Simply Luscious Lingerie Sells Fabulous Plus Size Intimate Apparel

Why has finding plus size lingerie been such a chore for so many woman? Where can women go to buy beautiful lingerie to fit their needs? It used to be said that a curvier figure worked to the advantage of a woman looking for plus size lingerie. News Flash sister....that is NO LONGER the case. Simply Luscious Lingerie has luscious lingerie that fits women up to size 4X. Gone are the days where you have to search and search for something pretty in the intimate apparel sections of a store. Gone are the days where you ask where the plus size intimates are and they point you to the back of the store where you find 5 items on a rack mixed in with regular size lingerie. We put your needs first! We designed a website JUST FOR YOU, the PLUS SIZE gal!

We bring you top quality selection at luxury prices and we just keep getting better and better! Not only do we offer everyday lingerie, we have a fabulous flirty selection of plus size wedding day lingerie, bridal lingerie, and plus size honeymoon lingerie.

 Plus size fashion today is a thriving market and every year it becomes more and more popular. Why? Supply and demand. Very few boutiques offer what we do. At Simply Luscious Lingerie, we have what you want and it is exquisite lingerie that any woman would be proud to wear. Being plus-size may have prevented women from pursuing sexy lingerie before but that is completely not the case today. Might I suggest please...before you purchase yourself plus size lingerie, it is best to know the size, style and color that would look good on you. Every woman has her own eclectic taste that differs from someone else. You should be very selective when it comes to what your are wearing under your clothes. After all, confidence is everything and we want you to be ravished in confidence when you wear our products.

The first thing that we suggest you do is to do is to know what size fits you perfectly. To do this, it is necessary therefore for you to know your exact measurement. Measure your hips, bust and waistline. There are also stores that will give you your exact measurements so that your lingerie will cling to your body rightfully. Your lingerie will shape your every curve and will make you look and feel sensual and comfortable.

 For more voluptuous women with deep cleavage and hourglass waists, plus size lingerie is made to accentuate your positives and not hide them! Show those curves off ladies! If you are looking for stylish options for a fuller figure, then consider the advantage to purchasing lingerie for your curvier figure, which is made specifically to support your curves. Carrie Amber Intimates line SeventilMidnight brings to you the best of the best! We are here to pamper your desires ladies, not those of a woman that wears a OS, S, M or even L. We start at a OSP and go up to 4X. Your lingerie should not only flaunt but flatter your body.

Full figured women can often feel that there no choices for them in briefs except good old fashioned 'granny panties'. Well, you longer have to be limited to white full sized briefs. Say goodbye to the grannies and hello to sexy panties! There are so many choices of wonderfully sexy lingerie briefs, garter sets, and thongs. You could wear a sexy thong with your corset...and I can almost guarantee that the heat will turn up in the bedroom! Every woman needs sexy panties in her lingerie drawer and more voluptuous women are definitely no exception. There is now such a nice selection of styles and colors available to full figured women. When you shop our online web store you get privacy and all the time you need to make the perfect selection. We're open everyday, all day and all night. We handle each order with your needs in mind. After all, your happiness is what we strive for, and earning your trust is important to us at Simply Luscious Lingerie. We respect you and your confidentiality. Thank you for putting your trust and your tush in our hands!

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Women Love Lingerie!

Hands down...There is nothing better than buying new lingerie. Whether it be a new bra and pair of panties or a corset for a risque' evening out spice it up a little! Take your desires to the next level. If you are normally a gal that is conservative, that's OK, take baby steps and find something that says sassy. This is time to pick out something sexy that suits you and your needs but we do want you to look, feel, and be comfy. Confidence is the most appealing characteristic a woman can have and if she is wearing a piece of lingerie that she is not comfortable in it will show. Every woman should treat herself once and a while to that sexy little piece. When you find what fits and looks best on you, you're are off for an amazing day for sure! The main thing to remember is make sure you love it and it for you so you can enjoy it when you get it home. Here are some tips on what to look for to make your lingerie-shopping shopping easier;

Be Absolutely Tasteful: Keep it classy, not trashy. Make sure you feel like a goddess in what ever your choice of lingerie. Make sure that it compliments your body and does not expose areas that may make you self-conscious. This is supposed to make you feel sexy not awkward. If you do not like the way your butt looks try a camisole or chemise instead of a G-string and garter. If you want to have more cleavage then go for a bustier or corset. Show off your arms and thighs with a great teddy. It is all about what makes you feel and look your best.

Colors: Find out what colors make you look fabulous. We all have a favorite color or two. Find yours!You want to stand out not look washed out. Blondes can pull off just about any pastel color there is. While brunettes look fabulous in those earth tones, stronger colors, and prints. Redheads look amazing in bright sassy colors as well as earth tones too. Make certain that it flatters you and if it doesn’t, find the right piece that accentuates your curves. If it makes you out where you are going to demand attention, that is a huge plus!

