Thursday, June 9, 2011

I Like Dreaming.....

Most often, more so than not, both men and women are nervous about their "first date" with someone. Take a deep breath, ...you aren't asking for a marriage proposal, you are trying something new with someone that you are interested in getting to know. You're bound to have some waves, so be prepared and take your time getting to know this person. Really pay attention on this first date....things you learn about the other person will be quite imperative...... Remember, Rome wasn't build over night.....allow me to "paint you a picture" of what to do and what little things not to do on your few date or two....Kenny Nolan sang it best years ago....."I like Dreaming" cuz dreaming can make you mine......

Here is some easy to follow advice on what to do, things to say, what to discuss, and what not to discuss. Just be yourself....she/he has to like who you are, there's not need to change and if someone tries to do this within the firsts few dates, my advice is run!

A long drive to your destination gives you time to talk.
Don’t mention your exes! No one likes to hear about your past relationships on a first date.
Never talk about your future plans on the first date. That might freak them out.......
Don’t discuss kids on the first date, either. Big red flag! You won't scare him, he'll be terrified!
Leave your emotional baggage at home. Yes, you heard me leave it!!
Don’t mess with your hair or clothes. You look fine! Stop fidgeting!
Keep the perfume or cologne to a minimum.
Dress in something casual unless you’re going out to a five-star restaurant.
Comment on an interesting piece of jewelry, such as her pendant.
Don’t talk about politics., dream amount about your next date......
Avoid discussion of religion.
If you’re a sports nut, don’t get started on teams! Might cause some commotion.....
Answer all questions honestly- don't lie, not even white lies....its easier to tell the truth.
Find out what he/she’s passionate about and why.
 Pay attention to every answer when you ask something.
Treat her like a lady. She her respect. Open doors, pull out chairs, have good table etiquette.
Take her cues. If she says she’s tired, ask her what she wants to do.
Give her a goodnight kiss on the cheek at the end of your date. That s classy...
 If she seems to want more, go for the lips.....imagine what happens if you make it to date #2?
 Tell her what a good time you had.
 Keep a little souvenir of your evening so she will see it the next time you see /him/her!
 Follow up with the “I had a good time and thank you” for a lovely evening.
 Never, ever presume anything., if you do, you may be setting yourself up for a BIG disappointment!
If she wants to see you again and you’re game for that, say yes immediately. Don’t leave your date hanging...follow your heart, and your dreams will follow! Hopefully date #3....might be your lucky night!?





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