One Sided Relationships...

Relationships are truly a give and take. It takes two to make it work, nonetheless only one to ruin it. Nothing in the world is as disheartening than when a man treats you poorly especially in a relationship that you thought was a relationship. Nothing is more inconsiderate than when he flirts, speaks of other women being 'hot' in front of you, or if he just ignores you.There are many ways of doing this so listen up. Before I start into this I must first state that given those of you who do treat your lady with respect and like a princess, you are truly the exception and perhaps the jackasses that think life is all about 'me, me, me' should read this and make some serious changes in their lives becoming more like all of you good guys.

When a women begins dating a man she has reservations. We all do. As days, weeks, or even months go by there is a certain limitation that one hits before she has to ask herself "Why do I even care about this man?" Have you made your relationship exclusive yet or is he beating around the bush? Is he seeing only you or are there others? Men love what they cannot have and men love the chase, ohhh but when they catch you the thrill is gone most often and we women end up with the short end of the stick clinging to promises and getting very little in return.

When a man that you have been seeing for some time hides his cell phone, puts it face down, or erases/deletes text messages that you asked to see, he is hiding something. Is he cheating? He may not think so, but he might as well be cheating. Flirting and sweet talking another woman while he is spending time with you is wrong, inconsiderate and uncalled for. When you are with someone and it has been long term (more than 6 months) and he has not changed his ways..ladies, it is time to seriously rethink your options regarding this one. He is not worthy of you or your love for that matter and I would say that you deserve so much better than the cards that you were dealt.

Relationships whether they have been deemed exclusive or not require honesty and most importantly communication. What happens though when the one you care for the most can't see the forest through the trees and can't make the connection that he is doing anything wrong? Does he have blinders on you ask, or is he riding today on the short bus? Some women, like myself stay single for a variety of reasons, but mostly because they fear getting hurt. How can we open our heart to love if we don't allow our heart to feel? Its a tough call, but when you meet that one man that makes everything else in your life seem minimal because he is all that you think about, breathe and dream about, you won't want to imagine your life with anyone else.Taking risks is what we do when we develop feelings for someone. They don't happen over night...but they happen if there is chemistry. Going out on a limb to make them happy before your own well being is a sign of compassion.

I believe that paths cross for a reason and I believe that we make our own destiny. I think that two people find their way and when they meet if it is real, the spark will never die. I believe that actions speak louder than words. Call me crazy but I want the fairy tale. I don't need the castle or the white picket fence. All you need is love. I want a groovy kind of love, with one man who wants me as much as I want him. Every woman longs to get complimented by a man and every woman desires to be loved. Wake up and smell the coffee guys...So, if you care for her, show her....if you love her, tell her...if you don't let her go, so that someone will love her the way that she deserves to be loved, don't you think she at least deserves that much?

A Real Life Cinderella Story....

Some might say that a new pair of shoes is all that you need to feel like a true Cinderella...some say that  there is no such thing as love at first sight, or paths crossing at the right time. I beg to differ. I believe that fate is something that no one can predict. I believe that things happen for a reason, and that two people meet because they are supposed to. We read fairy tales and hear stories about true love such as Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, and others... but how often do you hear of stories in real life that make the hair on the back of your neck stand up because it is such a magical story?

Today I was working my part time gig at a well known candle company. It was our Halloween Preview Party and I got to play the role of the Fairy Godmother. Each year the stores choose what they are going to dress up as and after last year when we were all superheroes we decided on Disney Princesses! They young ladies that I work with make my job exciting and fun! I love people and I love the chit-chat. I make more new friends and people would tell you that I am a social butterfly.

To those who do not know me, they will generally ask me what I do and what it is that I love?
Besides running my two online lingerie businesses, this job at the candle store allows me to mingle with guests, share product knowledge, sell, sell, sell, and learn about my customers on a personal level. Every now and again I hear a story that I absolutely must share.

