Ok, so it all comes down to this; Some men are great at flirting and creating sexual tension, then smoothly transition into that first kiss. Others take a bad situation and make it worse by attempting to execute a kiss oblivious of the chemistry between them, hence the awkward kiss. Not all men are Rico Suave and not all men know how to operate their mouths and motor skills....this could be a problem. The last thing you want is to get excited and giddy about that kiss until he opens his mouth and practically swallows yours! Yuck!Yes, this can be devastating to a first date. It can be the "make it" or "break it" of dates.The awkwardness happens only when it feels forced because it’s the protocol to share a kiss at the door at the end of a date. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve also had a mediocre date turn amazing because of his superior kissing abilities..... But let’s be honest, that doesn’t happen often as a great kiss starts before our lips ever meet.
After an awkward first date, its easy to go on a second date giving him the benefit of the doubt, but surviving an awkward kiss is much harder. The kiss is where our chemistry is solidified, where friends become possible lovers, fantasies become a reality, or in worst cases, where a date-hopeful becomes just a friend. That kiss is more than two lips locking together, its the moment where many women decide on the fate of the relationship. Unlike an awkward conversation, that kiss is what I might be fantasizing about when I’m getting ready for a date. Instead, when the butterflies in my stomach is replaced by feelings of apprehension rather than anticipation, the 2nd date is already tainted before it begins. So what do you do? If you are at the doorstep and dropping her off, what is the rule of thumb?
Go For It
An awkward first kiss is better than nothing. If you’re seeing a lot of potential on your date, then make sure you plant a kiss or even a peck before the night ends. A lot of women confess that if their date doesn’t at least kiss them good night, they’d go home wondering whether or not the guy is interested. So, if you’ve enjoyed the night, then give them a goodnight kiss to let her know about your intention.
Never Ask for Permission
A first kiss should always be spontaneous. So asking a girl whether or not you can kiss her will surely make for an awkward first kiss. Women also think this is an overly polite gesture that will lead to nothing but induce more anxiety into both parties. Think of the first kiss like bungee-jumping. The more time you spend talking about it, the more nervous you’ll feel.
Perfect Timing
Although there is really no clear rule about when to kiss a girl, it’s usually better to make the first kiss right before you say good night. In this way, you won’t have to look forward to thinking about conversing casually after kissing. Conversation will always be more awkward after the first kiss, so the perfect time will always be towards the end of the date. You’ll know when the perfect moment is, so just go with the flow.
A first kiss tells a lot about the person. Usually, you can tell what the person is like by kissing them. This sets the stage on what your relationship will be like. Of course, a disastrous first kiss doesn’t have to spell doom to the relationship. A lot of couples have said that their first kisses could be improved but they’re still together. So don’t be pressured about making the first kiss unforgettable. Sure we'd like to dream that it will be, but if it isn't and there is chemistry, remember...."practice makes perfect!" If the relationship is bound to work, then it will work, no matter the quality of the first kiss. It will be one that is a lifetime memory.
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