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Ladies, For those of you between the ages of 18 and 21 especially who are batting the idea around or getting married soon..... Don't get all hell bent when the late 20s, 30 and over 40s crowd advises you to wait. We KNOW what we're talking about. I see SO MANY situations with married couples that got married very young and are in the midst of some serious problems. And most of them are due to the lack of maturity and life experience of the couple. Had they WAITED for a few years, they likely would not be in such difficult situations.
A marriage is about 20% bliss and about 80% of busting your hump to keep it together with ANY couple. How can I give such advice? I am a product of age 19 and married. Age 22 and two children later I was an adult way beyond my years. Go to college, finish college, and get a good education. My number one mistake was not doing this.

What happens? Nothing right now, but later in your marriage he may use it as leverage over you. You have now become the statistics of women who were even if they wanted to leave their marriages, don't because of low self esteem, no confidence, and the fear of not surviving financially without him. My daughter told me that she was going to college for "her." She said to me after my divorce; "Mom, I never want a man to make me feel like Dad made you feel." Out of the mouth of babes. She is 27 and single. She has a successful job in marketing, she travels the globe and is in NO HURRY.

 College courses and all the therapy in the world could never teach someone how to be a good parent and wife. It has to come from within. Maturity and that of, lacks in many couples which is what leads to such a high divorce rate in the 2010 survey done recently. Please don't misconstrue what I am trying to say here gals.....Take my advice as one experienced woman whose married bit the dust, and who raised two kids solo. Regrets? I have not one. I believe that what happens,...happens for a reason, and we learn from our mistakes. I had a really good marriage for a long time, but marrying at 19 certainly was not easy. No, I do not condemn this in anyway. I did it, and so can you. Confidence, courage and much determination to prove everyone wrong when everyone you knew thought your marriage would fail was ammunition enough fro me to work harder to prove everyone wrong. Well, I tried, but a marriage a is 50/50 partnership. Mine was 80/20. I just got tired of giving and giving and getting very little respect.

So, here I am back in my home town Youngstown, Ohio. I was raised here and now after 28 years of being away, I am home running by lingerie businesses, http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/, and building http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/  and my two travel stores which btw are great for honeymoon and romantic getaway trips, http://www.simplydelicioustravel.com/, http://www.savintravel.com/ my sister store for plus size lingerie now opening sometime this winter.
Through my bridal and wedding lingerie, I create memories by selling bridal and wedding lingerie to women whose special day is around the corner and the happiest moment of their lives, their dream wedding about to come true. I believe in true love, and love at first sight...Yes, it does and can happen. To those of you whom think it cannot I say shame on you for being Debbie Downer. Don't rain on someones parade. This is their special time.

Ask any woman what she's looking for in a mate and she'll probably rattle off a checklist of must-haves that's totally unique to what every other woman has on her list. But there's one characteristic that's in practically every man's top five: being adventurous.

How come? All men crave, and I mean CRAVE adventure and a lot of guys (incorrectly) assume that settling down with a woman and feeling comfortable and stable in a relationship means giving up the possibility of adventure. (Hey, watch enough sitcoms and it's hard not to feel that way.) Which is why, when a woman comes along who not only makes us feel like we won't have to give up leading an adventurous life, but also inspires and encourages us to do more adventurous things with them, it's hot. Really super hot.

It all boils down to showing him that being with you will never be boring. Men never want to be bored in their relationships. Why? they have ants in their pants and never want to sit still. I refer to this as they love to play sports, etc. believe me, give them a "honey do list" and they are gone like a puff of smoke! Men desire adventurous women are never boring. Maybe it's wild sex, maybe it's trying exotic foods, maybe it's sneaking into an exclusive club, or maybe it's deciding where to go the day before you leave for vacation.What I'm saying is that you don't need to necessarily put yourself in harm's way to prove you've got an adventurous streak. Relationships are like jobs, you work all the time for a promotion.

The trick, yes ladies, always have and idea or two up your sleeve for safe keeping. This is to show him that you're open to new experiences and going out of your comfort zone. Men want fun, so do we, but sometimes we have a difficult way of expressing in, so get to know one another. Take you time...there's no fire to put out anywhere, so don't turn up the heat just yet ladies. The bottom line is that if you show a man that you have this trait, he'll cross deserts, climb mountains and fight raging rivers to catch your heart. What is most important in love and a relationship is learning how to balance love, marriage, a family and a career.

It can be done.

 My parents are celebrating their 49th wedding anniversary in two weeks and I have never seen two people so happy before. Sure they argue sometimes, but they are silly arguments that last about 10 seconds before I jump in and crack a joke calling them "kids" and tell them to knock this shit off. I look at these two amazing people that married when they were in their early 20s just as I was and say "It can happen!" Love is patience...., and believe me when I say, my mother isn't the easiest woman to get along with...My father is a saint.