Soft to the Touch: You should enjoy touching it as much as wearing it. Make sure it feels luxurious on your skin. If you think it might irritate you then do not get it. Silks, satins, and crushed velvets are not only sexy they are comfortable to the skin and senses as well. Stay away from too much lace or lace that covers delicate parts that can turn from sexy to 'ouchie' in a mater of minutes! This can be scratchy and not fun at all to wear for a lengthy time. If you are going for that lace look make sure the fabric underneath is soft and gentle to your skin.

Get Comfortable: Update those intimates with some comfortable items like tank tops cutesy pajamas! Sexy is not just skimpy it is also sassy and cozy. You can look good and still be casual at the same time. Look for soft fabrics like satin. We have beautiful satin pajamas at our online boutique. http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/womens-intimate-sleepwear-satin-pajamas-two-piece-pajama-set

Sizing: Find your right size. This is a race to see who can squeeze into the smallest size, it's about feeling great and looking sexy in something that curves and hugs your body!

4 Key Styles: The key types of lingerie that can work with any woman’s wardrobe are: 

Chemise: A straight or slightly flares gown that skims over the contours of the body.

Baby Doll: A short gown that can be sheer or full fabric that has a bra like upper portion and flares out just under the bust. Usually comes with matching panties. 

Bustier: Usually strapless looks like a long bra that has cups and covers the torso. 

Corset: can come with or with out straps and gives the profile a flat look when cinched. Designed to slim the waist and create cleavage.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we have lingerie for all shapes of woman from size OS-4X. Take a moment to browse our store today where you will find luxury lingerie at very affordable prices. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com and our plus size store
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Why We're Afraid of Men

Although not many would tell you this nonetheless, one of the biggest issues that a guy has to deal with when trying to date or seduce women is getting around the fact that most women are afraid of men. Instead of waiting for a quality date with someone they want to go out with, many women opt for these easy fixes of ‘flower potting’ themselves into dates. What does this mean? They settle when they shouldn't and then they kick themselves later. Did you know that 5 times out of 10 a women say yes to the first man that really pays attention to them and get lost in the lust and excitement of a new relationship without really knowing what they want. That's more than half...but the other half says a flat out NO WAY! Men hate it when women reject them. There’s nothing worse than having your ego smashed to little pieces when the woman of your dreams turns you down for a date. You really thought she was interested, but somehow you must have misread her signals.

 Women who’ve been single for awhile may come down on themselves, thinking their standards are too high. Our standards should be very high and if yours aren't you need to make some changes gals!  A woman rejects you when she stops by to abuse you or say something that makes you feel that she did not like you approaching her. Most women choose not to stop and usually end it by saying ‘No Thanks.’ Sometimes women are not in the right mood.

Women tend to be sensitive, compassionate people. They care about emotions, so they empathize with the pain of rejection and don’t want to cause a guy pain. It is not the kind of fear that will cause her to run screaming from the room, but it is no less of a hindrance for that. It is a lack of trust or general wariness that will make her hesitate when you ask for her number, or pay her a compliment. It leads her to read all kinds of things into the simplest statement. 

Of course this is partly because of the small number of men who could be rapists or killers, but women know that this is only a tiny minority of men and they will not suspect most men they meet of this. The worst thing you can do is say, 'I'm not a rapist', as this will immediately bring the possibility into her mind and make it harder for her to argue with the parental voice in her head that is telling her not to trust men.

Most times however the difficulty is getting past her belief that most men will take advantage of girls, abandon them after sex and hurt them emotionally. A lot of mothers tell their daughters that all men are like this at heart. So not true. However, with the number of divorces that are around, society often confirms this belief for the growing girl. So while they do want to be seduced, most women are wary of a seducer who doesn't want a relationship. This can be a problem if your aim is to seduce and move quickly on to the next, especially if you are known for that.

What you must appeal to in this situation is a woman's love of a challenge. Even if she knows you are the worst guy in town, it is always possible that she is the one woman in the world who will be able to tame you, and after all, men do want to be tamed on the contrary to what they will lead us to believe. You can use this to your advantage. Consider how many women are attracted to gay men and try to seduce them in the hope that they will 'turn straight'. It's the same kind of challenge: she wants to prove that she is so special, she can change a man's very nature.

Another advantage that you have ladies is that most men do not understand why women should be afraid of them and so they have no strategy against it. If they become aware that a woman does not trust them, they will either make the mistake of trying to tackle it head on by saying something like 'I'm not a rapist', or they will think there is something wrong with the woman and try to make her feel bad about herself. This is another big mistake that will make the situation much worse. My non-professional advice is this; the better you understand women, the better you will be able to work around their defenses.

