Hosting a Bachelorette Party for the BRIDE 2 BE!

The greatest day of a woman's life; her wedding day...

 When it comes to getting married, we all want what's best for our family member and our friend...so when it comes to hosting parties for the bride to be/bachelorette; we have great ideas for you! This is 'your day' and the wedding day is a lot to make a fuss about, so cut loose and make memories! As Maid of Honor, one of your main duties is to send your best friend off in style with a fun, wild and terrific party. Or if the bride is more low-key, perhaps a nice quiet evening in good company. There are lots of things you can incorporate into a bachelorette party to make the event more unique and fun, but some of the main things to focus on are location, drinks, food, and accessories. Here are some ideas to consider for the bride-to-be!


Spa Day: A day at the spa is a great choice for a bachelorette party, as it is the quintessential female way to gather and bond. What better way than to book an all day treat for the bridal party so that everyone can relax and chit-chat about the upcoming wedding. Book a few massages, pedicures, facials, and manicures and prepare for a day of gossip and giggling. If the spa is the party’s main event, make it even more special by renting a limousine and toasting with mimosas beforehand, or make the spa trip a precursor to a night out on the town. For the trip to the spa, buy cute simple satin robes at Simply Delicious Lingerie for $19.99....these are great gift ideas that the gals can have for years to come afterwards. They come in assorted colors but black, red, and white are the most popular. You can find them on our website at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com on our Sleepwear or Bridal section.


Accessories and Favors: When you’re throwing a bachelorette party, it’s a good idea to incorporate some of the standard bridal party accessories and favors. At Simply Delicious Lingerie at our Bachelorette Boudoir as well as the Party Pleasures section we sell a number of fun games and adult novelties that will be fun gifts for the bride and her new groom. Some are somewhat cliché and cheesy, but feel free to take some classier liberties with old party standards. And what’s a party without presents? While everyone should bring something special for the bride-to-be, memorable keepsakes and party favors are also completely appropriate. After all, you’re all in the wedding so make certain to cover all of your bases and pay close attention to details.
Games: loosen your bride to be up with some fun, lighthearted games. There’s the classic “Pin the Junk on the Hunk” and the timeless game of How Well Do You Know the Bride? Might I suggest looking into one of the many card and board games made explicitly for bachelorette parties.

When planning a party, you’ll want to make a checklist so you know you’ve got everything under control. Depending on how much responsibility you’re putting on the other attendees and bridesmaids, you may want to make an individual checklist for each person invited, especially if others are expected to help with the arrangements or bring something along.

 Hey, remember, whatever you do at the party... have fun! Regardless of whether you’ve had a bad day or whether something isn’t going how you planned, don’t let a sour mood ruin the experience for the bachelorette. At this party, you’re a slave to someone else. Keep a positive attitude and have a blast!

 Have a Cocktail: Raise your glasses and toast the bride 2 be with one of these 5 favorite drinks.

TOP 5 CHOICES- The Appletini’s trendy factor has given it something of a bad rep, but this does not discount its popularity. It’s sweet, tart and a festive bright green. It’s very girly, very tasty and a perfect drink to feature at a bachelorette party. 

Lemon Drops are sweet, sugary and light and they can be served as either a drink or a shot. If you serve it as a drink, dip the rim of a martini glass into sugar and strain the mixture into the glass. Serve it as a shot by just straining it into 1 oz. portions.

Few things are as decadent and pleasing as a yummy chocolate martini. Prepare this on your own for a very special house party treat or order it for the members of your party after dinner in lieu of desert. Tip: Godiva makes an excellent chocolate liqueur – ask for that at the liquor store or from your bartender.

 The quintessential girly drink, Cosmos are bright, fun, and delicious. If you’re making them on your own, go wild with some colorful and creative garnishes; if you’re ordering them out at a bar, ask your bartender to add a little extra triple sec to make them extra sweet.