Don't be in a hurry to cross the singles finish line the race over to marriage unless you are sure it is the right time, and the right thing to do. Only you know this. Trust your gut...believe me, it will save much, much heartache down the road if it doesn't feel right, or if you think you can get him to change his ways...(like I did) think again. Dream on sister...It's not going to happen, and if it does, wait for the tornado like storm later in marriage when he tells you that you ruined his life and robbed him of his best years. Men often feel as if they didn't live life enough. That's where mid-life crisis comes in and I could write a book on that one. It will surely be a blog soon! My advice to anyone you who are at that young impressionable age like I was thinking that life was a great big lala land and you'd live happily ever after,...before you tie the knot and ride off into the sunset...make certain that it is what you really want to do. If I knew then what I know now, my life would be different in many so ways.

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Simply Luscious Lingerie Coming this Winter!

Hello Ladies! Are you ready for our new sister company of Simply Delicious Lingerie?

Simply Luscious Lingerie, your new plus size lingerie headquarters is on it's way! It's that time again....We need your advice, suggestions,comments and opinions! We're going to soon begin building our new plus size lingerie website with flirty lingerie that you will love to wear! Our sexy lingerie patterns and styles will be captivating, breathtaking, and desirable! You will look so hot that you'll make you spouse, partner, husband scream with delight! Your confidence level will peak to new heights! http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/

 Our mission is to bring to you sexy lingerie at classy, inexpensive lingerie, at discounted prices that you can afford. We will have women's intimate apparel for you, designed, hand selected, and just a click away from purchase on our easy to navigate website where we respect you and your privacy. We realize that this is personal, so we ship your erotic lingerie in very discreet packages, and we value your confidentiality! We give you our word that we are a secure site and a safe place to shop!

In order to make this site a complete success, I need your help! This site is my dream, but it is all of you who will make it a reality! So please, take a brief moment, and write me. I hear women that are plus sizes constantly saying "No one ever asks us what we want?" or...."why doesn't the store carry more of ___?"

Now it can, you you will have the ultimate place to shop, where pampering is toxic, sexy and seductive are going to take on a whole new meaning, and flirty lingerie will become spicy lingerie just for you! One stop, one stop, JUST PLUS SIZES. It's a store built about you, and for all of you! Please respond to the comments section in the blog, or email me directly at: Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

Thank You,

Michele Savin, Owner/CEO

Simply Luscious Lingerie

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The Little Black Dress

 Who else could possibly make the little black dress famous on the big screen other than Audrey Hepburn? You ? Me?  Honestly, several women can, but you have to know exactly how to do it! Black is truly one color that exemplifies good taste, style and sophistication.Women from all over the world use this little closet staple for gala's, black tie events, weddings and more, paying homage to this unique sense of style. Simplicity is the key for this look. Put bold jewelry with it, and you can't go wrong. I find the LBD stunning on women of all sizes. You don't have to be tall and slender to pull this little number off...I'm not. How you look and feel shines through. Your attitude will carry you, your smile will embrace them, and you LBD...it will do the rest!

A little black dress is a fashion necessity. It can be worn on so many occasions, from a cocktail party to just going out with friends. Black is flattering on most people and is elegant and classy. Some people say that wearing a black dress can be boring after a while....WHO? I've never heard of that before in my life and I have worn a variety of little black dresses. It says sexy, aspiring, sensual and savvy!

Black is beautiful and stunning! The little black dress is now available in a variety of designs and fabrics to suit the fashion conscious lady. Today, all the fashion gurus would consider any wardrobe incomplete without the little black dress. Ladies, if you don't have one on "stand by" in your closet...step away from the computer and go buy one! The beauty of the LBD lies in it's versatility. Wear it with stilettos and you are ready to rock the night! Personally I love a satin bow off the shoulder on a LBD and something that fits to your curves....nothing tight, something "just right!" It is quite appealing, an awesome fashion statement, and something that he will envision long after the evening is over.

The classic little black dress is definitely a must-have. Such a dress is trendy without being overtly glamorous. Look for knee length dresses with a rather daring back for a hint of fun! If you wish to give your personality a touch of glamour then go in for a lacy black dress that is flared from the waist onwards. Pair it with pumps and combine with a sexy clutch bag that is simple. Those who dare to bare and want heads to turn their way can opt for a leather mini black dress. Personally, not my cup of tea, but women look stunning in them! If you are still in trouble and need to find a prefect dress for your near party or just you want to be looks more charming at home or in your office, then I would suggest you waste no more time and get going to the nearest boutique or going to internet to search your favorites little black dress as there are a variety of online stores which sell many kinds of little black dress. Find the one that will accentuate your features, make you look elegant, and remember,... the accessories make the outfit. earrings, the right heels, soft makeup, the right hair style, and a great big SMILE! You look beautiful!



