You're My Obsession

Let's be honest.....How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it? Do you imagine if you had that one particular piece on..."would it satisfy my man?" "would it turn him on?" The answer is....YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal. When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so....it's time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you're reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there's no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered!

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let's try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with.....1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3)  it totally drives a man crazy.

The Ultimate...Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh....ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes...When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what's under her attire that's got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5 year old trying to wear the right mix, use your "Garanimal" instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day....and the men adore it.  

Dressing Down...? Too Sexy

 Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what's going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly....take it off nice and slow....allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

Why are Guys all "Gung Ho" on Lingerie?

Some guys don't see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman's body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light...he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after...Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,...but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They'll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties.....

It's hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really....if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie.....Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don't you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren't bragging that the sex was good, no no no.....they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be "not so obvious" she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that....kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are readiing.... this it means, dress the part...be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it's all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn't afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you'll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you're invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety....this is a one man showing, just for you,...so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we've got a long way to go and you ain't seen nothing yet!

Let's Play Dress Up.....Who do "you" want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play "doctor and nurse," perhaps you are his housekeeper "french maid?" What about the "naughty school girl" or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the "corrections officer" is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn't have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie....with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him.....you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie...we sell the handcuffs too!

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Things That Make Him Turn His Head

What's sexy without being sleazy? How far does one go to look hot to trot, but not enough to make those around you laugh behind your back with ridicule. Keep it simple, and extraordinary. Keep the "wow" factor alive and keep him coming back for more! Adding a few unexpected touches and glamorous essentials will certainly will help do the trick. It's about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin. Sexy looks work for any age or budget. Here's how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty. 

 

1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way that wull say "WOW!"

It doesn't have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man's white shirt (slightly over sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in.) Quite the turn on to men, and it makes your curves whatever they man be look sexy and appealing.

2. Tease him, but just a little....

No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive. Tease him with a little...not a lot. Give him something to make his mouth water.

3. Add a head piece

Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. ...just not one like the princesses wore at the big royal wedding a few months ago that grabbed so much national attention. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes, for example; the fedora, the beret... to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with soft on the shoulders

Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look,...and quite the sexy eye-catcher! Something light and sensual.

5. Make it shine

Black may be super sexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you're going for vavoom. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine. You'll stand out, but in a sassy way!

6. Adopt a simple look 

The pencil style  is a classic example of a dress with an allure all of it's own, form fitting, but not too tight, shows your curves and turns heads.

7. Wear shades

Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes. My eyes are important to me and yours should be too. I don't leave home without my Pradas, Diors or Choos!

8. Make a grand ole' exit

 Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects. Nothing says "see you later" better than that vivid image that will be stuck in is head when you walk away....so make it sexy, stunning and mind jolting!

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics

Forget everything you've ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Yeah they look hot, but cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suede's are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other's touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. How about RED?

Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; oranges for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. Pucker up gals! Red is hot and sexy!

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5 Mistakes We Make with Men

Here is some good solid advice; No, I'm not at all an expert by any stretch, but I have walked to road of love and romance before and this is what I discovered: Lets take a look at reality here for a moment, shall we? Many women don't have any luck with guys. They try everything but they're still alone. Are we trying too hard? Sound familiar? Then they start to blame the man, "He's a jerk,".... "He's your typical guy",.... "His ego is too big"....."He's not good enough for me", and the best....and my personal favorite....."He just thinks that he's ALL THAT".... In reality most of the problems with their relationship have been because of the mistakes they make with men. If you are one of those women who don't ever seem to get a guy or, if you do, you can't keep him for very long, you might want to take 10 minutes and read on to discover the mistakes you've been making in the past. Let's try to correct this so that we can move forward with a healty relationship.

STOP Paying So Much Attention - They feed off of this gals...."egos" they have BIG ONES!!! Men love attention and they love getting attention from women. The secret of giving attention to a man though is to give him a lot of attention at first, and then stop. Once the attention is withdrawn, the guy will do anything he can to make sure he gets the attention back (especially because men like a challenge). They love the chase, but let them catch you too soon and say good bye to this guy! Think about it...if you keep giving him all the attention, he has nothing to work for and he'll very soon tire of you and move on to another girl that's not quite so easy.

DO NOT Attempt To Call Him - I was raised to let the boy call you....doesn't matter if your 12 or 50...