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10 Ways to Get Her to Want You

Hey guys, let's say you meet this super fabulous woman and you want to get to know her better, in fact, you really want her to like you. What do you do? How do you get her attention without making a total idiot of yourself? Don't go over the top. That only spooks a woman out. Take it real slow. Knowing how to approach her is the first step, and the second step is know what to say or not to say!  

 One thing leads to another. Listen up...if you think you're going to get in her britches that quickly you need to forget it. Not so fast hot shot. What you want to do is you think about getting to know her first at her pace and then possibly down the road perhaps getting intimate with her. If you start it off all wrong then the walls come crashing down on you because you put your big fat foot in your mouth. Don't be afraid to speak, just know what to say and how to say it. Here are the don't topics that I suggest paying close attention to:

1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.

If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. You want to shine and make her think you're all that and a bag of chips so giddy up! Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive. 

2. For goodness sakes, try not to bore her!

There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject.Oh and NEVER EVER EVER talk about other women you like or that you've dated in the past. Woman gets pissed, red flag, game over!

3. Do not YAP too much.

If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. Trust me, I am the ice princess of this and I earn the nickname by friends for doing just that. If you yap too much she will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you quite boring. Try to get her talking too. Even when the woman is shy you can do this. By doing so, it helps her to feel relaxed and in return you'll  find out what she is really interested in. 

4. Never ask too many questions.

I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.

A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question. You are building trust by creating connections and letting her see similarities, things that the two of you share.

With this technique you must only repeat actual words that she said. If you say “What kind of comedies?” then that is another question and she may feel she is being interrogated.

5. Avoid Yes / No Questions.

Avoid questions that can have Yes or No as the answer, e.g. “Do you like travel?” This can kill the conversation. Ask open ended questions that will grab her attention and make her want to really elaborate on her response.

6. Do not treat a woman as a prize.

A woman does not like the idea of being a prize or a possession. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends.She is no trophy or arm candy. She wants to be treated with respect...got it?

7. Try to interpret her body language.

Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. As Julia Roberts quoted in Pretty Woman "Big Mistake, HUGE!" Body language us what you need to learn how to read. A woman often speaks through her body movements. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you. If she is then you can carry out your seduction plan and if she isn’t then there are a lot of other fishes in the sea.

8. Flirting...Could this be the answer?

Well yeah! How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? Give her a sign already!! When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention. It's as simple as that! You've just made the first move and taken the first baby step towards getting to know her.

9. Be CONFIDENT!!!

Women simply cannot resist men who are confident. Its a turn on actually...so kick it up a notch fellas! Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits. 

10. Make this woman feel good!

If you want to attract and seduce a lady then it is very important to make her feel good in your presence. If she feels happy when she is with you then it will not take a long time to attract her. Do this with respect though, because if she has the slightest feeling that you are trying to be slick willy and lay the moves on her took quickly, you'll get the boot and to the curb you'll go! Try the "Meet and Greet" approach. It works. Just be yourself! 

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How Loyal is the Company YOU Work For?

Back in the day, I was raised where deals were made with a simple hand shake. My grandparents never signed a gazillion documents to finalize a deal whether that be a mortgage, or for employment. They shook hands and that was that. As I got older, I watched my mother and my father work their asses off for the same company for anywhere from 25-45 years. That's right 25-45 years....why? They were loyal to their jobs and when you had a good job (and it wasn't even a matter of is it was a 'good' job per say, but a job, you did not quit) you gave that company your loyalty because they hired you and gave you a paycheck and good benefits.

What happened to my parents? New ownerships took place in their companies, young blood came in, more less the owners kids and grand kids who didn't know the first thing about running a company rolled into town with high expectations and demands. All they saw were dollar signs and visions of how to pad their Armani pockets. They didn't know the old fashion morals and ethics my parents were raised to have, but they did everything possible to cut spending and give themselves a much larger unearned bonus.

 What about the average Joe that worked for years and years? Did he deserve to get let go 3 years before he retired from a company that he was so loyal to? As sad as it is , Corporate America no longer cares about the little guy. My parents saved for a lift time to retire at 62 and travel the world. What did they get?...a kick in the ass and a severance check to boot. They lost part of their 401K, pensions and they were tossed aside for a new younger version of them for whom the company could pay a lot less money and give practically no benefits to because it was cutting costs with that particular company. Have you ever wondered what is company loyalty? Do you wonder why this country has gone to hell in a handbag over the last 20+ years. Look around you people...the writing is on the walls. My question to you is quite simple,...does your your employer give you his/ear/their  all? Do you get 100% loyalty and then some...is your employer in return loyal to you as well ? If you say yes, please tell me what la-la land you live in?Very few companies that I know of really care about the little guy. It's all about getting richer in the corporate world and moving up the executive ladder.