Today a woman walked in chuckling because I was dressed up in costume. She looked at me and said "Ok, I'll bite, whats the deal with the costumes?" I explained that today was our Halloween Preview Party and that we were all Disney Princesses as I pointed out Snow White, Cinderella, Princess Jasmine, and Ariel (The Little Mermaid.)  I told her that I was the Fairy Godmother and asked if I could Bibbity-Bobbity-Boo her a fairy tale come true such as sending her a prince charming? She looked at me and laughed and said 'Boy do I have a story for you, and you bet you can work your magic on me!'

When this woman was 18 she took a trip to Mexico. Her flight was delayed and she ended up missing this flight and having to find another one. On this particular flight she found her seat and as she was putting her things in the overhead when a very handsome man behind her smiled at her. She was intrigued by him immediately. They ended up talking on the plane and spending time together in Mexico. After that they kept in touch and dated long distance for over 2 years. He proposed! She said YES! Then a few weeks before the wedding she got cold feet and backed out leaving him heart broken and alone. She was afraid to move so far away as he was from Mexico.

A few weeks ago this woman was on Facebook and happened to find this gentleman's sister, was it a fluke? She immediately sent a friend request and the woman accepted it. She then asked how this man was after 30+ years? It turns out that he had married and then divorced. This woman was married and now divorced too! They both lived separate lives and had families of their own. This man though after all these years still thought about this woman. His sister invited this woman to Mexico to a family wedding where she is going to fly to see her prince after 30 years to see if they can reconnect. She asked me if I believed in second chances? I say YES! I believe in destiny and fate. She was in tears talking about this and I stood there with my mouth wide open in an intense conversation with her. I begged her to come back into the store in October and share with me how the trip goes?

The moral of the story is this; dreams do come true. Fairy tales are our own realities, and life is short so if you are lucky enough to find love, chase it, follow it and grab hold of it! We all have a little Cinderella inside of us and there is a fairy godmother called 'fate' watching over us! My grandmother used to say that patience is a virtue and that you'll find true love when you are least expecting it. It's all about believing....and finding someone, like a pair of shoes that is the perfect fit!

Men Want The Modern Day Cinderella...Where Does He Look? How About Online Dating?

Sure we all want the magic,...you know, the "Bibbity Bobbity Boo"...Ummm, but guess what? We don't all find it. Why? Some of us don't know where to look. Most people would state that finding that spark is like looking for the needle in the haystack. Haystacks are far over-rated, and they are a dime a dozen. A good mate is within reach for you. In fact, fate has a way of working its own kind of enchantment. You won't find him/her if you are not optimistic! You won't find them by being deceitful, or rude, and you won't find love if you don't allow it to enter. My grandmother used to always tell me; "Michele, if opportunity doesn't knock, build a  door!" Sometimes gals, we need to put on our tool belt and do a little renovation. 

Finding the right person for you isn't as easy as one might think, in fact...these days it is far more difficult than most people would think. Making that connection with someone is something that not all people get to experience, and some never experience it. Life is different than it was years ago. With the hustle and bustle of the traditional dating world in the past decade or two it has made it virtually possible to meet someone without having to leave your home, your couch or your desk...where ever you may be. Unlike the old days of going to bars, or clubs or where ever people went to be sought out, today thank goodness for the modern day internet, we can shop for men and women on line now like we shop for our favorite NFL jersey or sexy lingerie with a few clicks you can download the man or woman of your dreams. No more trying to figure out what to say, or wondering when you'll see them, ...now, with the push of a button, you have the access to virtually find love anywhere, local, out of state or out of the country.

Yes, finding romance or even love just got a whole lot easier. Happiness may be just around the corner for you, so take the time to make sure that you do everything right...that means cross your 't's and dot you i's. You want to come across as a great catch so really think long and hard about what your bio will state, and remember, that most men and women read the first three sentences. If yours sizzle you can bet your ass they'll continue to read on- but if what you write is not eye catchy you may be that fish in the pond surrounded by hundreds of others in competition for that one possible connection. Most men that I speak with regarding dating, they share with me their 'wish list ' if you will of what he wants in his very own "Cinderella!" What does that mean in modern language? It's simple...he wants a woman that has her act together. A woman who is alluring, captivating, enchanting, intriguing, etc. 