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3 Shoe Colors That Get You Noticed

Did you know that your outfit, you know, that one particular match/piece that you select to wear whether it be to work, to meet the girls or for a date makes a very bold statement and did you know that your outfit would be absolutely nothing if you don't have the perfect color shoe to accentuate it?  Surprised? You shouldn't be. If they are well-coordinated with the color of your clothes the will make a statement that will get you noticed amongst all several other women in the room. 

There are 3 colors of shoes that are ranking the highest on the charts to take your look, and your outfit to the next level. I'll share with you the color, how to wear it and tell you why this particular shoe color is recommended, but most importatntly what it describes in a womans personality. For the summer season, I highly recommend all colors to be worn with open toes. Fall and winter definately closed toe. Its sexy and appealing to ones eyes. The size of the heel shouldn't matter if the look is captured. Personally, I wouldn't recommend wearing flats though or anything under a 3 inch heel.

Make certain though that you get your pedi because your toe nail polish can make or break your entire look. Lets just assume that your social function is that of importance, so when selecting your shoe, not only is it important to understand the event that you are going to be attending, but one should tie it in with the outfit for that particular season/occassion. I always accuentate my outfit but I never forget the most important.....the lingerie under the outfit. What they see on the surface looks sexy but how you feel underneathe the layers makes a statement all of its own.

# 1 BLACK

Black is the CLASSIC OR BASIC LOOK for sexy high heel shoes. If you aren't sure with the selection of color for your shoe, black high heels are mostly recommended to wear since this color always goes perfect with any color of your outfit. So you will never have a hard time in matching these shoes because of their flexibility to mix and match with just about any of your outfits or even any occasion. Black is also the color of INTELLECTUALISM, of ABSTINENCE, of DISCIPLINE. It's smart, it guarded and it is in a category all of its own. Black is not meant to be flashy, rather to constitute who you are as a woman and it defines your features personalizing you as a symbol of exquisite taste. It is simple, when worn with a little black dress, and a partical open toe is what says sexy. It represents you as well as the outfit that you have chosen. It will differentiate you from all others. When you select the proper style and cut of shoe it identfies who "you" are and this is a pretty big statement that you want to make, yet in a soft sopken way....it will scream attention, and add swager to your walk with confidence.

#2 RED

Do not underestimate the sex appeal of a red high heels shoe for if you do, you'll not see the value in what it stands for and what it says when you wear it. The color red represents life and fertility, but it's also associated with danger and death. Red is the color for passion and rage, love and war, also religious ceremonies. Red high heels shoe symbolizes BOLD, PASSIONATE, STRONG and INTENSE. If you decide to wear red high heels shoe, be careful with selection of your outfit. It will most definately make a statement and people will certainly take notice when they see you in red shoes. In fact, they'll remember the style of the shoes, the heel, the height and the look far before they can tell you what the outfit was all about. Choose a red dress or have a red motif and wear it in the night (evening hours) Red says fresh, frisky and full of fire. It says dashing, determined, and dynamic. Red is aggressive and make you look lively! Add some red lipstick to your make up foundation and it will pull the look together quite well.

#3 WHITE

Your typical white high heels shoe is SEXY, PLAIN, SIMPLE and this is a color that MAKES YOU LOOK YOUNGER. Yep, it screams youth! White high heels shoe always catches the eye first, it becomes the first thing you notice about a person. It is suggested not to pair them with dark bottoms or they’ll look a bit too stark and out of place. All them to blend in somewhat but choose a pair that is sassy and unique that will catch ones eye! Pair them with a white or any light color suit. White high heels is work well in the summer or daytime. they are worn with elegance for social events. Never under estimate the power of white. It will give that one particular outfit the finishing touch,....the image that people will remember. Adding a decorative touch to the shoe will also show class, and distinction. It will define your character, show your strength, nonetheless your softer side by being catchy enough to get noticed. This color, if wore properly will give style to your outfit the flair. With white you are never taking a gander, rather making a statement that says I've just manifested my look in a non verbal way. You need not wear a high heel to grab the attention, for this piece will establish itself as an eye catcher if you can pull it off! Something to keep in mind...it doesn't matter if your shoes cost $19.99 or $900.....it's all in the style you choose for that particular event/evening and how it accents your attire.



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Plus Size Gal....What's your "Girlie Figure?"

Making the most of your "Girlie Figure"

Ladies, how many times have you just wanted to throw your hands up in the air because you cannot find something that fits your body shape right? Oh sure it looks good in the catalog or on the store mannequin, but when you buy it and take it home.....it looks hideous and you then have to return it....yet another inconvenience for you. It is frustrating isn't it?