I don't care what women say about it being "the modern age" and how calling a guy is fine. It's not...NO WAY, NO HOW! Men don't really like to be called that much, and especially not the number of times most women call. NO TEXT MESSAGES repeatedly either. Don't make it easy on them,....watching them work for it is half the fun! besides, most men like to be the one who does the calling, so let him. If you've got something urgent to tell him - wait. Eventually he'll call you (and if you don't call him, he'll call you sooner rather than later) and you can tell him then. Unless it's a life-threatening situation most things we need to talk to men about are really not that important, even though we tell ourselves they are. So don't call him - just you hang on, and wait. He'll appreciate you more because he has to work for you. Don't make the mistake most women make when he calls and asks "Why don't you call me?" Seriously....ladies we're smarter than that...They take it as an invitation and they call, and then the guy is in control. The best answer to the question "Why don't you call me?". "I'm sorry, I've been really busy" and then continue on with not calling him.

Don't Shower Him With Gifts - I learned a long time ago never to buy a guy things. Little gifts that we think are cute mean very little to a guy. Little gifts, though, do tell him that you like him and that's not something you should ever be telling him (it should always appear that he likes you a lot more than you like him - men like a challenge, remember?). A guy should be buying you things, not you buying him things. Men love buying the women they love little gifts and in most relationships with men it's better being the receiver than the giver. So the next time you see a cute little 'something' that he would just adore, skip over it, and buy yourself something pretty instead. He'll enjoy giving you the attention and you'll have a new addition to your waredrobe!

Keep Your Feelings To Yourself- You should never be the first one in a relationship with a guy to say "I love you". That's his job!!! Yes, you heard me....HIS JOB!!! Most of us have done it and most of us regret it, especially when we don't hear "I love you too" in return. No reason to be stressed out and you can't take it back once you say it! Never ever ever tell a guy you love them first. That gives them so much less to work for and, once you've said it, you can never take it back. Make sure the guy is in love with you before you utter those three little words. You'll be better off for it, believe me.

Don't Dress Too Provocative...be Sexy and Simple - So many women think, if they put on something really provocative it's going to attract a guy and make him want to commit. It's not. In fact, it's making the man question if you are  the kind of woman mama would like? If you go full throttle hoochie...kiss this one good-bye! Sure men love sexy and, yes, they'll look but, when they think about dating somebody seriously or even marrying a woman, sexy isn't usually something they're looking for. Think about it this way - it's much better to leave something to the imagination. Make him think about what you might look like underneath all that cute clothing. Don't shove it right in his face so he has nothing to work for. Little back dress? Simply, soft accessories, and nice heels....trust me on this one, if it's a date to the ballgame...wear jeans and a cute top and sneakers....ladies there is no room for stilettos at the ballpark! Take it from me a gal who wore a pair of Ann Taylor heels/sandals to a rodeo....it just doesn't work! Sure I looked classy, but 10 minutes my $200 sandals were covered in cow crap and I was humiliated. No I am not a jeans and cowboy hat kind of gal, although, my ad suggests that you sure can look sexy in the attire.....

I'm a gal...and I guesswhat I am saying is simply this; dress for the event. Don't try to act or be anything other than "you." You want him to fall in love with who you are both inside and out, not an image. Keep it real! Just be YOU!!!

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Plus Size Gal....What's your "Girlie Figure?"

Making the most of your "Girlie Figure"

Ladies, how many times have you just wanted to throw your hands up in the air because you cannot find something that fits your body shape right? Oh sure it looks good in the catalog or on the store mannequin, but when you buy it and take it home.....it looks hideous and you then have to return it....yet another inconvenience for you. It is frustrating isn't it?

It happens to me all the time,...so below I have listed a detailed description for the shapes and attached what the model shape looks like emphasizing the figure you may be according to looking at your own body. I hope that this is helpful to you....so please take the time to comment!! I need to know what it is that you are looking for so that I know how to better stock the store that I am building "just for you!"

Have a curvy “hourglass” figure?
If your shoulders and hips are pretty evenly balanced and your waist is defined, look for styles that flatter your curves and emphasize your waist. Instant fashion fixes include: wrap-style tops or dresses that tie at the waist. Fashionable belts—look for this season's special colors and textures—that define the waist. Shaped jackets, or cropped styles that focus they eye on the middle. Soft blouses and body-skimming knit tops over soft sweeping skirts or pants that skim the hips. Sweetheart necklines are especially flattering.

Need to create a waist?
If your proportions are fairly equal from the shoulders through the waist and hips, look for styles that create the illusion of a waist even better, find styles that play up your slim hips and shapely legs. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, which help make your waist appear smaller instantly; a belted trench with shoulder epaulettes is a great way to create shape. Fluid tunics or blouson tops and long jackets over short straight skirts, leggings or slim pants show off great legs. Avoid wide pants or long skirts that create a boxy shape.

Are you wider in the hips?
If you're narrower in the shoulders and bust and curvier through your hips and legs, look for styles that create balance between your upper and lower body. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, wider lapels, boat necks, embellished or ruffled necklines. Think layers: a soft hip-length cardigan or vest worn open over a blouse. Scarves and shawls at the shoulders lend upper balance and draw the eye up. On the bottom, opt for flowing fabrics in dark solids or smaller prints, and graceful sweeping lines. Boot cut jeans balance hips.

