Watching For Infidelity Warning Signs
This is one topic that no one wants to hear about but it is one that men and women need to read. Have you ever suspected something funny going on in your marriage? Have stories just not been jiving recently? Are friends covering for your partner? Did he/she really have a business meeting? What was he/she really doing out of the country..work or pleasure? Let's face it, at one time or another, there will likely be a time when you suspect your spouse or life partner is not being faithful. That sick feeling will eat away at you like death and as much as you fear it not being true, it very well can be. The suspicious thought may have some merit, or simply be a passing thought that has no real basis in fact. Nevertheless, there are a few common infidelity warning signs that seem to be show up in just about every case of infidelity. If you see any of these, (my advice -and it is not professional but I know what I'm talking about) it may be worth your while to look into the situation a little more closely.
One of the most common indicators that your love interest may have a wandering eye is a change in the level of attention he or she shows to you. While it is normal for people to become more comfortable with one another as a relationship continues from year to year, there are still plenty of signs each day that the two people want to be a part of each other's lives. When a spouse or partner begins to withdraw from the relationship and demonstrates less of a willingness to talk, cuddle, or just be in the same room together, something could be going on. Don't look past it, if you have a gut feeling something is not right, you need to act on it.
A change in intimacy is definitely one of the key infidelity warning signs. Is he/she just not that into you like he/she was? When a formally attentive partner or spouse loses interest in sex, it could be due to some hidden health factor. At the same time, it could be because he or she is gaining sexual satisfaction from an outside source. After determining there are no emotional or physical reasons for the sudden apparent lack of interest in sex, the possibility of cheating should be considered.Do they come home and take a shower before getting into bed with you? If so...they may be cleansing the scent of their partner off before climbing into the sack with you. If that is not a red flag I certainly don't know what is.
Normally, these changes in appearance and lifestyle come about after talking with their loved one and voicing a desire to make some changes. When the changes appear out of nowhere, it could be that your partner is taking steps to become more desirable to a lover outside your relationship. If they change their hair style, or wear different clothes, or even new colognes or perfumes...be on the watch. It could be nothing at all, and then it could be disaster.
It is important to keep in mind that just about any of the many infidelity warning signs can also have a perfectly innocent explanation. When your loved one exhibits one or more of these signs, don't automatically assume the worst. Your spouse or partner could be going through some sort of a life crisis and feel the need to make some changes in the way they look or the hobbies they engage in. There could be health issues that a checkup with a doctor will reveal. There is also the possibility that someone is pursuing your love interest and creating circumstances that appear to confirm his or her guilt. Take the signs seriously, but investigate them thoroughly before deciding that any cheating is taking place.
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