Nothing is more fruity, tropical, or widely liked than the Sex on the Beach, which is made by combining cranberry and pineapple juices, peach schnapps, and vodka and accenting with a orange slice. Sex on the Beach even has a saucy name, making them suitable for the bachelorette who likes to live a little. Another drink that can be served in a glass or as a fun shot.Check out our fabulous treats and delicious deals!

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing...the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  

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What Are Women Thinking?

Honestly it is quite scary to even try to figure out what a woman is thinking. No one knows a woman better than a woman, and we all play our own games and do our own thing but often we just want what's best for us. Do we even know what that is? Relationships and dating are nothing to joke about and everyone needs to take this serious. We think we know everything, isn't that right? Have you ever wondered what goes on inside the minds of women? Most men ask "What are women thinking?" Yes, most men do. Clearly, we can never know for sure how somebody else thinks, and that seems even more true with people of the opposite sex. However, there are certain ways in which most all women think.

 Rule #1; For instance, when a woman sees an extremely attractive man, or a man that she finds extremely attractive (and you might be surprised who they are) her first thought would be ‘He is so hot’. That’s right. Believe it. If you thought that only men could think that way then you don’t know a lot. However, seeing a hot and attractive guy does not mean that the woman will approach him. What she will do is look at him a lot, and watch him – his body language, his style, what he is doing and who he is with. If she is really interested in the guy then you will find that she cannot keep her eyes off him. If the guy in question is also interested then he will do the approaching. The next time you find a woman glancing your way, make your move and go over and talk to her because I'll tell you this; she's not going to go over to you!  

Rule #2; Never encourage a woman to think that you are a ‘nice guy’ if you are attracted to her. Many guys do this because it makes the initial stages of the process easier – she is happy to talk with you, for example, and it is easy to build up trust. But you'd probably find she just laughs at you when you try to move on to flirting and touching. She's not a cat, so don't try petting her. She is willing to be your friend but nothing more than a friend. What does she really think of you? Well, she will probably even go out with you in a group, but not one on one, because she is hoping you will introduce her to other, ‘hotter’ guys. However, this does not mean that you have to be a bad guy, be aggressive or nasty to her, or treat her badly. Just be clear in your mind that you can have as many women as you want, and she will pick that up, and she will sit up and take notice.

The mind of a woman is such that they are attracted to guys whom they find mysterious. Women love to be chased, so don't you think that men should enjoy it just the same? Sure they should! Women like to unfold mysteries and they simply cannot resist the challenge to know more about mysterious men. We let them get under our skin and then it just gets all fired up after that. What should you do? First of all, don’t answer all of her questions, and don’t give her too much information. You don’t want to satisfy her – at least, not by talking. When it comes to information about yourself, always leave her wanting more. If a woman really and truly fancies you then you'll know it! Like I mentioned earlier, she is attracted to you if she cannot take her eyes off you. So if you just met a woman and you find her eyes wandering away when you are talking, then that is a bad sign. It probably means that she is not interested and is looking around for someone she likes more. Make yourself more interesting by talking to another girl instead. You may end up having the choice between the two of them.

 Women are very keen creatures who simply love to notice a lot of things. They are very interested in other people and in all kinds of relationships. If you are on a date in a restaurant with her and she is looking around the room, don’t worry. As a woman and for several reasons so even for protection and security we do this so don't freak out or think a woman is looking at another man.  In that situation she is probably just wanting to see what kind of place she is in and who else is there, so that she can tell her friends tomorrow. Stop talking and let her look. As soon as you are quiet, she will want to know why, and that will get her interested in you again. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire!

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How to ENHANCE Your SEX LIFE!