Are you wider on top?
If you've got broad shoulders and a larger bust with narrower hips and legs, look for styles that visually slim the top and play up your narrower bottom. Instant fashion fixes include: fluid, unstructured tops and jackets that skim the body. Soft knit jackets and open cardigans over a tonal or lighter top help create a slimming vertical line, as do tops in dark colors with V-necks and open necklines. And avoid heavily embellished designs and padded shoulders. Keep pants on the narrow side to avoid creating a boxy shape. The new tunics over leggings or slim pants is a great look.

Get to know your body shape and learn to love it! Our guide below can help you find the right clothes that will not only fit, but will also flatter your figure. So, whether you’re an apple or a pear, you can look and feel fabulous every day.

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Lets face it, none of us have the exact same shape.....so let's determine what yours is?

Select from the body shapes I've listed below to get to know your shape better. This will make your shopping experience so much easier, and more enjoyable! In the meantime, I'll research and gather more material for you to understand your shape better and we'll discuss what accents your body and what you should definitely stay clear of. Stay tuned ladies!

Hourglass

Apple

Pear

Rhubarb

Strawberry

Pineapple

Advertising Sex?

What A Lot of People Know

One of the best methods for selling a product or service, is to show a beautiful person in skimpy clothing. Why? Because usually people don't care about the product or service at first, they only care about seeing more pictures of the beautiful model in the advertisement. An example, would be the Evolution of advertising that I discussed a while back, showcasing the trend and downward spiral of their advertising techniques. That is one of the most prime examples that anyone could ever show, because I have no doubt if you've surfed the Internet you've probably stumbled on one of the ads at some point.

Recently I had a discussion with friends about what a person would notice first upon entering a website, a picture of a beautiful woman, or the title of the article. What was he or she wearing, was it sexy, sassy, seductive, and sensual, or was it quite provocative? Does it really matter which of these it was? It just was!  According a recent poll 100% of the people surveyed voted for noticing the beautiful woman before the article title...does that really surprise you? Lingerie is, and probably will always be one of the leaders in the industry for sex and sex appeal. There is quite a difference however in the companies that advertise it and how they go about it.

I was never one for raunchy and trashy....does that sell? You bet it does, but I was raised more so with the flair to be classy and simple. I like the no make up, or very little, simple baby doll, teddy, or two piece bra and panty sets with garters and thigh highs look....I am still that old fashion gal that has respect for herself, and I take pride in my appearance, therefore my models should keep the look the same. We are selling alluring, intriguing and sexy, not trashy. We use great product placement  and our advertising is only with reputable companies. The lingerie that I sell, for the most part, middle class and even some high end material but we try to keep it at a mediocre budget. I'm not out to take the world by storm...and drain your wallets, I'd much rather prefer customers remembering me for my morals, value, and although mature look. Oh sure some of what I sell one might not consider " entirely respectable"....that is the persons choice that is purchasing it. It is by no means dirty or trashy. Every woman has to find that one piece that fits her physique best. I believe that my business will succeed and do quite well, putting a women's integrity first is and always has been motto, but if she has the confidence to wear that sexy lingerie that turn heads,...all the power to her!

My personal conclusions? Yes, sex sells. There is a lot of money to be made by using sexually driven advertisements, but for me, I only have one problem. I have morals, and for some reason that's always been a wall that I only peek around from time to time, but never climb over. Well, I'm not sure how long that wall will last, because from what I've noticed so far, is that this can be a potential money maker if used properly. So in truth, there is a substantial reason as to why advertising companies have used attractive and beautiful people for the advertising, it's an attention getter!

Ask Yourself This Question

When you see lingerie articles, what catches your attention first? Was it the article title, or the picture of the beautiful woman with cleavage and her booty? If this is anything like the other study I did earlier concerning the article title verse the beautiful women.... then I'm pretty sure it's going to be the woman again. Do you see the advertising power here? I do! Sure there are those who say that advertisers only use pretty girls to sell....and they also say that there are other ways in the industry o f doing so......Really? Because last time I saw an ad for farm equipment it was boring to me,...now put a gal in a bikini set on that tractor with a cowboy hat on and watch your revenue soar! Can you say cha ching?

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One Bad Apple....the Office Bully

Ask yourself this one....Do you work with a real idiot in your office? Are there days that you'd like to pull someones hair out, or your own because one particular person just "won't stop!?"One "bad apple" can spread negative behaviour like a virus, bringing down office mates or destroying a really good team, according to a new study examining conflict in the workplace. Really? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out, does it? So why? Why does this occur? Better yet, why should you all have to suffer? Nothing makes ones life more topsy turvy than one person on a power trip. It's like having PMS 40, 50, or even 60+ hours a week....who needs that?

