We all want the dream, but reality says it doesn't always happen. Based on this fairy tale, Cinderella is a great example for young girls to follow.
In view of hard times, even with those bitchy step sisters, she is still able to be positive. She is hard
working and even when others mistreat her, she holds her head high and
doesn't attack them back, she is a true lady. She is her own person and has her strengths and her weaknesses. heck, she even has the right mind to be on time for a
curfew, even if she is dancing the night away with the handsome prince. Somewhere hidden in the childhood of every person are fairy tales, and every woman wants the fairy tale ending...
It’s been what seems like an eternity since Cinderella put on that glass
slipper and went out in search of her prince. Realistically, modern
women started to wonder if the glass slipper was half-empty or
half-full. Excuse me BUT...have you seen the shoes girls wear today? They are nothing at all like I ever wore. Back in the day brand names meant nothing. Now if you aren't wearing Marc Jacobs, Michael Kors, Gucci, Kate Spade, Prada, Jimmy Choo (btw, my favorite) or Christian Louboutin some women look down upon you. Excuse me folks, but last time I watched Cinderella she had on old dirty flats.
It wasn't until her fairy godmother came around using her 'bibbity bobbity boo' that her feet got so glamorous...without that stoke of magic, she would have never worn those glass slippers. These stilettos that I speak about are strutting
shoes; made to last, made to dance the night away and give you 5 extra
inches of confidence so you can look anyone in the eye and assert
authority. They often come in colors that scream “Look at me!” and, with a
toned leg/short-skirt combo, they make a room-stopping entrance.Often, they are simple classic black stilettos, so you can both show ‘em what you're made of and then turn him on all in one night..and guess what? They don't have to be expensive.They are a woman’s best ally: a weapon both inside and out of the bedroom. Like finding a good man, you should choose your shoe wisely.
In
comparison, (my personal comparison) Men are like running shoes...Comforting, supportive, ready
to go that extra mile. They intensify and give you energy, they adhere
to you and keep you safe, and will always hold us up when we feel when
we're about to fall. "Running is the greatest metaphor for life, because
you get out of it what you put into it." Is that not what a relationship is? How does your shoe fit?
What is going to happen when this modern day woman takes off her sexy
strutting shoes at the end of the night and all she has are sore feet
with no one to rub them? We don’t have a stroke of midnight
curfew. Instead, there are times when we come home from another long day stand feeling
worthlessly “empowered” (with BOTH shoes on) and no hope of Prince
Charming returning a shoe to us. We all see the fairy tales rise and
fall around us. Today, people are more shocked by the mythical “happy
loving couple” than the ones with the drama and infidelity. Every day,
relationships are becoming obsolete...but that does not mean that you should give up. As a hopeless romantic, I truly believe that still with all the BS you hear, there is a prince for everyone.
Before you consider buying one more pair of expensive killer stiletto designer
shoes, an outfit guaranteed “to turn his head” and a bottle of wine for
that “get over him” party with your girlfriends, get out there and get your feet wet! My prince charming obviously took a wrong turn and got lost somewhere in that dark forest. Don't let waiting for that one man stop you. Live your life. My grandmother used to say that love finds you when you least expect it to. Soooo, how do you get started? Well, geez, even Cinderella had a plan, and you should too!
The Plan: If you did everything right up to this point you should
both be planning a night out. Truth is if women and men did everything
right I wouldn’t be writing this, but let’s just assume, shall we? Here is where it
sometimes goes wrong... Guys- you ask a woman, “So what do you like to
do?” Most of the time her response starts with, “I don’t know” and is followed by a
list of cliché first date ideas. At this point most men will dim their
creative side and go into standard mode. It’s true! Girlfriend...you just sent the
message that you are a common woman who desires common dates. That’s
exactly what you will get. Why not share your interests, he might enjoy
them. Tell him your favorite places and things to do. It helps!
Remember, it is your personality and your character that win the end define you, so just be yourself. Be open and be honest. If he doesn't like that, he is not your prince charming. And fellas...contrary to popular belief, don’t expect women to put out because you took us out. Cinderella and her Prince Charming did not engage in premarital sex.
Interesting concept! But why do modern day Cinderellas feel like sex is
the only way to catch a man’s attention? DO NOT use sex to try to control him.One thing I have learned over the years is, that you can’t use sex to
keep a man! If he’s into you, he’s into you. Some men keep certain
woman around only for the sex but that’s where it begins and ends. Cinderella was a lady...and you should be too! Sure we all hold that fairy tale within, and who doesn't want that 'glass slipper' but at any age, we all still must live, laugh and love the little girl in us regardless of the make of the shoe...in reality YOU make your own magic!
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