Showing posts with label dating blogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating blogs. Show all posts

Friday, April 12, 2013

30 Romantic Tips to Tantalizer Her

Quality time with your special someone is pertinent to a relationship so everyone should have "Date Night!"We all look forward to it with that someone special. My guess is that we all need a little spice in our lives so live for today and make someone happy! We all need that 'ohhh-la-la' from time to time to keep it real. Sometimes you have to get creative and then others use the common techniques that work just the same. What you want to do is to make her smile. It's all about keeping your gal happy.Women love two things, nice lingerie and romance- well perhaps three things...we love it when a man cooks for us too! Sexy cooking is even better! Romance is a good thing and both men and women should know how to make their mate smile. It doesn't cost a lot of money to get someones attention, so don't over-think it or try to go overboard here, sometimes simple is what works the best.

It's the little things that you do that she keeps in her mind long after she is with you and it is those small things that gives her much anticipation that you will be equally as romantic around her. So what's a fella to do to make her notice and really get her attention? Clichés aren't bad after all! Well, you can say some things are clichés only because they're used way too often, and when that happens they are no longer spontaneous actions,. but then, they're a guaranteed bet. One amongst these famous platitudes is a candlelit dinner. Yes women love it when you cook for them. If you don't know how, watch the food network and learn!

 Having a romantic dinner by the candlelight is said to be one of the most intimate experiences a couple shares. This just gets better if you arrange the dinner at your place and cook the food yourself. A bottle of good wine will just be the icing on the cake and if you are lucky and she is totally impressed with you, she may want more than just a slice of pie for dessert! Remember, it's the little things that matter guys! 


Here are about 30 that will make her turn her head:



1. Hugs are the universal medicine...and they are free.

2. Tell her she is pretty. Women love compliments!

3. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry or whatever it is that she likes most.

4. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie and don't be a player!

5. Spend every second possible together when you have free time and really get to know one another.

6. Look into each other's eyes and say nothing...eyes speak a language all of their own.

7. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her she is beautiful, and kiss her lightly.

8. When in public,  flirt with each other and be silly...people envy this and it will entice others to do as you do because they want that kind of happiness too.

9. Put love notes in her pockets when she isn't  looking.

10. Sing to each other and choose a song to be ‘just your song!’

11. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

12. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. This does not mean that you are being cheap, it means you are about to show her some romance...

13. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) Just don't be sloppy messy...keep it fresh and fun. 

14. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart., yes I said your heart, not your penis. Women want romance not arrogant boys with sex on the brain.

15. Dance together, in the moonlight, even if you are standing in her driveway saying goodnight!

16. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

17. Make excuses to want to see her every day!

18. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I am thinking about you.

19. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

20. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. Be open with her.

21. Be Prince Charming and sweep her off her feet or some other handsome prince just might beat you to the punch.

22. Brush her hair out of her face for her. Women love when a man touches her face and feels her warm skin upon his hand.

23. Make sure that you introduce her to your friends. 

24. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.

25. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.

26. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

27. Make sacrifices for each other. Even the little ones get noticed.

28. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. It sounds cheesy but women adore this.

29. Fall asleep on the phone with each other or on the couch in one an others arms.

30. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."








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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Dating; This is for All the Single Ladies


In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what's  a girl to do? It's 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, forty or perhaps pushing fifty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love?  Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren't prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days...today it's Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let's talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. 

Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle  just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.  It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious. Internet dating is really becoming the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

 Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.


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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Online Dating and Disastrous Mistakes...


Everyone tries online dating at some point these days. It’s fun and intriguing and you might just get lucky and hit the jackpot and find the love of your life…or not. When online dating first came about, a lot of men saw it as the answer to their dreams. Could life get any better than this? It was like leafing through a catalog shopping for what delighted them…sort of like the ‘must have’ item or deal of the day. Years ago, if you wanted to join a dating agency, you had to jump through so many hops and you spent hours writing letter after letter to answer women's ads. In today’s era, no one wants to have a pen pal. Now you can just log on to a particular website, upload your profile and photo, write a couple of lines and wha-la! You’ve got yourself an instant profile and you’re now on the super highway to meeting Ms Right. Hold up...don't be delusional. You aren't Rico Suave. There are pros and cons to online dating.