It happens to me all the time,...so below I have listed a detailed description for the shapes and attached what the model shape looks like emphasizing the figure you may be according to looking at your own body. I hope that this is helpful to you....so please take the time to comment!! I need to know what it is that you are looking for so that I know how to better stock the store that I am building "just for you!"

Have a curvy “hourglass” figure?
If your shoulders and hips are pretty evenly balanced and your waist is defined, look for styles that flatter your curves and emphasize your waist. Instant fashion fixes include: wrap-style tops or dresses that tie at the waist. Fashionable belts—look for this season's special colors and textures—that define the waist. Shaped jackets, or cropped styles that focus they eye on the middle. Soft blouses and body-skimming knit tops over soft sweeping skirts or pants that skim the hips. Sweetheart necklines are especially flattering.

Need to create a waist?
If your proportions are fairly equal from the shoulders through the waist and hips, look for styles that create the illusion of a waist even better, find styles that play up your slim hips and shapely legs. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, which help make your waist appear smaller instantly; a belted trench with shoulder epaulettes is a great way to create shape. Fluid tunics or blouson tops and long jackets over short straight skirts, leggings or slim pants show off great legs. Avoid wide pants or long skirts that create a boxy shape.

Are you wider in the hips?
If you're narrower in the shoulders and bust and curvier through your hips and legs, look for styles that create balance between your upper and lower body. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, wider lapels, boat necks, embellished or ruffled necklines. Think layers: a soft hip-length cardigan or vest worn open over a blouse. Scarves and shawls at the shoulders lend upper balance and draw the eye up. On the bottom, opt for flowing fabrics in dark solids or smaller prints, and graceful sweeping lines. Boot cut jeans balance hips.

Are you wider on top?
If you've got broad shoulders and a larger bust with narrower hips and legs, look for styles that visually slim the top and play up your narrower bottom. Instant fashion fixes include: fluid, unstructured tops and jackets that skim the body. Soft knit jackets and open cardigans over a tonal or lighter top help create a slimming vertical line, as do tops in dark colors with V-necks and open necklines. And avoid heavily embellished designs and padded shoulders. Keep pants on the narrow side to avoid creating a boxy shape. The new tunics over leggings or slim pants is a great look.

Get to know your body shape and learn to love it! Our guide below can help you find the right clothes that will not only fit, but will also flatter your figure. So, whether you’re an apple or a pear, you can look and feel fabulous every day.

 At Simply Luscious Lingerie, we are working hard day and night to find the intimate apparel that will be right for you! We're not just trying to sell you lingerie, we want to accommodate your attire with apparel that will accent your figure, not make you stand out like a sore thumb! This online boutique is all "about you!" We're coming this fall, so continue to read our articles and check in with our website for more details! http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/

Lets face it, none of us have the exact same shape.....so let's determine what yours is?

Select from the body shapes I've listed below to get to know your shape better. This will make your shopping experience so much easier, and more enjoyable! In the meantime, I'll research and gather more material for you to understand your shape better and we'll discuss what accents your body and what you should definitely stay clear of. Stay tuned ladies!

Hourglass

Apple

Pear

Rhubarb

Strawberry

Pineapple

What is a Hero?

What is a Hero?

Heroism as action on behalf of others or in the defense of integrity or a moral cause.

We consider heroic action to be defined by four factors:

• It is engaged in voluntarily;
• It provides a service to one or more people in need, or the community as a whole;
• It involves potential risk/cost to physical comfort, social stature, or quality of life;
• It is initiated without the expectation of material gain.

A hero is anyone who can show courage when faced with a problem. A hero is a person who is able to help another in various ways. A person can become a hero by saving someone who is in danger. Another example of a hero is someone who is there to help others and gives them strength to go on through life’s difficulties. A hero can be someone who gave up his or her life so another could live. A hero does not always have to show courage he can be afraid but still be a hero through his other actions.

When you take a good hard look at your own personal life, what do you see? How many times can you recall has there been someone or a group of people nearby to assist you when you needed it, or who took the time to do something good for you asking for absolutely nothing in return? Most of us can save never....or rarely. I can say that I have many hero's. I was raised to be a loving giving person. I was taught at an early age that when you do good for others it comes back. I am a true "karma" believer.

I married at a young age and thought that I knew everything. What 19 year old doesn't? Life is a whole different ball game once you get into the real world and you are not shielded/protected from your loved ones. You begin to see life in a whole new perspective, somewhat scary I might add. I learned that if you never make mistakes you can't possibly learn from them. If you don't try, how can you know if you would fail or not, and if you do fail, it means that you just simply must get back on that horse and try riding it again! Practice makes perfect.

