Rock the Cradle of Love

Have you ever fought the urge to stay away from someone only in fear that your heart may get broken, and then a few months, or even years later kick yourself for not taking that risk? If so, you are not alone! There are a variety of reason we do silly thing, reasons why we act so stubborn, and reasons that we at too afraid to risk that feeling of rejection and or heartache. When you get down to the "nitty gritty" of it all...I believe that we make our own destiny. I have heard over the years hundreds of stories from family, friends, and complete strangers how they found the love of their life and how they let he/she get away. Why do we work so hard in our subconscious mind to make it happen only to chicken out down the road? Perhaps you might be intimidated by this person? Fear not my friend, it will happen to you.

Because we are too afraid to take the risk and stick our neck out a little too far. At the risk of sounding harsh...why the hell not? We work hard at everything we do, love should be the first and foremost reason to risk it all. When you find love, your entire being and existence seems to change. You are happy and full of life, sharing, and enjoying the "precious moments" together making memories that may one day be the story of your children, and grandchildren as to how abouts two strangers paths crossed and came to meet....the rest then as we say it is "history!"

I asked a woman once "what do you want in a relationship?" her response was;  3 things I want in a relationship; eyes that won't cry, lips that won't lie, and a love that won't die. That sums it up, doesn't it?

I've taken the liberty to list some obstacles you may rule into on your road map to love. We'll give you some navigational tools from time to time in articles such as this one, but YOU have to risk a little and make it happen. Remember, nothing in life is easy, and anything worth having is worth fighting for! You will get out of love exactly what you put into it.

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.

If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don’t choose love. LOVE CHOOSES YOU. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always had been and always will be a mystery. Sometimes you just have to dive in, as Billy Idol once sang and; Rock the Cradle of Love"

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