Did you know that different women value different things? Ahhhhh yes we do.... but all good women have certain things in common that they value in a man. Oh sure, looks are important, but may not be as important as you think. Bad boys invariably seem good-looking, and while that’s nice and all, most women prefer a man with intelligence and a certain amount of sensitivity and attentiveness (don’t confuse attentiveness with possessiveness – they’re two different things, and one is not good). You see, the bad boys are only bad for so long, then all that fades away and fizzles.
We want and need more, much more. Ladies, wouldn't you prefer the type of man that is always there for you whenever you need him, rather than the bad boy who is around when it works for him and his schedule? Guys, you aren't 18 anymore, get with the program if you are a bad boy living in a 40+ year old body...you're no longer the super stud you once thought you were, and you're getting old, fat and wrinkles. Hey, we don't hide our looks, it is what it is, take it or leave it. Being the class clown in highs school was fun, but this is reality. We want a real man with character, integrity, and most of all, morals. No Don Juan, Rico Suave kind of guy...those days are long gone. Simple and sweet is what women of today desire...
We want and need more, much more. Ladies, wouldn't you prefer the type of man that is always there for you whenever you need him, rather than the bad boy who is around when it works for him and his schedule? Guys, you aren't 18 anymore, get with the program if you are a bad boy living in a 40+ year old body...you're no longer the super stud you once thought you were, and you're getting old, fat and wrinkles. Hey, we don't hide our looks, it is what it is, take it or leave it. Being the class clown in highs school was fun, but this is reality. We want a real man with character, integrity, and most of all, morals. No Don Juan, Rico Suave kind of guy...those days are long gone. Simple and sweet is what women of today desire...
So when asked the question 'what do women really want in a man?' On the contrary to what so many of you man think, some of you just might be super surprised by this response, but most women and when I say most I mean 79% said that a great personality is more attractive than great looks.... and a good sense of humor is super important, too! It’s true that not everyone is going to like your sense of humor or your personality.That’s fine. Not everyone will like your looks either, no matter who you are. You might be very good looking – good for you! But if that’s all you’re relying on to find a great woman, you’re in trouble.Before we go any further, we need to stop and talk about looks, shall we?
This is what’s important:
OK guys...You should be well-groomed, meaning hair cut and combed in a style that you’re comfortable in. I don't think that's a lot to ask for.You need to be clean and smell good – not like a cologne factory – just don’t smell of sweat and grime, although call me crazy but those qualities turn some women on. Not many women, but some, yes, it is true. Make sure your teeth are brushed, that you have fresh breath, and your hands and nails are clean and trimmed. Believe it or not, we do look at this! We don't want to smell odor or booze a mile away. That's a huge turn off. You want your clothes to be neat and clean. They don’t have to be trendy, expensive clothes – just make sure they’re washed and ironed or at least so they don’t look like you grabbed them out of a pile on the floor that's been sitting there for weeks.
Don’t get anxious about your looks. You might have a bald spot, or a receding hairline, or your six-pack is in the fridge, but not on your belly. Or you might not totally fit the GQ mold, in fact- you may not even be close.... You can try to fix those things if you want to, that’s fine, but you have to be happy with you first. Regardless, you have to be comfortable with yourself and project that. Women will find that interesting and sexy. Stand up tall and smile. Look like you know what you’re doing and what you want.That is quite impressive!
You’ll get a more positive response. It is perfectly fine to work on your looks if you’re not happy with them. If you think you need to hit the gym, then go! If you think you need to see the dentist for a whiter smile, then do it! If you think you need a haircut, then get one.
Now, how about we talk about the substantial things that women value now?
Women value the following (in no particular order):
- Confidence
- A nice smile
- Intelligence – this doesn’t necessarily mean book smarts – you have to show that you have common sense. However, many women appreciate a man who reads.
- Attentiveness
- Respect – for self and others
- A great sense of humor
- Acceptance of her for who she is
- A man who shows responsibility and stability
- A man who shares similar values and interests as she
These are the kinds of qualities that women find of lasting value and find attractive even if the hair has gone gray and the six-pack has disappeared. Take a good long hard look boys...these are the things that we care about first and foremost.
 |
| www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com |
No comments:
Post a Comment