Companies used to make promise after promise to their employees...now many companies cannot or will not hold up their end of the bargain, so why should the employees hold up theirs? To all of these companies that terminated terrific employees like my parents or force those into early retirement like my parents I say this; you get what you deserve and you just shot yourself in the foot! Oh do I believe in karma. Before any of you damn this generation of workers, consider this possibility... Maybe, just maybe, do you think that the employers killed company loyalty? That’s right, employers killed loyalty. The hard working American gave their all and what did they get? A pink slip!  How could this happen? Things just are NOT the way they were and we are in economical hardship because a bunch of yuppies jumped in to take over grand-daddies business with their own expectations and never considered YOURS!

For some baby boomers, this shift has been hard to accept. Many started their careers assuming that they would be rewarded based on long tenure. Now they are seeing that structure crumbling around them — witness recent layoffs. Don’t their experience, wisdom and institutional memory count for anything? Nothing speaks more clearly about your values and principles than your choice of associates and of those promoted to positions of prominence and authority.
 

Loyalty is dead and study after study seems to confirm this. Today’s employees will have an average of nine different jobs in their career—nine different jobs! That’s a real change from that older generation of workers who joined the company and stayed long enough to get their pension and their gold watch. Those were the “good ole days.” What happened? Who killed company loyalty? I don't care if you are 90 years old and still the CEO of a company or 25. Run it with respect, and in return you'll get respect back.

Loyalty can be earned only when leaders put the welfare of their customers and partners ahead of their own self-serving interests. If it is really about self-sacrifice - that is, about putting principles and relationships ahead of immediate personal financial gain - what relevance can it possibly hold for business, which is in large part driven by self-interest? There is indeed a high road in business, and it is the only road to lasting success.We need to seriously make some changes. You need to protect yourself. My grandmother used to always say "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." Were handshakes really all that bad? Integrity and loyalty meant something then and when someone made you a promise, by God, they kept it. She told me to never put all of your eggs in one basket because no job is ever secure, and to always accept any training that a company will give you for it is something that you can use as a tool to enhance your resume. It's your call here...so I'll leave you with this...is your employer 100% loyal to you? Do they pay you what you are truly worth, do they truly respect you or are you their doormat? If you feel that you are not getting paid what you're net value genuinely is, it's time to get that resume off your hard drive and update it.

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What Are Women Thinking?

Honestly it is quite scary to even try to figure out what a woman is thinking. No one knows a woman better than a woman, and we all play our own games and do our own thing but often we just want what's best for us. Do we even know what that is? Relationships and dating are nothing to joke about and everyone needs to take this serious. We think we know everything, isn't that right? Have you ever wondered what goes on inside the minds of women? Most men ask "What are women thinking?" Yes, most men do. Clearly, we can never know for sure how somebody else thinks, and that seems even more true with people of the opposite sex. However, there are certain ways in which most all women think.

 Rule #1; For instance, when a woman sees an extremely attractive man, or a man that she finds extremely attractive (and you might be surprised who they are) her first thought would be ‘He is so hot’. That’s right. Believe it. If you thought that only men could think that way then you don’t know a lot. However, seeing a hot and attractive guy does not mean that the woman will approach him. What she will do is look at him a lot, and watch him – his body language, his style, what he is doing and who he is with. If she is really interested in the guy then you will find that she cannot keep her eyes off him. If the guy in question is also interested then he will do the approaching. The next time you find a woman glancing your way, make your move and go over and talk to her because I'll tell you this; she's not going to go over to you!  

Rule #2; Never encourage a woman to think that you are a ‘nice guy’ if you are attracted to her. Many guys do this because it makes the initial stages of the process easier – she is happy to talk with you, for example, and it is easy to build up trust. But you'd probably find she just laughs at you when you try to move on to flirting and touching. She's not a cat, so don't try petting her. She is willing to be your friend but nothing more than a friend. What does she really think of you? Well, she will probably even go out with you in a group, but not one on one, because she is hoping you will introduce her to other, ‘hotter’ guys. However, this does not mean that you have to be a bad guy, be aggressive or nasty to her, or treat her badly. Just be clear in your mind that you can have as many women as you want, and she will pick that up, and she will sit up and take notice.