Negative behaviour outweighs positive behaviour, so a bad apple (bully) can spoil the whole barrel, but one or two good workers can't "unspoil" it."Companies need to move quickly to deal with such problems because the negativity of just one individual is pervasive and destructive and can spread quickly." Figure out how negativity can 'infect' interactions with others. Growing productivity comes from understanding the causes of our poor attitudes and behaviours and use of constructive thinking when bringing these into the positive. This is a personal responsibility, and increasingly one that is being embraced by progressively thinking companies.

Definition of Workplace Bullying

Workplace bullying is a silent epidemic, it is often done covertly, most frequently by serial bullies who chose one target at a time. The bully often employs the help of the "target's" coworkers, which is called "mobbing". Gossip and rumors of half or twisted truths about the target, are one of the primary tactics used by bullies to manipulate coworkers into participating in the abuse as well as isolating the target. They will report poorly on the target's work to management, creating a perception that the target is not up to snuff, and most managers will accept this hearsay uncritically. What's so strange about this phenomenon is that targets are usually cooperative and start off popular with coworkers. The target is devastated by the abuse and isolation that she/he doesn't understand nor know how to stop because, even harder to understand is that  there is no reason for the abuse. Bullies usually have personality disorders or other physical or emotional mental disorders that rob them of their empathy and compels them to behave in this way. The motivation is usually to get rid of someone whose good performance is a threat to their own feelings of inadequacy or to control and subjugate their target. Once chosen as a target there is a 77% chance that the target will quit, be fired, or even commit suicide.  The number of people and hours involved in a bullying/mobbing campaign is our largest, hidden, expense in business today....so sad, it really shouldn't have gone this far.

If a bad apple slips through screening in the hiring process, he or she should be placed to work alone as much as possible,....why? Think about it seriously....they seem to already have a miserable life, do you want yours to be that way too? They are considered to be like to office bully, the arrogant one that wouldn't think twice to stab you in the back or through the heart. A recent study defines negative workers as those whose do not do their fair share of the work, are chronically unhappy and emotionally unstable, or bully or attack others.....what did I just say? Find ways to integrate "bad apples" into the workplace constructively, if this is what the company chooses to do. Once you begin to interpret your own behavioural patterns and those of the staff, better office dynamics result. Match the staff member with tasks they are better suited to by addressing conflict from a patterning perspective so all staff can work together more harmoniously. If they can't.....some one needs to get rid of that bad apple. Send him or her to another department, or give them an office in the basement with a desk, a box of paper clips and a red stapler. Out of sight out of mind.....then everyone can breathe easier and the office will go back to whatever "normal" was. No, I am not at all saying to hide them and forget,..not at all. If you do this, matter won't get resolved., but perhaps they will reevaluate themselves? Let's hope so.... Shame on them for treating others as such.

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What is a Hero?

What is a Hero?

Heroism as action on behalf of others or in the defense of integrity or a moral cause.

We consider heroic action to be defined by four factors:

• It is engaged in voluntarily;
• It provides a service to one or more people in need, or the community as a whole;
• It involves potential risk/cost to physical comfort, social stature, or quality of life;
• It is initiated without the expectation of material gain.

A hero is anyone who can show courage when faced with a problem. A hero is a person who is able to help another in various ways. A person can become a hero by saving someone who is in danger. Another example of a hero is someone who is there to help others and gives them strength to go on through life’s difficulties. A hero can be someone who gave up his or her life so another could live. A hero does not always have to show courage he can be afraid but still be a hero through his other actions.

When you take a good hard look at your own personal life, what do you see? How many times can you recall has there been someone or a group of people nearby to assist you when you needed it, or who took the time to do something good for you asking for absolutely nothing in return? Most of us can save never....or rarely. I can say that I have many hero's. I was raised to be a loving giving person. I was taught at an early age that when you do good for others it comes back. I am a true "karma" believer.

I married at a young age and thought that I knew everything. What 19 year old doesn't? Life is a whole different ball game once you get into the real world and you are not shielded/protected from your loved ones. You begin to see life in a whole new perspective, somewhat scary I might add. I learned that if you never make mistakes you can't possibly learn from them. If you don't try, how can you know if you would fail or not, and if you do fail, it means that you just simply must get back on that horse and try riding it again! Practice makes perfect.

