Great Relationships Don't Just happen...

Great relationships just don't happen, they take years of practice and a lot of growing. True or False? I don't personally think that it takes years, nevertheless, it does take patience and understanding. We'll let's see...Contrary to popular belief and, perhaps, our own fantasy life, good relationships don't just "happen". They take thoughtfulness, time, love, and work. Progressing through recognizable stages, all relationships experience crises and demand at least some flexibility on our parts. A willingness to stay together through the storms is the only way to get to the peacefulness on the other side. Yet (in my opinion) it is all very much worth it. In order to succeed, you need one thing, and it's quite simple...You need TRUST and you must communicate! It's real simple folks. You either have it or you don't.

Trust  is the glue that holds your relationship together, especially when times get rocky. As important as trust is to the well-being of your relationship, the need for your partner to be able to trust you is often times taken for granted or disregarded all together. Of all the relationship skills that you will read about, there’s no skill easier to execute than acting in a trustworthy way. Here’s a simple formula for building trust in your relationship—make sure that your words and actions match. Always do what you say that you’re going to do!

Great Relationships

Want to maintain a great relationship? Here's what you need to succeed:
Respect – the single greatest part of a relationship. Do you respect your partner? You should. If you don't you need to start doing it. How do you show it? Do you say nice things about them in front of your friends or other people, or do you criticize and whine about their weak areas? Lift your partner up, it's good for the mind and ones ego.

Do something nice for your partner – when was the last time you did something nice for your partner without them asking? How about giving them a massage, helping out with dinner, making them coffee, cleaning up around the house – there’s a thousand things you can do. The little things help so much in a relationship – do something nice often, it will make a world of difference.

Pay compliments – You should always try and compliment your mate/partner/spouse on a regular basis. Compliments are not fake statements made to get something back for yourself – a compliment has to be genuine! If you don’t believe what you’re saying, don’t say it – really. There’s gotta be many good points about your partner – when you appreciate something that they do, for goodness sakes, tell them. Do they look nice today? Do they look sexy? Should they shop at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com? YES! When? Now! Have they done something nice? If so tell them to check us out. Our prices are affordable!

 Don't be a Schmuck...Be appreciative – everyone should take time out of their day to be thankful for the good things in their lives. Be thankful for your partner, for your relationships – take the time to realize you are blessed.

Do things together – What things do you have in common? What things do you not like doing with your partner? Find something you both like to do and just hang out. Building a great relationship is much easier if you actually like doing things together. Laugh! Play! Go for a bike ride, go to the movies, play a game of tennis, go swimming, play cards, go on a wine tour, go out for breakfast, play twister… Together, you are unique – find something you like and do it together, at least on a moderately regular basis.


Imperfections...Yup, we all have them! – listen up because this one’s important. After you have found that perfect person, life is sweet! You’re walking on air! Then one day you wake up and realize that your partner has a habit of leaving the milk out on the bench every day, and it irritates you. You discover they have bad nasal hair… You find out they have a snorty laugh that’s really annoying! The point is (listen carefully) nobody’s perfect! When you start to dwell on the other person’s imperfections, have a think about yourself! Are you perfect? Of course not – there’s just as many irritating things that you do. Try not to sweat the little things – and work on your own problems.




Grass is greener syndrome – ever wonder if you’ve found the right person? Finding someone else attractive? Do you realize many people regret affairs for the rest of their lives? Factor in the previous point on perfection – if you change your partner and go off with someone else, will you find something else you don’t like about them? Probably… I’m not suggesting you put up with a mediocre relationship just because it’s never going to be completely perfect in all ways – I’m just saying don’t let your mind fool you into thinking life would be great if only I was with that hot chick/or that sexy guy! Don’t wreck something great just because your mind (or eyes) are wandering. You will regret it!Hang on to what you have and be thankful each and every day that he/she came into your life, and stay in your own yard!

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How about Matching Garter Belt and Panty Texture?

When buying a garter belt and matching it with a pair of panties sold separately, and try to aim for matching textures. It's striking as well as appealing to ones eye. Simple is sexy, always remember that.

Pair lace with lace - Easy enough to do. Both lace panties and lace garter belts are sold at any lingerie shop in abundance.

• Sheers to sheers - Sheer underwear is also widely available in a number of different colors.
• Cotton to cotton - This one's a little more difficult since there are few garter belts sold that are made of cotton.
• Satin to satin - If you can't find the perfect separates in satin, try pairing satin and lace. This texture combination looks and feels luxurious. Just be sure to find quality lace that is soft and delicate. Skip rough, cheaply made lace. Rough lace throws off the whole look.

Colors that Go Together

Black and white are the easiest colors to match. Many garter belts and panties are sold in black and white in a number of different materials and designs. Colors don't have to match but they certainly should work well with one another to complete your garter belt look. Otherwise, you'll look like you're just wearing separates. Here are a few color combinations that "go" well together:

• Pink and Brown - This trend has been around for a while now and looks great together. Try matching a soft satin pink garter belt with a pair of satiny brown panties.
• Red and black - A classic saucy combination for lingerie. Consider pairing a black garter belt with a pair of lacy or sheer black panties.
• Light blue and black or light blue and brown - Another great trendy color combination. A sheer combo of garter belt and panties look great in these colors.