The mind of a woman is such that they are attracted to guys whom they find mysterious. Women love to be chased, so don't you think that men should enjoy it just the same? Sure they should! Women like to unfold mysteries and they simply cannot resist the challenge to know more about mysterious men. We let them get under our skin and then it just gets all fired up after that. What should you do? First of all, don’t answer all of her questions, and don’t give her too much information. You don’t want to satisfy her – at least, not by talking. When it comes to information about yourself, always leave her wanting more. If a woman really and truly fancies you then you'll know it! Like I mentioned earlier, she is attracted to you if she cannot take her eyes off you. So if you just met a woman and you find her eyes wandering away when you are talking, then that is a bad sign. It probably means that she is not interested and is looking around for someone she likes more. Make yourself more interesting by talking to another girl instead. You may end up having the choice between the two of them.

 Women are very keen creatures who simply love to notice a lot of things. They are very interested in other people and in all kinds of relationships. If you are on a date in a restaurant with her and she is looking around the room, don’t worry. As a woman and for several reasons so even for protection and security we do this so don't freak out or think a woman is looking at another man.  In that situation she is probably just wanting to see what kind of place she is in and who else is there, so that she can tell her friends tomorrow. Stop talking and let her look. As soon as you are quiet, she will want to know why, and that will get her interested in you again. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire!

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Do You Know How to Earn a Woman's Trust?

 Trust of a woman is not the easiest thing to earn, so should you even try? Of course you should or every man alive would be single! What if you need to know how to not only seduce a woman but to win her trust as well? Pay close attention here, because I'm only going to say this once. The most successful relationships have a strong foundation of trust. When attracted to a woman, your natural instinct may be to rush into the relationship. However, most women open up slowly and you should only ask her to trust you insofar as you have proved yourself trustworthy. Although there is no immediate, sure fire way to win the trust of your special lady, there are behaviors and character traits you can cultivate to put you on the right path. Extend trust to her. If you show that you trust her, she will trust you. You can do this by revealing more of yourself or relying on her to fulfill promises she makes. Don't expect her to give you more trust than you have given her.Refrain from lying. Lying kills trust faster than almost anything else.

Hey fellas, this is vital to the concept of gaining a woman’s trust as it inspires confidence in ones self and in her, even if you do not necessarily have a great posture. Eyes convey emotion and just by the simple act of making eye contact with her, you show her that you are a man capable of gaining a personal connection with her as well as an emotional one. When you are hoping to attract and seduce a woman, you will need to know how to win her trust. Women are taught to be cautious of men throughout their lives. Children are told by their parents and teachers to be careful of strange men and for girls this continues after they are grown up. Be genuine. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just to pique her interest. She'll she through you and your schemes and it will only piss her off. Then she'll immediately peg you as someone who cannot be trusted. To build the relationship, find common ground with her.

 So when you want to attract a woman, you need to earn her trust. Do you understand what that means? For those of you that don't, this means treating her in a way that shows you will not hurt her. This is not just a question of hurting her physically, although this is certainly a factor. However, she also wants to know that you will not hurt her and treat her badly emotionally. If you say you are going to do something you'd better damn straight do it. You generally only get three strikes from a woman (If your lucky) and then your out and the next fella will move in on your turf and try to get the girl. Chances are he'll get her because you didn't play your cards right and you deserve to lose her.

 A man who is impatient and tries to bully women or coerce them into agreeing to a date is not likely to be successful with women. There may be a few who will accept this kind of treatment but most will run away. I recommend running away! If you push a woman too hard for her phone number, for example, she will become afraid and will give you a false one....is that what you want? A great way to win a woman's trust is to establish a connection. In fact, this works for all relationships and you are probably aware of it. Make your intentions clear from the get-go. Attraction by itself is not enough to "seal the deal" and get a woman to go to bed with you. Even if she's hot and bothered and actively WANTS to sleep with you, she'll still inevitably make you wait until she's developed an acceptable level of trust. 

The cardinal rule; If you are hoping she will be a one-night stand, don't lead her to believe that you are looking for a dating relationship. While you might successful deceive her, it is unethical to lie to get what you want. On the other hand, if you are already in a relationship, be transparent about how serious you are. Don't lead her to believe that you foresee marriage when you are actually considering breaking up. On the flip side, don't tell her that you are happy with a casual relationship if you want to be exclusive. Remember, it doesn't matter how attractive women find you, if they don't trust you they'll slam on the breaks. So be sure to use this formula to build trust and make women feel comfortable doing what they already want to do... YOU!

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When is Enough... Enough with Child Beauty Pageants?