There are millions of women registered with hundreds or even thousands of online dating agencies. I am an affiliate to a variety of them. There are always more women than men, or so it seems, and the proportion of women increases with age. So as a man, you would think all you have to do is get your profile up there and you will have millions of women fighting for you. Right? Ummm, not so much...
If you put your profile up and sit back and wait, you will probably get some interest. Sure. You will receive emails from women who like the look of you. And you will probably think that you can find success with a lot of women without working too hard.

But after some time, things may not be going so well. Progress is not as fast as you hoped. The ladies who approached you do not seem to be following through. They want to write or chat yahoo? Most of them won't even agree to meet you. Hey, they started it, right? Why are they suddenly pulling away? This should be the beg ole’ RED FLAG boys…as my grandmother used to say; “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is, and there is something rotten in Denmark!”


The fact is, that women do not see themselves as committing to anything when they write you online. For a guy, when he says 'I'm available', that's what he means. But for a woman, being available doesn't mean they stop being picky…in fact, it means that generally they are testing the waters, doing a background check and asking around about you and that may even mean writing other women on the website that they met you on to see if you copy and paste the same responses or notes to everyone just to see who will respond or who you can get a rise out of. Shame on you fellas. Now you should ask yourself why you can’t find a good woman and what are you doing wrong? My guess is that you have made some bad choices and big mistakes.

At this point a lot of guys make some big mistakes...
1. Aggressiveness won't work...
Don't push for a meeting if she is saying no. No means NO! Say OK and then just keep the dialogue open. If she doesn't want to meet you, that means you have not yet won her trust. You probably just need to keep talking.Don't accuse her of being afraid to meet you. Women love dares, but this could turn out to be the wrong move on your part. you don't want to force her hand and make her feel like she has to meet with you. My grandmother used to always say that anything worth having was worth waiting for. Give it time. You're not in a marathon to find love...


2. Looking for an ideal lady?
If you have an ideal lady in your mind, you will probably not find her. Your dream girl is just that…a fantasy. A lot of guys have illusions about women who look or act a certain way. Your ideal lady probably does not exist, or if she does, she will not look exactly like you imagine. If you hold onto ideals, then 99.9% of women will not fit. Be open to the unexpected, and you will have a lot more success.

3. Lying and talking yourself up? Don't do it!
Why do men do this? There is simply no point to do it. If you lie about how much you earn, how many times you have been married, if you are or are not married, what you do for a living, your friends or social status, she will probably find out eventually and even if she does not, the fact that you know you have lied will affect your relationship. Lies are so hard to keep up with…just be honest!

If there is something you prefer not to discuss right away that's ok,...you don't have to spill your guts all at once, but you should be up front and open. Later, when you have built up some trust and you feel that you can tell her in a confidential way, a woman will accept most that you have to tell ... provided you did not lie about it. My theory is that honesty gets you everywhere, and if you wish to find a woman that you can get to know, spend time with and enjoy her company, she wants to meet the real you, not what you’ve built her up to believe is the true you. 






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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing...the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   
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Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Office Romance...Working For Love

Working For Love

Monday March 4, 2013 by Staff Writers



Whether you’re a student working part-time or you’ve been gainfully employed for years, there’s a pretty good chance that you’ve been attracted to (or at least noticed) one of your fellow coworkers. Spending considerable amounts of time with someone allows you to get to know them fairly well, whether you want to or not. But sometimes, “getting to know” someone can foster some unexpected feelings. Perhaps your cubicle is particularly proximal to a certain attractive coworker, or maybe you find yourself covering the same shifts as that other employee who makes your heart beat a little faster. Whatever the scenario, having feelings for someone you work with can be hugely euphoric, or entirely problematic. It may or may not come as a surprise that, in fact, a surprisingly small percentage of businesses have a written, functioning, “office-dating policy.” Because of this, entering into a relationship with a coworker can feel pretty confusing. Whether you’d jump at the chance to date a coworker, or you’d never even think about doing so, the world of inter-coworker dating is full of some interesting facts. The following info graphic explores the ins and outs of dating a coworker—not sure if you think dating your fellow worker would be smart or not? Read for yourself and find out!