Pair Colors from the same Family

Another easy way to match garter belts with panties is to choose them from the same color family.

• Cool colors - Blue, purple, pink, green, turquoise, gray, white and silver
• Warm colors - Yellow, red, orange, brown and peach

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Sexy Bra & Panty Sets

My daughter and I were shopping at Marshall's and we were looking for a bra set. Have you ever noticed
 that if you a 36-B or a 36-C than you are in luck but there never seems to be a bra that makes you feel natural with lace and such but red and black. It is nice for those special occasions when you want to look bold and seductive, but what happened to the simple white or pink or nude?

 You cannot find a bra that does not have a underwire or straps that are just right. Most only ones that make you think if someone got to close you may poke their eye out or the strap that makes you feel that you need it shorten so you do not look like glaciers that are setting out to sea in search for another making of the titanic. Honestly?

Simply Delicious Lingerie has great bra and panty sets that will go with anything you're wearing and you can stop searching for that unknown pair of panties that you swear your dryer ate. Check it out and see all the sexy matching sets available at great prices! Tell them Tantalizing Tina sent you and save 10%. Use code 10-OFF at the checkout.


Remember it is time to wear pink and be proud that you are a girl.


Sincerely Yours,

Tantalizing Tina

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Is This Love?

Have you ever wondered to yourself "Is this Love?" Like the old Whitesnake song you have to wonder sometimes if it is love or is it an addiction? Some people confuse the two. I'll share with you what I'd learn, and by no means am I an expert, but I have loved in the past, so I think I know what I'm talking about.

There are many kinds of love, but what this article is concerned with is that form of love usually known as 'romantic love' or 'true love'. So what is romantic love and why do we need to define it?
So often we come across the scenario that a man or woman in a relationship is asking him or herself the question: "Is it love?" So, how can someone tell? Well, does it have a hold on you? Does it keep you up at night thinking about this person? Is it like that of a feeling you've not experience in the past? Do you get anxious to see this person? If so, this is possibly love. Give it time, and nurture it so that it will grow into something spectacular.

If you rush it, and start acting nuts, your partner may associate you with a stalker or nut job...don't chase this person away. Nothing comes when you hurry. My grandmother used to always tell me that love will happen when you least expect it. Well Baba, it's been 13 years, and I am about to give up here...so if you have someone in mind, please send him to be before I'm too old to do fun things!

For some it takes a long time...for others it can happen in the blink of an eye! There are many couples whose relationship has begun in this way, but mere physical attraction, however strong, is not enough in itself to provide a basis for a lifelong relationship. This brings us on to the real heart of the question "what is love" -- what is it that enables us to have a long-term, even lifelong, relationship with another human being? What differentiates love from an addiction you wonder? Gals, lets hope it's love...you don't want some crazy ass stalker boyfriend on your hands.

Love Addiction: What Is True Love?

In a fully loving relationship, mutuality and trust are the themes. Each partner is secure in his and her own sense of worth and believes the other has a right to grow and expand. Their have an immense level of confidence and it shows. They trust one another. They don't need their partner to call them every day or every few hours. Some women get angry if a man doesn't call. Back off gals, this is the fastest way to lose your man. With real true love, each encourages and provides room for that growth to become a better person. This means that you care for someone besides yourself, as in real love,...you should.

While you and your partner share many things, you may very well have separate interests and other friends of both sexes. Neither of you is threatened by the investment in and maintenance of meaningful friendships, realizing that each friendship enriches your love relationship. It also means both of you have the ability to enjoy your own solitary company, that being alone is not about rejecting the lover but a recognition that each is a whole person, not two halves of a whole, with your own unique needs and patterns of living.

Secure in each others love, you are able to respect each others boundaries. Each is trusting and trustworthy. You both work at preserving the others sense of integrity. Most of all, there is a willingness to risk yourself in the relationship, to be real, to be honest. In short, the hallmark of a loving relationship is the ability to be true to oneself while honoring and respecting the others unique being.

If this describes your relationship, congratulations! You go girlfriend! Nurture and celebrate your love! If, on the other hand, most of the above - or even some of it - doesn’t ring true, consider that you may be locked into an addictive relationship. What's that you ask, I'd be happy to share with you what we're learned.

Here are the characteristics:

Love Addiction: Are You In An Unhealthy Relationship?

In an addictive love relationship, insecurity and dependency are the themes. Be very careful here....you are treading on thin ice.One or both of the partners is characterized by total, all-encompassing involvement with the love interest, a sense that no one else and nothing else is important or meaningful in life. The addicted lover gauges the intensity of need for the partner as a proof of love. They want more, more, more. Their insecurities rise if they don't get this. They question if you really care for them. Why? No confidence possibly?

In fact, this may be borne more out of fear or loneliness than out of love. Everything else is put on hold in service to the needs and wants of the lover. Old friends are neglected and previous interests abandoned. Because one partner’s desires are suspended for the other, a sense of self-deprivation develops as a sign of love. Most people are confused by this. Are you preoccupied with your lover’s thoughts, behaviors, feelings leads to dependency on his or her approval. One’s own sense of identity and self-worth are reflected in the lover’s reactions. Expressing honest emotions and real thoughts are too risky.





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Be Proud of the Woman that YOU are!