My angels, my hero's are my kids, and my parents and my grandparents that gave me such love and showed me that life is so precious. I was ill and my kids pushed me to get better,  I was divorced and my kids made me see how important the real job of being a mother was, as I had to play both mom and dad. I didn't think that my kids even noticed the sacrifices that I made to make certain that they had what they needed.....not until they began to grow up and mature themselves. When they were kids there were times when I felt I could beat my head against a wall and wondered would any one notice? Such a silly thing to say....of course they noticed. Everyday they supported me, encouraged me and pushed me to my limits. Why? To piss me off? NO, to show me how strong I really am. Had it not been for my kids and battling a divorce, and then cancer on more than a few occasions I might be like anyone else....but I'm not. I learned to never take anyone or anything for granted again. In the past, I had. Today I must admit I'm not very proud of some of my actions of my past. Did I learn something? You bet that I did!

Each day I learned more about who I was and grew as a woman, a mother, a daughter and a friend.

Today, I am an image of my parents now in their late 60s/early 70s and my children now 27 and 25 are an image of me. My creations, my miracles of life, my reason for living.....my inner strengths, my happiness and my rock. They  are and have always been my glue. They are why I push myself to the limits each and everyday. They are my hero's. Who are yours? Have you sat back lately and really taken a good hard look at who has made such an impact in your life? Who may have been that one person or a group of people that helped you when your world was turned upside down? Perhaps you should.....these people, our so called hero's....they don't want thanked, in fact they probably don't even see themselves as our hero's...but we know differently. No, our hero's don't fly through the sky at the speed of light, and they don't wear a red cape....but they are a hero in every sense of the true meaning.

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Marriage...Making It Work

Why do marriages fall apart? With the divorce rate as high as it is today, you must do everything possible to strengthen and protect your marriage. You cant always have your way or give in to your feelings. You have to discipline yourself to do the right thing. You must do what is in the best interest of your marriage. Here are some fundamental guidelines that can make a Don't always try to be right. You cannot be right and be married. It is always better to do the right thing than to be right. Trying to always be right will doom the future of your bond. The powerful chemistry that you once felt will be diluted. Don't you want to keep the flame buring? That's what makes a marriage work. Surprise them, spoil them, and shower them with little comments here and there that "wow" them! It reminds them that you care. The small things "do" matter!

Never threaten to leave or divorce. Things change between you once you speak these words and its hard to correct. Even if you're angry, don't threaten divorce. They take it as such and after a while, they just sit back and wait for you to finally "just do it!" From experience, I'd say don't mess with this. Keep your yap shut!

Be quick to say, I'm sorry. It amazes me how rapidly a couple is strengthened in love by sincerely saying they are sorry.Don't expect your spouse to believe all the same principles you do. You're never ever going to have everything in common, including values and principles. Respect their differences and them. Love them unconditionally. This is true love, regardless if you have been married for 1 year or 50.

Build your spouse up. Freely give encouragement and praise. Men love having their ego stroked....and really, how difficult is that to do? We already see them as our "Superman!" Remember it is better to give than to receive. Most people are starving for kind and uplifting words. Don't let the person you love fall into this category.

Always side with your spouse in disagreements outside of the marriage, even when they are wrong. Respect  your marriage. Give your spouse the message that You can always count on me. I'm here for you.

Learn to appreciate the things your spouse does, and respond by being verbal often so that they know how much you really do appreciate it!  Don't take your spouse for granted. I sure did. I was young and stupid. I was like a slave driver....no wonder he became so unhappy.Thank them for the things they do for the marriage. Cooking, cleaning the house, and bringing home a paycheck are worthy of frequent appreciation. I just wanted the credit cards and new houses, cars, etc. Why? This is how my mother was and I guess I followed in her footsteps because that was all that I knew. Sometimes, we need to pay more attention!

Try to never go to bed angry with your spouse. We all do this at some point, but you shouldn't!At the very least, learn to allow a truce between you until you can figure things out. Your marriage is more important than the conflict. Communication is KEY KEY KEY! How often do I say this? Start and end each day by telling your spouse that you love them. Let your eyes and your embrace convey the same message. huge difference......

Try to get along! If you don't you'll be like total strangers that should never have even dated let alone got married!  If you are only dating someone and reading this article and you can relate...you need to do a BIG self-check on if your relationship is heading int he right direction, otherwise, the bottom with fall out and "not so nice" will be the language you use! Be nice to one another, no threats,.....and no bad mouthing!

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Don't Touch My Junk

Some really important tips that you'll want to follow to keep TSA off your back!

