Finding a Man That Shares Your Values

How strong are your values in finding a lover, mate or spouse? I don't know about you all, but ethics, morals, and ones values of how they perceive things are quite important to me and it very well should be to you...especially if you are in a relationship or getting serious about someone. Society today tends to look at all the small stuff but they are forgetting about looking down the path of the 'long road' of being with someone. Ask a couple who has been married for 25 or 50 years what keeps their relationship alive and they usually tell you that they have important things in common. It may be animal magnetism that draws your attention to a man, but it’s not going to be enough to keep you together over the decades! You have to find a way to keep the love alive!

 His sexy curls and dark locks turns gray and soon fall out. He becomes bald perhaps? (I don't know about you but I love bald men so for me this one isn't quite as important as it may be to some of you) His six pack abs fall into his six pack drinking beer belly. This is every gals nightmare...football and beer...day in and day out. One, it can lead to alcohol issues and problems and that is not what we signed up for. Follow my lead and never do this ladies...NEVER buy your man a comfy recliner chair for his man cave...it will be ALL OVER! This will become his new home and you will become backseat to anything other than sports. The time he spent gazing into your eyes and undressing you with dirty thoughts is now spent in a trance before the television set watching NASCAR, football, baseball, golf, hockey or basically anything else that includes 'balls' of some sort. It's ok for the guy to watch sports or to go to games, but you need to make it clear that you come before anything else. 

It truly would not hurt at all if you enjoyed sports too, but not all women share the same common grounds. You should though ladies...you're man will enjoy sharing time with you more so, and if you expect him to go shopping with you, you need to meet in the middle somewhere here. Sexy lingerie from www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com is great but there has to be something more than sex or fascination that keeps a couple together. Couples who share the same values have a bond that goes beyond physical attraction. It’s a foundation for their relationship. My suggestion; wear something sexy while watching sports with your man. Allow him to focus on his needs and meet yours just the same. Half time is the right time to find your common ground and to fool around a little bit. Believe me, his eyes will be glued to you and he won't remember the game let alone the sport he is watching.

If you’re from a family with strong ethnic or cultural heritage, then you need to find a man who shares that background. Otherwise, your relationship will be strained each time his family values and yours collide. In some families, marrying outside of the ethnicity or faith creates serious divisions between you and your family. You may say that you’ll give up family for love, but how will you feel about this after you have children? It gets tough. Even the issue of whose values or faith will be practiced by the children is enough to tear apart relationships. My thoughts have always been this...follow your heart, and if you truly love someone and are meant to be, you'll find that happy medium.

Let's talk facts here shall we? What if you are a conservative and he’s liberal - now this can and will make for some lively conversations. Nonetheless, if your political beliefs are radically different, this is going to impact how well your friends mix and how you live out your beliefs. 

A materialistic woman who falls for a dedicated environmentalist starts a relationship with so many opposite values. She wants all of the latest appliances and finds recycling to be too much trouble. He sorts her trash to make certain that plastics and paper are in recycle bins. Talk about a giant mis-match in a relationship. In time, they will resent each other for those differences. You don’t have to look for a guy who is your philosophical, spiritual and emotional clone to be happy. Your values should be somewhat the same. I like nice things,all the way down to my perfume I wear, I also love to travel to far away places and someday, when I find the right man, I want him to share some of these simple qualities. He will have a passion for me, as well as a great passion for life.

No relationship is perfect. You won't always get along, or be on the same side and there may be arguments or disagreements...my favorite part of this is kissing and making up. Differences of opinion can be healthy and even exciting. There are those differences however that tear at the essence of the beliefs about who you are and your place in the universe become divisive and quarrelsome in any relationship. Perhaps the best way to find a mate who shares your most treasured values is to go where like-minded people can be found. 

If you are politically inclined, join that party’s local group and work on campaigns. Environmentalists have many different expressions of saving our world, so find one that you can care deeply about and meet others who feel the same way. 

Why go to a bar where you never know who’s being their 'true' self? Unless you are there to watch a game or meet a group of friends for happy hour after work, most people end up in bars for one night stands or quick fixes as I would like to call them...but if you are looking for the man of your dreams, sometimes you have to let fate take it's own actions. I truly am a 'paths crossing for a reason' kinda gal. My grandmother used to say that love will find you when you are least expecting it to. It might be days or it may be years, but it will happen when the timing is right for you, so be patient. My advise is don't look for Ms Right or Mr Right in a bar or pool hall. I love the phrase 'you get what you pay for' this applies to pick up joints and quick fixer meeting places. Don't do it if you are a serious looker. You’ll find a better dating pool from people who share your values, beliefs, ethnicity or culture, and in the meantime, you’ll enjoy doing things that are meaningful to you. Hang in there...you'll find him, and when you do, you'll know it!

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