Is He a REAL 'SUGAR DADDY'....or a BIG LOSER?

In all the years that I have written about dating, this topic has been a touchy one for many, nonetheless a subject that so many people wish to ask about but don't. So, let me make this real easy on ya'll. What is a Sugar Daddy and how can you tell a genuine one from a real piece of work? Oh honey, there are a lot of ways, and when you get to know them as I have (simply because I have male friends that do this sort of dating) you get to know what is real, and what is as phony as ever. What can one expect from a wonderful sugar daddy verse the one who talks the talk but will N-E-V-E-R, E-V-E-R be able to walk that walk? Why? Oh there are plenty of reasons.

 Allow me to share with all of you first why more and more people are joining dating sites such as these and what the purposes truly are. These are not your average run of the mill dating sites, they are high tech, top notch, and most of them such as the two that I am affiliated with, held in high regard to for the ways in which they run their businesses.

 These are based on facts, not my personal opinion and are the two highest ranked. I have taken the liberty to list to you these links below where you can try them out for free. Follow this page as you finish reading this article down to the end of the BLOG page and click on each of these sites. By clicking they allow you access through me to get a free trial membership today! Ladies, if ever you wanted to try it, do it now. I support these sites and acknowledge that they have great reputations...the problem that lies within are that many men and women sign up for all the wrong reasons without knowing the repercussions. PLEASE READ CAREFULLY and understand what a Sugar Daddy is, what a Sugar Baby is and how the two mesh.

 An Arrangement is short for " Mutually Beneficial Relationship " between two people. Not everyone defines " Mutually Beneficial " the same way yet for the most part, and in most every instance it should be taken in its literal, and most well know form, so perhaps " Friends with Benefits " is a better term since this is what most people actually mean when discussing male / female relations where the term " Mutually Beneficial Relationship " is used. This is what most Sugar Daddies are looking for when seeking a woman for such an Arrangement. Most of us call it an NSA. (No Strings Attached.)

There is a great deal more to the typical Sugar Daddy than the size of his wallet though; and you should be aware of the many fakes, phonies and con-artists that pose as wealthy businessmen, retirees and Sugar Daddies just to be seen with a pretty woman. Don’t be fooled ladies.Where does your  Sugar Daddy shop? Wal-Mart or Waldorf’s? Does he prefer a drop of local ale or a refined quality wine with dinner, and where does he frequently dine? Is it expensive 5 star restaurants or is he a real cheapo going with  all-you-can-eat diners?....Oh, or better yet, does he expect you to split a dinner? Are you for real? Seriously? When you are with a daddy for a romantic weekend and you assume that you are going 4 or 5 star and end up in the lobby of a tacky hotel where ole' cheap ass pulls out their La Quinta gold card to get stamped for a free night next time...RUN. This man is a fake and phony as a three dollar bill. 

Real wealthy men do not pull this crap. The real deal is discrete. The real deal kind of a  man once told me that a sugar daddy would never have to be asked. What do I mean by this statement? It's easy; If a man likes you, cares for you, and wishes to keep you around him for one or several reasons, you need not ever tell him you want something, nor do you have to ask for many things. A true sugar daddy will provide you with a variety of things because he wants good things for you,..period. No reason for what he does, no thank yous necessary, he just pampers you and makes you feel like a true princess. These are indications of whether your Sugar Daddy is a real one or just a want- a-be Sugar Daddy.

The Definition / Explanation of a Sugar Daddy One things is certain, common definitions make it all too trashy but it is. A true SD/SB relationship is a great one at best to have. Some last months while others last for several years. You never have to worry really about falling in love, him wanting to leave his wife because that never happens or if it did, it was a slim occurrence.  There is nothing wrong with two people seeking each other out and developing a relationship that is defined by an arrangement that meets each other needs. In fact in this day and age it may be the best way for two people, both we certain needs, to have these met without being tied down in an actual relationship. It also helps them find the companionship they both desire. Also there is the fact this type of relationship can be not only be rewarding, but is also a caring relationship in many cases. 

OK sure lust may play into it, as well as financial need or desire, yet there should be chemistry and mutual respect in a good Sugar Relationship. So yes, sex, even romance, sometimes real emotions play into the arrangement /relationship, so when you get down to it doesn't it on some level sound basically like a traditional relationship even though it isn't? I guess on some level it is, with a twist of course. In most cases it comes without the strings and commitment that define normal relationship boundaries. Given how hard it can be to meet people these days, as well as many Sugar Daddies and even Sugar Babies just not having the time to develop, or commit to an actual relationship due work or career, for some, mainly the women, even school, children, perhaps a family, this or a person may be in a unsatisfying or unhappy relationship this all makes sense. 

Listen sweetheart... unless a Sugar Daddy is " Very Old ", or completely desperate for the attentions of a woman which is rare in this life style, he is not just going to give you whatever you want or have you making demands of him. Hello this is not what he is looking for or else he'd be in a traditional relationship. In fact some men are already in a relationship, even married and are looking for a distraction from the one they are already in. These men are tired of over demanding, inattentive wives or girlfriends who expect everything they want which is why they seek out an arrangement like this.