If you are a 'Rated G' or even a 'Rated PG' kind of person, this article won't suit you...why? It's RATED R! It's going to get naughty and down right dirty. Why? I get comments and personal notes to my direct email account through my websites each and everyday from both men and women asking me to write about specific things and specific topics. Generally I don't offend people, but there are days when topics such as these arise when and where people do often dislike the terminology that I use while explaining certain things. For instance, today the topic is how to enhance ones sexual experiences and sex drive! If this bothers you, it might be a great time to leave the page and read another article. If it sparks interest as I am assuming it will, read on. The media often depicts sexual behaviors as very intense and serious. In addition, many people focus more on performance than on pleasure when it comes to sex. People can forget, therefore, how fun sex is. It is important, however, for couples to remember the fun aspects of sex. What annoys me the most are that many of these people that are doing the complaining about how wrong all this sex talk and expressive submission is...they are the ones that lack it the most and should be doing it.For those of you who have read, or are currently reading the 50 Shades of Grey, you'll understand the importance or role playing, games and toys!

Some couples will tell you that they simply don't have time to have sex any more. Busy lives, over worked, bla,bla bla. You are the ones that are in desperate need to read this article most! It is perfectly acceptable to explore fantasies, relationship-enhancing toys, or anything else for that matter, if everyone in the relationship is comfortable doing so. At the very least, couples should be able to express openly the joy that comes from having a pleasurable sexual experience. Every person in a relationship needs to determine for them what is and is not “fun” when it comes to sex. Never push a partner to try something that they don't want to try. You'll only make them not want to be with you at all.

Would looking for ways to have better sex after years of good sex with your partner be sinfully greedy? NO! From the averted gazes, blushes, and giggles that so many people produce when sex toys are mentioned, you would think increasing sexual joy past some legal limit truly would break a law or two. No way by nature, human beings are game players and tool users. We enjoy inventing recreational activities that enhance our abilities to do required tasks: accurate javelin throwing and bringing down dinner-on-the-hoof have something important in common. So, too, game-like sexual fantasies, whether all in the mind or role-played with costumes and props, "tools" if you will, are natural extensions of a healthy desire to heighten pleasure and enrich sexual relationships.

1) Vibrators have a place among the tools that people use to improve their sexual skills, increase their own and their partners' pleasure, and add joy to their sex lives. They are the leading #1 seller of all sex toys next to the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing (which I carry and offer super low costs in comparison to all other websites.) Most female orgasms depend on clitoral stimulation, and vibrators provide the most intense clitoral stimulation possible. In lovemaking with a partner, vibrators work best as a complement to other sexual stimuli. Using a vibrator does not reduce the sensual pleasure of direct body contact, of skin on skin, of mouths and tongues, of hands or genitals. Know how that saying goes, "When Mamas happy, every ones happy!?" So so true. Throughout the day(s) we carry heavy burdens, have to shuffle kids from one ball field to another, dance class, ballet, track and field, golf, lacrosse, etc. We are mentally and physically exhausted. Does this mean that you have no time for sexual and sensual fun with your spouse, lover, mate, partner, etc? NO. Now is the time that you need to relieve some of that stress and pressure, so get to it!

2) Aim for the G-Spot - G-spot vibrators are now available and designed to stimulate what has been described as the G-spot located on the upper wall of many women's vagina's. The surface of the G-spot tends to feel rough to the touch and, like erectile tissue in the penis; it may become firm and swell when stimulated. Once the G-spot is found any stimulation will help, a vibrator, finger or penis works great.

3) Dildos have been around since the dawn of humanity and probably will be for a while longer. Every woman loves them and most own more than one. Made of pliant silicone these days, they can be used for vaginal or anal penetration and come in every configuration you might think of and many you probably would not. For safety, dildos intended for anal use should have a flared base. Prosthetic penile aides are hollow dildos, usually made of latex, and can be worn by either males or females. They are held on with adjustable elastic straps. A "universal harness" designed for any dildo or penile aide with a flared base, are also made. Dildos can be fun with oral sex. As the man pleasures the woman, he can stimulate her clitoris with his tongue and use the dildo in her vagina to reach the G-spot. For women during oral sex on a man a dildo can be used anally, if so desired.