Soooo, what do you do and how do you pursue your Prince or your Cinderella? First before you bring someone else into your life or into your world, make sure that you area truly happy with you who YOU are. Start off on the right foot, and be open. Suggestion? Focus your thoughts on the present moment, and make a decision to be happy now, not in the future, after you have attained some goal. Nothing will ever happen in the future. It will happen in the NOW. I try to remind people never to sell themselves short...so many people do that these days and that may come across as being not so confident. Going into the dating pool you certainly want to express confidence,...not lack there of. Men L-O-V-E confident ladies...and ladies adore men with common sense, who are witty, who have a great sense of humor, and who can be himself. 

So many people tend to think that they are missing something because they are single, regardless of their age. Realize you're not lacking anything if you're single. Not everyone wishes to be married, or dating or in a relationship. Although contemporary culture often reinforces the idea that single people are second-class citizens, I say that is hogwash... Moreover, if you go out into the world with a "woe is me" attitude, you'll more than likely drive away potential romantic partners then draw them near. 

My non-professional advice; Accept yourself for who you are, including your flaws because on the contrary to what you all may think, everyone has flaws! Everyone has fears, doubts and insecurities; some people are just better at hiding them than others. Embrace your talents, skills and strengths and use them to make the world a better place. Turn off the voice in your head that tells you you're unworthy of love and happiness and replace it with a sense of purpose and compassion for yourself and others. If you have a bad attitude it will show.

So many people still meet at office parties, neighborhood parties, when they are set up by friends and family on a 'blind date' or at bars and clubs , which in my personal opinion is not the best place to meet the man or woman of your dreams. If you are that percentile that wants to find someone without having to sift through all the bar flies, consider Internet online dating services. It's safe, at least for the most part. Never give out personal information until you are comfy speaking with someone, and be honest for heave sakes. No white lies...they only get more and more difficult to remember, and for goodness sakes, use current photos. Your profile is going to state you to a "T!" Soooo make it something for her/him to remember! Keep in mind what I said; Make the subject line catchy, and the first three sentences captivating! You don't just what to 'whooo' the new sweetheart you want to knock their socks off! 

Live in present: Enjoy each and every moment in the present. You, and only YOU control your life and your destiny so if you have something from the past tugging at you...let go! Leave out the grudges and negatives of the past. It is you who can release the negative energy and bring in the change required to see the happiness of the present. Fresh starts are the only way to go. Starting something new with someone is fun, and special, so start with a solid foundation, great communication and a smile!

Live from your heart: Live every moment of selfless love, happiness and bonding. This will only come in after you shred out the negative moments and learn to express gratitude towards whatever life has given you! You may find that special someone sooner than you thought...so be prepared to enjoy life and laugh for heaven sakes, life is far too short not to. Be yourself, and be honest. 

 Brace fear with love: Love is the secret potion that helps cure any negative barriers and blocks. First love yourself, then love the situations you face, and then love the people around you. When you start giving love will you get love and slowly you will be successful in not only finding your own true happiness in life rather finding your true Cinderella! It may be that you are looking in all the wrong places. In this fast paced world, there are a lot of feet, and a lot of shoes to fill, but only one person to wear the right slipper....REAL LOVE, oh it does exist. 

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Finding Your Happy Ever After...

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by 'right person' I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed..why?Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it's time for a change of scenery!

The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren't what we anticipated. Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn't come that easily for most of us because we haven't learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package. 

Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the storybooks. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn't happen...(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway...) The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you'll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won't feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share 'pillow talk' with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships. The  phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ...I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of 'wants and needs' in your partner. Ones demeanor, and expression transform into our desires. Don't skimp in the 'must have' department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place. 

