Top 10 Tips That Your Boyfriend/Spouse is Cheating...

There is one word in the English language that no woman wants to hear. CHEATER. No one likes to be played the fool. My grandmother used to always say; "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." Lets face it ladies, no woman wants to ever believe that her man is cheating on her. What starts out something as simple as flirting or teasing can turn into a giant ball of lies that just keeps getting bigger and bigger. I generally write about two things...lingerie and love. I love lingerie. I know love. 

Is your man being unfaithful? If you ask him and he is extremely defensive and tries to make you feel like you're crazy for suspecting anything, then that's a key indicator. The cheating man does more than lie, he will then try to turn it around and make the woman feel like she's out of line.  If you notice a decrease in sex over a period of time in your relationship and he cannot make direct eye contact at you then Good Lord, let this be your 'red flag!'

Relationships are Built on 3 things:

Love, Trust and Communication. 
If you are missing one or more of these you need to look at the big picture because you've got problems.

Top 10 tips that your mate is cheating:

1) Your mate easily becomes offended when you make normal and natural inquiries and may demand to know why you are checking up on him. He asks you why you constantly nag at him? He may tell you to stop trying to control him or his life. You're not his mother, remember? He begins to question why, why, why you keep asking him ridiculous questions?

2)Your mate's sleeping pattern changes considerably from the norm and may include unexplainable exhaustion, restlessness, frequent nightmares and sleep-talking. He may fall asleep on the couch and when he ventures to bed act as if he is sleeping immediately. Why? He's all sexed out from being with someone else and can't get it up perhaps. 

3) Your mate is more interested in playing with his cell phone including texting and checking emails than spending time talking with you or making love to you. 

4) Your mate stops complimenting you on your looks...why? Because he found someone else to compliment. 

5)Your mate rarely talks to you. You live together but you don't interact hardly at all anymore. Your communication really sucks. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings and hasn't a clue as to what is going on in your personal life whatsoever, what's worse is that he doesn't even ask. Why? Because he is always too busy talking about himself. If you can't stroke his ego, he finds someone who will to fill the emotional void. 

6) Ok, so here is the flip-side to #5; Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilty feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will diminish as the affair continues.

7)You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things start to change. You may even begin to catch him in little lies, ...the reality of it all is that these turn to big lies and before long it gets easier and easier to lie more and more.

8)Your mate becomes super moody and down right angry at times. He seems very upbeat and excited when leaving you but acts somber and depressed when he's around you. Most often looking for excuses to get out and run errands but never has an explanation of where he has been for a few hours of 'lost' time that he cannot account for. 

9)Your mate easily becomes offended at the comments or digs you make, however harmless they may be. Why? Because he has something to hide!

10) Your mate would rather spend time with someone than be with you. Is he taking more cash out of the ATM than he used to? Could it be that he wants no paper trail of where the money is going and who he is spending it on, because it certainly isn't you. Does he golf too much, go to the gym more than usual or have business meetings more often than before? Or does he go out to dinner with you and you find him checking his cell phone, or taking calls that he says he 'has to take' and then steps outside for a few minutes leaving you alone? These are signs that your relationship is in trouble and that someone is monopolizing his time, and sister it's not you!

12 Tips to Keep Your Relationship Uncomplicated

From across the room, you notice him noticing you…then there is the eye contact that leads to a smile. You have a brief moment to retaliate because you've already caught his eye. Saying hello could be the beginning of something really good so open your mouth and say it. This could be the threshold of a fantastic relationship that will grown over time, but you have to work hard at it to keep it. So here comes the anticipation… this leads to you wanting to see him/her more which leads to more dates and more excitement. The intrigue is there for you and you'll be wanting to see this person more and more as the time passes. Your sweet dates at the coffee shop or a nice dinner out move to dinner at his/her place and then next thing you know your drinking wine in his jacuzzi tub while he smokes his cigar starring into your eyes telling you how pretty you look.