4) Lubricants add a sensual slickness to sexual stimulation. Many are odorless, tasteless, and non-staining, and some are edible. Buy yours at our store where they are tasy treats in a variety of scents and flavors. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com. I carry massage oils and body lotions that are heat induced by touch. Others warm up when you blow on them. Is that not a tasteful way to create a hot, sizzling sexy environment? this is important though; Use only water-based lubes; oil-based lubricants destroy the latex used in condoms, dams, and diaphragms. Many lubricants are designed for multiple tasks, massage, eatable, vaginal lubrication, and more.

5) Sex toys include products such as positioning pillows, sex kits, guides, books, erotic videos, feathers, games, leather accessories and so much more. There are many toys available for bondage aficionados. We offer blindfolds, satin restraints, slappers and handcuffs. Everyone needs handcuffs and Redi Whip in their supply closet. These are great for creating some fantasy play that will leave a vision in his or her mind for a long time!

6) Dress-up clothes are a great way to add spice to one’s sex life. Our lingerie is forever changing and we will continue to update our line to keep our clientele happy. Check out our fantasy costumes. If that is too much for you we have regular costumes that you can wear in the bedroom or out to a Halloween Party. They come in size from S-4X. These products are fun and sassy and definitely add a thrill to the romance.

 Want my suggestions? Set a goal. Whether it's to have more morning sex, extend foreplay, try a minimum of two new sex positions a month, or simply pleasure yourself more often, having a goal can rev up your sexual appetite and reignite waning passion between you and your partner.

 Wear something erotic and cute to bed. Falling into a routine of wearing flannel pajamas or a baggy T-shirt and sweats to bed rather than something sexy can be all too easy. And let's face it: How sexy can you feel wearing something that's been through the wash so many times it's literally coming apart at the seams? Ensure you go to bed feeling sexy by wearing something cute, silky and sensual. The sexier you feel, the more likely you'll be to actually want to have sex.

 As Marvin Gaye once sang "Let's Get It On"...doesn't mean at a particular time...I say get it on in the A.M. :If you haven't been able to stay awake long enough to get through a 30-minute evening sitcom, let alone have sex, try getting it on in the morning instead of nighttime -- or maybe you'd prefer some afternoon delight. The point is that sex is an anytime affair, rather than an after-dark-only activity.

 Try decluttering the bedroom. This is your sex palace, not the garage. Sex just seems less passionate in a messy bedroom that is filled with dirty clothes and other items that never seem to get put away. Give your space a sexy makeover by investing in high-quality sheets, getting rid of clutter (anything you don't use or need) and making an effort to put things away. A clean, serene space is much more conducive to sex than a room that looks like a tornado came whipping through.

 Hey...Who says sex needs to be relegated to the bedroom? I say live life to the fullest. There is nothing wrong with the kitchen table, the stairs, the patio furniture, the hood of the car or the pool table, bath tub, shower. Elevate your sex life by charting new territory and seeing what the other rooms in your house have to offer. Nothing is off limits. Chairs, couches, tables... test them all. You'll feel a bit naughty, which is great for arousal. Plus, you may end up finding a new space for sex that puts the boring old bed to shame. Isn't it time that you turned up the heat?

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Need Bachelorette Party Ideas?

I may be a little biased here but it is because I own two lingerie shops and we offer luxury lingerie at affordable prices! When it comes to marriage, girls tend to get a little mushy and sedimental. Every woman loves when her girls put a party together for her where they can all get a little wild and crazy and go out on the town to celebrate those last few days/weeks/hours of being single. Times are a changing and now we find ourselves looking for bright fun new ideas for 'together time' with your friends! Might I suggest hosting a lingerie party?