They say things happen for a reason and  that there is a reason somethings happen. Be strong, be different and be proud that you are a woman. If you fall, get back up brush your self and walk it off. Life is a mystery...do not be afraid to bask in the sunshine and never doubt who you are and what you want to be. You were not put in this world to please others but to please yourself. Take pleasure in being you!

 Days maybe short and nights maybe long but revel in your accomplishments. Desire to be all you can be and try something new and daring. Today is a gift and yesterday is the past. Never dread and live in disappointment. Stand strong for what you believe and do some traveling or take in a show with friends. Dance like there is no tomorrow. You are meant to stand tall and not to stand in the shadow of others. You are beautiful and sexy and should life to the fullest.

Rules are made to be broken because it is time to make your own rules. I am a rule breaker! The seasons change, and with change comes growth and experience. It has always amazed me how your true friends and love ones will stand behind you no matter the outcome. Do yourself a BIG favor,... rid the ones in your life that bring you down. Happy Birthday to all because birthdays are not just for the day of birth but a new insight that is coming around tomorrow. What are you waiting for, go buy those pair of red shoes that you you have been eyeing in the window or buy that sexy ensemble that you have been dying to try on for so long, but never did. Buy that certain perfume that you cannot gt out of your mind. Take pleasure in all that makes you happy!


Love and understanding comes with time and the time is now to shine like the brightest star in the galaxy!!

Until next time,

Tantalyzing Tina





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Humorous Bikini Waxing

Regardless of whether you are honeymooning, or heading to a tropical paradise to focus on the important things in life, no one should leave home without a good waxing! We all want to look and feel sexy from head to toe...and everywhere in between. While uninterrupted by thoughts of potential bikini-line overgrowth dance through your head... Why not treat yourself to a Brazilian bikini-wax and set yourself free? Not a hair will dare stray outside your bikini bottom again. At least until your next waxing.

Ummmm hello? Ladies,....have you ever had a bikini waxing? If you have you are fully aware of the benefits....if you have not,...or you poor dears....prepare yourself for some fierce pain! My advice, before you go for you waxing, stop at a local bar and have a few cocktails first to loosen you up and to take the edge off...trust me, you'll thank me later!

This method of waxing originated in the place where beach thongs abound and although torturous, is claimed as "completely worth it" by its devotees. The Brazilian wax basically takes it ALL away, leaving just a tiny strip of closely-shorn hair in front (referred to by some regulars as an "airstrip", a "thong wax" or a "Playboy wax").

 

Things that Brazilian waxing virgins need to know first:

 

Not a yellow page referral task, the best way to find out about a good waxer is word of mouth, so ask around locally. Many waxers will refuse to do this type of waxing, as it is so highly personal. A bad Brazilian waxer will leave you with nasty ingrowns --- that can turn the already daunting experience into to a very, very bad one.

 

Your Brazilian waxer will know you at least as intimately as your gynecologist. You will be asked to strip down to nothing and spread your legs into all kinds of embarrassing positions. Your best defense is to appear as though you think it's as normal as your waxer does.

 

Expect no picnic. There is no way to avoid some pain, but there are ways to choose lesser evils. The best practitioners are also the zippiest. The ones who keep going over and over a spot simply prolong the agony. The Elizabeth Arden Salon, extremely reputable for their hair removal procedures, uses a wax that is very gentle on the skin. The downside is that it requires some repeat action, which can take the fun out of it. The J Sisters seem slightly less hygienic (no gloves) but it really is over in a flash.

 

The torture is not everlasting. A Brazilian bikini (no legs, no underarms, just the bikini) should not take longer than a half hour.Expect to pay at least 45.00 for a good Brazilian wax by a pro. Small price to pain to save a lot of embarrassment. No pain, no gain right?

I show this clip to my friends and we laugh until we cry all the time....So, whether you need a good dose of laughter, or if you are feeling down and and you are reading me to simply pass time, here is something that will keep bringing you back to the Simply Delicious Lingerie Blog Spot....behold, Mrs Browns Bikini Waxing...Be prepared to shed some tears,...You'll have a good laugh with this one!

Time to Put your Big Girl Panties On!



Is it always about competition with women? Why do women tend to pick on other women? I see it in the workplace...tearing another woman down because of looks, dress or what her private life may be. I see it more so in bars and night clubs. How old are we?Are you for real? Yet we consider ourselves ( as women) to be more sensitive and empathetic than men. If this is the case, and if it is really true, why so often are we  so mean to other women? I think it has a lot to do with how we view ourselves. Honestly I believe that our minds tend to get filled with the insecurity of.... "how do you look" Are you young enough, pretty enough, is your figure good enough? Seriously? Ladies..." Why go through being insecure about ourselves?  Why can't you just be happy with who "you" are?

The truth is women love to compete with other women. Women want to win men over. They want to be chosen by a man who could have any girl he wants. No woman of caliber wants to win a man by default. She wants her man to be a prize, a good catch, someone she can be proud of. When you tell a woman that her significant other is handsome or intelligent, she’ll likely beam with self satisfaction. In complimenting her man, you’ve complimented her. You have told her, in so many words, that she is capable of attracting a quality mate. The women who rail against this usually have a low self esteem and thus avoid competition because they fear they’ll always fail….or they’re ugly. You pick. I’m not sure if this is socialization or biology. After all, how many men are constantly exclaiming that they couldn’t get a date to save their lives when they were single, only to snag a girlfriend and be surrounded by willing seducers? It happens all the time. There are no exceptions.