Ladies, we all love to take our buddies along, but while going through TSA beware that you may need to allow them to search your bags if something looks ...,shall we say, a little suspicious! Traveling with sex toys, vibrators in particular, has the potential to turn from greatly anticipated vacation to sexually humiliating nightmare rather quickly. Airport security is working more diligently to find strange, possibly dangerous, items in passenger's luggage these days. Myself, personally I wouldn't bat an eye, but then again I own a lingerie shop or two that sells adult novelties as well as other really great products. I have seen, done and heard it all. I can imagine how something as simple as going on a short weekend getaway or a cruise may have you thinking that you'll bring your toy along for sheer entertainment. Generally NOT a PROBLEM.....if you take the batteries out! Good Lord....remember to disassemble your gadget first! Pack in, but NOT in your carry on! Good God, do you want to hold up the entire line? Be discreet...Here's the right way to travel with your favorite sex toy. I know, I shouldn't laugh....I only do because I have seen it and done it all. Nothing shocks me...really.

When Packing Certain Sexual Toys and Vibrators

You should never just toss your toys into your suitcase. Each toy should be packed with precision. There are two kinds of packing materials to take into consideration. A cloth bag. Any soft, clean cloth bag will do. You can even use those purple drawstring bags that Crown Royal Whiskey comes in. A cloth bag will protect your vibrator from getting travel grime on it as well as keep any existing cords from getting tangled in your personal items. Note about ordinary cloth bags. These will not keep your vibrators from showing up on the x-ray machine. Give your pal a clever disguise. You can purchase vibrators that look like ordinary hair brushes, or a tube of lipstick. Typically security sees these things and pays them no attention.

 OK, so where do you pack a vibrator?

First of all never pack your vibrator in your carry on luggage unless you have no other choice and I can't image a scenario where you will be tortured and shot if you don't bring it. If your trip is so short that you don't have any luggage to check in then check in your carry on and only carry on what you can put in your pockets. Any questionable items that pass through the machine are alerted to security officials who will pull you aside and examine every item you brought with you. This may mean your vibrator will be on public display and if it is a really strange sex toy you may have to explain what it is and what you are doing with it.

You also stand the chance of being singled out for a random search. If this happens the last thing you want to have found is your vibrator. When you pack your vibrator, put it in the soft cloth bag and lay it gently between folded layers of clothes for protection or in a discreet pocket intended to protect items.

General vibrator travel tips

If you do forget to take the batteries out of  your vibrator...you just may be surprised by some strange buzzing noises coming from your luggage will most definitely cause you to be pulled off a plane to explain. Always pack newly bought fresh batteries in a separate place other than in your sex toy. Choose your toys carefully. Hopefully while travel, TSA will show some respect and not touch the junk.

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Sex & Advertising

In the U.S. fashion and beauty industry, sexual imagery in advertising seems to be going in two
different directions: toward a more subtle sexiness that emphasizes the product, but also toward
the more brazen and provocative.

They say that sex sells and they, whoever they are, were right! Everyday I see it and it gets more and more risky. Yes, Sex still sells – and it can still shock, too. Through many lonely evenings with my computer on my lap and a good movie on the television, I spent many of hours gazing mindlessly while trying to work,.....then I began to realize that all these commercials are absolutely, completely perverted in one way or another. I'm not who spend a lot of time in front of the television at all so imagine the shock when I sat and watched some commercials that one would think might be harmless, be quite alarming!!

Time and time again I’m reminded of how faithful this theory is with continual reminders from the biggest brands. Everyone from car companies to watch makers, fast food joints to coffee brewers, have been trying to tell me something: buy our crap and think about sex.Now, this may seem obvious to some extent because a lot of companies don’t hide the fact that their logos are purely sexual. Products like condoms, lingerie, body wash, after shave, diapers, makeup, etc. Although these products are prime examples for this magnificent marketing technique, there are so many other companies that are in no direct way related to such acts of splendor, yet formulate mottoes that can easily be perceived otherwise.

So naturally....now I am left to wonder if this is due to some subliminal slang that has been discovered by advertising geniuses and ignored by the general public or merely a convenient coincidence. I found a study after I began digging into the whole "Sex Sells" concept because I am selling sex myself with the lingerie shops I own and recently wrote a similar article. What sells sex more than television is billboard advertisements. This is definitely on my list of things to do. While many say it would be a waste of my company money, I strongly disagree with them. Do people notice them? You tell me? Would you?

AAhhhhhhhh but wait.....I thought that some of those were quite provocative, and then I stumbled upon Chiquita, Ray Ban, Fed Ex and Planters.....I was shocked, and laughed at the same time.....I'd say they got their point across, wouldn't you? Yes, advertising sells the product all right..... and sex is the driver!

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Karma is a Bitch!

