So you've met someone online and you started communication process whether it be emails, chats, or IMs. Once you have started talking over the telephone, then the relationship has already taken wings. There really is no reason to postpone a direct meeting unless you've lied about your entire profile and your looks, etc. What are you waiting for right? Wait. Listen... There is no need to push it. You should not sound overanxious to meet this girl or guy. Let the decision to meet evolve over a number of telephone calls. There are certain things that you can bear in mind before you really meet. I've listed a few that I found:
The First Date Rendezvous It is not advisable to invite someone home before you have really met the person. You had better choose a public place - preferably somewhere there are plenty of people around, just in case, you know. That is why most couples prefer to meet in a restaurant over lunch or dinner. There is one thing about having food together. When people sit together and have food together, they get to know a lot about each other.
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Did you know that table manners tell us a lot about a person’s upbringing and background? You can learn a lot about a person by observing him or her eat. The second thing is that warm food has a wonderful effect on the human mind. It releases all those digestive juices and sets the tongue wagging. People loosen up a lot, especially after a glass of wine or two.The first mistake that most people make is that they go under the wrong impression that a meeting, even the first meeting must end up in bed. No, it does not have to be so.
Leave a Little Something Behind Now, suppose this date did work out as planned and you really and thoroughly enjoyed the company of the other person. You want the other person to remember you and think about you, wouldn’t you? So how do you make sure that the other person does think about you? The answer is simple. Just leave your mark behind. Mind you, a business or visiting card is not appropriate here. It lends a very formal color to the picture. Surely you do not want the person to remember you for your credentials or your designation. Something more personalized is more appropriate. A scarf, a glove, something that smells like your scent. Wear sexy lingerie to feel more confident but for goodness sakes...don't leave that behind. Make him want to see you again and later down the road he just may see your delicates.
Clothes Will Make or Break a Man or a Woman's First Date Impressions!!!
Good Lord, if I have said it once I have said it a thousand times...Dress approiately and dress your age! You do not have to be dressed to kill when you go out to lunch. The best thing about lunch dates is that most of us will be in our work clothes and that saves us the agony of choosing the right thing to wear on a first date.
A really wonderful thing that you could do when going on a fist date is to try to make it a group activity, preferably a foursome. This takes away the awkwardness of the situation and definitely takes away all those embarrassing moments of silence. Also, being with group has another advantage in that lesser attention will be focused on each other so that there is less stress and as a result both partners will be more relaxed. It is also safer too, since there is safety in numbers. But the company to be included should be mutually agreeable and not be thrust upon the other person. But take care to avoid any person who you know to be a chatter box; it takes all the fun away if one person dominates the conversation. You may drink...BUT if you want to, but do not drink too much on your first date. Not only is it in bad taste but when you are drunk, you might blurt out something which you didn’t mean to and that might ruin everything.Make it to the second date...take it slow, and listen to your date. What he or she says will tell you a lot about them if you pay attention.
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