Some people jump into relationships hoping that something will become of it and often that just doesn't happen, nonetheless, there are those people that are so fortunate enough to have met that one person that makes them smile and who leaves them longing for so much more. You can't fake this, so don't try. You either have it or you don't. Couples need affection and love. Massages, holding hands or hugging your partner shows him/her that you care. Affection is a necessity. It may not seem all that essential for the man but a women needs this sense of security and to feel wanted.

Relationships take weeks, months or even years to form and to grow and can take only minutes to shatter so do everything that you can to keep the energy moving in a positive effort. It takes two to make a great relationship. I've said it so many times and I continue to say that communication is key and if you can't communicate with your partner you are failing my friend. Find ways to show them that you genuinely care. Whether you choose a romantic evening with your bed covered in rose petals or a sexy piece of lingerie to wear while serving him dessert, crank up the heat, it's up to you to set the mood and the tone.

Relationships on the other hand can be quite vulnerable. You see, life is really simple, we just insist on making it complicated. We all make mistakes in relationships that we criticize ourselves for. Relationships are not meant to be complicated.


12 TIPS to keep your relationship uncomplicated… so that you can focus on the two of you and more romance:

1) Accept and embrace your flaws. We all have them, so accept that no one is perfect.

2) Stop comparing. Do not never ever compare your mate to any one else.

3) Let your partner be who they are. No need to camouflage your mate, don't try to change them. It won't work!

4) Don't be insensitive for heaven sakes…show them that you are listening and that you care.

5) Start showing your love this person. Show them affection, and that doesn't just mean sex when you go to bed. Touching is something that we all need and it is so easy to do. Rub their neck, kiss their cheek, hold their hand on the couch while watching a movie, or put your arm around them.

6) Say the words "I love you" to him/her. You ponder, are these words powerful? YES so why is it that a lot of men/women get them stuck in their throat trying to say them? If you love her, then tell her.

7) Don't judge your mate. They aren't your ex husband, or ex-wife, or your ex partner…they are themselves and you should adore them for their own quarks and qualities.

8) Stop examining the outer beauty and concentrate on their inner beauty. No woman likes to see her man starring at her tummy as if he is embarrassed of it, accept her beauty for what it is or find someone perfect…oh and good luck with that!

9) Let mistakes slide. What do I mean by this? Couples make mistakes, so learn to forgive the other person. Let the little things slide, we all make mistakes. We all get aggravated, but at the end of the day this is the person that will always have your back…and that is a good person to have in your corner.

10) STOP letting your high expectations of what you want out of a relationship get in the way of what you need. Every one deserves good things in life…so if you are with someone that is a Debbie Downer, this is dead weight and it very well could be a time to consider leaving this relationship. We need to be built up by positive people not brought down all the time by negative people. Surround yourself with positive people!

11) Stop saying YES when you want to say NO. You aren't always going to agree with one another on everything so voice your opinion even if it means not being the answer that they wanted to hear. This all happens with good communication. You have to tell your mate how you feel, or don't feel.

12) STOP making it ALL ABOUT YOU! You aren't the only person on this each that is having a bad day, or a bad life. Work might suck, life might suck, but suck it up. Your life isn't going to fall to pieces, and if it does, chances are you caused it, so don't drag your mate into your life of drama. You are in a relationship with someone so make it about the both of you.

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Love Don't Cost a Thing… Little Things that Women Appreciate

Perhaps there is nothing to celebrate, but what woman in her right mind doesn't like surprises? The truth is, women love when their partners become more affectionate and do things for them…but I'm not talking huge things…I am talking small potatoes here. It doesn't hurt for your partner to try to be a little romantic. It's those little things that make women fall in love and they make such a big difference in a relationship if you remember to do it once in a while. J-Lo sang it…"Love Don't Cost a Thing."

