A bad relationship is one that involves continual frustration; the relationship seems to have potential but that potential is always just out of reach. And you need to know how freeing it is to understand that a bad relationship is not your fault.
The first reason to get out of a bad relationship is for the emotional health and well-being of both parties. t can physically drain you......and why? Relationships are not supposed to put such a strain on either of you....My grandmother used to always say "If it takes that much work to make a relationship work....you'll never make it!" Another reason is to make sure that the emotions and arguments that often exist in such a relationship does not escalate to physical violence by either party. Staying together despite your current situation and ignoring the fact that there is a problem is often delaying the inevitable. By doing so, you are actually committing an act of selfishness and egotism.
A sure sign of a depleting relationship is that one or both partners expect either to make the other happy or for their partner to make them happy. The essential problem is a breakdown in communication between the two partners. The main determinant if you are in a bad relationship is the behavior of your partner.
Love;
Love is, quite simply something we give, not something we receive. People fall in love for many different reasons. When you find love it can make anything seem possible. Being in love should not mean you give these things up. In such relationships, individuals are robbed of several essential freedoms; the freedom to be their best selves in the relationship, the freedom to love the other person through choice rather than through dependency, and the freedom to leave a situation that is destructive. Some stay together out of misguided love for a person who will never be right for him or her. You try to convince yourself that no one else out there would love you, and so you settled. So, instead of focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect yourself from loss.
Abusive;
The difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships is that in healthy relationships, the couple works towards the relationship equally. The most common hazard of bad relationship is the physical harm caused by an abusive partner. Don't let this happen, and if you are in an abusive relationship...GET OUT! he or she won't change, so stop trying to make it happen....No matter how low you feel right now and no matter how impossible that might seem you CAN get over a bad relationship and move on. Walk away....As Nancy Sinatra once sang "These Boots are Made for Walking".....
Problems;
Courageously face your own problems and shortcomings. Step up to the plant and take blame, address your issues and fix them. Many times, anger, mistrust, and other powerful negative emotions cause serious problems and these emotions can lead to physical confrontations. This lack of communication is what makes the problems grow in the early stages and furthermore, what makes them hugely difficult to deal with in the end stages of the relationship. Relationship problems cannot be solved with yelling and screaming. This is a lack of confidence in a relationship not to mention immaturity within your self.
Put on your big girl boots and walk away.....
The first reason to get out of a bad relationship is for the emotional health and well-being of both parties. t can physically drain you......and why? Relationships are not supposed to put such a strain on either of you....My grandmother used to always say "If it takes that much work to make a relationship work....you'll never make it!" Another reason is to make sure that the emotions and arguments that often exist in such a relationship does not escalate to physical violence by either party. Staying together despite your current situation and ignoring the fact that there is a problem is often delaying the inevitable. By doing so, you are actually committing an act of selfishness and egotism.
A sure sign of a depleting relationship is that one or both partners expect either to make the other happy or for their partner to make them happy. The essential problem is a breakdown in communication between the two partners. The main determinant if you are in a bad relationship is the behavior of your partner.
Love;
Love is, quite simply something we give, not something we receive. People fall in love for many different reasons. When you find love it can make anything seem possible. Being in love should not mean you give these things up. In such relationships, individuals are robbed of several essential freedoms; the freedom to be their best selves in the relationship, the freedom to love the other person through choice rather than through dependency, and the freedom to leave a situation that is destructive. Some stay together out of misguided love for a person who will never be right for him or her. You try to convince yourself that no one else out there would love you, and so you settled. So, instead of focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect yourself from loss.
Abusive;
The difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships is that in healthy relationships, the couple works towards the relationship equally. The most common hazard of bad relationship is the physical harm caused by an abusive partner. Don't let this happen, and if you are in an abusive relationship...GET OUT! he or she won't change, so stop trying to make it happen....No matter how low you feel right now and no matter how impossible that might seem you CAN get over a bad relationship and move on. Walk away....As Nancy Sinatra once sang "These Boots are Made for Walking".....
Problems;
Courageously face your own problems and shortcomings. Step up to the plant and take blame, address your issues and fix them. Many times, anger, mistrust, and other powerful negative emotions cause serious problems and these emotions can lead to physical confrontations. This lack of communication is what makes the problems grow in the early stages and furthermore, what makes them hugely difficult to deal with in the end stages of the relationship. Relationship problems cannot be solved with yelling and screaming. This is a lack of confidence in a relationship not to mention immaturity within your self.
Put on your big girl boots and walk away.....
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