 So the Sugar Lifestyle just works in today's society on a level as never before seen and I am all for it. In so many ways it just makes sense. Remember gals, it should always be as drama free as possible because a Sugar Daddy isn't seeking any drama being added to his life. Chances are he already has that time 10. A SD wants to be able to see a woman on long weekend trips or during the week in privacy. This is his special time with her and his source of escaping his every day hectic routines. 

 A " True Sugar Daddy " is not looking to get into a relationship where he has to pay off your debts or deal with your issues from the beginning as this would be a commitment and also brings drama into his life. Sure he may do these things for you out of appreciation and kindness, and because he has grown fond of you, but NEVER demand him to do things for you. For crying out loud men are not ATM Machines! They have feelings too. Making demands is so not cool. What is a Sugar Baby?A young/or perhaps middle aged female who is financially pampered/cared for by a sugar daddy in exchange for companionship (i.e. sexual favors to be quite frank, but not necessarily...often it is for that of simply companionship.)

Men, and when I say this I speak for at least the sugar daddy type that I know well, are the type that wish for a  woman to be somewhat independent. They are actually drawn to this type of woman more so than the blonde or brunette bombshell that looks the arm candy part but wouldn't know about politics, world news, or the economy if her life depended on it. They are more concerned with their hair, nails, getting tans, teeth bleached, boob jobs, ass implants, and their rent paid for. These women are users and just as bad if not worse than the fake Sugar Daddies. Grow up girls...get a JOB!

They are most often fakes, and will tell you that they are going to meet you right away...so what do you do? You send them money and a plane ticket and then they call you after their flight was to land (if they even bother doing that) with some lame excuse as to why they were unable to come. Meanwhile they have your cash and now a ticket to exchange for a round trip ticket to anywhere and most likely to see their real boyfriend or their girls. Don't get caught in this trap fellas. How don't you fall victim for this? SIMPLE....YOU GO TO THEM. Meet them half way or go to them the first time. Make sure that they are for real! A woman needs to feel secure with a man. We have bigger safety issues, so be a gentleman and accept this as a kind gesture, and set her mind at ease. If she begins making excuses to not have you come on a certain weekend after several attempts....move on! This should be the ultimate warning that something is JUST NOT RIGHT! Guys, make sure that their stories jive. Google them, ask them to give you more info about them, after all, if you are being generous and sending a woman a gift of cash 'to help her out' she should be able to or expected to 'annie up!'

 At the same time ladies,  never let a man, especially online know you are in any way desperate for anything, money or otherwise and here is why; It makes you a target, a potential victim of men who will promise you the world and never deliver. These schmucks are real pieces of work. They are online looking for desperate younger women they can seduce, have sex with or send them naughty photos, and then toss you aside without ever giving you anything.I know of these men and I loathe them.

In closing...in my findings and knowing as many of these men as I do, most millionaires and billionaires are happy to spend their wealth rather than live like paupers although there are certainly exceptions to this rule A 'true' Sugar Daddy is usually educated and refined which means he can string sentences together correctly and speak properly. If he cannot; then let him walk! If he can't walk the walk and talks himself up but you see very little from him on his end,...he doesn't have money, he is playing you...or he is using scamming you because he thinks that you have money...and in some cases some of us women actually do. A real sugar daddy knows what is involved and completely knows the true definition of what one is and how it works. These are real men, and they are very nice, good men that just want to be with someone who shows interest and cares for them.

Now that you understand the qualities, traits and can appreciate the real tastes of a real Sugar Daddy go find one to spoil and pamper you with gifts, travel and attention like you’ve never experienced in traditional dating. Sugar Daddy dating; now that’s what we’re talking about! It's alluring, intriguing, and can be the best thing that ever happened to the both of you if you find that perfect fit. Like the not so traditional type, some Cinderella's are not seeking the knight and shining armor, their prince, Mr. Money bags or whatever it is that you want to call him..ultimately it's not the monetary value that they are after. What some, (few and far between) are after is true chemistry and companionship of one good man. Search for that one man who appears to have integrity, morals and ethics. He is out there and believe me, he is looking for a woman that he can trust with his most detailed intimate secrets who will have his back and looks forward to the 'pillow talk!'

If you are a woman reading this then you should now understand that 99% percent of these men are not just looking for a pretty face, arm candy, or simply a friend! A true daddy seeks someone genuine that he can bond with and trust. Man or Woman, having just read the above facts, you now have a better understanding of a Sugar Daddy and even the relationship parameters. Do you, as a man or woman have what it takes to enter into this lifestyle and understand the expectations on your part? If you do not..you may be in for a real shocker. My ideal resolution is to pursue the company of a man who not only enjoys but insists on treating you like a lady, where the quality of time spent together supersedes quantity! 

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