There are 3 words that every woman longs to hear and can never get sick of hearing and those words are 'I love you.' If you are in a relationship or if you are married these words should flow from your mouth easily. Now, be it as it may, some men find these words challenging or difficult to say. Some men will wallow their way around those words and when a woman asks "honey, what are 3 words that you can say that would make someones day" she doesn't want to hear him say "9 o'clock tee-time." Surely all of this doesn't mean that he does not love her, it just means that not all men are good at communicating such deep thoughts verbally, so in that case he needs to learn how to use his body language to express himself. What do I mean by this? Romance her with your eyes, stroke her hair and kiss her behind the neck, pull her close and kiss her. Body language is 90% of how we communicate and if he can't say it using his mouth he best know how to do it in another form.

You want to focus on keeping the passion alive and that fire burning, because more often than not, as time goes by it diminishes, and it could all go up in smoke! Some men think that after being with a woman for a certain period of time that they are done with the courtship, the dating, the foreplay, and all the excitement and glamour…they forget about the flowers, the dinner dates, the weekend trips together and worse, they don't appear to care about sex anymore. Perhaps they can forget these things but women sure don't forget them. Even those little gestures certainly do matter to the women. Being appreciated and complimented is a very big deal to many women and guess what fellas? It's free! Unlike many, and on the contrary, what the statistics state (that women need a lot to make them happy) I beg to differ.

To make the relationship full of life, it's not only the guys who should reach out and make the effort find romantic ideas. For men, it may be really difficult to be romantic, why, I have no idea, unless he's just not that into her, he isn't all that great at getting creative, or he may find it cheesy in his mind, nonetheless, there are things that you may think are quite simple to do that could be very romantic for women.

1)  Remember the important dates, anniversaries, birthdays, etc. The ladies don't forget these specific dates, so stay in tune with their feelings! Here's an easy one that will bring her to her knees… Serve her breakfast in bed!

2) Take time to let her know that you are thinking of her during the day. You can send her a simple text message, or you can tell her all about your day when you cuddle at night. A woman likes to hear that she is loved, and special. She wants to know that she's been on your mind.

3) Hey…don't forget the little things. Listen to her needs through her voice as well as her body language. Women love to be touched. It's a gentle gesture that says you care.

4)Spend Quality Time with Her! If you want to do something more special, you can take her out to a romantic dinner, or get her tickets to a romantic or a funny movie, plan trip out of town together to share those special moments and laughs. Always remember to keep the romance in your relationship because more often than not it's the little things that mean the most. Buy her sexy lingerie and plan an adult travel destination somewhere exotic just for the two of you so that you can put your romance skills to work! Can't make it to the beach, bring the beach to your bedroom. Remember romance only dies if we let it. Love don't cost a thing, so give her the little things that she appreciates.

Seduce and Devour…

That saying holds true that what a woman wants a woman wants…and she sets her sights at getting it. When a woman meets a potential partner she begins analyzing her approach and just how it is that she might get their attention. How does one seduce the one that she wants? Does this make you a slut or mischievous? Not at all…it is enticing and intriguing to say the least. When you're trying to figure out the best way to be seductive, often the more subtle things will be most effective for how to seduce them. While most men are visually stimulated and love the idea of their special someone dancing around the room in sexy lingerie, what happens if you haven't gotten past the eye contact stage yet? Seducing your partner can go a lot deeper than a quick physical encounter if you play your cards right. You can learn how to seduce them in ways that will leave them coming back to you for more and they have nothing to do with physical temptations.


Do You Have the Look? You either do or you don't…if you don't, FIND IT!
Let's look at this from a woman's perspective for a few minutes? Ask yourself ladies…Are you the cats meow? Sexy lingerie should be a huge priority! Get yourself something that is going to say holy smokes! The right 'look' from a woman can drive someone totally wild. This is going to also depend on what type woman he likes, but my thought is that any woman can drive someone right out of their skin if she critiques it well enough....seduction is an "art." Every female has the ability to turn on a steamy 'come hither' look when the one of her desires is before her. However, you can also give other signals with your eyes. I do it all the time....are you a sexy seductress?

