The Truth About Vibrators

I've never been one of those people who beat around the bush so why start now? Women and men ask me day in and day out questions about how to stir the pot of sexual excitement and time and time again I tell them with TOYS!!! As the Beatles once sang..."I get by with a little help from my friends"...ladies...vibrators are your friend! They are a girls BFF. They serve the purpose and if you ask me, in many ways they are far better than a man. Why? They don't complain when it's over and they go in at least 3 speeds if not several more and reverse. Fellas...top that!? 

As a sex toy, the vibrator is second to none. It's a favorite of many women and is quite possibly the most popular adult toy on the market. The vibrator serves a unique function and there are times when nothing else will do. However, it's also one of those sex toys that can be a thrill or a disappointment. There are so many variations on the basic concept that it can be a real challenge to figure out which one is right for you. Here are some things you should know about vibrators. A vibrator is used primarily by women for clitoral stimulation. The toy's biggest selling point is that it offers a fairly reliable way for women to achieve orgasm. A vibrator can provide more intense and sustained stimulation than fingers or tongue. Even for women who can easily reach climax in other ways, a vibrator can boost sensation and arousal very quickly. A vibrator can also be used to great effect on the male body. Many toys intended for men now include a vibrating mechanism. I'd love to drawn you a picture but I think you get the visual here?

The classic vibrator that most people are familiar with is phallus-shaped, 4 to 6 inches long, and made of plastic or rubber. Once inserted, they work their magic. A popular variation is the clitoral vibrator, which tends to be smaller than the phallus-shaped version and can be egg or bullet-shaped. These also come in animal shapes such as rabbits, bears, cats, or dolphins. The selling points of this type of vibrator are focused, intense stimulation and more precise control of speed and intensity. Then there is the G spot vibrator, which is long and curved to stimulate the G spot from inside the vagina. Ladies...you want the best orgasms ever so don't go cheap when it comes to your sex mechanisms...shop at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com for all of your sexy lingerie and adult novelty needs!

Some of the newer vibrators are multi-functional, combining internal G-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation. They may have moving and rotating parts as well as a vibrating component. If you want to go really high-tech, check out the latest vibrator models that contain a micro-processor with programmable vibration patterns. Don't even mess around ladies, go right to the intense top of the line gizmos.

When it comes to selecting a vibrator, the intensity of the vibration is one of the most important criteria. Electric models are generally more powerful than battery-operated ones. On the down side, they are also more expensive and the cord can be restrictive when you're using the toy. Battery vibrators are more portable and are available in more sizes and styles. You'll find that toys that use C batteries are more powerful than those that run on AA or A batteries. Vibrators can be noisy so if sound level is a concern for you, try out the toy before buying. Hard plastic makes more noise than softer rubber. 

How much power you want from your vibrator is a matter of personal preference, but be careful not to buy a toy that is too weak. You can always tone down a vibrator that is too strong by putting a towel or cloth between you and the toy. But a feeble vibrator is just going to be annoying. Online adult toy stores often have customer reviews of their products. These can be a good source of unbiased information and guidance when you are comparing vibrator models. 

Fans of adult toys would say that no personal toy collection is complete without a vibrator. This is one sex toy that you may want to spend a little more money on right from the start. The very cheap plastic ones are flimsy and barely worth the effort. Make sure the vibrator you choose has the qualities that are important to you so that you can look forward to many enjoyable hours with your toy. I don't suggest stopping with the vibrator, oh no...try the whip smart pleasure swing too! 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, men's underwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie!® 

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Fifty Shades of Grey...Erotica and Exotica

This book has had everyone talking...You've heard whispers and giggles, and you've wondered to yourself... "What are they talking about?" Often it takes a popular television series or a song gone dirty to get people talking about otherwise taboo sex topics. However, most recently, it’s the best-selling erotic novel “50 Shades of Grey,” which follows the dominant-submissive relationship between a powerful businessman and a college student, complete with explicit S&M sex scenes has people all around talking. This no doubt has been the buzz of the town. 

Undoubtedly your neighbor has read it, so has your hairdresser, the bank teller, the cashier at the grocery store, your dry cleaner attendant, flight attendant, the gal at Taco Bell's, McDonald's and Burger Kings drive thru, your librarian, coworkers and OMG...maybe even your mother! "50 Shades of Grey" has been shining some light on women’s desires and getting women all over the country to talk more openly about their sex lives. While the writing may not be the best we’ve ever read, we can’t deny the sex appeal. Obviously, we’re not the only ones who are intrigued by the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey!  So just what are people are saying about the hot (and hot-selling) trilogy? “There is something America finds erotic about a broad cross-section of women, including suburban mothers and women of a certain age, digging on highly-sexualized content of read.

Since its re-release in April, it’s been shaking up book clubs, bedrooms—even sparking a debate about the power dynamics between women and men. Who knew right? Listen, it was just a matter of time before all the wild escapades of our sexual frustrations came pouring out. I've been on this wagon for a while, thus being why I sell sexy lingerie and sex swings, etc for play time in the bedroom. Though only a small part of the population reports fantasizing about sadomasochism/bondage (8 percent, according to a Durex global survey), the theme has piqued interest on a mass scale. Try this bondage swing for couples, an excellent choice in the bedroom! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing/bondage-love-swing

Assertive women enjoy the idea of being submissive in bed, more than traditionally submissive women. Wow! Surprisingly, women who enjoyed these forceful submission fantasies weren’t submissive in their lives outside of the bedroom. In fact, the most aggressive group of females preferred a fantasy where they were dominated. And real life “non-controllers” (women who have less agency in social situations) had the least preference for sexual submission.

One explanation is that dominant females pursue dominant males, as they do in the animal kingdom. Catching the attention of a dominant male means you’ve risen to the top of the pack, so acting out that fantasy (where he pursues, you resist and that power struggle leads to hot, hot sex) reinforces a woman’s status and desirability, which makes her feel good about herself. (Note that you can sub in any gender and the same theory applies.) While that’s just one possible explanation, the point here is that at its core, this fantasy enhances ones self esteem.

Men like when women take control in the bedroom.
Oh yes they certainly do! Women get all the attention for having forceful submission fantasies. But it’s a very common sexual fantasy for men, too.Take the classic romance novel vignette of being led into the bedroom by someone who “hasn’t been able to take their eyes off you” and insists they must “take what they’ve wanted all night.” When guys read this from the perspective of a woman coming onto them so strongly, they were totally into it. While some people have tried to shame women for submissive fantasies or explain it away as masochism, submission and self-respect can easily go hand-in-hand.


Let's talk about....Sex Toys
Sex Toy shopping can be very intimidating for some people. I get emails and people facebook me messages all of the time from women and couples who have no idea where to start. And, there are just some people who will NEVER walk into a sex toy store no matter what. It is just not in their personality no matter how "female oriented" a store is designed. (Some people are even shy buying online and over the phone!)
This article is for women or a couple who has no idea where to start and once they buy the toy what to do with it once they have it in their home.
So, my advice is to always start small and inexpensive. There is always time to graduate to the big guns. But, if you are buying your first sex toy then I believe under $50 is a good rule.

 About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

  

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