Kenny Nolan once sang a song called "I like Dreamin" and that song followed me everywhere I went. Sure it was a romantic song but the lyrics 'even if it's in my mind' stuck out to me for several years. I realized that I wanted more...because I had big dreams. In my mind I saw a future for me in lingerie. Are your big dreams attainable possibilities or wishful thinking? Even if your answer is "wishful thinking," there are ways you can take your dreams out of that category and put them into the realm of possibilities. In fact, you're most likely more equipped to convert dreams into reality than you ever thought you were! Believe in yourself!
Use these effective strategies in your life to reap the rewards of living those big dreams for real:
1. Want it for the right reasons. Before you go off chasing big dreams, stop and ask yourself, "Do I really want this for me?" Sometimes, it's so easy to get caught up in what your family wants or what society dictates that you eventually lose sight of what's important to you.
- Really stop and think about how your life would change if you achieved that big goal.
- Feel confident to tweak your dream so it's exactly what you want for you, and not what would make others happy.
- Consider if the end result is really worth all that you're required to put in or sacrifice.
2. Take smaller bites. Once you've decided that your big dream is really yours and yours alone, you'll need to create a game plan for achieving it. A big part of that is to break down your humongous goal into smaller, more attainable goals.
- For example, if turning your dream into reality has large costs, break down the expenses into smaller amounts that your income can accommodate over time. You have to budget accordingly.
- If your goal entails great personal changes, divide these changes into a series of small, achievable steps that lead you closer and closer to your goal.
- Once you've broken things down, set realistic targets for achieving the mini-goals and hit them!
3. Network. As the saying goes, "No man is an island." Take advantage of the knowledge, skills, help and support of others around you to help you meet your goals.
- Seek mentors that have already met goals similar to yours.
- Discover how others in similar situations to yours have overcome challenges to meet their goals.
4. Sacrifice. Most successful people today could tell you of sacrifices they had to make in order to attain their goals. Turning big dreams into reality takes a lot of time and effort, but the end result is living the life you desire. However, if you continue to do things the same way you always have, you can only expect to get the same result!
- For instance, do you have unhealthy spending habits that are hindering your progress toward your goals? Put some frivolous expenses on the back bench in favor of expenses that are directly tied in with your dreams.
- In order to bring some time into your schedule to work on your goals, perhaps you could substitute some of the time you spend watching TV with actions that lead you closer to your goal. I spend all of my free time looking for ways to build my businesses. You should be doing the same. Don't let it consume your life, enjoy it, and appreicate it. This is what you have worked so hard for.
There's no reason that you can't turn your big dreams into bigger realities. You're the only person who dictates what you can and can't achieve! Use these tips to start on your journey towards transforming your dreams into reality. You'll look back and smile when you make it happen!
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