Did you know that most women are highly competitive by nature, and it seems that men have an innate ability to bring out their most competitive streak, without even meaning to. Although some women will gracefully bow out if they see that the man they've had their eye on is already involved with another woman, others will see this as a challenge that they can't help but take on. In fact, for some, it renders the man in question even more desirable. But why is this? Why do women compete for men? This is soooo crazy to me? Are there not enough fish in the sea that we have to try to stake our claim on one in particular? The truth is that while the man may be flattered that another woman is interested in him, such tactics will only make the interested party look disrespectful and aggressive, and will not help her cause at all. True love is not something that can be found using hateful or underhanded means.

Ladies, know your strengths and weaknesses and find comfort in both sides of the list. The root of negative competition is, unfortunately, jealousy and the fear that you cannot obtain the true success that you want. First, develop a stronger belief in yourself, your abilities, and your dreams!!  Create quarterly goals which support your personal accomplishments. Make sure that these goals are for your own personal and/or professional happiness, and aren’t derived from your need to “beat” your partner or supersede their level of success.

 

First and foremost find confidence in yourself. Know your strengths and weaknesses and find comfort in both sides of the list. The root of negative competition is, unfortunately, jealousy and the fear that you cannot obtain the true success that you want. First, develop a stronger belief in yourself, your abilities, and your dreams. Know and understand your partner’s drive and find appreciation in it. Your partner’s strengths and ambitions are probably what attracted you to in the beginning of the relationship. Take yourself back to those days and identify the things you enjoyed about your partner.

Ok, so they say that healthy competition is good. It keeps you on your toes. It helps drive you to a higher level of success. However, bad competition is toxic, destructive, and debilitating.This behavior brings out the worst in individuals and prevents partners from achieving success that’s free from damaging personal distractions. Healthy and even playful competition helps partners bond together, develop together, and learn together. Being mindful of disparaging, competitive behavior is key to keep a growing relationship constructive. There are ways to avoid creating a negative. Are you wearing your big girl panties? If not, put them on and just deal with it!





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Dating and the "Rules"

Whether you're simply looking for a date, a long term commitment or just a member of the opposite sex to spend quality time with here's a few tips from a creative romantic type. The first mistake many women make is stereo typing men in general. I've heard women run the entire male population down while admitting they'd like to find "someone". Men tend to be more perceptive than we may give them credit for. When a woman has a positive outlook on the male gender and on life in general this optimistic attitude will shine through during conversation.
Remember to smile when a man of interest crosses your path and abstain from making public statements which may come across as male bashing.

#1 Rule in Dating: Always be a lady. Regardless of the atmosphere or how other women around you are behaving, it's important to maintain a reasonable degree of self control, especially when in the company of a man you may want to invite home to meet mom or the other way around.Acting improper might ruin your chances., however, I am in no way suggesting that you act like anything other than "you!" If he doesn't like that and asks you to "tone it down" or "be quiet" he may not be the right one for you. There's always the possibility when in the company of a stranger that he could get the wrong impression or maybe he's a mad man undercover. He could make unfair assumptions about you as well as you could about him. Men notice a certain sweetness in women who say please and thank you. Etiquette for dummies! Buy it if you don't have it. It will be the best ten bucks you'll spend! Most of all keep your clothes on in public. Refrain from cussing and inappropriate topics even if he's all guts. You don't want to lead him on. Raunchy isn't necessary even if you're interested in more than a good-night kiss. He's the only one who needs to know your intentions anyway and there are plenty of suitable ways to convey your message such as, "I'd like to get know you better too." Let him kiss you on the cheek at the end of the date. Make him want to come back for the real kiss! Hey, I may have been born and raised in Youngstown Ohio where the population is small verse the big city living I got used to,...but- some things don't change. We were raised right and we are proud of our backgrounds.

Although, being a lady or at least appearing to be one is vital to your safety and reputation , appearing prude may not be the best strategy either. Anytime a single man meets a single woman he finds attractive who shows interest in him he knows instantly that at some point either now or later the relationship may become physical or at least he probably prefers that it will. Don't push him! If you think that you may want to find yourself cuddled up in his arms all evening sometime, even if that time hasn't yet arrived, coming across as stand offish will only stifle his advances. This is where obtaining a sense of balance comes into play. Though you want to make it clear what you do and don't want, there's no harm in a single woman engaging in a little flirting. So, how does a lady flirt? Dear Lord, if I have to tell you this, we're all in big trouble! Men may be known as the tougher sex, but inside where it counts, most men long for an affectionate mate. You have every right to determine how close is too close. Just be careful not to put him off if what you really want is to turn him on.

A man and a woman may have many things in common. Here's the kicker...Ego, in my opinion, is often one of them. I've known women who were rather rough with men. Mutual teasing and playful wrestling are acceptable when both parties agree. However, constant nagging and unwanted "jerking around" are not.

