They love to take it off as fast as we put it on...Yes, men L-O-V-E lingerie! However...attempting to take off complicated garments that they may not know how to remove can kill a mood quicker than asking "How do I take this off?" Don't assume that they know how to unbuckle, unsnap, untie, or unzip in the right order to get you naked. Instead, keep it simple, or keep it complicated and take it off yourself (watching a women undress after foreplay is super amazing for a man.)
Sooo...Make sure it fits well, and don't force sizes. It's important that you feel great in your outfit, and it's hard to do that when you're adjusting straps, readjusting a thong, or scratching because your outfit itches. Pulling, picking, and scratching are things we notice from a block away. I asked a friend just recently what men like to see most on a woman in lingerie? He stated that he likes the way lingerie shows off their true curves, and how it highlights the breast, ass and legs. Thanks Pittsburgh! Note to self. Think sexy, and he will do the rest.
What your man doesn't want is this;
The truth is he doesn't want you to put on some fancy lingerie while you dread the whole process and then lie there looking at the ceiling as he makes love to you minutes later. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel like a goddess. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel turned on and ready to go. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel fabulous, regardless of how much attention he gives you for wearing it. He wants to ravish you and make you feel like a million bucks. He wants for you to feel good on the inside and the outside so make sure that you are comfy in what you select for his eyes only!
He doesn't want you to spend too long in the bathroom while he's naked in bed and waiting, only for you to walk out wearing a half smile, trip over the carpet in too-high heels and awkwardly grab the scratchy undies out your bum as you approach the bedside.
He also doesn't want to see you looking robotically stiff and self-consciously terrified in the outfit. That kills the mood completely for him.Men like lingerie because it makes them feel that you take the time to be beautiful for them, and that you enjoy the process because you enjoy making yourself beautiful for men. Men like lingerie because they like the idea that you are sooo turned on by them, you have to get all dressed up to make sex a special occasion where you can show them how very turned on they make you inside.
Ladies, here is what you need to do to spruce up the lingerie excitement in your house;
Keep the colors simple. Black, white, with a hint of color to accentuate curves and shape is hot, elegant, and feeds the mood. Bright or skin-toned colors, are not. Men want to see what you're wearing and follow the curves of your body with their eyes. Anything that distracts from this is, well, less than ideal. It's not just his mood that gets killed when we have to watch him fumble and tug at all our bells and whistles. Waiting for him to untie some crazy bra-corset concoction for a half-hour doesn't count as foreplay. It can be quite nerve-racking! Give it a test drive in the fitting room to make sure you can lend a helping hand if need be.
How about taking your boudoir dressing up a level, remember to accessorize with shoes or jewelry. The only thing sexier than a woman in lingerie is a woman in lingerie in sexy heels wearing a necklace that does not come off when everything else does. And every time he sees you in your accessory of choice, he'll be thinking about what you're wearing underneath.
Know how to flatter and accentuate the shape of your body; Wear what makes you look and feel beautiful, sexy, and confident. On the flip side, don't try to wear something that doesn't flatter your body. Remember that men process things visually: they don't read that much into subtext, effort or intent. In the end, wear what makes you look amazing vs. putting on what you think he wants you to wear. If you are not sure...start with a sexy matching set. If he likes this then next time move to something a little bit more seductive and sexy!
Sooo...Make sure it fits well, and don't force sizes. It's important that you feel great in your outfit, and it's hard to do that when you're adjusting straps, readjusting a thong, or scratching because your outfit itches. Pulling, picking, and scratching are things we notice from a block away. I asked a friend just recently what men like to see most on a woman in lingerie? He stated that he likes the way lingerie shows off their true curves, and how it highlights the breast, ass and legs. Thanks Pittsburgh! Note to self. Think sexy, and he will do the rest.
What your man doesn't want is this;
The truth is he doesn't want you to put on some fancy lingerie while you dread the whole process and then lie there looking at the ceiling as he makes love to you minutes later. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel like a goddess. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel turned on and ready to go. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel fabulous, regardless of how much attention he gives you for wearing it. He wants to ravish you and make you feel like a million bucks. He wants for you to feel good on the inside and the outside so make sure that you are comfy in what you select for his eyes only!
He doesn't want you to spend too long in the bathroom while he's naked in bed and waiting, only for you to walk out wearing a half smile, trip over the carpet in too-high heels and awkwardly grab the scratchy undies out your bum as you approach the bedside.
He also doesn't want to see you looking robotically stiff and self-consciously terrified in the outfit. That kills the mood completely for him.Men like lingerie because it makes them feel that you take the time to be beautiful for them, and that you enjoy the process because you enjoy making yourself beautiful for men. Men like lingerie because they like the idea that you are sooo turned on by them, you have to get all dressed up to make sex a special occasion where you can show them how very turned on they make you inside.
Ladies, here is what you need to do to spruce up the lingerie excitement in your house;
Keep the colors simple. Black, white, with a hint of color to accentuate curves and shape is hot, elegant, and feeds the mood. Bright or skin-toned colors, are not. Men want to see what you're wearing and follow the curves of your body with their eyes. Anything that distracts from this is, well, less than ideal. It's not just his mood that gets killed when we have to watch him fumble and tug at all our bells and whistles. Waiting for him to untie some crazy bra-corset concoction for a half-hour doesn't count as foreplay. It can be quite nerve-racking! Give it a test drive in the fitting room to make sure you can lend a helping hand if need be.
How about taking your boudoir dressing up a level, remember to accessorize with shoes or jewelry. The only thing sexier than a woman in lingerie is a woman in lingerie in sexy heels wearing a necklace that does not come off when everything else does. And every time he sees you in your accessory of choice, he'll be thinking about what you're wearing underneath.
Know how to flatter and accentuate the shape of your body; Wear what makes you look and feel beautiful, sexy, and confident. On the flip side, don't try to wear something that doesn't flatter your body. Remember that men process things visually: they don't read that much into subtext, effort or intent. In the end, wear what makes you look amazing vs. putting on what you think he wants you to wear. If you are not sure...start with a sexy matching set. If he likes this then next time move to something a little bit more seductive and sexy!
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MssDelicious...Who is this Pittsburgh you speak about? Sounds like a gentleman getting under your skin? Great blog. Men love lingerie, very true. We also are infatuated by the woman as she undresses slowly and tastefully.
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Memphis TN