Perhaps there is nothing to celebrate, but what woman in her right mind doesn't like surprises? The truth is, women love when their partners become more affectionate and do things for them…but I'm not talking huge things…I am talking small potatoes here. It doesn't hurt for your partner to try to be a little romantic. It's those little things that make women fall in love and they make such a big difference in a relationship if you remember to do it once in a while. J-Lo sang it…"Love Don't Cost a Thing."
There are 3 words that every woman longs to hear and can never get sick of hearing and those words are 'I love you.' If you are in a relationship or if you are married these words should flow from your mouth easily. Now, be it as it may, some men find these words challenging or difficult to say. Some men will wallow their way around those words and when a woman asks "honey, what are 3 words that you can say that would make someones day" she doesn't want to hear him say "9 o'clock tee-time." Surely all of this doesn't mean that he does not love her, it just means that not all men are good at communicating such deep thoughts verbally, so in that case he needs to learn how to use his body language to express himself. What do I mean by this? Romance her with your eyes, stroke her hair and kiss her behind the neck, pull her close and kiss her. Body language is 90% of how we communicate and if he can't say it using his mouth he best know how to do it in another form.
You want to focus on keeping the passion alive and that fire burning, because more often than not, as time goes by it diminishes, and it could all go up in smoke! Some men think that after being with a woman for a certain period of time that they are done with the courtship, the dating, the foreplay, and all the excitement and glamour…they forget about the flowers, the dinner dates, the weekend trips together and worse, they don't appear to care about sex anymore. Perhaps they can forget these things but women sure don't forget them. Even those little gestures certainly do matter to the women. Being appreciated and complimented is a very big deal to many women and guess what fellas? It's free! Unlike many, and on the contrary, what the statistics state (that women need a lot to make them happy) I beg to differ.
To make the relationship full of life, it's not only the guys who should reach out and make the effort find romantic ideas. For men, it may be really difficult to be romantic, why, I have no idea, unless he's just not that into her, he isn't all that great at getting creative, or he may find it cheesy in his mind, nonetheless, there are things that you may think are quite simple to do that could be very romantic for women.
1) Remember the important dates, anniversaries, birthdays, etc. The ladies don't forget these specific dates, so stay in tune with their feelings! Here's an easy one that will bring her to her knees… Serve her breakfast in bed!
2) Take time to let her know that you are thinking of her during the day. You can send her a simple text message, or you can tell her all about your day when you cuddle at night. A woman likes to hear that she is loved, and special. She wants to know that she's been on your mind.
3) Hey…don't forget the little things. Listen to her needs through her voice as well as her body language. Women love to be touched. It's a gentle gesture that says you care.
4)Spend Quality Time with Her! If you want to do something more special, you can take her out to a romantic dinner, or get her tickets to a romantic or a funny movie, plan trip out of town together to share those special moments and laughs. Always remember to keep the romance in your relationship because more often than not it's the little things that mean the most. Buy her sexy lingerie and plan an adult travel destination somewhere exotic just for the two of you so that you can put your romance skills to work! Can't make it to the beach, bring the beach to your bedroom. Remember romance only dies if we let it. Love don't cost a thing, so give her the little things that she appreciates.
There are 3 words that every woman longs to hear and can never get sick of hearing and those words are 'I love you.' If you are in a relationship or if you are married these words should flow from your mouth easily. Now, be it as it may, some men find these words challenging or difficult to say. Some men will wallow their way around those words and when a woman asks "honey, what are 3 words that you can say that would make someones day" she doesn't want to hear him say "9 o'clock tee-time." Surely all of this doesn't mean that he does not love her, it just means that not all men are good at communicating such deep thoughts verbally, so in that case he needs to learn how to use his body language to express himself. What do I mean by this? Romance her with your eyes, stroke her hair and kiss her behind the neck, pull her close and kiss her. Body language is 90% of how we communicate and if he can't say it using his mouth he best know how to do it in another form.
You want to focus on keeping the passion alive and that fire burning, because more often than not, as time goes by it diminishes, and it could all go up in smoke! Some men think that after being with a woman for a certain period of time that they are done with the courtship, the dating, the foreplay, and all the excitement and glamour…they forget about the flowers, the dinner dates, the weekend trips together and worse, they don't appear to care about sex anymore. Perhaps they can forget these things but women sure don't forget them. Even those little gestures certainly do matter to the women. Being appreciated and complimented is a very big deal to many women and guess what fellas? It's free! Unlike many, and on the contrary, what the statistics state (that women need a lot to make them happy) I beg to differ.
To make the relationship full of life, it's not only the guys who should reach out and make the effort find romantic ideas. For men, it may be really difficult to be romantic, why, I have no idea, unless he's just not that into her, he isn't all that great at getting creative, or he may find it cheesy in his mind, nonetheless, there are things that you may think are quite simple to do that could be very romantic for women.
1) Remember the important dates, anniversaries, birthdays, etc. The ladies don't forget these specific dates, so stay in tune with their feelings! Here's an easy one that will bring her to her knees… Serve her breakfast in bed!
2) Take time to let her know that you are thinking of her during the day. You can send her a simple text message, or you can tell her all about your day when you cuddle at night. A woman likes to hear that she is loved, and special. She wants to know that she's been on your mind.
3) Hey…don't forget the little things. Listen to her needs through her voice as well as her body language. Women love to be touched. It's a gentle gesture that says you care.
4)Spend Quality Time with Her! If you want to do something more special, you can take her out to a romantic dinner, or get her tickets to a romantic or a funny movie, plan trip out of town together to share those special moments and laughs. Always remember to keep the romance in your relationship because more often than not it's the little things that mean the most. Buy her sexy lingerie and plan an adult travel destination somewhere exotic just for the two of you so that you can put your romance skills to work! Can't make it to the beach, bring the beach to your bedroom. Remember romance only dies if we let it. Love don't cost a thing, so give her the little things that she appreciates.
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