People go to many lengths in order to protect their egos. In a relationship between mature men and women the other person's ego should be more important than one's own. This is not to say that you should allow someone to belittle you. Just be aware that men tend to maintain a relationship with women who build them up instead of knocking them down. The same is true of women. His self esteem shouldn't require constant emotional grooming either. When a reasonably secure man reveals an insecurity, he's letting you know he needs a gentle boost. We don't have the time to baby him all day, but we can support him and admire him, and in return he will appreciate it. If you are a woman on an ego trip, come down from your mountain and visit us on the ground where we are on the same surface, and hopefully the same page! Take it slow, and play it safe.

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3 Shoe Colors That Get You Noticed

Did you know that your outfit, you know, that one particular match/piece that you select to wear whether it be to work, to meet the girls or for a date makes a very bold statement and did you know that your outfit would be absolutely nothing if you don't have the perfect color shoe to accentuate it?  Surprised? You shouldn't be. If they are well-coordinated with the color of your clothes the will make a statement that will get you noticed amongst all several other women in the room. 

There are 3 colors of shoes that are ranking the highest on the charts to take your look, and your outfit to the next level. I'll share with you the color, how to wear it and tell you why this particular shoe color is recommended, but most importatntly what it describes in a womans personality. For the summer season, I highly recommend all colors to be worn with open toes. Fall and winter definately closed toe. Its sexy and appealing to ones eyes. The size of the heel shouldn't matter if the look is captured. Personally, I wouldn't recommend wearing flats though or anything under a 3 inch heel.

Make certain though that you get your pedi because your toe nail polish can make or break your entire look. Lets just assume that your social function is that of importance, so when selecting your shoe, not only is it important to understand the event that you are going to be attending, but one should tie it in with the outfit for that particular season/occassion. I always accuentate my outfit but I never forget the most important.....the lingerie under the outfit. What they see on the surface looks sexy but how you feel underneathe the layers makes a statement all of its own.

# 1 BLACK

Black is the CLASSIC OR BASIC LOOK for sexy high heel shoes. If you aren't sure with the selection of color for your shoe, black high heels are mostly recommended to wear since this color always goes perfect with any color of your outfit. So you will never have a hard time in matching these shoes because of their flexibility to mix and match with just about any of your outfits or even any occasion. Black is also the color of INTELLECTUALISM, of ABSTINENCE, of DISCIPLINE. It's smart, it guarded and it is in a category all of its own. Black is not meant to be flashy, rather to constitute who you are as a woman and it defines your features personalizing you as a symbol of exquisite taste. It is simple, when worn with a little black dress, and a partical open toe is what says sexy. It represents you as well as the outfit that you have chosen. It will differentiate you from all others. When you select the proper style and cut of shoe it identfies who "you" are and this is a pretty big statement that you want to make, yet in a soft sopken way....it will scream attention, and add swager to your walk with confidence.

#2 RED

Do not underestimate the sex appeal of a red high heels shoe for if you do, you'll not see the value in what it stands for and what it says when you wear it. The color red represents life and fertility, but it's also associated with danger and death. Red is the color for passion and rage, love and war, also religious ceremonies. Red high heels shoe symbolizes BOLD, PASSIONATE, STRONG and INTENSE. If you decide to wear red high heels shoe, be careful with selection of your outfit. It will most definately make a statement and people will certainly take notice when they see you in red shoes. In fact, they'll remember the style of the shoes, the heel, the height and the look far before they can tell you what the outfit was all about. Choose a red dress or have a red motif and wear it in the night (evening hours) Red says fresh, frisky and full of fire. It says dashing, determined, and dynamic. Red is aggressive and make you look lively! Add some red lipstick to your make up foundation and it will pull the look together quite well.

#3 WHITE

Your typical white high heels shoe is SEXY, PLAIN, SIMPLE and this is a color that MAKES YOU LOOK YOUNGER. Yep, it screams youth! White high heels shoe always catches the eye first, it becomes the first thing you notice about a person. It is suggested not to pair them with dark bottoms or they’ll look a bit too stark and out of place. All them to blend in somewhat but choose a pair that is sassy and unique that will catch ones eye! Pair them with a white or any light color suit. White high heels is work well in the summer or daytime. they are worn with elegance for social events. Never under estimate the power of white. It will give that one particular outfit the finishing touch,....the image that people will remember. Adding a decorative touch to the shoe will also show class, and distinction. It will define your character, show your strength, nonetheless your softer side by being catchy enough to get noticed. This color, if wore properly will give style to your outfit the flair. With white you are never taking a gander, rather making a statement that says I've just manifested my look in a non verbal way. You need not wear a high heel to grab the attention, for this piece will establish itself as an eye catcher if you can pull it off! Something to keep in mind...it doesn't matter if your shoes cost $19.99 or $900.....it's all in the style you choose for that particular event/evening and how it accents your attire.



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Plus Size Gal....What's your "Girlie Figure?"

Making the most of your "Girlie Figure"

Ladies, how many times have you just wanted to throw your hands up in the air because you cannot find something that fits your body shape right? Oh sure it looks good in the catalog or on the store mannequin, but when you buy it and take it home.....it looks hideous and you then have to return it....yet another inconvenience for you. It is frustrating isn't it?

It happens to me all the time,...so below I have listed a detailed description for the shapes and attached what the model shape looks like emphasizing the figure you may be according to looking at your own body. I hope that this is helpful to you....so please take the time to comment!! I need to know what it is that you are looking for so that I know how to better stock the store that I am building "just for you!"

