids learned that they didn't need these material things at all. They learned to shop for kids whose lists consisted of tooth brushes and food. One year my daughter chose a girls name who was 9 years old and what did she want for Christmas? A blanket to keep her and her little sister warm at night. She didn't ask for toys....but warmth.

Yes, while your spoiled kids, like mine were, sat at home playing the X Box or whatever else was popular asking for the latest games or toys, these kids wanted to stay warm and have food to eat. Teach your kids regardless of their age to do what I did. I can assure you that they will grow to teach others what they learned. It will also teach them great values and morals of life and love.

 For the last several years, my daughter and son have continued to shop for less fortunate kids and families. My son who works in retail bought gifts of clothes for those who had very little. Coats, gloves, scarves, slippers, whatever was on his list he purchased because people requested these items. My daughter works for a large oil company and started a committee at the office to collect for families who needed assistance. Not only did she do this but she started a team to shop for children with cancer that were in the hospitals. They bought thousands of dollars worth of gifts for families who spent their holiday in the hospital with their children who probably wouldn't be around next Christmas because these kids were so ill. Tell me now...why are we all so selfish? If everyone would pitch in and do what I raised my kids to do as a single mother...this world would be a much better place. In retrospect, it's not at all about what you have, it's about what you can give. Some of us celebrate the holidays differently according to religion. We should all respect that. Giving is something that we can all do regardless of religion, so giddy up!

I challenge all of you to do something for those less fortunate than you and I. Give the gift of love by giving back to those around you who can't give themselves. Donate to a charity, feed the homeless for the holiday, buy someone a Christmas tree and decorations, make a family dinner, give a child something special to open on Christmas morning. Do these things out of love. I believe in Karma. There was one time when I couldn't afford a lot but even then I taught my kids to share what we did have. When you crawl into your nice warm bed tonight, remember the little girl that my daughter bought for who only asked for a blanket for Christmas.

BTW- when my daughter read that, she balled like a baby. What did she do? She went to Target and bought one of every color blanket for this family so they would never be cold again. You will feel so good about what you did, and if you don't I feel sorry for you, because love isn't a Mercedes Benz with a red ribbon in the driveway, or a diamond necklace, or a bigger house,or the latest video games....love is giving to those unconditionally without cause. I challenge you this holiday season to go without something that you really want to give to those who "really need!" You want to do something with your money...share it this holiday season. Remember, Christmas is love, and peace on earth.

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I love How You Love Me....

What is true love? True love is something that everyone wants to feel, but it is a fact that only a little part of the people has the luck to meet her. What is actually the true love? That is the most beautiful thing that can happen to someone, because that is one shared feeling. When you meet someone and fall in love with him that is not the true love still. If this person shares your feelings that still is not the true love. Oh YES.... this is the first step to that amazing feeling. True love is something more then falling in love.

When you are ‘in love’ you will feel a strong bond between you and the other person. You will always be on the lookout for this person. You will be happy whenever the person you are in love which acknowledges you. This acknowledgement could be a mere look, a polite nod, etc. The feeling of being in love is one of the most beautiful of them all. You will find that everything around you is bright, sunny, optimistic, happy, etc. Being in love is a unique experience all human being should undergo. The experience can teach us reach new heights in maintaining and nurturing relationship.

I think that it is difficult to conceal love from others especially when the person you love is around you. People who know you well will immediately notice the difference in your attitude. When you are ‘in love’ there is no hiding your feelings as much you may try. You will end up expressing love one way or the other.

She is at the first place trust, because without him every relationship is fated and can’t survive a long time. When you have trust in your partner you are anxiety-free. That must be shared because when the one person in the relationship believes in the other, but the other don’t do this, this leads to problems and probably to broke up. The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner, you must be his friend.

Your partner must be the man from who you can ask for advice and who you can tell your secrets to, because he will not say to no one else this things, he wouldn’t be betrayed you. It is a true love when you can talk about everything with the person who you are in love with. Exactly the talking is the most important thing for the true love, because when the partners talk, they can find a decision to every problem, which they have.

One big part of the couples breaking up, because they can’t or don’t want to talk. When the love is a true love, she can survive everything. Every problem is a test for the feelings and strength of one relationship. The true love is help. When you really love someone you are ready to help him right away and to do everything for him. Yes, of course this must be shared. The true love is care, because when you are in love with someone you make everything that your partner can feel fine and loved.

When the love is a true love this fact automatically eliminates the egoism, because now you are not alone and you must thing about the wishes, which have the person with who you are. When you love someone you want to make him happy. True love means support too. The feeling when you know that by you stands someone who loves you and every time will support you, is really great. He/She knows exactly how to love you.