I'm sure that I am going to get a lot of crap from this article but you know what? I was raised to speak my mind, tell it like it is, voice my opinion and I certainly do march to the beat of my own drum so here it goes. How wrong do I think it is to enter your child in a beauty pageant at a young age? This is strictly my own personal opinion, but I am sure that others will stand up to defend me. I think it is 150% wrong, unethical and down right horrible. Child pageants get a lot of bad press, and most of it is warranted in my own personal opinion. The day of the pageant, the child has to spend time in a chair for hair and makeup. Tanning is often involved...hello skin cancer? Listen, these are kids, not to mention the cost that comes along in the wardrobe for something like this. Childen's pageants can be very expensive, and the entry fee is just the tip of the iceberg. Parents say that a pageant girl usually learns to be comfortable in front of strangers, giving her self-confidence a big boost. How about you the parent lift her up day in and day out and give her confidence? Many of these children state that they feel like princesses when they're in their pageant attire and are at the center of attention. Isn't that our job as parents to give our children all the attention necessary to boost their confidence level and to always make them feel like our little princesses? Give me a break.

A few weeks ago I was flipping channels. I sat down and watched an interesting show on the Oxygen Network.  Usually I don’t watch that station as I am a HGTV and Food Network gal, but this caught my eye; it was a beauty pageant with children between the ages of 4-to 8-years-old.

My eyes instantly became glued to this show, not because of the beauty; instead, by the deep insanity of it all.  Shocked and sickened, is the best way to describe how I felt watching this show.  I mean, mothers were spending their life savings to get these girls into these pageants and turning into slave drivers. I watched as these flawless children, got dolled up in gobs of make-up to cover up their imperfections. Seriously, how many imperfections can a four-year-old have? Make-up, hair extensions, teased hairstyles, clouds of hairspray, flippers (fake teeth), sophisticated costumes, screaming crowds (mostly the mothers), weird postures, twitched face expressions, tiaras, trophies, money and more or less talent are the ingredients for the usual children beauty pageants, along with exercised smiles and hysterical crying and outbursts.

  In today’s society, especially with women, looks and beauty seem to be a major concern for them.  It isn’t uncommon to hear a story where a woman develops an eating disorder because she wants to be skinny and beautiful as the women are in the magazines.  Now, force a child to be beautiful at the influential age of four.  As they grow up and change, they may not have the same looks they did when they won the pageants back when they were little girls.  They may have gained weight or a feature has changed dramatically, at least to them.  When they look in the mirror they may not like what they see, despite the fact they are still absolutely gorgeous.  This is all due to the strict guidelines they had to follow while growing up.

Do these pageants bring out the “witch” in these children?  Well, hearing these mother’s talk to their children, you would swear that everyone else is dirt and their child or recipient of the praise is perfect.  This does not help a child’s demeanor one bit.  It helps with the attitude to make their child feel like they are a winner and be proud, but that message stays in their heads and can easily continue to run even when they aren’t on stage.  That means that sense of “I’m the best” will transpose itself into their school and other social gathering places.  In my opinion, this will do one or two things.  For one, it will turn them into the popular, stuck-up girl on campus that all the other girls want to be and will do anything to be friends with.  Or, it will do the complete opposite and drive people away from them, which can lead to other major mental issues down the line.

Listen, I'm not in any way trying to act like the 'perfect' mother. I've made my share of mistakes, we all do. Forgive me here for a moment as I do run lingerie business and I do very much support elegance and beauty.... but I support it in women who want to enter these pageants at a legal age. I do not support 2 and 4 and 8 year old boys and girls and ages on up to be taunted and pushed by who else but their parents to win, win win! Really? Is this about them learning to fail or succeed or is the paycheck going into your account to satisfy YOUR needs and the hell with what they need?

What is your problem people? These are little kids here. Let them ride their bikes and play barbies for God sakes. Take them to Disney World not across the country to be humiliated by hundreds and thousands of people who feel the same way that I do. What are you doing? Is this all about the child learning to be positive and independent and allowing them to make their own way? My guess is NO. My guess is that you are living your pathetic childhood through none other than your child/children because you don't like how your life turned out and you have insecurities. The hard core facts here are that most mothers of these children are usually trying to live their own dreams through their young daughters. I am talking about dreams that they either could not accomplish or have accomplished in such way that they’ve become a way of life. Playing dress-up with your daughter can be great, but why are you transforming it into a full-time job that really only benefits you?

Your children are just kids, and they need to do all of the fun things that kids do, and by that I do not mean waking up at the crack of dawn to learn the dance moves to a song that talks about sex and erotic behavior. Some of these little girls danced like they belonged in a strip club. These children don't know the true meanings of these lyrics and by the looks of it, obviously,... neither do you...and you call yourself a parent? While watching this show I saw beautiful little girls with more makeup on their faces than I wear in a year. Poise, beauty, elegance? Let them dress up like I used to by wearing my mothers jewelry and stilettos around the house and having tea parties with their dolls. As for these crazy pageants...let them do this in their later teens as they mature into young adults, not now. Don't you see that you are stripping them of their adolescence? Do you even care? Let your children be children, and let them grown up and follow their dreams not YOURS!