Has there ever been a time in your life when someone literally made you feel so bad about yourself that you just wanted to crawl under a rock and never come out? I think that at one time or another, it's happened to all of us. There will come a time in your life when you feel that you need to make a stand against someone who is always condescending. Haven't you ever met that one person that just has to dig, dig, dig and make others miserable? Don't take this lying down ladies....if you do, this person will continue to taunt you for a long time....why? They think they have control, they think they are tough, and they think that it earns them respect.....My thoughts? Simply Bullshit! No one deserves to be treated with disrespect....I don't care who you are. Many times, and in most cases they are people who have a superiority complex that can be irritating and aggravating over time. They think that they know it all and other people are all below them are not at par with them - may it be in terms of looks, achievements, skills, position within the company, financial capability or educational attainment.

If you are a constant target of such condescension, a few well-chosen words can do the trick of bringing such a person a peg or two down and leave her gaping. Here are some ways to deliver classy insults. I don't mess around, just cut to the chase. My grandmother used to tell me "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer!" Lesson well learned. I was naive at one time, and I let people walk all over me. Why? I was too nice. I still am nice, however now I took a new approach to life and to those who don't know what the word "respect" means or how to use it. They say "Be Careful What You Wish For" .....those who sit on their pedestal making others suffer are bound to get stung by a bee sooner or later. I don't know why people act as such, but what I do know is that what goes around does come back around......

1. Do some snooping! You don't think that you can? Sure you can....modern technology makes it sooooooo easy for anyone to find out anything.....Check out the background of the person who thinks she is so clever that she cannot stand to be with someone of lesser stature, that is, according to her standards. It is best to know your enemy so that you can strike where it will hurt the most.

2. Work on the weakest point in the condescending person's armor. Hitt'em where it hurts! Most of the time this type of person is hiding something by presenting a different persona to the world. That 'something' is what you need to uncover!Your classy insult should be something personal that will take the focus away from you and put the person in the spot.

3. Be very knowledgeable about the subject so that your classy insults will be delivered with a big impact and do some serious damage. Go back to all the times that the condescending person has attacked you and pinpoint the areas that she attacked. Make sure that you know everything about these areas so that you will be more intelligent, credible and knowledgeable than her. Then devise clever and concise retorts that will clearly pinpoint her shortcomings.

Just remember, you are the bigger person here, and in time someone will bring her/him down to ground level, and they'll see how terrible they treated you....

They may think that they have the upper hand but it takes two to play that game. Karma.....ever heard of it?

I'd like to call this doing a little "preventative mmaintenance"......you are taking care of the issue at hand before it happens to anyone else. Take your gloves off and don't be afraid to get a little dirty.....this person didn't think twice about doing this to you!

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Does Sex Sell?

Oh you better believe it......Sex sells! Advertising and sex have been tied together since advertising became a big business. The use of sexually suggestive images to sell just about everything really emphasizes the point that sex is a merchandiser's best friend. One doesn't walk into this type of business with blinders on...Oh No! I knew what I was doing....I have other businesses, and I love them, each one of them...Simply Delicious Lingerie and soon to be (Simply Luscious Lingerie) are the most rewarding to me, both for personal reasons as well as financial reasons.

Sex is used to sell all sorts of products. Would you agree that sex really sells... best? I am a little bit bias due to the fact that I own a few lingerie shops myself, but in all reality, sex does sell....no matter how you slice it, it just does!

 For the consumer, it makes sense to use sex to sell lingerie, men's cologne, even liquor, but what about using sex to sell some of these other products? Lingerie is a leading seller in the market today. Sex sells claims the old and undeniably true adage. We are sexual beings. Advertisers use this attribute by trying to associate their products and services with sexy imagery hoping that some of the hotness gets attached to their brand in the consumer's subconscious mind.

However abusing your audience's attention is a dangerous thing. Another thing to be cautious about is how much nudity is sufficient to grab eyeballs and what is too much thus considered offending. This is of course a cultural question. Usually the more religious your target market the less accepted it is to show bare body parts. For these reasons one needs to be careful where and how to use sex in advertising.

To a degree, fashion brands are going with the flow of a 24/7 media landscape in which the limits of what images are deemed acceptable are constantly being tested and expanded. While we are playing a role in communicating suggestive, if sometimes playful, sexually infused messages, brands and retailers are generally reluctant to discuss the impact of what they are doing. Now the brand is less important because of the dialogue that exists between consumers, and what makes a brand cool is what this new culture defines. Today, it’s social media, the conversation. You can’t understand your consumer if you do not have a dialogue. You don't need much dialogue to discuss or describe sex. Lingerie suggests being provocative, sassy, saucy and spicy.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are working at creating advertisements that will show class, not trash. In retrospect, some would ask, "How is selling vibrators and toys in an adult novelty section not trash?" We don't enforce the items, we sell them. I strongly believe that everyone has a right to do what they wish to do in the privacy of their own home or surroundings....you are purchasing the products from my web site whether they be beautiful corsets, baby dolls, cocktail dresses, gowns, swimwear, or novelties....one wouldn't think that you were going to sit on a porch swing and use the toy.....NO, you are discrete in how you use or wear it just as we are in how we sell it.