Try catching their eye and then holding the eye contact for longer than a normal gaze. Holding eye contact is a sign that you're interested in them. Do they look back at you in the same gaze or does they quickly look away? To show your submission to his advances, try dropping your gaze downwards after your eye contact. Sounds like small potatoes but seriously, it works! This doesn't mean slave-like submission. It means you're accepting an advance from them. Give him a super sexy smile and he'll be falling over himself to come over and introduce himself to you!


What's your "Body Language" saying? 
Did you know that 90% of what you're saying isn't coming from your mouth? Learning how to attract a mate or how to seduce them is made much easier with simple body language signals that he can pick up. Even though they might not notice them on a conscious level, sub-consciously they will be very aware that they're attracted to you and doesn't quite know why! Ohhhhhh but ladies, they will surely want to find out, you can be sure of that! Be subtle about wetting your lips with the tip of your tongue and his eyes will be drawn to your mouth. Once they looks, give a little sexy smile and a nod to signal that you've noticed them look.

You could also try playing with your hair, (some may say that's a nervous habit, I say it's a seduction habit.) Try moving it around a little so you expose a little of the soft skin along your neck. Play with your reading glasses. Don't wear them, go buy a cheap pair…you don't need a prescription for these but geez do they make a gal look sexy! Some may say that these are overtly erogenous zones, so exposing it a little is enough to give a strong signal to attract the one of your desire. In relationships and even marriages some say that their sex life goes stale after a while or several years, but it doesn't have to. Some people think that you need to go the extra mile when you may only need 6 feet…Ladies, it's time to wake it up! You could show up at their office, after hours when they are physically exhausted because sometimes you just have to take him by surprise and be the dish that he wants to seduce and devour tonight. Try these few tips out and if they work for you, and who knows, you may just end up having more than just cheesecake for dessert!

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Keeping The Sizzle In Your Relationship

Ask any man what happens most when they enter into a relationship with someone how they feel and they will tell you that they are with the hottest woman on the planet who seduces him ever chance she gets. He'll tell you that she is enticing and erotic. He'll say she has moves that rock his world. He'll tell you that he has a great love life and sex life. Men have a yearning for intimacy. They crave attention both mentally and physically. What I am hearing from a lot of men is that after they move in together or marry that it all goes from sizzle to fizzle. Why you ask? I'm not sure really...some women feel that they have to keep up a sensual portrayal in the relationship.

Some women do it in fear that they will lose their man if the sex diminishes over weeks, or months, or years. Ladies, if this is the case, you're out of your league and you went into a relationship with a lot of false expectations of what a real true relationship is. Sex is not the answer. YES it is fabulous, but there is much much more to a good relationship than just sex. That's the easy part. If this is what you've built your relationship on my friend, you are setting your relationship up for failure. Whether your relationship is new or you've been in it for 20 years, you have to keep it fresh and enjoy every day together.

Relationships are like a well blended recipe. You need the finest of ingredients to make the dish taste delicious. The same holds true with a good relationship. You need a friendship base mixed with a solid foundation first. You need to set boundaries. You need to communicate and most definitely know that you can trust this person. Without communication and trust you're relationship will sink like quicksand. My suggestion is to build a foundation with this person. Lay some ground rules and give one another the space necessary to not feel overwhelmed by a new relationship. Keep your friends, stay active and allow your mate to do the same.

Being in a relationship does not mean being attached to the hip with the person. It means that you have found someone that you like, or love and are fond of and want to develop more with them. Relationships don't happen over night. They take weeks, or even months to build. So many times I hear people say that they were all 'hot and heavy' at the beginning when they first started dating and after several months that went out the window. Teasing and pleasing are what keep a relationship alive.

I'm not a professional here BUT when you start off in any new relationship and give a man what he wants all the time at the drop of a hat, he tends to learn to expect it. Oh yeah sure sex in the middle of the night is erotic but what happens when you are together all the time and you have to cram for an exam, or wake up early for a conference call and you need your beauty sleep? He is not going to want to hear "baby no, I'm tired....not now!" Sex is a beautiful thing and being sensual with your partner is an intimacy that you share in and out of the bedroom. Sex isn't just something you do at night or in the bedroom for that matter. Try new things...and try them in new places. The kitchen, the billiard room or the laundry room? The bedroom isn't the only place to make whoopee!