My angels, my hero's are my kids, and my parents and my grandparents that gave me such love and showed me that life is so precious. I was ill and my kids pushed me to get better,  I was divorced and my kids made me see how important the real job of being a mother was, as I had to play both mom and dad. I didn't think that my kids even noticed the sacrifices that I made to make certain that they had what they needed.....not until they began to grow up and mature themselves. When they were kids there were times when I felt I could beat my head against a wall and wondered would any one notice? Such a silly thing to say....of course they noticed. Everyday they supported me, encouraged me and pushed me to my limits. Why? To piss me off? NO, to show me how strong I really am. Had it not been for my kids and battling a divorce, and then cancer on more than a few occasions I might be like anyone else....but I'm not. I learned to never take anyone or anything for granted again. In the past, I had. Today I must admit I'm not very proud of some of my actions of my past. Did I learn something? You bet that I did!

Each day I learned more about who I was and grew as a woman, a mother, a daughter and a friend.

Today, I am an image of my parents now in their late 60s/early 70s and my children now 27 and 25 are an image of me. My creations, my miracles of life, my reason for living.....my inner strengths, my happiness and my rock. They  are and have always been my glue. They are why I push myself to the limits each and everyday. They are my hero's. Who are yours? Have you sat back lately and really taken a good hard look at who has made such an impact in your life? Who may have been that one person or a group of people that helped you when your world was turned upside down? Perhaps you should.....these people, our so called hero's....they don't want thanked, in fact they probably don't even see themselves as our hero's...but we know differently. No, our hero's don't fly through the sky at the speed of light, and they don't wear a red cape....but they are a hero in every sense of the true meaning.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie...We're GREEN!

Are you green? Is your business green? You know.....Working from home can be a great alternative to a desk in a cubicle, but, as many people who try it will tell you, it isn't as easy as slapping your laptop down on the dining room table. Says who? I work from every room in my house....and, while wearing a pair of PJ's all day might sound nice, it doesn't make the cut for many who work from home. Still, whether you embrace the romantic-sounding ideals of managing a home office or not, one thing remains true: It can be wayyyy greener than commuting to an office every day. In my case, my office is my home and my boutique, it's web based. I can live or work anywhere on the globe. Furthermore, I save a great deal in a variety of ways an I recycle whatever I can, in fact, my staff all works from home.

From cutting out the commute to scaling back on unnecessary paper or energy use, there are tons of ways that working from home can help make you just as happy, healthy, and successful as you might be working in an office, but it isn't quite as simple as inserting recycled paper in your printer tray. You'll want to take action to insure you create and maintain a healthy home working environment, and do things like schedule sufficient breaks, to help keep your mind and body moving throughout the day. My get moving is "yoga booty ballet" gets the engery pumping and my blood flowing! It makes me more productive!

And, while it's easy to concentrate on the environmental benefits of working from home, the mental and emotional ones are sometimes just as important, which is while it's important to carefully consider a space in which you can comfortably, productively work (and not just an empty closet you don't have anything else to do with). The benefits-environmental, emotional, or otherwise can be myriad, so if you hate commuting, if you're most productive outside a traditional 9-5 schedule, or if you just got laid off, then working from home might be the answer. While some of the green changes you'd make by skipping the office are obvious like cutting your carbon output by not commuting and saving on disposable lunch containers there are dozens more choices, from desks to chairs to pencils, paper,etc., that you can turn into an opportunity to support eco-friendly products. I live now in Youngstown Ohio and I set my recycle bin out once a week for pick up! Help make a better tomorrow today! By working at home we are big on Go Green with Simply Delicious Lingerie! We want to give back...let's all do our part to assist in making the world a better environment!



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So You Want to Learn How to Pole Dance?

Tips For Pole Dancing

Be confident. Know you are sexy and embrace it.

Maintain eye contact with the person you are dancing for

Dress sexy, but make sure it compliments your body type

Use the right kind of music. Music can make or break the mood.

Do-It-Yourself Pole Dancing

Sometimes you need a little privacy....

It looks easy to jump up on that pole and swing but it isn't. You need to learn, and you need a lot of practice, this takes skill! Do you have a pole? No? You'll need to get one then....

 You Have To Practice

If you are going to learn how to pole dance then you'll obviously need a pole. Don't think that buying a pole will be an expensive and invasive task. In fact, many poles on the market make it easy for you to put up and take down at your convenience.

Don't plan on doing extraordinary things will this pole, but our Private Dance Pole with DVD and Accessories Kit is good for basic and light practice. Check out our inventory at Simply Delicious Lingerie.

Retail to $225.00. Live out your fantasy with this erotic kit! Kit includes a Silver pole with interlocking ceiling cap to be used with or without screws. Also included is a black feather boa, a black satin and lace garter, play money, an erotic dancing for your lover instructional DVD, and an erotic dancing reference guide. Bring the excitement of pole dancing home!

