Seduce and Devour…

That saying holds true that what a woman wants a woman wants…and she sets her sights at getting it. When a woman meets a potential partner she begins analyzing her approach and just how it is that she might get their attention. How does one seduce the one that she wants? Does this make you a slut or mischievous? Not at all…it is enticing and intriguing to say the least. When you're trying to figure out the best way to be seductive, often the more subtle things will be most effective for how to seduce them. While most men are visually stimulated and love the idea of their special someone dancing around the room in sexy lingerie, what happens if you haven't gotten past the eye contact stage yet? Seducing your partner can go a lot deeper than a quick physical encounter if you play your cards right. You can learn how to seduce them in ways that will leave them coming back to you for more and they have nothing to do with physical temptations.


Do You Have the Look? You either do or you don't…if you don't, FIND IT!
Let's look at this from a woman's perspective for a few minutes? Ask yourself ladies…Are you the cats meow? Sexy lingerie should be a huge priority! Get yourself something that is going to say holy smokes! The right 'look' from a woman can drive someone totally wild. This is going to also depend on what type woman he likes, but my thought is that any woman can drive someone right out of their skin if she critiques it well enough....seduction is an "art." Every female has the ability to turn on a steamy 'come hither' look when the one of her desires is before her. However, you can also give other signals with your eyes. I do it all the time....are you a sexy seductress?

Try catching their eye and then holding the eye contact for longer than a normal gaze. Holding eye contact is a sign that you're interested in them. Do they look back at you in the same gaze or does they quickly look away? To show your submission to his advances, try dropping your gaze downwards after your eye contact. Sounds like small potatoes but seriously, it works! This doesn't mean slave-like submission. It means you're accepting an advance from them. Give him a super sexy smile and he'll be falling over himself to come over and introduce himself to you!


What's your "Body Language" saying? 
Did you know that 90% of what you're saying isn't coming from your mouth? Learning how to attract a mate or how to seduce them is made much easier with simple body language signals that he can pick up. Even though they might not notice them on a conscious level, sub-consciously they will be very aware that they're attracted to you and doesn't quite know why! Ohhhhhh but ladies, they will surely want to find out, you can be sure of that! Be subtle about wetting your lips with the tip of your tongue and his eyes will be drawn to your mouth. Once they looks, give a little sexy smile and a nod to signal that you've noticed them look.

You could also try playing with your hair, (some may say that's a nervous habit, I say it's a seduction habit.) Try moving it around a little so you expose a little of the soft skin along your neck. Play with your reading glasses. Don't wear them, go buy a cheap pair…you don't need a prescription for these but geez do they make a gal look sexy! Some may say that these are overtly erogenous zones, so exposing it a little is enough to give a strong signal to attract the one of your desire. In relationships and even marriages some say that their sex life goes stale after a while or several years, but it doesn't have to. Some people think that you need to go the extra mile when you may only need 6 feet…Ladies, it's time to wake it up! You could show up at their office, after hours when they are physically exhausted because sometimes you just have to take him by surprise and be the dish that he wants to seduce and devour tonight. Try these few tips out and if they work for you, and who knows, you may just end up having more than just cheesecake for dessert!

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10 Pick Up lines that Work

Number 10

"Excuse me, is this seat taken?"

Innocent, charming and most definitely polite. It is not always safe to assume that a woman sitting next to an empty chair is alone. Your consideration of the fact that she may be saving a seat for someone shows that you have class. What makes this an effective pickup line is the fact that its unobtrusive and gives her the opportunity to invite you to join her if she is alone. Go slow, move with caution. Do not pass go and do not collect your $200. Not yet....NO SO FAST!

Number 9

"Would you like to dance?"

Hopefully you have enough rhythm in your pants to actually dance. Not me, I was born with two left feet....

If you impress her with your skills, you might just find yourself at the bar talking about music, the DJ or even the venue. This is among the most effective pickup lines because women like to dance, and if you shuffle your feet right, you might end up doing a tongue tango or the horizontal shuffle.

Number 8

"Can I interest you in a glass of…?"

Insert the type of beverage for which the occasion calls. In most cases, we are speaking of an event or gathering that calls for a glass of wine or in my case a "martini." If you’re in college, a beer or jungle juice.You are wondering now, how does she know of jungle juice...I put two kids through college and saw the effects of what that green nasty stuff can do.But....what if it is a toned-down occasion, you might offer a soda or lemonade. No matter where you are, this is one of our favorite pickup lines because it affords us the opportunity to display our skills as a connoisseur without being overt about it.

Number 7

"Do you come here often? I could use your opinion about something…"

Before that gulp of beer comes out your nose, hold on. We know that this one sounds like a cheesy pickup line, but you can make it work for you. This question is a loaded gun...don't use cheesy pickup lines guys,..be original?

Number 6

"Excuse me; can you help me with…?"

Here’s where you can come up with a light task for her to help you with, such as winning a bet among friends, naming a song that is playing or even ordering a drink. This will make her feel as though you are interested in her and appreciative of her feedback, opinion or selection. Requesting her assistance gives her a non-verbal indication that you’re impressed with her appearance and ultimately states that her answer is valued.

Number 5

"Don’t you find this place…?"

Insert a word that best describes how you feel about the venue, such as classy, cool, chic, or off the hook. Hopefully, she will share the same opinion, which will ultimately lead to further conversation about the ambiance, the decor and places you have encountered that have similar attributes. Don’t, however, complain; doing so will dampen her mood and turn her off quite quickly indeed.

Number 4

"You look like you might be interested in some deep conversation."

Allow me to pick your brain if you will. Women LOVE that term! Why? Well because it makes them feel like you seriously want to get to know them personally....and you do. If you say this with the right tone and with enough attitude, it’ll put a smile on her face. While this effective pickup line helps you break the ice, it also spontaneously creates a topic to discuss. This could be anything from food to wine or from a current event to the venue. Be sure that you’re as willing to listen as you are to talk, and remember to keep it light and great, which is exactly what you offered.

Number 3

"Might I walk you out?…"

When you notice a woman walking alone -- perhaps to her table, an elevator or even the bar -- it is always a nice gesture to politely offer her a sense of security. At the same time, it is highly likely that she won’t be walking very far, so exhibiting your charm will be essential to your attempt to break the ice once you’ve delivered your effective pickup line. Walking a woman to her car is a good gesture that you are concerned about her well being...there are some brownie points for you there boys!

Number 2

"Wow! I really like that (insert item of clothing or fragrance) you’re wearing."

We like it when men notice...Women put great effort into preparing an ensemble that best reflects how they feel and how they want to be perceived by admirers. As such, your compliment tells her that her efforts did not go unnoticed. This small gesture will boost her confidence and earn you all access to front-row conversation. We suggest that you do a little research and arm yourself with tidbits of info relating to women’s fashion so that you will appear sincere while you exercise this highly effective pickup line. Are we buying it? That is all to be determined. Maybe,...maybe not.Tell him if he likes it so much you'll give him the name because you are almost out of it! We'll see if he means business now or not?

Number 1

"I just thought I should be the first to tell you that your ass…"

Sure, you could say something derogatory, but that would likely get you a slap across the face. But, complimenting features such as her smile, eyes or nose can go a long way in making a woman open up enough to converse with you. Who says flattery gets you nowhere? The key is to make sure that you are genuine about your observation -- women can tell when a guy is trying to lay it on thick just to get close. Don't talk to a woman about her ass or boobs...never on a first or second date.

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