I believe that in all relationships there is what I call 'give and take.' You give a little, he gives a little. You give a lot, he gives a lot. You have to learn what one another needs. You have to understand when you can lay it on thick and when you need to back off and give your partner space. No one wants to be suffocated in a relationship. You have to have much respect and trust for this person. You have to openly communicate with them and talk about your needs.

What mot couples tend to lack later in relationships is fun. The sizzle goes to fizzle because they laid it on thick at the beginning and now they seem boring perhaps? Not true...ask any red blooded man what he likes and he'll tell you foreplay. Ladies foreplay isn't a chore...it's a fun way of making your partner feel desired. Shop together online at SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com or SimplyLusciousLingerie.com for sexy intimate apparel that will crank it up a notch in the bedroom and every room. Role play in the bedroom. Step outside of your comfort zone every now and then. Try new things, but never make your partner feel that if you don't do something he'll be angry. Relationships are 50/50. It's a two way street my friend. Making it work is not easy, but my grandmother used to tell me that anything worth having is worth working for. The real deal is truly worth the wait and the effort.


Foreplay is something that you can do all day....Make your man feel the hunger. Give him something to crave. You need to slowly seduce him. Have fun, enjoy your relationship and build it day by day. Rome wasn't built over night, and neither are relationships. Chemistry is key and when you've got it, that's your main ingredient. Give him a sample of what is in store for him tonight when he arrives home. Make him thirsty for you. Believe me, making a man sit and think all day about what his lover is cooking up at home will be all that he has on his mind...and I'm not talking about dinner! Keeping the relationship alive and fun shouldn't take a lot of hard work. It takes knowing your partner well enough to keep the romance alive and with this the love will continue to grow. When you have this, your relationship will most definitely sizzle and in more ways than just bedroom fun.

One Sided Relationships...

Relationships are truly a give and take. It takes two to make it work, nonetheless only one to ruin it. Nothing in the world is as disheartening than when a man treats you poorly especially in a relationship that you thought was a relationship. Nothing is more inconsiderate than when he flirts, speaks of other women being 'hot' in front of you, or if he just ignores you.There are many ways of doing this so listen up. Before I start into this I must first state that given those of you who do treat your lady with respect and like a princess, you are truly the exception and perhaps the jackasses that think life is all about 'me, me, me' should read this and make some serious changes in their lives becoming more like all of you good guys.

When a women begins dating a man she has reservations. We all do. As days, weeks, or even months go by there is a certain limitation that one hits before she has to ask herself "Why do I even care about this man?" Have you made your relationship exclusive yet or is he beating around the bush? Is he seeing only you or are there others? Men love what they cannot have and men love the chase, ohhh but when they catch you the thrill is gone most often and we women end up with the short end of the stick clinging to promises and getting very little in return.

When a man that you have been seeing for some time hides his cell phone, puts it face down, or erases/deletes text messages that you asked to see, he is hiding something. Is he cheating? He may not think so, but he might as well be cheating. Flirting and sweet talking another woman while he is spending time with you is wrong, inconsiderate and uncalled for. When you are with someone and it has been long term (more than 6 months) and he has not changed his ways..ladies, it is time to seriously rethink your options regarding this one. He is not worthy of you or your love for that matter and I would say that you deserve so much better than the cards that you were dealt.

Relationships whether they have been deemed exclusive or not require honesty and most importantly communication. What happens though when the one you care for the most can't see the forest through the trees and can't make the connection that he is doing anything wrong? Does he have blinders on you ask, or is he riding today on the short bus? Some women, like myself stay single for a variety of reasons, but mostly because they fear getting hurt. How can we open our heart to love if we don't allow our heart to feel? Its a tough call, but when you meet that one man that makes everything else in your life seem minimal because he is all that you think about, breathe and dream about, you won't want to imagine your life with anyone else.Taking risks is what we do when we develop feelings for someone. They don't happen over night...but they happen if there is chemistry. Going out on a limb to make them happy before your own well being is a sign of compassion.

