Online Dating Profiles...Be Truthful and Keep it Simple!

When you think of going to an online dating site, what comes to mind first? You want to meet the man or woman of your dreams and possibly build a relationship together, right? You hear so much about being careful, and discrete but you want to impress a certain someone and you really want your profile to stand ot amongst all the others. One word of advice, and I am no professional, but I have experience...

While you might take some care to conceal your identity, and hey, that's all right....however, it's best not to lie. Do not try to bluff your way through a relationship because at some point the whole thing might come out and as we all know, one lie leads to another and then before you know it the whole relationship crashes down and then you ask "What did I do?" If you have to ask that at that point and time, you need to take a good hard look at "YOU!" Be as honest as you can, taking care to conceal your identity. Someone close to me once said that a friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you just the same. So there is no need to hide things about you.

Of course, you do not have to tell the person every ghastly, gory detail about yourself, but at the same time you do not have to conjure up stuff about you that simply is not true.If at all you do paint a very rosy picture about yourself, including things that just are not true, or are such far fetched exaggerations, and the other person does flip for you, in reality you will be basking in another person’s glory. The picture you have painted is just not you. Eventually this will catch up with you.

Your Alter Ego

When you choose a handle to identify yourself by, you have to be sharp. You don't want to draw a lot of attention to the degree where you are taken in by this profile, you want to be dignified and diligent in finding your special someone. You are not trying to attract as many partners as possible. You are looking for, quality not quantity! Try to attract only the kind of people you are interested in and who would find you interesting. Might I suggest you use a style that better defines the kind of person you are. Do not try to sound like a sex god or a sex goddess. If you are, let the other person decide for himself or herself. Instead of that you could try something that gives someone an immediate idea about the kind of person you are. The point is to win over people who are interested in the same things that you are. That, of course, increases your chances of meshing well with the person.

Keep it Simple....

Another crucial thing about writing your profile is that you should keep it as brief as possible. No one wants to real a novel. Who has time for that? Nobody, and that means nobody, wants to read through lines and lines of another person’s profile where it goes on, and on and on. If you make it so long winded the person who is reading it will get the idea that you are the kind of person who would love to keep on talking about yourself and instead of go on a date with you, the reader would rather go to the next profile...

But that doesn’t mean that you have to limit the whole thing to just a few words. A very brief profile will sound as if you do not have time for all this, but you are just doing it for the heck of it. Make mention of the strengths you can bring to a relationship. Positive things are what we all love to hear. Do not be negative.

The best style that you could use would be to be 100% natural. Write your profile as you would describe yourself to a person directly, no BS, no lies, just be you. Honesty and integrity are what most people seek. The conversation style has the widest appeal. Make it simple and stay away from big words and hackneyed expressions., unless you can back them with true meaning!



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