Have a curvy “hourglass” figure?
If your shoulders and hips are pretty evenly balanced and your waist is defined, look for styles that flatter your curves and emphasize your waist. Instant fashion fixes include: wrap-style tops or dresses that tie at the waist. Fashionable belts—look for this season's special colors and textures—that define the waist. Shaped jackets, or cropped styles that focus they eye on the middle. Soft blouses and body-skimming knit tops over soft sweeping skirts or pants that skim the hips. Sweetheart necklines are especially flattering.

Need to create a waist?
If your proportions are fairly equal from the shoulders through the waist and hips, look for styles that create the illusion of a waist even better, find styles that play up your slim hips and shapely legs. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, which help make your waist appear smaller instantly; a belted trench with shoulder epaulettes is a great way to create shape. Fluid tunics or blouson tops and long jackets over short straight skirts, leggings or slim pants show off great legs. Avoid wide pants or long skirts that create a boxy shape.

Are you wider in the hips?
If you're narrower in the shoulders and bust and curvier through your hips and legs, look for styles that create balance between your upper and lower body. Instant fashion fixes include: jackets and tops with lightly padded shoulders, wider lapels, boat necks, embellished or ruffled necklines. Think layers: a soft hip-length cardigan or vest worn open over a blouse. Scarves and shawls at the shoulders lend upper balance and draw the eye up. On the bottom, opt for flowing fabrics in dark solids or smaller prints, and graceful sweeping lines. Boot cut jeans balance hips.

Are you wider on top?
If you've got broad shoulders and a larger bust with narrower hips and legs, look for styles that visually slim the top and play up your narrower bottom. Instant fashion fixes include: fluid, unstructured tops and jackets that skim the body. Soft knit jackets and open cardigans over a tonal or lighter top help create a slimming vertical line, as do tops in dark colors with V-necks and open necklines. And avoid heavily embellished designs and padded shoulders. Keep pants on the narrow side to avoid creating a boxy shape. The new tunics over leggings or slim pants is a great look.

Get to know your body shape and learn to love it! Our guide below can help you find the right clothes that will not only fit, but will also flatter your figure. So, whether you’re an apple or a pear, you can look and feel fabulous every day.

 At Simply Luscious Lingerie, we are working hard day and night to find the intimate apparel that will be right for you! We're not just trying to sell you lingerie, we want to accommodate your attire with apparel that will accent your figure, not make you stand out like a sore thumb! This online boutique is all "about you!" We're coming this fall, so continue to read our articles and check in with our website for more details! http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/

Lets face it, none of us have the exact same shape.....so let's determine what yours is?

Select from the body shapes I've listed below to get to know your shape better. This will make your shopping experience so much easier, and more enjoyable! In the meantime, I'll research and gather more material for you to understand your shape better and we'll discuss what accents your body and what you should definitely stay clear of. Stay tuned ladies!

Hourglass

Apple

Pear

Rhubarb

Strawberry

Pineapple

Advertising Sex?

What A Lot of People Know

One of the best methods for selling a product or service, is to show a beautiful person in skimpy clothing. Why? Because usually people don't care about the product or service at first, they only care about seeing more pictures of the beautiful model in the advertisement. An example, would be the Evolution of advertising that I discussed a while back, showcasing the trend and downward spiral of their advertising techniques. That is one of the most prime examples that anyone could ever show, because I have no doubt if you've surfed the Internet you've probably stumbled on one of the ads at some point.

Recently I had a discussion with friends about what a person would notice first upon entering a website, a picture of a beautiful woman, or the title of the article. What was he or she wearing, was it sexy, sassy, seductive, and sensual, or was it quite provocative? Does it really matter which of these it was? It just was!  According a recent poll 100% of the people surveyed voted for noticing the beautiful woman before the article title...does that really surprise you? Lingerie is, and probably will always be one of the leaders in the industry for sex and sex appeal. There is quite a difference however in the companies that advertise it and how they go about it.

I was never one for raunchy and trashy....does that sell? You bet it does, but I was raised more so with the flair to be classy and simple. I like the no make up, or very little, simple baby doll, teddy, or two piece bra and panty sets with garters and thigh highs look....I am still that old fashion gal that has respect for herself, and I take pride in my appearance, therefore my models should keep the look the same. We are selling alluring, intriguing and sexy, not trashy. We use great product placement  and our advertising is only with reputable companies. The lingerie that I sell, for the most part, middle class and even some high end material but we try to keep it at a mediocre budget. I'm not out to take the world by storm...and drain your wallets, I'd much rather prefer customers remembering me for my morals, value, and although mature look. Oh sure some of what I sell one might not consider " entirely respectable"....that is the persons choice that is purchasing it. It is by no means dirty or trashy. Every woman has to find that one piece that fits her physique best. I believe that my business will succeed and do quite well, putting a women's integrity first is and always has been motto, but if she has the confidence to wear that sexy lingerie that turn heads,...all the power to her!

My personal conclusions? Yes, sex sells. There is a lot of money to be made by using sexually driven advertisements, but for me, I only have one problem. I have morals, and for some reason that's always been a wall that I only peek around from time to time, but never climb over. Well, I'm not sure how long that wall will last, because from what I've noticed so far, is that this can be a potential money maker if used properly. So in truth, there is a substantial reason as to why advertising companies have used attractive and beautiful people for the advertising, it's an attention getter!

