What's with all the drama mama? That's right, you heard me...to all of you stead fast 'Drama Queens or Kings' I say "Really?" Is it necessary to have to act as such? I think not, nonetheless there are so many that would strongly disagree with what I say. Why? They put the word 'drama' in the title that's why and most likely because they want to be the center of attention at any avenue they can take, BUT, at whose expense? Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of
attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is
temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and
low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.
Drama Queen. Someone who turns something unimportant into a major deal. Someone who blows things way out of proportion when ever the chance is given.Does this sound like YOU? Attention seekers commonly exploit the suffering of others to gain attention for themselves. Or they may exploit their own suffering, or alleged suffering. Soooo not cool guys.One possible reason that people seem to enjoy spreading drama wherever they go might be that they get a "rush." For example, after you go for a run, or have sex, do you ever notice the feeling? The racing pulse, the pounding heart, the feeling of power and perhaps euphoria? As sad as it is...s for some people spreading drama is like a drug, and that's what it takes for them to get their kicks. I call it twisted and so wrong on so many levels. Isn't it the same as being a back stabber on many levels?
How often do you find yourself talking about some else’s live that has nothing to do with your own? We've all done it...It might seem that there is no harm done in discussing someone’s imperfection to socially engage in a conversation but the effect of such a chit-chat is deeper. You might come up with a bunch of excuses for raising the person’s name on that particular instance but whether consciously or unconsciously, in a good or bad what we did was gossiping, no matter the reason or the fact. In doing so we are judging them, and most of the time people tend to gossip about bad thing and what we usually fail to see is that we are interfering with one’s life or the way he or she is leading their life.
Why then is it so entertaining to talk about the bad sides of other people than other positive things or much better talk about the difficulties of their own life? Well, the answer is simple, because according to a number of studies on reasons for gossip people tend to be engaged in a gossip when they are unable to focus on their own life’s ups and downs. Others tend to classify gossip into two categories malicious and innocent gossip and try to point out that the reasons for gossiping as follows: people gossip for if an individual has been hurt and retaliates in anger, an individual is afraid to confront directly, he or she has a need for attention and approval from certain others to feel accepted, an individual has the desire to build his or her own position artificially by tearing down others, and others tend to gossip simply because it is their habit. All is due to that it is it is easier to focus in other people’s hardship where there is no emotional attachment than one’s own miseries and hardship of life.
Yikes... really, you need to STOP! Some tend to criticize while others advise but the question that needs to be raised here is who are we to tell someone how to lead his/her life? The worst part is that we usually gossip based in limited or false information, and sometimes I even wonder would we act the same way if we knew the whole truth from the person, and I am sure that our reaction wouldn’t be the same. Listen, life has enough thrill and joy in it already that you really don't need to be chatting up a storm about those around you...and if you are one of those whom I speak of in this article, take note to this; You then seriously really need to get a life and stop being the Drama Mama, Drama Queen or King. So not necessary. Live your own life and stop wasting time talking shit about others.
Drama Queen. Someone who turns something unimportant into a major deal. Someone who blows things way out of proportion when ever the chance is given.Does this sound like YOU? Attention seekers commonly exploit the suffering of others to gain attention for themselves. Or they may exploit their own suffering, or alleged suffering. Soooo not cool guys.One possible reason that people seem to enjoy spreading drama wherever they go might be that they get a "rush." For example, after you go for a run, or have sex, do you ever notice the feeling? The racing pulse, the pounding heart, the feeling of power and perhaps euphoria? As sad as it is...s for some people spreading drama is like a drug, and that's what it takes for them to get their kicks. I call it twisted and so wrong on so many levels. Isn't it the same as being a back stabber on many levels?
How often do you find yourself talking about some else’s live that has nothing to do with your own? We've all done it...It might seem that there is no harm done in discussing someone’s imperfection to socially engage in a conversation but the effect of such a chit-chat is deeper. You might come up with a bunch of excuses for raising the person’s name on that particular instance but whether consciously or unconsciously, in a good or bad what we did was gossiping, no matter the reason or the fact. In doing so we are judging them, and most of the time people tend to gossip about bad thing and what we usually fail to see is that we are interfering with one’s life or the way he or she is leading their life.
Why then is it so entertaining to talk about the bad sides of other people than other positive things or much better talk about the difficulties of their own life? Well, the answer is simple, because according to a number of studies on reasons for gossip people tend to be engaged in a gossip when they are unable to focus on their own life’s ups and downs. Others tend to classify gossip into two categories malicious and innocent gossip and try to point out that the reasons for gossiping as follows: people gossip for if an individual has been hurt and retaliates in anger, an individual is afraid to confront directly, he or she has a need for attention and approval from certain others to feel accepted, an individual has the desire to build his or her own position artificially by tearing down others, and others tend to gossip simply because it is their habit. All is due to that it is it is easier to focus in other people’s hardship where there is no emotional attachment than one’s own miseries and hardship of life.
Yikes... really, you need to STOP! Some tend to criticize while others advise but the question that needs to be raised here is who are we to tell someone how to lead his/her life? The worst part is that we usually gossip based in limited or false information, and sometimes I even wonder would we act the same way if we knew the whole truth from the person, and I am sure that our reaction wouldn’t be the same. Listen, life has enough thrill and joy in it already that you really don't need to be chatting up a storm about those around you...and if you are one of those whom I speak of in this article, take note to this; You then seriously really need to get a life and stop being the Drama Mama, Drama Queen or King. So not necessary. Live your own life and stop wasting time talking shit about others.
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