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?

Many people ask me; "What keeps us from finding the love we are so hungry for?" The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

 Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,... look past superficial flaws. 

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,...Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside. 

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What Do the Shoes Have To Do With Cinderella?

We all want the dream, but reality says it doesn't always happen. Based on this fairy tale, Cinderella is a great example for young girls to follow. In view of hard times, even with those bitchy step sisters, she is still able to be positive. She is hard working and even when others mistreat her, she holds her head high and doesn't attack them back, she is a true lady. She is her own person and has her strengths and her weaknesses. heck, she even has the right mind to be on time for a curfew, even if she is dancing the night away with the handsome prince. Somewhere hidden in the childhood of every person are fairy tales, and every woman wants the fairy tale ending...

It’s been what seems like an eternity since Cinderella put on that glass slipper and went out in search of her prince. Realistically, modern women started to wonder if the glass slipper was half-empty or half-full. Excuse me BUT...have you seen the shoes girls wear today? They are nothing at all like I ever wore. Back in the day brand names meant nothing. Now if you aren't wearing Marc Jacobs, Michael Kors, Gucci, Kate Spade, Prada, Jimmy Choo (btw, my favorite) or Christian Louboutin some women look down upon you. Excuse me folks, but last time I watched Cinderella she had on old dirty flats. 

It wasn't until her fairy godmother came around using her 'bibbity bobbity boo' that her feet got so glamorous...without that stoke of magic, she would have never worn those glass slippers. These stilettos that I speak about are strutting shoes; made to last, made to dance the night away and give you 5 extra inches of confidence so you can look anyone in the eye and assert authority. They often come in colors that scream “Look at me!” and, with a toned leg/short-skirt combo, they make a room-stopping entrance.Often, they are simple classic black stilettos, so you can both show ‘em what you're made of and then turn him on all in one night..and guess what? They don't have to be expensive.They are a woman’s best ally: a weapon both inside and out of the bedroom. Like finding a good man, you should choose your shoe wisely.

 In comparison, (my personal comparison) Men are like running shoes...Comforting, supportive, ready to go that extra mile. They intensify and give you energy, they adhere to you and keep you safe, and will always hold us up when we feel when we're about to fall. "Running is the greatest metaphor for life, because you get out of it what you put into it."  Is that not what a relationship is? How does your shoe fit?

 What is going to happen when this modern day woman takes off her sexy strutting shoes at the end of the night and all she has are sore feet with no one to rub them? We don’t have a stroke of midnight curfew. Instead, there are times when we come home from another long day stand feeling worthlessly “empowered” (with BOTH shoes on) and no hope of Prince Charming returning a shoe to us. We all see the fairy tales rise and fall around us. Today, people are more shocked by the mythical “happy loving couple” than the ones with the drama and infidelity. Every day, relationships are becoming obsolete...but that does not mean that you should give up. As a hopeless romantic, I truly believe that still with all the BS you hear, there is a prince for everyone.

 Before you consider buying one more pair of expensive killer stiletto designer shoes, an outfit guaranteed “to turn his head” and a bottle of wine for that “get over him” party with your girlfriends, get out there and get your feet wet! My prince charming obviously took a wrong turn and got lost somewhere in that dark forest. Don't let waiting for that one man stop you. Live your life. My grandmother used to say that love finds you when you least expect it to. Soooo, how do you get started? Well, geez, even Cinderella had a plan, and you should too!

 The Plan: If you did everything right up to this point you should both be planning a night out. Truth is if women and men did everything right I wouldn’t be writing this, but let’s just assume, shall we? Here is where it sometimes goes wrong... Guys- you ask a woman, “So what do you like to do?” Most of the time her response starts with, “I don’t know” and is followed by a list of cliché first date ideas. At this point most men will dim their creative side and go into standard mode. It’s true! Girlfriend...you just sent the message that you are a common woman who desires common dates. That’s exactly what you will get. Why not share your interests, he might enjoy them. Tell him your favorite places and things to do. It helps!