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How to ENHANCE Your SEX LIFE!

If you are a 'Rated G' or even a 'Rated PG' kind of person, this article won't suit you...why? It's RATED R! It's going to get naughty and down right dirty. Why? I get comments and personal notes to my direct email account through my websites each and everyday from both men and women asking me to write about specific things and specific topics. Generally I don't offend people, but there are days when topics such as these arise when and where people do often dislike the terminology that I use while explaining certain things. For instance, today the topic is how to enhance ones sexual experiences and sex drive! If this bothers you, it might be a great time to leave the page and read another article. If it sparks interest as I am assuming it will, read on. The media often depicts sexual behaviors as very intense and serious. In addition, many people focus more on performance than on pleasure when it comes to sex. People can forget, therefore, how fun sex is. It is important, however, for couples to remember the fun aspects of sex. What annoys me the most are that many of these people that are doing the complaining about how wrong all this sex talk and expressive submission is...they are the ones that lack it the most and should be doing it.For those of you who have read, or are currently reading the 50 Shades of Grey, you'll understand the importance or role playing, games and toys!

Some couples will tell you that they simply don't have time to have sex any more. Busy lives, over worked, bla,bla bla. You are the ones that are in desperate need to read this article most! It is perfectly acceptable to explore fantasies, relationship-enhancing toys, or anything else for that matter, if everyone in the relationship is comfortable doing so. At the very least, couples should be able to express openly the joy that comes from having a pleasurable sexual experience. Every person in a relationship needs to determine for them what is and is not “fun” when it comes to sex. Never push a partner to try something that they don't want to try. You'll only make them not want to be with you at all.

Would looking for ways to have better sex after years of good sex with your partner be sinfully greedy? NO! From the averted gazes, blushes, and giggles that so many people produce when sex toys are mentioned, you would think increasing sexual joy past some legal limit truly would break a law or two. No way by nature, human beings are game players and tool users. We enjoy inventing recreational activities that enhance our abilities to do required tasks: accurate javelin throwing and bringing down dinner-on-the-hoof have something important in common. So, too, game-like sexual fantasies, whether all in the mind or role-played with costumes and props, "tools" if you will, are natural extensions of a healthy desire to heighten pleasure and enrich sexual relationships.

1) Vibrators have a place among the tools that people use to improve their sexual skills, increase their own and their partners' pleasure, and add joy to their sex lives. They are the leading #1 seller of all sex toys next to the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing (which I carry and offer super low costs in comparison to all other websites.) Most female orgasms depend on clitoral stimulation, and vibrators provide the most intense clitoral stimulation possible. In lovemaking with a partner, vibrators work best as a complement to other sexual stimuli. Using a vibrator does not reduce the sensual pleasure of direct body contact, of skin on skin, of mouths and tongues, of hands or genitals. Know how that saying goes, "When Mamas happy, every ones happy!?" So so true. Throughout the day(s) we carry heavy burdens, have to shuffle kids from one ball field to another, dance class, ballet, track and field, golf, lacrosse, etc. We are mentally and physically exhausted. Does this mean that you have no time for sexual and sensual fun with your spouse, lover, mate, partner, etc? NO. Now is the time that you need to relieve some of that stress and pressure, so get to it!

2) Aim for the G-Spot - G-spot vibrators are now available and designed to stimulate what has been described as the G-spot located on the upper wall of many women's vagina's. The surface of the G-spot tends to feel rough to the touch and, like erectile tissue in the penis; it may become firm and swell when stimulated. Once the G-spot is found any stimulation will help, a vibrator, finger or penis works great.

3) Dildos have been around since the dawn of humanity and probably will be for a while longer. Every woman loves them and most own more than one. Made of pliant silicone these days, they can be used for vaginal or anal penetration and come in every configuration you might think of and many you probably would not. For safety, dildos intended for anal use should have a flared base. Prosthetic penile aides are hollow dildos, usually made of latex, and can be worn by either males or females. They are held on with adjustable elastic straps. A "universal harness" designed for any dildo or penile aide with a flared base, are also made. Dildos can be fun with oral sex. As the man pleasures the woman, he can stimulate her clitoris with his tongue and use the dildo in her vagina to reach the G-spot. For women during oral sex on a man a dildo can be used anally, if so desired.