I believe that paths cross for a reason and I believe that we make our own destiny. I think that two people find their way and when they meet if it is real, the spark will never die. I believe that actions speak louder than words. Call me crazy but I want the fairy tale. I don't need the castle or the white picket fence. All you need is love. I want a groovy kind of love, with one man who wants me as much as I want him. Every woman longs to get complimented by a man and every woman desires to be loved. Wake up and smell the coffee guys...So, if you care for her, show her....if you love her, tell her...if you don't let her go, so that someone will love her the way that she deserves to be loved, don't you think she at least deserves that much?

A dOzEn tHiNgS To dO WitH YoUr HonEy...

1. Go to the Park

Go with your honey to a park nearby. Swing on the swings like when you were a kid. Remember childhood memories and what part of those memories made you a better person today! Share stories! I've got lots of them!!

2. Watch the Sunset

Find a great spot in your area to catch the perfect sunset together. Don't have one? It's time then for a 'road trip!' Find the perfect place to watch a sunset. Mine is at the beach with my toes in the sand and a good glass of wine in my hand. This is one of my favorite things to do and guess what? It doesn't cost a dime to do it.

3. Pack a Picnic Lunch and Enjoy Time with Your Honey...

Throw a picnic lunch together and find a shady spot to enjoy the day with your honey! Talk, laugh and make memories...its the little things that we women remember the most.

4. Play Board Games

Bring out the old favorites like Clue, Monopoly or Scrabble, or find a new board game to play. Someone has to rule Park Ave...might as well be YOU! None of these sound good? How 'bout some naked Twister?

5. Play Card Games

My personal favorite!  Have a card night. Don't forget the wine and snacks to pass, that makes for even more fun! There are a lot of fun card games, but if this gets boring? How about a little strip poker? Now all bets are OFF! Make new fun playful memories as the layers literally unfold...

6. Have a Scavenger Hunt

Have a fun night out scavenger hunt. Think of some creatives fun ideas and work your magic! Making memories with your friends or that special someone is a special thing to do...and please... do remember the camera! Photos make the memories come alive years after the thrill and stories are gone. Loser has to make dinner for the winner!

7.How About Throwing a B.Y.O.E. Party?

This stands of Bring Your Own Everything. Guests are encouraged to bring food and drinks to share. Good times are fun times...and no one should get stuck in the kitchen making it all happen so help a friend out and have a BYOE party full of fun and good times with your close friends! It's a fun way to meet new people who your honey shops with, golfs with, works with, etc., and a great way to get out and have some fun on a weekend evening!

8. Have a Bonfire or Campfire

Make s'mores, cuddle and drink wine by the camp fire and reminisce about good times and future plans with your honey.

9. Go Get Some Ice Cream

Hit up your local ice cream shop and indulge in your favorite dish! Get that sweet tooth craving and march on out to your local ice cream shop. Not feeling like hitting up the local ice cream store...then go to the market and pick up some ice cream, cherries, whip cream and take it home to make body sundaes with your honey...that is romantic and erotic!

10. Make Your Honey a Romantic Dinner

Plan a romantic, candlelight dinner for your spouse or loved one. Listen guys..romance need not be super expensive! It has been said that it is the thought that counts and how much time your guy/lady put into the thought process of the evening...those are the memories that you will endure and always keep close to your heart.

11. Try Grilling Something New...Get Sassy with some BBQ!

Try a new grilling recipe...every woman is addicted to Pinterest, so find something fun to make and give it a whirl! Add a little zing to your lifestyles and spice it up. It's time to take this relationship to a new level.

12. Go to the Zoo

It has been said that it makes us feel good when we vent, and by vent I mean; go talk to the animals! Zoos are fairly inexpensive if you pack your own lunch and avoid the unnecessary extras. Make a fun day out of it! You may even make some new fury friends too! Yes go to the zoo, and then go home and kick it up a notch by getting a little wild in the bedroom...Be the hunter and allow her to be your tigress...she will slip into something sensual and erotic for some bedroom fun from Simply Delicious Lingerie! This will spice up any night and make some hot stinky sweaty monkey love! Lingerie is beautiful, but it was made to come off...