Remember, it is your personality and your character that win the end define you, so just be yourself. Be open and be honest. If he doesn't like that, he is not your prince charming. And fellas...contrary to popular belief, don’t expect women to put out because you took us out. Cinderella and her Prince Charming did not engage in premarital sex. Interesting concept! But why do modern day Cinderellas feel like sex is the only way to catch a man’s attention? DO NOT use sex to try to control him.One thing I have learned over the years is, that you can’t use sex to keep a man!  If he’s into you, he’s into you. Some men keep certain woman around only for the sex but that’s where it begins and ends. Cinderella was a lady...and you should be too! Sure we all hold that fairy tale within, and who doesn't want that 'glass slipper' but at any age, we all still must live, laugh and love the little girl in us regardless of the make of the shoe...in reality YOU make your own magic!

 

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Dating Over 40...Just BE YOU!

 When you meet someone for the first time, JUST BE YOU! Dating in today's day and age is not at all what it used to be and quite frankly, it scares me! The 40s and 50s crowd, our generation, is a tough one to figure out. There may be times when you are tempted to be someone you're not, such as "putting on your best face"...but don't.  No, there's nothing wrong with wanting to make a good impression, who wouldn't? However,....my advice (not as a professional but just me) is don't risk it. You do realize that by doing so it is possible to take this too far and in turn repel men?I don't know about you but if it were a good man that I liked, I would not want to risk it. The same applies with myths about dressing sexy or being excessively flirtatious. If you do not respect your body, you will only attract men who have a similar lack of respect for you and your body, and a good man will find it more difficult to take you seriously. Be yourself, and a real man will respect you for who you are and what you desire.

 Release the nerves and get comfy around him! Relax ladies, they want to see our true side not something phony that we some put on to make a grand entrance. This is life, every day with this special man is going to be a grand entrance so make it a show stopper! Men love women with a sense of humor, a great smile and a personality. Gone are the days where they say men look at the size of the breasts and asses...anyone can have those...however, character is something that you cannot buy, you either have it or you don't!

Most guys hate it when girls are possessive, bitchy, clingy, controlling, etc. Learn to relax, and have fun. We all have too much going on in our lives; don't be the high maintenance "drama queen" otherwise his feel will hit the floor and he'll be running like it were a race. Having a woman around who makes life more difficult than enjoyable will make a man lose interest.

Let's face it, with dating in our 40s and 50s we aren't as young as we used to be and we just want to find someone that knocks our socks off. Yes, that can be difficult to find, but get optimistic! he or she is out there waiting for you...so step up your game plan. If you do things like show genuine concern when the man has had a rough day, it will earn his respect and go toward winning him over and a good man will reciprocate. Remember that most men, especially the really good ones, are looking for someone with whom they can be comfortable, compassionate and loving...and not someone who is always intense, the drama mama and down right ruthless.

 Drop the games! Nobody likes a partner who plays "head games". You aren't in your 20s and this is reality. Being shallow and so immature is very recognizable, and it makes you look tacky, not to mention bad....so knock it off. Playing head games are deceptive, and will hurt anybody who trusts you. Be real, don't play! Good men will respect you and may even pursue you. Playing head games will only make good men run away. Remember the communication thing? That is especially true here. If you like a guy, don't push him away and act like you don't like him. Tell him. Yes, there are some men who do like the thrill of the chase, but all good men genuinely want to respect you and your wishes, and will leave you alone if you insist on it. Remember, men communicate directly, if you act like you don't want him, he'll think you don't want him. Oh...and for goodness sakes, I just stated it in the last paragraph, but I'll repeat myself...don't be clingy! (This goes for both sexes, mon and women, no one wants a clinger!)  This means, don't show that you love this person by being near them all the time. We love being with you but we also like our own space as well. There is no need to follow them everywhere they go. Most of all, they need to know that you have your own life!