4) Lubricants add a sensual slickness to sexual stimulation. Many are odorless, tasteless, and non-staining, and some are edible. Buy yours at our store where they are tasy treats in a variety of scents and flavors. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com. I carry massage oils and body lotions that are heat induced by touch. Others warm up when you blow on them. Is that not a tasteful way to create a hot, sizzling sexy environment? this is important though; Use only water-based lubes; oil-based lubricants destroy the latex used in condoms, dams, and diaphragms. Many lubricants are designed for multiple tasks, massage, eatable, vaginal lubrication, and more.

5) Sex toys include products such as positioning pillows, sex kits, guides, books, erotic videos, feathers, games, leather accessories and so much more. There are many toys available for bondage aficionados. We offer blindfolds, satin restraints, slappers and handcuffs. Everyone needs handcuffs and Redi Whip in their supply closet. These are great for creating some fantasy play that will leave a vision in his or her mind for a long time!

6) Dress-up clothes are a great way to add spice to one’s sex life. Our lingerie is forever changing and we will continue to update our line to keep our clientele happy. Check out our fantasy costumes. If that is too much for you we have regular costumes that you can wear in the bedroom or out to a Halloween Party. They come in size from S-4X. These products are fun and sassy and definitely add a thrill to the romance.

 Want my suggestions? Set a goal. Whether it's to have more morning sex, extend foreplay, try a minimum of two new sex positions a month, or simply pleasure yourself more often, having a goal can rev up your sexual appetite and reignite waning passion between you and your partner.

 Wear something erotic and cute to bed. Falling into a routine of wearing flannel pajamas or a baggy T-shirt and sweats to bed rather than something sexy can be all too easy. And let's face it: How sexy can you feel wearing something that's been through the wash so many times it's literally coming apart at the seams? Ensure you go to bed feeling sexy by wearing something cute, silky and sensual. The sexier you feel, the more likely you'll be to actually want to have sex.

 As Marvin Gaye once sang "Let's Get It On"...doesn't mean at a particular time...I say get it on in the A.M. :If you haven't been able to stay awake long enough to get through a 30-minute evening sitcom, let alone have sex, try getting it on in the morning instead of nighttime -- or maybe you'd prefer some afternoon delight. The point is that sex is an anytime affair, rather than an after-dark-only activity.

 Try decluttering the bedroom. This is your sex palace, not the garage. Sex just seems less passionate in a messy bedroom that is filled with dirty clothes and other items that never seem to get put away. Give your space a sexy makeover by investing in high-quality sheets, getting rid of clutter (anything you don't use or need) and making an effort to put things away. A clean, serene space is much more conducive to sex than a room that looks like a tornado came whipping through.

 Hey...Who says sex needs to be relegated to the bedroom? I say live life to the fullest. There is nothing wrong with the kitchen table, the stairs, the patio furniture, the hood of the car or the pool table, bath tub, shower. Elevate your sex life by charting new territory and seeing what the other rooms in your house have to offer. Nothing is off limits. Chairs, couches, tables... test them all. You'll feel a bit naughty, which is great for arousal. Plus, you may end up finding a new space for sex that puts the boring old bed to shame. Isn't it time that you turned up the heat?

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We We Tease & Tantalize...We're Simply Delicious Lingerie

Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we work hard day in and day out to bring to all of you the most exquisite lingerie. For the bachelorette parties and for those of you whom wish to host a lingerie party we have two categories not always open to the public eye. These include our sexy lingerie as well as some adult toys and novelty. The Whip Smart Pleasure Swing is one of our number one sellers and can be found with some other sensual products in the Delicious Deals section on our homepage. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

Our face and look continues to change nevertheless, our prices have remained low and affordable. From babydolls and sexy matching sets to shoes and on to sex swings we have just what you need to fire up your love life! Take a peek in our store and find that right intimate apparel piece for you!We aim to please, and we guarantee teasing and tantalizing is the best foreplay. Isn't it time that you kicked it up a notch in the bedroom? Do you know what you have been missing? Carly Rae Jepsen sang "before you came into my life I missed you so bad"...so hey, here's our number and we're open 365/24/7. If you've not experienced our exceptional sales team that brings to you our distinguished intimate apparel, what are you waiting for, bring Simply Delicious Lingerie into your life NOW!

Coming soon is our new line of lingerie products to be mentioned at a later date in addition to the already beautiful and intriguing Carrie Amber Intimates that we are so very proud to carry. We are currently adding our costumes both for the bedroom and Halloween so check us out and see what all the fuss is about!
While we promise to keep our costs low, we continue to ask for comments from all of you to determine what else we could do to not only earn your trust and your business, rather to keep you coming back for more because you can find everything you desire at one store, ours!
Thanks so much for your support and continued patronage! Say YES to Simply Delicious Lingerie® We are your everyday sexy!


The Simply Delicious Lingerie Staff