 

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Are You Crazy... or Just Falling in L-O-V-E?

L-O-V-E... is probably one of the most powerful words in the English language. These four letters are a whole lot more than just telling someone you love them. What about showing them? Often, it can be a constant struggle resulting in endless efforts to show your mate that you truly mean it by your actions. My grandmother used to always say that actions speak louder than words, and I believe that to be true, nonetheless, those three powerful words are the words that every man/woman longs to hear. When you start dating someone, you never really know where it is heading? It could go well, or it could turn out as a big disaster. 

Chemistry is key, but communication is imperative. Before you find love there is friendship. The two after time go hand in hand. Some might ask themselves..."Am I crazy or just falling in love?" You my friend are the only one that truly has the answer to that question. Please do not misconstrue what I say from what I mean as my intentions are not to make anyone angry. You can be quite happy with someone in a relationship and just date them. You do not have to ever feel pressured to say the words "I love you." If there is pressure, there is possession, (your first red flag) and you my friend better run for your life now before it's too late. 

Word of Advice; Don't tell someone that you love them one minute then do something hurtful and selfish the next like sleeping with their friend, revisiting a dating site ‘just because’ someone may have shown some interest in you, or ignore their calls. The list of “no-nos” is forever endless. Women take things so personal where as most men don’t even think that they are doing anything wrong. Really? Guys you better shape up or that woman that you’re telling you love will hit the road and by the time you figure out what it was that you did wrong she’ll be long gone and you my friend will be like the song goes “Dust in The Wind!”

You don't tell someone you love him or her and never make an effort to show them. There are countless ways that these simple words can express your feelings such as cuddling with them or holding their hand and reassuring them you will always be there for them no matter what. Drawing them a hot bath at night with a glass of wine to end the day, tucking them into bed and ‘not’ expecting to have sex because you know that they’ve had a rough day, cooking them dinner, planning a weekend getaway, or just smiling at them with that look in your eye that you get when you are with her/him that makes you go absolutely crazy!

Love is something rare. Love is something that if you are lucky enough to experience once in your lifetime you should be most grateful. Twice, or more is simply like seeing a shooting star. So many people say that they love their partner but do they really know the true meaning and how much emphasis goes along with it? No, saying that you love someone doesn’t mean its followed by a marriage proposal, it simply means that you’ve met your match and he/she is all that you can think about, want, or need. It means wanting to spend your time getting to know them more. It means opening your heart to new things and letting your guard down. 

There is a certain sense of reassurance that also goes along with love. To love one must first trust. Without trust, there is no love nor should there even be a relationship for that matter. No woman or man wants to go around second guessing what their partner/mate/lover is or is not doing and with whom. Love is about maturity and communication. My grandmother used to say that  to love is like making the perfect casserole. You need all of the right ingredients. Without even just one of them the dish won’t be the same and it certainly won’t have the appeal, desire or taste. Love and communication go hand in hand. One must build a relationship on a solid foundation. If the foundation is not solid, and if you or your mate lies, cheats, and or is deceptive in the relationship in any way, you’ll sink like quick sand. It’s not to late to rebuild that foundation if you’re beginning to sink now…Love is about fault, and mistakes and learning to accept that person for the good and bad. Love is about understanding why one does the things that he or she does. When two people love one another, there is nothing that can or will get in their way.

If you are middle aged like myself and you keep trying to meet the right man and time after time you are let down, then he is not the one for you. Many men and women have commitment phobias. My non-professional advice? Shit or get off the pot my friend. It’s real simple. Don’t say that you love someone if you cannot back that ass up. Words such as ‘I love you’  are so easy to say but so difficult to take back, so if you aren’t sure, don’t be a schmuck and say that you do. You never want to give someone false hope. That’s mean and so wrong on so many levels.