Ask Yourself This Question

When you see lingerie articles, what catches your attention first? Was it the article title, or the picture of the beautiful woman with cleavage and her booty? If this is anything like the other study I did earlier concerning the article title verse the beautiful women.... then I'm pretty sure it's going to be the woman again. Do you see the advertising power here? I do! Sure there are those who say that advertisers only use pretty girls to sell....and they also say that there are other ways in the industry o f doing so......Really? Because last time I saw an ad for farm equipment it was boring to me,...now put a gal in a bikini set on that tractor with a cowboy hat on and watch your revenue soar! Can you say cha ching?

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Expectations in Marriage

In marriage, knowing what to expect is half the battle!  So, here are some things you should expect in marriage.  Now some of them may sound negative, but they aren’t meant to be.  We just need to be prepared that challenges will likely arise.  When they do, it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world, or your marriage.

1. Conflict....We'll all go through this.

Conflict will happen, and that’s okay, don't you expect it? I did.  Figure out how to handle the situation, what steps to take, what to say, and certainly what "not to say!" If you handle these conflicts in a loving, mature way, it won't seem so bad. Communication!! KEY!! Talk it out!!

2. Expect Delays

Planning for your future is a great thing to do as a couple, just understand that things don’t always arrive on schedule – not babies, not raises, not your health problems, not the sitter! Things are going to come up. Never fails in my family....it's always something. When you expect delays, you won't freak out when they happen.

Ex; when planning a get together, party, etc....tell your guest to arrive at 3pm when the party really starts at 3:30. If they are anything like my Ex's family, they still showed up late..but oh how they were the life of the party when they did arrive!

3. Expect Disappointments

File this in the, “you’re both only human” category. Your spouse will not be the answer to all of your problems.  Your spouse won’t be a mind reader or anticipate all of your needs. You need to tell your spouse what you want, and need...otherwise, how will they know?

4. Expect to be annoyed, pissed off, and out numbered from time to time

What was once appealing is now annoying. Why is this? Perhaps it was a habit that he/she had that you once thought was quite cute now irritates you? Be ready for that habit of his or hers you found so adorable while you were dating, to become annoying,..what's worse is if you tell them it annoys you now and they keep doing it...  But remember this, there are things you’re doing that are likely to be driving them nuts too. Cut them some slack and continually focus on their good qualities.  If you just can’t overlook what’s bothering you, talk about it in a loving, kind way....don't throw things at them, it won't work, you'll just end u repairing the hole you put in the  drywall. How do I know this? I threw a bathroom scale once....Oh, it got his attention, and he sent me the repair bill for $95.00

5. You'll find that  you’re doing more...

You might feel like you’re Super Mom.... doing more dishes, more laundry, more bedtime reading with the kids, more yard work, more taking the garbage out. You get the idea.   When you start feeling put out and put upon, take some time to assess the situation. Be verbal, and by this I mean chat about it, .....no screaming and yelling.... Instead of attacking your spouse and demanding more help, sit down and calmly express your desire to do your jobs well, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Maybe he doesn't realize that you are getting burnt out?

6. Agree to disagree

Just because you are “one” in marriage, doesn’t mean you will agree on everything. You never will agree on everything, you may be the missing piece to his puzzle but your aren't a miracle worker. You aren't always going to be right......Even though the pieces match doesn't mean the patterns do......but, guess what?  That’s okay.  Respect your spouse’s right to have a different opinion than you.  Don’t shoot down ideas right then and there, think about the time that he put into this thought.  There is more than one way to get the job done and believe me when I say,...arguing will only prolong it. You are both partners of respect, so give a little.

7. Not attracted to your spouse anymore?

This may never happen to you, BUT it does happen to a lot of couples. You might go through your entire marriage with the hots for your mate.  But if, at some point, you’re just not that into your spouse, pray that you will have a loving heart, and talk about it, or seek counseling for guidance. Many things cause this, mid life crisis comes to mind....(been there done that, with my spouse)  Also, look beyond the physical or lack of chemistry and fall in love with what’s good about your spouse. You might be missing something really great!

Marriages are a lot of work, and they are a two way street....you need to talk it out. Remember what brought you both together in the first place,...remember the wonderful times that you have shared over the years and be grateful for the time you have with your spouse. Nothing lasts forever, life is precious. Marriage is a loving bond that takes much nurturing....My parents are celebrating their 49th wedding anniversary this October. I've never seen two people happier! Sure they argue, its fun to watch them do it, they both always think they are right.....but someone always caves in and lets the other win the argument. Communication, understanding, patience, and love for one another is why their marriage is so strong. My marriage didn't last because I didn't have what my folks have. Trust and communication....without it, your ship will sink.



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How About... Belly Dancing Ladies?

So you're thinking about belly dancing huh? Great idea!! This is a hobby/ dance skill that has become more and more popular and it actually is a great way to tighten those muscles, and lose that unwanted weight. It a form of intense exercise that is intriguing and beautiful. It is a dance of sensuality. I'd like to learn how to do this,...for now I practice with my hula-hoop.

