The 3 Most Popular Sexual Positions

In some recent research and unique findings I wondered what are the most popular sexual positions? There are several different kinds of love making positions that couples can adopt during sex. Some of the love making positions provides higher stimulation than the others and it will be good for you to try them out with your lover. I've found that foreplay as we all know it is something that gets the energy going and sets the mood...is it extremely necessary? No...but is it fun?....You bet your sweet ass it is. Being a pretty intelligent woman that I am and one who does her fair share of reading thought that I would share with you, my friends and family, (but hopefully not my mother) the 3 most popular positions that couples all over use. Remember, always wear your Simply Delicious Lingerie!

1. The Clip. This position is very easy to execute and it brings a lot of pleasure to both partners. The man will lie down with his legs outstretched. The woman will sit astride him and lean back, so that the man can play with her clitoris while she controls the thrusting movement. The man can just relaxed and enjoy the intercourse.

2. The 90 Degree. This position is best to be performed on a table, with the woman lying on it and her buttock at the edge of the table. The man will then enter her in a standing position. This position is ideal for the man to caress both her breasts as well as her clitoris. The woman should wrap both her legs onto the man's waist and pull him to towards her. This will cause the pressure to increase, giving both partners stimulating pleasures.

3. The Doggie. This is a classic making love position and it is highly stimulating for both partners. This position starts off with the woman going down on all fours, using her forearms to support herself. The man will enter her from the rear, controlling the thrusting movement with his hips. This position will give a lot of pleasures to both partners as the deep penetration will not only grind and stimulate against the vaginal wall, but also the G-Spot too.

If you are looking for fun ways to get more excitement from your partner and you like taking risks, read this book.... I just did. It is intriguing and has that "wow" factor of seduction! You should explore more love making positions with your partner to spice things up as there may be some other positions that both of you find highly stimulating. Life is far too short, enjoy your partner. It burns calories!

Why do men chase "Cougars?"

Most often we have to wonder....Why do men chase Cougars? If you're familiar with the movie "The Graduate", where a young Dustin Hoffman has an affair with the older and mature Mrs. Robinson, you may have a small grasp of why younger men sometimes like older women. Come on now, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to connect the dots on this puzzle. Here in America, it's rare but not uncommon for a younger man to be with an older woman. It's appealing, its seductive but most of all it is also alluring. So what is it that an older woman seems to have verse a younger gal? A mature woman provides several attractive qualities.

The allure comes in several forms:
 Older women are taboo; taboos are attractive
It's a cultural taboo for a younger man to date a mature woman. It's usually the other way around: an older male with a younger female.

Much like the forbidden fruit, older women are theoretically off-limits for younger guys. While it may be uncommon for a 21 year-old man to date a 31 year-old woman, it's certainly not illegal. People would probably view the interaction as a novelty. It is life though and it is going on all around us. I was approached by a handsome younger man who came right at me and told me that he prefers older women because we are more mature and less fuss. He is actually turned on by women my age. I am 48, he is a very mature 34. I suck at guessing a mans age so naturally I thought he was older....Flattered by this, sure I am.

So ladies...if you think hitting 40 or 50 has turned you into an old maid, think again...you're not too old to get hot and sassy with some Simply Delicious Lingerie and go after what you want, or to allow the chase to begin. Some young men prefer older woman, and I say that there is nothing wrong with that and everything right! It's nice at our age to be known as the "forbidden fruit" isn't it? Taboo? Nah, I just think that the men that are younger that go after women in my age group who still take care of themselves and look well, are ranking high in the friends talk...everyone wants to know how that match came about?

In theory, it's no ones business. Honestly, Imagine being at the bar a younger man with his friends where  many younger women are approaching him and he turns to the beautiful sassy older woman in the crowd? Not only has this just made every mans jaw hit the floor in the room, but he feels like a million bucks and you are honored for the opportunity to get to know this young man who went out of his way to get noticed by you. I'll say it again, the LBD works wonders. Ladies, guys like simple and sexy at whatever again...lose the layers of make up and go more natural...you will look more appealing than you ever imagined without even having tried to.

Much like the forbidden fruit, older women are theoretically off-limits for younger guys. While it may be uncommon for a 21 year-old man to date a 31 year-old woman, it's certainly not illegal. People would probably view the interaction as a novelty.

Mature women make men feel more comfortable.Young women have less experience with men and tend to be less stable in general than older women. Men like women who make them feel comfortable, emotionally. We are less work...that's what I'm trying to say I think....? Also, as far as sexual maturity goes, women tend to peak in their late twenties, while men peak around age 18. Hey, some women such as myself are still peaking...nothing wrong with that.

Very often, young women may have hundreds of men chasing after them; this makes a young man feel the pressures of competition from other males.Older women offer an alternative. It's nice to feel attractive; in the eyes of a mature woman, a young man may be a very attractive object.

Women chase younger men just the same...Perhaps there is something to be said about the chase? There is a class of women known colloquially as "cougars", these women are typically professional, attractive, and earn middle-class incomes without the help of a man.  These are the women who are determined to live a happy life with or without a man because they are well-balanced and happy with who they are. Personally I think that us older women have the edge on dating, and having a younger spouse. I think that age is just a number. It depends truly on one's integrity as well as their maturity level.Look out all you younger women who think that us older gals are heading down the road to loneliness, news flash! There is a cougar crossing...so get out of our way!

