Quite often I hear people say, "we just don't share intimacy like we used to." Why, I ask? Unless you are too old to have it, you need to bring the sexy back! If your love life is getting boring and predictable, you need to seriously do something about it and soon! Have you lost interest in sexual intimacy even though you still care about your partner? On the contrary to what you may think, it actually happens to so many couples who have been together for a while. Sex becomes more of a habit than a thrill and they may secretly start to wonder if the excitement is gone forever. Time to pull out he Reddi Whip and handcuff along with some sexy Simply Delicious Lingerie and turn up the heat! If this sounds like your situation, there is plenty you can do to turn things around. Here are a few ideas for cranking up the temperature in the bedroom and change your sex life for the good!
Exercise your libido
Both men and women can suffer from sexual boredom or lack of interest, but this is a suggestion that women in particular should take to heart. From time to time you may need to get back in touch with your sensual self. Read erotic stories or watch sexy movies. Fantasize and masturbate if you must. Sexual desire is a fun and most enticing thing - however...it needs to be fed or it withers away. There's a lot of truth to the saying, "Use it or lose it." Or to look at this principle in a more positive way: the more you do it, the more you want to do it. Forget how to do it? Honey, it's like riding a bike, if you fall off you just get back on and try harder!
Take a vacation together
A change of scenery can do wonders for your sex life. Away from the everyday scramble, you may feel more relaxed and less inhibited. Dump the kids with the grandparents and leave the Blackberry at home. If you can't fit a weekend or holiday getaway into your schedule, you can simply stay home, turn off the phone and TV, and devote some uninterrupted time to your partner. Bring the hot tropical beach to you. A few bags of sand, a kiddie pool, baby oil and Simply Delicious Lingerie is all you need to tease your partner. Intimacy can take you miles away without ever leaving home.
Go shopping
Maybe the two of you need a little retail therapy. Take your partner shopping for sex toys on line at www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com and check out our adult toys and novelty boutique. If toys don't appeal to you, you can pick up a bottle of scented massage oil to make the evening more special. What couple doesn;t enjoy being massaged by one another?
Stop being lazy about sex
Lazy is a little harsh, perhaps. But let's face facts. You've probably been making love the same way for months or even years. If that's the case, it's no wonder that boredom is setting in. For an antidote, make a vow that your usual activities are off-limits. Start completely from scratch in your lovemaking. At the very least, try something different or unusual. Now the time to get erotic and satisfy your partner. If you normally focus on certain parts of the body, turn your attention to other parts. Pick an activity neither one of you has ever done, and do it, take risks, and enjoy this passion...you need to bring back the spark!
Switch
In some relationships, the way it works is that one person initiates intimacy and directs most of the action. Try switching roles so that the more passive partner is in charge. Here is your chance to see what the view is like from another perspective. If you're not used to being on top (or bottom), you're in for a surprise. I love experiments, don't you?
Talk to your partner
Considering how obsessed the North American culture is with sexuality, it's shocking how little time people spend actually discussing sex with their partner. If the two of you rarely or never talk about your love life, it's time to change that. Tell your partner about your erotic wishes and fantasies. Speak with positive thoughts, never critically. Ask about her desires (or his). Don't assume you know what your partner likes. Listen very carefully. Figure out how the two of you can have the sex life of your dreams, together.
Sexual boredom may be a common problem in a long-term relationship, but it's certainly not inevitable. Don't think that there is something wrong with you or your partner if intimacy has become a little routine. Don't despair... that the passion may have been gone but it's not lost forever.
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