Where you can go to Find a Belly Dancing Costumes & Accessories?

If you are just starting up or already an expertise at belly dancing, you may be asking the same questions......Where do I shop? Well,.... If you are trying to find a belly dancing belt, or a head-dress,slippers or veil, then it certainly shouldn’t be too hard or long of a process. There are many stores available across the world today that offer all types of belly dancing clothing and accessories.Today, more and more women are searching for where to shop for "Belly Dance" costumers and accessories. Simply Delicious Lingerie is adding a category to our boutique allowing us to bring our customers the most unique, original, and exotic belly dancing belt, costumes, jewelry, and accessories. Check back within the next week or two for our full line.

Whether you need something to wear to class or to practice, or even a performance, you can find everything you need here, including the belly dancing belt of your choice. Another good option to go to would be try https://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  which is a company that was established in 2010, and is growing with the number of belly dancer requests per items daily. Currently you can find them listed under "Delicious Deals" and "Misc Apparel & Accessories" on our website.

At Simply Delicious we offer a variety belly dancing costumes, accessories, music, and more, .....all at low prices! If there is a particular piece that you need, write us under the "Contact Us" section under the Information tab and we'll do our best to try to find what piece or item it is that you are looking for. Our selection size will increase, but what has customers flocking in is their desire to sell these items to you at the lowest prices. Some store sell full 6-8 piece costumes that retail for anywhere between $600-$850.... At Simply Delicious you'll find them at our discounted prices way below the retail suppliers cost. Look in various areas that you reside for lessons. This is not just about sexy lingerie...it's so much more. For myself if I were to look it would be in the Youngstown Ohio area...for you it may be in a much larger city. Do research on the internet. This is one of the greatest forms of exercise!!

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Does Sex Sell?

Oh you better believe it......Sex sells! Advertising and sex have been tied together since advertising became a big business. The use of sexually suggestive images to sell just about everything really emphasizes the point that sex is a merchandiser's best friend. One doesn't walk into this type of business with blinders on...Oh No! I knew what I was doing....I have other businesses, and I love them, each one of them...Simply Delicious Lingerie and soon to be (Simply Luscious Lingerie) are the most rewarding to me, both for personal reasons as well as financial reasons.

Sex is used to sell all sorts of products. Would you agree that sex really sells... best? I am a little bit bias due to the fact that I own a few lingerie shops myself, but in all reality, sex does sell....no matter how you slice it, it just does!

 For the consumer, it makes sense to use sex to sell lingerie, men's cologne, even liquor, but what about using sex to sell some of these other products? Lingerie is a leading seller in the market today. Sex sells claims the old and undeniably true adage. We are sexual beings. Advertisers use this attribute by trying to associate their products and services with sexy imagery hoping that some of the hotness gets attached to their brand in the consumer's subconscious mind.

However abusing your audience's attention is a dangerous thing. Another thing to be cautious about is how much nudity is sufficient to grab eyeballs and what is too much thus considered offending. This is of course a cultural question. Usually the more religious your target market the less accepted it is to show bare body parts. For these reasons one needs to be careful where and how to use sex in advertising.

To a degree, fashion brands are going with the flow of a 24/7 media landscape in which the limits of what images are deemed acceptable are constantly being tested and expanded. While we are playing a role in communicating suggestive, if sometimes playful, sexually infused messages, brands and retailers are generally reluctant to discuss the impact of what they are doing. Now the brand is less important because of the dialogue that exists between consumers, and what makes a brand cool is what this new culture defines. Today, it’s social media, the conversation. You can’t understand your consumer if you do not have a dialogue. You don't need much dialogue to discuss or describe sex. Lingerie suggests being provocative, sassy, saucy and spicy.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are working at creating advertisements that will show class, not trash. In retrospect, some would ask, "How is selling vibrators and toys in an adult novelty section not trash?" We don't enforce the items, we sell them. I strongly believe that everyone has a right to do what they wish to do in the privacy of their own home or surroundings....you are purchasing the products from my web site whether they be beautiful corsets, baby dolls, cocktail dresses, gowns, swimwear, or novelties....one wouldn't think that you were going to sit on a porch swing and use the toy.....NO, you are discrete in how you use or wear it just as we are in how we sell it.

I was raised a strong Catholic. Now, God forbid you sleep together or get pregnant before you wed....the church wants nothing to do with that...in fact, they pretty much condemn you....how do I know this? I'm a rebel, the "bad girl" if you will....and I got pregnant before I was married. Back in the day some 20+ years ago that was just unheard of, now women are becoming single mothers every day. Tell me......Why is it OK for the church to condemn what I did/do but it's OK to play BINGO and drink all night in a beer tent and then get in your car and drive home? I don't get it?

 I admire those who unlike many continue to find a way to sell the products without getting bad mouthed.....I have no trouble sleeping at night, in fact.....I sleep quite well. Lingerie is a billion dollar industry and unlike some, sex does sell and I will continue to sell it! As my businesses grow I will open myself up to yet other markets. Why? Why not. I like working for me and not punching a time clock. I respect all of my customers and appreciate them for choosing Simply Delicious Lingerie for their "naughty needs" and beautiful lingerie products.

Our new web site launches in just a few days! We look forward to seeing you!

Michele, Owner/CEO
Simply Delicious Lingerie
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