 You can do it in the privacy of your own home. We don't sell kits but you can make one from products that you select and hand pick.You can do it online via the internet websites or through choosing your selections for the bride-to-be in a catalog. The best way is via the internet. New stylish trends that several women are telling me about, and that with the help of "Skype!" Now women don't necessarily even have to be in the same place to experience excitement. Simply Delicious Lingerie as well as Simply Luscious Lingerie are great ways to not only host a party but to earn some extra pocket cash. We offer sexy lingerie, bridal lingerie, wedding day lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, and plus size bridal lingerie. Check out our website for more information. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com 

When you host a party you also can ask for the 'party pleasures' and 'bachelorette boudoir' where you will find adult novelties and bachelorette fun!

Let's face it...Bachelorette Parties are not quite the time honored tradition of bachelor parties but they are increasing in popularity.Some other unique bachelorette party ideas include nightclub hopping excursions, spa retreats, dancing lessons or even a movie night. Regardless of the activity of choice the common theme in most bachelorette party is to embarrass the bride in a light-hearted and fun way that she will always remember!

Nightclub hopping is one of the most popular bachelorette party ideas. These parties often start out with a dinner at an elegant restaurant followed by stops for drinks and dancing at some of the most popular nightclubs in town. A good way to do this is to hire a limousine for the evening to drive all of the girls from destination to destination. A limousine is a great idea for a number of reasons.

 First it provides the opportunity for all the girls in the party to travel together for the evening plus it is also an elegant way to travel so it adds a sense of regality to the evening. While all of those reasons are worthwhile perhaps the most important reason to hire a car for the night is to ensure that everyone arrives safely at their destination.

 The girls in the bachelorette party will often create a veil for the bride to wear on the night of her bachelorette party. The appearance of the veil doesn’t matter as long as long as it is obtrusive and calls a great deal of attention to the bride. We sell a few fun veils at our website. It’s also typical for this type of party to send the bride on a scavenger hunt on the night of her bachelorette party. The other girls will usually get together ahead of time and create a list of activities for the bride to accomplish or objects to obtain. This type of bachelorette party is a great way for the bride to enjoy a night of dinner, dancing and drinks with her friends.

Spa retreats are another popular bachelorette party idea. For this party idea the bride to be and her friends get together at a spa where they can enjoy relaxing massages, facials, manicures, pedicures and other treatments while also making use of steam rooms, saunas and hot tubs. In addition to all of the treatments available most spas also provide wonderful meals chosen from a menu of low fat dishes. This type of bachelorette party offers the bride the chance to relax and connect with her friends while forgetting about all the stress involved with planning a wedding. Many brides get too caught up in the minute details that they forget to enjoy the process of planning but a spa retreat bachelorette party is the perfect remedy for this situation. 

Still another popular bachelorette party idea that is a little more risqué is a night of exotic dancing lessons. These types of parties are becoming increasingly popular especially as classes such as pole dance classes are beginning to spring up in popular health clubs. For these parties the girls usually gather either at a private home or a dance studio and a professional dancer comes in to teach the girls about the art of seduction through exotic dance. This can be a fun way for the girls to let loose and have fun and may inspire the bride to be to try out a few new moves on her wedding night. 

Another unique bachelorette party idea is for the maid of honor to host a movie night. The host could make sure to rent plenty of movies that the girls will enjoy and stock up on movie theater style goodies or create her own menu of hors devours. After the bride is married she will most likely make a lot of compromises in movie choices but her bachelorette party movie night could be her last chance to sit around with her friends watching tearjerker or romantic movies. This type of bachelorette party is just a fun way for the girl to get together to talk and have a good time together. 

The bachelorette party is a relatively new phenomenon over the past 10 years or so, and it is much different than what my friends planned for me back in the day...but now,  the idea is picking up steam and bachelorette parties are becoming more prevalent. The bachelorette party does not have the same connotations as a bachelor party. They are generally not seen as last nights of freedom but rather a night to bond with the girls. Have a great time doing whatever you choose to do and remember, friends are friends forever! Go have some fun!

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