* Rubber non-slip pads protect floor and ceiling * For use on hardwood floor or carpet * Heavy duty steel for longevity * Pole can be disassembled for easy travel * Breaks into smaller portions for easy storage in small spaces * Installation instructions included, can be used with or without ceiling screws. * Poles extends from 7' 4" to 9' 2" * Poles are designed to be temporarily held against the ceiling and floor or the top plate can be screwed into the ceiling for permanent use.

Simply Delicious offers the pole for $139.99. We are currently running a $20 off coupon also. Use code REDHOT at checkout.

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Can Plus Size Women Find Love?

CAN PLUS SIZE GALS FIND TRUE LOVE?

Plus size women are no different than anyone else. They have feelings, emotions, beauty, brains, and they too fall in love. Why is it then that people seem to think that plus size women are respected any less? Lets do the comparisons shall we? Plus size women date good, attractive men..the same men a regular size/shape woman would. Plus size women get married and have families. Plus size women are adored and cherished just as they are, without losing a single pound or changing anything about themselves...they love who they are inside out and upside down. One of my best friends was over weight most of her life. She was treated poorly by others, even some of my friends. I began to see this more and more as I grew older and time passed. It became relevant to me very quickly what had to occur. Those friends that bad mouthed Diane had to go! What kind of ignorant people do such a thing? I couldn't figure it out for the life of me. I was raised to treat everyone the same and respect everyone. Some people wouldn't know how to respect someone much less understand the word "class" if it jumped up and bit them.

 Diane's issues were insecurities and stress, so she ate. Sound familiar at all? Years later and into high school she lost the weight (half of her body weight.) Those friends of mine who treated her poorly that didn't deserved Diane's respect much less mine now wanted to know who my "new friend" was? Yes, poor Diane looked like a million bucks now and was getting the attention of boys and gaining popularity. I couldn't be more proud and happy for Diane,....As for those snub nose girls, you know the cheerleaders, and the popular click that thought they were "all that" ....Diane and I didn't bother with them ever again. Why is it that people judge others by their appearance most often? Why is it that they think that these women are pathetic because they are overweight? Why is it that they think they'll never meet the man of their dreams? Diane did, and yes, she did put some of her weight back on, but I've never seen her happier!

I've got news for you....these woman are the bigger person and I don't mean in size. I mean in character, compassion and smarts! They could conquer the world! It's all about confidence and attitude. What Diane didn't quite get because she couldn't see the forest through the trees what that she was beautiful all along...losing the weight never changed that. To this day she'll probably never know how much I have looked up to her and how much I respect her and admire her for those strengths that I saw shining through each and every day. She has no idea how her smile and laughter brightened peoples days.... She has been my inspiration for so many years and one of the reasons that my dream of owning lingerie shops came to life full circle. It was my dream, but she was my inspiration. She was my example, she taught me to look within myself, she showed me that love and beauty like that cannot be found on the surface, regardless of your size...it comes from the heart and from within.

A Message to Plus Size Gals....You Can Find Love!

Listen gals, if you get nothing else from this blog, the one thing I hope you will take away from it is that dating, healthy relationships and love come in so many sizes. Never judge a book by it's cover....otherwise you'll miss a lot of glorious chapters within. Contrary to popular belief, plus size women do fall in love and get married. And it doesn’t take some complicated formula or set of rules to make it happen. It is so easy to get discouraged when you are plus size and single, so don't compare yourself to anyone else. A lot of the dating advice that’s out there today would have you believe that you need to undergo a massive overhaul of your entire body and personality to meet a good guy who wants to go the distance with you, and it’s simply not true. Ladies, love who YOU are! As long as you make yourself #1 nothing else matters. You deserve and will find that happiness just like everyone else....it's not the size of the women that matters, its a package...all the other things that a man looks for in a woman. So STOP thinking that because you are a few pounds heavier that you won't land Mr Wonderful!

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be your best self; as a matter of fact I encourage it. You have to feel good about "YOU!" So lose weight if you want to, go to therapy, get centered, and release your baggage, do whatever you feel like you need to do. Just know that meeting a man and falling in love does not depend on you changing something about yourself. If he is going to fall in love with you it's going to be for all the right reasons. You just focus on being authentically you, going for what you want and living your life to the fullest. Why? Because you are beautiful just the way you are...and at the end of the day, isn't that what really matters?

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Have We Gone too Far with Airbrushing?

For soooo soooooo long I have said it over and over.....NO NO NO to airbrushing! Models with flaws are being perfected with the stroke of an airbrush and most don't even think about the repercussions....We are taking models and celebrities and making it look like they have no imperfections at all, when in fact, we see from other various "rag" magazines that they most certainly do! There is nothing wrong with that....No one has a perfect shape....but young girls that are not mature enough to understand the reprercussions of the game think that these women are superstars! These women are put high up on pedestals not by men, but by young girls that want to be like them....so what do they do?They go on crazy diets and starve themselves to look fit and attractive....why? To gain popularity, to fit in to a particular club or social group? tell me someone please......

