Sunday, June 19, 2011

Define Shy?

Shy love happens all the time as a result of unwillingness to love. Who sits around and thinks about this crap?Hesitation to love is what is referred to as shy love. It's real simple. Shy love 101; There are a lot of unhappy relationships out there due to the fear of giving it all to a relationship. This is usually a psychological problem with people who have been hurt before. They fear that their emotional and financial investment towards a relationship might be in vain. As a result they give unfulfilling resources to a relationship. My relationship advice is, if you decide to love, you should fully invest in the relationship. Otherwise do not enter into a new relationship if you were hurt by a previous one. It is a bad practice which is exercised by people who lack good self identity. 1) know who you are, and be specific with what you want in a partner. 2) Never settle for less, 3) Make sure that he loves Peanut Buster Parfaits at the DQ, deviled eggs, and white cupcakes with white frosting.... not in these specific orders, I know, it all sounds gross together (#3 that is!) Also....Make sure that they can golf, because you might need someone behind you refreshing your memory on the game....

If you are a divorced man or woman, do not carry your previous baggage in to the new relationship. What is baggage? That's a whole other can of worms, and we'll discuss that at another time...If we give out our love generously, it will always come back to us!! Don't you want to be happier than you have ever been? Did you ever imagine that someone could possibly make you feel like your head was stuck in clouds and your feet were always 2 feet off the ground? Does he/she make you feel all giddy inside, and do you find yourself thinking about this person all the time? Have to shared your feelings with this person, or are you afraid to do so? Are you afraid that they won't have the same feelings in return? How will you ever know if you don't step off that ledge and take the leap of faith?
 Many people feel unloved because what they give out to a romantic relationship is usually shy love. This will always result into unhappy relationships and you will live an unsatisfied life of feeling unlovable or unloving. A good relationship advice is that, do not shy away from expressing love to a loved one. Give it all and you will be amazed by the good returns. People are different, that's it, no beating around the bush here. If you trusted someone and you ended up being betrayed, learn to trust all the time but give your yourself enough time to recover from the previous heartbreak. Stop thinking about what was, and focus on WHAT IS NOW!!!

Trust me, there are people who have been hurt a million times but they still believe in love. They have never attempted to give shy love even after their predicaments. Unhappy relationships have never been a part of their love life. At least they enjoy their relationships the short time that it lasts. Unhappy relationships which are as a result of shared shy love can take a turning point if relationship advice is adequately provided. There are partners who hold back their feelings in fear of being rejected or heart broken. For instance many men are aware of their most sensitive parts of the body but are not willing to help their women please them. They fear that if the woman lets them down they will be left feeling rejected and embarrassed.
If only there can be communication without fear, unique love can easily be found. Take a good look at what you may have right in front of you....do you think you could find another love like this? Do you think if you hold out, something better will come along? if that is what you're think, I've got some pathetic juice to sell you. Stop!!!!!! You;re not perfect, so don't dismantle her for the way she is, accept her, and move towards something exciting, or move on without her. Maybe she is really shy....you know, it's easy to talk the talk.....but isn't it cute when you know what they want to say, or do, and they stumble trying to do so? Cut them some slack.....shy is cute!My guy is my proof-reader and alerts me of any or all typos.We see on an others  flaws......who doesn't have flaws?....Get real! Respect your partner, and they will respect you in return, Honesty and integrity are powerful.As a loving couple, you should be able to correct each other without fear, find ways to humor your partner about things,....don't be shy,....Tina Turner once said "What's Love Got to Do With it? Let me tell you.....It has plenty to do with it.....without it you will fail,....don't be shy, yes it is cute, makes you feel naked...and he may think you are adorable, my advice,...be yourself, and if it is really and truly meant to be, it will be! Shy is stripped down, feeling naked....you control your destiny, and I see nothing wrong wth being a shy gal....I am, and men find it quite attractive. You have to be comfy in your own skin.......






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