I was raised a strong Catholic. Now, God forbid you sleep together or get pregnant before you wed....the church wants nothing to do with that...in fact, they pretty much condemn you....how do I know this? I'm a rebel, the "bad girl" if you will....and I got pregnant before I was married. Back in the day some 20+ years ago that was just unheard of, now women are becoming single mothers every day. Tell me......Why is it OK for the church to condemn what I did/do but it's OK to play BINGO and drink all night in a beer tent and then get in your car and drive home? I don't get it?

 I admire those who unlike many continue to find a way to sell the products without getting bad mouthed.....I have no trouble sleeping at night, in fact.....I sleep quite well. Lingerie is a billion dollar industry and unlike some, sex does sell and I will continue to sell it! As my businesses grow I will open myself up to yet other markets. Why? Why not. I like working for me and not punching a time clock. I respect all of my customers and appreciate them for choosing Simply Delicious Lingerie for their "naughty needs" and beautiful lingerie products.

Our new web site launches in just a few days! We look forward to seeing you!

Michele, Owner/CEO
Simply Delicious Lingerie
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Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

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What is Erotic?

e·rot·ic

 /ɪˈrɒtɪk/ [ih-rot-ik]

–adjective Also, e·rot·i·cal.

1. arousing or satisfying sexual desire: an erotic dance.

2. of, pertaining to, or treating of sexual love

3. subject to or marked by strong sexual desire.

A Little Romance Can Enhance Your Love Life....What is Erotic?


Nothing can enhance your love life better than a little romance. Enhancing your love life is something that every long term relationship eventually requires. How do you get your partner aroused? Do you keep him satisfied? Does he please you, or is he your slave? How saucy and naughty do you let fetish go? Add some spice and zest to your love life.....

Sooner or later your love life will be affected by the regular stresses of everyday life and many other factors that may make your love life seem lacking. Often we hear that our partners are too tired to make love or perhaps there is a problem in the relationship that make love making just a bit more difficult than it used to be. So many aspects of our daily lives are affected and reflected in our personal relationships. This is when learning how to enhance your love life becomes very important. We like to get naughty, and erotic. How do you see erotic?

For starters it helps for you to be able to incorporate playfulness in the bedroom. Being playful in the bedroom is a key factor to you having fun during lovemaking. It also helps you to get closer to your mate.

Learning how to become more spontaneous when it comes to love making can also help you to improve your love life. The reason for this is because it lets your mate know that you still find them sexy and attractive, which is the key to a great love life.

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Breasts....

The Secret Rules of Breast Sizes....

Seriously folks, most men pretend to care more about women's breast size around their friends than they really do. But in reality, deep inside, they really don't care. Most would much rather find a good woman who's mental capacity was larger than her boobs. Most of the time men joke around more than anything. Inside, we know what we really want...a pair of nice shaped, and reasonably sized breasts. Sometimes
things like boobs and butts are what we feel hurt us, especially if we don't like what we have. Soooo, what do we do? We can try herbal remedies and we can do exercises to try to make the necessary changes...

Two Rules:

Most men will give you this answer:

Yes, I like big breasts, but I like small breasts as well. I have never encountered a breast that I didn't like. There are only two things men require from a woman's breast:
1. Nipples
2. Accessibility.

I don't care if her breasts are small, if a woman breasts meet these two requirements they are all over you. You see, in a relationship (especially a serious one), breast size doesn't matter at all ( it's true...there are things much more important that the size of ones breast.) A handful is and has always been the rule I know.

Once a woman has a guy who loves her for who she is, she has no reason to worry about her breast size, so she can forget about the thoughts of breast implants. If a man can't appreciate a woman for what she has to offer, believe me, he won't respect the rest of her either and ladies you don't what this kind of man anywhere around you. Bad new, trouble, and rude......you don't need it!

A woman should never get breast implants to please a man. Never ever ever do this ladies....if "you" want them, it's one thing, but to do this only to please someone else.....that's so wrong on so many levels. Some women get implants because they have insecurities within herself. If that is the case, make sure that you aren't doing this for all the wrong reasons. Ladies, if you do want implants, I hope that you'll be getting them for yourself and no one else. Be happy for "you" first and foremost!

A little advice to the women who do want breast implants...Good Lord,....don't spend your money on them..... You could always find a sucker out there who'll happily pay for them! Whether its a boyfriend, a lover, or a sugar daddy...there are men that would gladly do this for you!

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