It wasn't only until recently that the Liberal Democrats launched a campaign to ban airbrushing in advertisements aimed at children under 16 years, in order to tackle "body image pressure". Which kick started the debate once again.The argument against the airbrushing of ad images and images of models, is these images of ultra perfect, digitally altered models are linked to a cause of body dissatisfaction and unhealthy eating in girls and women. It also gives an unrealistic impression of how products/garments look, which can lead to disappoint people if they go to purchase the product. Some people also argue changing how things really are is the same as lying or false advertising which is wrong. Noooooo ya think? Wake up people.....no one looks like that in real life....I don't care who you are!

The argument for the use of airbrushing comes from within the media industry, where as a result of airbrushing and photo shopping, products/garments etc are deemed to look more desirable.. Some celebrities and models are against a ban as sometimes they are unhappy with how they look in a picture, with airbrushing being used to make them feel better. Heck, it's not just the people that are getting airbrushed these days, oh no, its items, products too! Everything has to look just perfect.

Has society taken the old fashion forms and reasoning for airbrushing too far? You bet they have! When young girls are starving themselves, and hurting themselves to look like a celebrity thinking that they need to stop eating to look as good as "her" while she (the celebrity) is out on the town eating junk and drinking up the house....and why? Because if she gains 5 pounds they'll just airbrush her thighs and all will be right again.

Tell me....what is that saying to these young girls? The UK just banned this act of "over doing it" with airbrushing and we should too, or at least set some strict boundaries or guidelines. How far is too far?

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The G- Spot

Soooo many women read articles to learn about this, and yet only few experience the true stimulation that this type of erotic blow can endure....It's time to get to the basics and learn where it is, how it operates, and how to master it.The G-Spot to so many is a complete mystery, but in reality is easy to find and easy to stimulate. Let's take a look at how? The two sexual positions below, are guaranteed to stimulate the G-Spot and give a woman fantastic orgasms. Lets give you an exact road map on how to find it and then show you how to stimulate it..... then you can be the judge. We welcome your comments and would love to hear from the women who already know of their g-spot and from those who just discovered the sense of pleasure they got when they did hit to bulls eye!

What is the G-spot?

The "G" in the word G-spot is for the discoverer of a mysterious area found in the vagina. His name was Ernst Grafenberg, hence the "G" in his honor.
Actually the G-spot is an area, not a spot, and could be considered bean shaped.
Technically it's the woman's analog to the man's prostate, and known as the Para urethral gland. It appears as spongy tissue about 30 centimeters from the vagina's entrance, located on the frontal vaginal wall (facing the abdomen and not the back).

This area is about the size of  a nickle and can easily be distinguished from other parts of the vaginal wall by its ridges. Moreover, as the woman becomes sexually excited, these ridges become harder and more pronounced, as they are composed of erectile tissue (as are the penis and nipples). With enough stimulation, the G-spot area engorges with blood, becomes highly sensitive, and can (and will) cause a profound orgasm if stimulated correctly.

The Best Way to Find the G-spot!
Here is a simple but powerful technique, to find and stimulate the G-spot and give you partner a mind blowing orgasm.
With the woman placed on her back, legs spread at a comfortable distance, begin to lubricate her vaginal opening. This may be done manually (with the hand and fingers), or with the tongue (cunnilingus). As the vagina become moist and as the labia gentle part, insert a well lubricated (saliva is sufficient in this case) finger.
The index finger is ideal. Thinking as the vagina a clock, the G-spot will be about 30 cm (give or take 3 cm) from 11:45 to 12:15. It is on the upper wall (opposite the belly button) and you will feel the ridges. This is the general area.

You can test the area by gently tapping with your index finger (or index and 2nd finger if it pleases the woman) in rhythmical method. The first "ouu" will indicate you have found it. To increase its general stimulation, use your thumb (also well lubricated) to gently stimulate the clitoris, as many anatomists believe the G-spot is actually the root area of the clitoris itself. The ridges will become more pronounced. Usually as this point, the woman will be most desirous for normal penetration.

 

 

Two Famous Sex Positions to Stimulate the G-spot

1. Women on Top
Any of the variations of the woman on top will usually stimulate the G-spot, as the woman on top positions gives the woman the control she needs to direct the penis to its target.
A most successful woman on top positions is where the woman mounts the man, facing him in a sitting up position at first, but slowly lowering herself to the man's chest.
The uterus will shorten, and the man's penis will be pushing directly on the G-spot. Her orgasm will follow very quickly, and multiple orgasms are possible with the man having good self-control
2. From Behind
The so-called doggy style is also good (although not as good as the woman on top) for stimulation of the G-spot. The man's penis will actually be bent downwards (the vagina has the power to bend the erect penis) and the strong rhythmical thrusting of the man can also highly stimulate the G-spot. FINALLY!

