This book has had everyone talking...You've heard whispers and giggles, and you've wondered to yourself... "What are they talking about?" Often it takes a popular television series or a song gone dirty to get
people talking about otherwise taboo sex topics. However, most recently, it’s the
best-selling erotic novel “50 Shades of Grey,” which follows the
dominant-submissive relationship between a powerful businessman and a
college student, complete with explicit S&M sex scenes has people all around talking. This no doubt has been the buzz of the town.
Undoubtedly your neighbor has read it, so has your hairdresser, the bank teller, the cashier at the grocery store, your dry cleaner attendant, flight attendant, the gal at Taco Bell's, McDonald's and Burger Kings drive thru, your librarian, coworkers and OMG...maybe even your mother! "50 Shades of Grey" has been shining some light on women’s desires and getting women all over the country to talk more openly about their sex lives. While the writing may not be the best we’ve ever read, we can’t deny the sex appeal. Obviously, we’re not the only ones who are intrigued by the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey! So just what are people are saying about the hot (and hot-selling) trilogy? “There is something America finds erotic about a broad cross-section of women, including suburban mothers and women of a certain age, digging on highly-sexualized content of read.
Since its re-release in April, it’s been shaking up book clubs, bedrooms—even sparking a debate about the power dynamics between women and men. Who knew right? Listen, it was just a matter of time before all the wild escapades of our sexual frustrations came pouring out. I've been on this wagon for a while, thus being why I sell sexy lingerie and sex swings, etc for play time in the bedroom. Though only a small part of the population reports fantasizing about sadomasochism/bondage (8 percent, according to a Durex global survey), the theme has piqued interest on a mass scale. Try this bondage swing for couples, an excellent choice in the bedroom! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing/bondage-love-swing
Assertive women enjoy the idea of being submissive in bed, more than traditionally submissive women. Wow! Surprisingly, women who enjoyed these forceful submission fantasies weren’t submissive in their lives outside of the bedroom. In fact, the most aggressive group of females preferred a fantasy where they were dominated. And real life “non-controllers” (women who have less agency in social situations) had the least preference for sexual submission.
One explanation is that dominant females pursue dominant males, as they do in the animal kingdom. Catching the attention of a dominant male means you’ve risen to the top of the pack, so acting out that fantasy (where he pursues, you resist and that power struggle leads to hot, hot sex) reinforces a woman’s status and desirability, which makes her feel good about herself. (Note that you can sub in any gender and the same theory applies.) While that’s just one possible explanation, the point here is that at its core, this fantasy enhances ones self esteem.
Men like when women take control in the bedroom.
Oh yes they certainly do! Women get all the attention for having forceful submission fantasies. But it’s a very common sexual fantasy for men, too.Take the classic romance novel vignette of being led into the bedroom by someone who “hasn’t been able to take their eyes off you” and insists they must “take what they’ve wanted all night.” When guys read this from the perspective of a woman coming onto them so strongly, they were totally into it. While some people have tried to shame women for submissive fantasies or explain it away as masochism, submission and self-respect can easily go hand-in-hand.
Let's talk about....Sex Toys
Sex Toy shopping can be very intimidating for some people. I get emails and people facebook me messages all of the time from women and couples who have no idea where to start. And, there are just some people who will NEVER walk into a sex toy store no matter what. It is just not in their personality no matter how "female oriented" a store is designed. (Some people are even shy buying online and over the phone!)
This article is for women or a couple who has no idea where to start and once they buy the toy what to do with it once they have it in their home.
So, my advice is to always start small and inexpensive. There is always time to graduate to the big guns. But, if you are buying your first sex toy then I believe under $50 is a good rule.
Undoubtedly your neighbor has read it, so has your hairdresser, the bank teller, the cashier at the grocery store, your dry cleaner attendant, flight attendant, the gal at Taco Bell's, McDonald's and Burger Kings drive thru, your librarian, coworkers and OMG...maybe even your mother! "50 Shades of Grey" has been shining some light on women’s desires and getting women all over the country to talk more openly about their sex lives. While the writing may not be the best we’ve ever read, we can’t deny the sex appeal. Obviously, we’re not the only ones who are intrigued by the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey! So just what are people are saying about the hot (and hot-selling) trilogy? “There is something America finds erotic about a broad cross-section of women, including suburban mothers and women of a certain age, digging on highly-sexualized content of read.
Since its re-release in April, it’s been shaking up book clubs, bedrooms—even sparking a debate about the power dynamics between women and men. Who knew right? Listen, it was just a matter of time before all the wild escapades of our sexual frustrations came pouring out. I've been on this wagon for a while, thus being why I sell sexy lingerie and sex swings, etc for play time in the bedroom. Though only a small part of the population reports fantasizing about sadomasochism/bondage (8 percent, according to a Durex global survey), the theme has piqued interest on a mass scale. Try this bondage swing for couples, an excellent choice in the bedroom! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing/bondage-love-swing
Assertive women enjoy the idea of being submissive in bed, more than traditionally submissive women. Wow! Surprisingly, women who enjoyed these forceful submission fantasies weren’t submissive in their lives outside of the bedroom. In fact, the most aggressive group of females preferred a fantasy where they were dominated. And real life “non-controllers” (women who have less agency in social situations) had the least preference for sexual submission.
One explanation is that dominant females pursue dominant males, as they do in the animal kingdom. Catching the attention of a dominant male means you’ve risen to the top of the pack, so acting out that fantasy (where he pursues, you resist and that power struggle leads to hot, hot sex) reinforces a woman’s status and desirability, which makes her feel good about herself. (Note that you can sub in any gender and the same theory applies.) While that’s just one possible explanation, the point here is that at its core, this fantasy enhances ones self esteem.
Men like when women take control in the bedroom.
Oh yes they certainly do! Women get all the attention for having forceful submission fantasies. But it’s a very common sexual fantasy for men, too.Take the classic romance novel vignette of being led into the bedroom by someone who “hasn’t been able to take their eyes off you” and insists they must “take what they’ve wanted all night.” When guys read this from the perspective of a woman coming onto them so strongly, they were totally into it. While some people have tried to shame women for submissive fantasies or explain it away as masochism, submission and self-respect can easily go hand-in-hand.
Let's talk about....Sex Toys
Sex Toy shopping can be very intimidating for some people. I get emails and people facebook me messages all of the time from women and couples who have no idea where to start. And, there are just some people who will NEVER walk into a sex toy store no matter what. It is just not in their personality no matter how "female oriented" a store is designed. (Some people are even shy buying online and over the phone!)
This article is for women or a couple who has no idea where to start and once they buy the toy what to do with it once they have it in their home.
So, my advice is to always start small and inexpensive. There is always time to graduate to the big guns. But, if you are buying your first sex toy then I believe under $50 is a good rule.
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