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Mistakes to Avoid when Buying a New Car

For most people, a car is a necessity, unless you are my son and you go everywhere by foot. He lives in NYC and takes the subway everywhere. No insurance, no gas, no car payments...he is in seventh heaven. He loves walking so for this, and for him the alternative works. For those of us who have to drive, we often depend on our vehicles to get us to and from work every day, transport our kids to events, and even for pleasure. Because they are such an important aspect of your life, you want a vehicle that is reliable, comfortable, and maybe even a bit stylish. The vehicle choices are almost endless, so finding the right combination of wants and needs with an affordable price tag can be challenging. I've done some serious research;

Here are the biggest mistakes you should avoid when purchasing your next vehicle:


Thinking in terms of monthly payment. Not very many people walk into a car dealership and plan on writing a check or paying cash for their vehicle, and the salespeople know this. That is why the negotiation almost always revolves around how much you can afford to pay for the car each month. This is the easiest way to spend too much on your next vehicle.

When negotiating a price, the dealer can do a number of things to make almost any vehicle fit your budget. They can do this by adjusting interest the interest rate, offer you a longer term on the loan, or restructure the financing in a way that creates a payment that fits in your budget. It may not seem like a big deal, but even a few extra percentage points or an additional year on the loan can add thousands of dollars to the total cost of the vehicle.

Buying new versus used. Is that really the smartest thing to do? I say, NO. A vehicle is not an investment. Vehicles depreciate in value quickly, so when you buy a new vehicle, you can expect it to continuously decrease in value. In fact, a new car typically decreases in value by 25%-40% in the first two years. The best thing you can do is to let someone else take the initial 40% hit and buy a slightly used vehicle that is a year or two old.

Years ago, there was a good reason to buy new, and that was for the warranty. Today, most vehicles have longer warranties that can still be in effect even if you buy a car that is a few years old. In addition, you can often opt to purchase an extended warranty which is typically far cheaper than the value the car lost in the first year or two.

Choosing the wrong vehicle. Are you are single person who needs a vehicle just to get you to and from work every day? Then you probably don’t need that $45,000 SUV that seats eight and can tow 5,000 pounds. You want a vehicle that meets your specific needs. Sure, there are a lot of cars and trucks out there that will turn heads, but keep in mind that this will come at a premium.

Not taking into consideration other costs. The actual cost of the vehicle is important, but what is often overlooked are all of the hidden long-term maintenance and insurance costs that go along with a vehicle. Keep in mind that car insurance premiums typically increase with the value of a vehicle, so buying a more expensive vehicle will increase your annual insurance costs. This can amount to hundreds, if not a thousand dollars or more per year.

In addition to insurance, you have to take into account all of the maintenance costs. Vehicles need oil changes, new brakes, air filters, tires, and much more. Luxury or performance models are generally going to require higher end replacement parts that can cost much more than their standard counterpart.
Finally, you need to consider gas consumption. The average person will drive between 10,000 and 15,000 miles per year. A vehicle that gets an average of 30 miles per gallon with today’s gas prices, you can expect to spend between $1,000 and $1,500 per year on gas alone. Now, consider a vehicle that only gets about 15 miles per gallon. Now you’re spending $2,000 and $3,000 each year.When you think about it, by the time you factor in gas, oil changes, insurance and regular maintenance, you can expect to spend $3,000 to $5,000 in addition to your monthly car payment each year! Did you think about that? Most people don't.


Put $0 down. Yes, you heard me $0 down! There are a lot of incentives when it comes to buying a car, and you can often put yourself in a brand new vehicle of your choice with no money down. Sounds great, right? Not so fast. Remember, vehicles depreciate rapidly, so if you finance the full purchase price, you often find yourself upside down on the loan immediately. Don't let that intimidate you, because as soon as you drive your shiny new car off the lost you just got screwed regardless whether you put thousands of dollars down or nothing at all.

Being upside down simply means that you owe more than the car is worth. Welcome to reality. Remember, there are taxes and other fees that go into a new car purchase, and they are typically rolled into the loan if you don’t put anything down. That means as soon as you drive it off the lot, you owe more money to the bank or dealership than the vehicle is actually worth.Though most might argue that this is a very bad idea, think about it for a minute... if you intend on selling or trading the car in before the loan is paid off. If after three years you need to get a new vehicle and you owe $10,000 while the car is only worth $8,000, you will have to either pay $2,000 out of your pocket, or finance that into your new loan. So what do you do?

Roll it over, I do,...is it really that big of a deal considering most people have credit cards with balances even as small as $2000 but if you only pay the minimum monthly payment on that you'll be paying for that card forever and the fees and payment in the end will do the same thing...keep rolling over into the next year increasing and getting higher and higher. It may feel good to walk out of the dealership with a brand new car without having to fork over a dime up front, but most say it will cost you. Newsflash, life isn't cheap. We all pay in some form. Having a baby costs you, getting a new heart costs you, burying your family member costs you...is it really that big of a deal if what gets us safely to work, or school, or church costs a little more?

I say save your money and let it sit in the bank or under your mattress in case you DO have an emergency and need fast cash...you lose it as soon as you hand it to the car dealer anyway. You might as well keep it safe and secure for yourself. Just as I sell lingerie to the public as the owner of Simply Delicious Lingerie, I want my customers to have the best deals, and cheapest costs. I do the majority of purchasing in my household as well. The bottom line is that we are all looking for savings whether it be on food, bras and panties, houses, vacations, or automobiles. My advice, and I'm not an expert here is....shop around for the best deal before doing something on impulse.