Once a woman has experienced an orgasm from dual clitoral and G-spot stimulation, and having experienced the enormous pleasure it brings, she will wish to join with that man that brought to her such satisfaction, again and again (and again)

 

The G-Spot is shrouded in mystery but it shouldn't be! Its easy enough to find and easy enough to stimulate and any women will appreciate a man who can do this! Finding the "G" is exciting and stimulating to say the least.....lets take a ride on the "G"...and I'm not referring to the train in NYC. It's time to head south.

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Expectations in Marriage

In marriage, knowing what to expect is half the battle!  So, here are some things you should expect in marriage.  Now some of them may sound negative, but they aren’t meant to be.  We just need to be prepared that challenges will likely arise.  When they do, it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world, or your marriage.

1. Conflict....We'll all go through this.

Conflict will happen, and that’s okay, don't you expect it? I did.  Figure out how to handle the situation, what steps to take, what to say, and certainly what "not to say!" If you handle these conflicts in a loving, mature way, it won't seem so bad. Communication!! KEY!! Talk it out!!

2. Expect Delays

Planning for your future is a great thing to do as a couple, just understand that things don’t always arrive on schedule – not babies, not raises, not your health problems, not the sitter! Things are going to come up. Never fails in my family....it's always something. When you expect delays, you won't freak out when they happen.

Ex; when planning a get together, party, etc....tell your guest to arrive at 3pm when the party really starts at 3:30. If they are anything like my Ex's family, they still showed up late..but oh how they were the life of the party when they did arrive!

3. Expect Disappointments

File this in the, “you’re both only human” category. Your spouse will not be the answer to all of your problems.  Your spouse won’t be a mind reader or anticipate all of your needs. You need to tell your spouse what you want, and need...otherwise, how will they know?

4. Expect to be annoyed, pissed off, and out numbered from time to time

What was once appealing is now annoying. Why is this? Perhaps it was a habit that he/she had that you once thought was quite cute now irritates you? Be ready for that habit of his or hers you found so adorable while you were dating, to become annoying,..what's worse is if you tell them it annoys you now and they keep doing it...  But remember this, there are things you’re doing that are likely to be driving them nuts too. Cut them some slack and continually focus on their good qualities.  If you just can’t overlook what’s bothering you, talk about it in a loving, kind way....don't throw things at them, it won't work, you'll just end u repairing the hole you put in the  drywall. How do I know this? I threw a bathroom scale once....Oh, it got his attention, and he sent me the repair bill for $95.00

5. You'll find that  you’re doing more...

You might feel like you’re Super Mom.... doing more dishes, more laundry, more bedtime reading with the kids, more yard work, more taking the garbage out. You get the idea.   When you start feeling put out and put upon, take some time to assess the situation. Be verbal, and by this I mean chat about it, .....no screaming and yelling.... Instead of attacking your spouse and demanding more help, sit down and calmly express your desire to do your jobs well, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Maybe he doesn't realize that you are getting burnt out?

6. Agree to disagree

Just because you are “one” in marriage, doesn’t mean you will agree on everything. You never will agree on everything, you may be the missing piece to his puzzle but your aren't a miracle worker. You aren't always going to be right......Even though the pieces match doesn't mean the patterns do......but, guess what?  That’s okay.  Respect your spouse’s right to have a different opinion than you.  Don’t shoot down ideas right then and there, think about the time that he put into this thought.  There is more than one way to get the job done and believe me when I say,...arguing will only prolong it. You are both partners of respect, so give a little.

7. Not attracted to your spouse anymore?

This may never happen to you, BUT it does happen to a lot of couples. You might go through your entire marriage with the hots for your mate.  But if, at some point, you’re just not that into your spouse, pray that you will have a loving heart, and talk about it, or seek counseling for guidance. Many things cause this, mid life crisis comes to mind....(been there done that, with my spouse)  Also, look beyond the physical or lack of chemistry and fall in love with what’s good about your spouse. You might be missing something really great!

Marriages are a lot of work, and they are a two way street....you need to talk it out. Remember what brought you both together in the first place,...remember the wonderful times that you have shared over the years and be grateful for the time you have with your spouse. Nothing lasts forever, life is precious. Marriage is a loving bond that takes much nurturing....My parents are celebrating their 49th wedding anniversary this October. I've never seen two people happier! Sure they argue, its fun to watch them do it, they both always think they are right.....but someone always caves in and lets the other win the argument. Communication, understanding, patience, and love for one another is why their marriage is so strong. My marriage didn't last because I didn't have what my folks have. Trust and communication....without it, your ship will sink.



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