 Treat him with respect. This is the most important thing of all. Men hate being around a woman who emasculates them, and a good man won't take long to leave such a woman. Don't be afraid to help your man feel good about himself. A little known secret is that men are just as insecure as women. If he's with his friends or family be open to opportunities to let your man look like "the man". It will win his love and respect. 

Respect yourself...When it comes to being intimate, there are many definitions of this but they all come back around to earning the same degree of value.  If you say no, he should stop. If he doesn't stop, you leave. Don't ever be uncomfortable saying no. Don't go against your morals to try to keep a guy. If you feel this is necessary, then either he's not a good man, or he is a good one but simply isn't a good match for you specifically (e. g. he is currently "playing the field" and is up front and honest about it, but you're looking for an exclusive relationship). Don't be uncomfortable saying yes, either. If you feel the time is right, believe in your worth and don't worry that you're "giving yourself away." You respect yourself and you're confident that he'll come back for more! Sad as this is to say, but a man who doesn't respect you in the morning never properly respected you to begin with, and a man who doesn't respect your wishes to wait is too impatient to make a good partner. Either way, find someone else. he is bad news!

You deserve the best that life has to offer,  and a man who is willing to wait so leave no stone unturned while searching for your prince. Happiness...isn't that all the only thing that matters?

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Find the Perfect Fit!

On the contrary to what many define a modern day princess....I am your not so typical Cinderella type seeking her Prince....I am a hard worker, and a dedicated woman who generally puts the needs of others before my own true happiness. Anyone who knows me, truly knows me...will agree. So what is it that I seek? Well, would it be too improbable to state that I want a man who can "show me the magic!" Unlike so many women, I'm "not" searching for a man with deep pockets, ultimately it's not the monetary value I'm after. What I'm in search of is true chemistry and companionship. Sure I want the refined fairy tale....but without all of the red tape. My glass slipper can only be found on high end avenues, or so I thought...then I met this guy...

My "wishes" - have always been to find a genuine man I can communicate with, share laughs. Where is the man who can't wait to see me at the end of the day and the one who is thrilled to see me when he awakens? A man who can understand me well enough to read me like a book, who can look deep into my eyes and read my thoughts, to finish my sentences. I want many things that most women seek and desire, however, I won't settle, nor should you ladies.... I wish to be courted because I am old fashion in many ways and I want a true gentleman. ladies...I demand respect, and you should too. A life full of joy, happiness and everlasting love....isn't that all that women really want?

While some call me a mystery, others call me a real handful. Like the gameboard I can be TROUBLE! That be as it may, my character has been defined as both sexy and sensual. I'm confident, classy, educated, sexy, witty, charming, spunky. Insistent, persistent, intriguing, enthusiastic, influential, independent, skeptical, well rounded, not at all easily intimidated. My unprofessional advice for you? Find what defines you, and explore your possibilities. Beware of the man with the fast tongue and empty promises. If you believe this is love, you must have fallen off the turnip truck too hard and smacked your nugget on the pavement.

What took me years to learn, but I understand now...and that is that you can have the best of both worlds. When you find your missing piece to the puzzle, finally everything connects, and your life changes for the better, simply because he is in it. Don't stop searching ladies until you find the right one,  be a true connoisseur of romance in search of her one in a million. We have various intimate pieces at our online boutique suitable for any type of Cinderella. Affordable prices can be found at  Simply Delicious Lingerie.

I've learned throughout life's difficult lessons to be true to yourself because your words and your actions speak loud and first impressions are everything. On the contrary to what so many may think,...I don't seek glitter and glamour, rather a simple lifestyle made for two people that are happy just being who they are....I wait for that one man who will sweep me off my feet, and make all of my dreams come true......Never give up, he's out there.....and the thing is....he has probably been waiting a life time to meet you! Search for your perfect fit, your glass slipper, whatever the brand or type may be.....