Alcoholism, Bulimia and Peer Pressure...a Deadly Concoction!

Let me tell you a story about a little girl that I grew up with that was obese. She was teased and taunted and kids always picked on her. She had few friends that really knew who she was as a person. I was one of those friends. A true friend always stands by your side, through thick and thin, ups and downs, highs and lows.....but where were people when Diane needed friends? At age 15 Diane moved away (she and my grandparents were next door neighbors) and I didn't see her for 9 months. One day Diane's mother called our house and asked if I would come visit them? I gladly accepted and could not wait to see my friend who seemed to have fallen off the planet so to speak.

When I arrived and  Diane came around the corner, I didn't recognize this young lady. She had lost almost 100 pounds and had a total make over. She was even more beautiful than the girl I knew. Beauty is described in a variety of ways....beauty is not just ones appearance and their looks on the outside, the finer line of beauty and what is much more impirtant in my book is the that lies under the surface. That beauty is like that of a treasure as my grandmother used to say. Rare and untouched, a true beauty that some only wish they had, a personality and a greaceful heart.

To have these characteristics is a blessing. Anyone can look like a million bucks but if they are mean/ruthless under the surface, they will be the ugliest person around. Some people are quite confused by what real beauty is...to those of you who misconstrue what it is, it's time for a reality check. Diane dropped weight all right, but soon afterwards, I began to notice habits Diane was making,..like repeated trips to the bathroom after meals. What I didn't understand until it was too late was that Diane had become a bulimic. What is the true definition of a person who suffers bulimia? Bulimia many times goes unnoticed by friends and family specifically because bulimics usually look perfectly normal. Most are of normal weight some are even overweight.

***Bulimia is characterized by episodes of binge eating which is the consumption of enormous quantities of food. The food tends to be high in calories. They are comfort foods. They help relax and calm a person, which is why the binge/purge cycle often happens in response to stress/anxiety. The cycle in fact becomes a habit or a ritual that all together brings calm to the victim.

***Peer Pressure- This is what happened to my best friend when she got into the wrong mix of kids at school. She thought that it was super cool to drink and party. If I had only been there...this train she calls her life would not have derailed, and Diane's life would be so much different now. She might have been the strong savvy business owner with great determination to make something of herself. She might have a successful job, a happy marriage, and a good life....maybe not the marriage. She is better off without him.

***Alcoholism — This is what ruined my friend..and lack of self esteem and confidence.

Definition Alcoholism is a chronic disease in which your body becomes dependent on alcohol. When you have alcoholism, you lose control over your drinking. You may not be able to control when you drink, how much you drink, or how long you drink on each occasion. If you have alcoholism, you continue to drink even though you know it's causing problems with your relationships, health, work or finances.

Put all three of these deadly items together and it's a wonder that my friend is alive today. To all of those people in her life who call her a loser, or who continue to turn their backs on her when she needs them most. To these people I say "SHAME ON YOU!" Ever hear of the Bonnie Raitt song.... "Let me tell you 'bout a "THING CALLED LOVE" ...yeah, it's what you do! UNCONDITIONALLY!

I won't get into the details of my best friends awful ordeal but it's been 30 + years and she still has her good days and her bad days. What she needs is for people to rally around her and help her to get her confidence back. Hasn't she fallen off the eagon enough, she surely doesn't need all of us preaching to her. She has to want to change herself. She is the only one who can make a difference now in her life...all we can do is love her and support her. If someone would have only seen this 30+ years ago and recognized the signs, my best friend might be living a normal life today. Where is the happy girl that made me laugh until I cried? The girl who drove her fathers vintage Thunderbird through the garage wall because she thought it was in drive, and opps, it wasn't ...it was in reverse! We sat and haughed so hard, and as we laughed we saw the smoke coming out of Chucks ears (her father.) This is the Diane I remember, the zesty full of life, ready to take on the world gal...now, she doesn't want to get out of bed some days.


Today my friend has NO idea what a "normal" life is? She only knows a life of alcohol, darkness, and dispair. I'm not sure why I was summonsed back to Youngstown Ohio after all of these years...maybe it was to be near my family after being gone for 28 years. Maybe it was to save my friend? We're all here on earth for a reason, and I truly believe that God has a plan for each of us. I have been given the gift of life, laughter and hope. After having survived cancer 4 times, and a brutal attack on my life, I'd say that there really is nothing or no one that can stop me or get in my way...Being optimistic and confident goes a longgggggggggg way. I will always love my best friend, and I will always stand by her, even when family and friends turn their back. Tough love? Yes she needs a good dose of it. Perhaps she's had it before already? All I can do is guide her and pray that she loves her life enough to stick around.


To my friend Diane, I say "Hang in there kiddo, there is a light at the end of your tunnel!" I'm one fast driving, mean momma of a locomotion. Time to take a ride on the Shelly Express! Buck up friend. Friends don't let friends drive themselves into the ground. She may feel as if she is digging herself into a ditch and there is NO getting out....I say, "She bought a pretty cheap ass shovel!" Meaning, her friends in her life now are not the right tools that she needs...otherwise, she'd be getting better, not worse. Diane for as long as I have known her was not a coward, yet she does cowardly acts over and over. Why? Who knows....alcohol does funny things to people. Be a friend, step into your friend or family members life when everyone else steps out. You might be the only savior. You might make the difference...and that is the story of life.

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