Thank You Allison Morris for this superb article! We appreciate you sharing it with us and our readers!
http://www.onlinebusinessdegree.org/2013/03/04/working-for-love/

~Regards,
Simply Delicious Lingerie Staff

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Men Want The Modern Day Cinderella...Where Does He Look? How About Online Dating?


Sure we all want the magic,...you know, the "Bibbity Bobbity Boo"...Ummm, but guess what? We don't all find it. Why? Some of us don't know where to look. Most people would state that finding that spark is like looking for the needle in the haystack. Haystacks are far over-rated, and they are a dime a dozen. A good mate is within reach for you. In fact, fate has a way of working its own kind of enchantment. You won't find him/her if you are not optimistic! You won't find them by being deceitful, or rude, and you won't find love if you don't allow it to enter. My grandmother used to always tell me; "Michele, if opportunity doesn't knock, build a  door!" Sometimes gals, we need to put on our tool belt and do a little renovation. 

Finding the right person for you isn't as easy as one might think, in fact...these days it is far more difficult than most people would think. Making that connection with someone is something that not all people get to experience, and some never experience it. Life is different than it was years ago. With the hustle and bustle of the traditional dating world in the past decade or two it has made it virtually possible to meet someone without having to leave your home, your couch or your desk...where ever you may be. Unlike the old days of going to bars, or clubs or where ever people went to be sought out, today thank goodness for the modern day internet, we can shop for men and women on line now like we shop for our favorite NFL jersey or sexy lingerie with a few clicks you can download the man or woman of your dreams. No more trying to figure out what to say, or wondering when you'll see them, ...now, with the push of a button, you have the access to virtually find love anywhere, local, out of state or out of the country.

Yes, finding romance or even love just got a whole lot easier. Happiness may be just around the corner for you, so take the time to make sure that you do everything right...that means cross your 't's and dot you i's. You want to come across as a great catch so really think long and hard about what your bio will state, and remember, that most men and women read the first three sentences. If yours sizzle you can bet your ass they'll continue to read on- but if what you write is not eye catchy you may be that fish in the pond surrounded by hundreds of others in competition for that one possible connection. Most men that I speak with regarding dating, they share with me their 'wish list ' if you will of what he wants in his very own "Cinderella!" What does that mean in modern language? It's simple...he wants a woman that has her act together. A woman who is alluring, captivating, enchanting, intriguing, etc. 

Soooo, what do you do and how do you pursue your Prince or your Cinderella? First before you bring someone else into your life or into your world, make sure that you area truly happy with you who YOU are. Start off on the right foot, and be open. Suggestion? Focus your thoughts on the present moment, and make a decision to be happy now, not in the future, after you have attained some goal. Nothing will ever happen in the future. It will happen in the NOW. I try to remind people never to sell themselves short...so many people do that these days and that may come across as being not so confident. Going into the dating pool you certainly want to express confidence,...not lack there of. Men L-O-V-E confident ladies...and ladies adore men with common sense, who are witty, who have a great sense of humor, and who can be himself. 

So many people tend to think that they are missing something because they are single, regardless of their age. Realize you're not lacking anything if you're single. Not everyone wishes to be married, or dating or in a relationship. Although contemporary culture often reinforces the idea that single people are second-class citizens, I say that is hogwash... Moreover, if you go out into the world with a "woe is me" attitude, you'll more than likely drive away potential romantic partners then draw them near. 
My non-professional advice; Accept yourself for who you are, including your flaws because on the contrary to what you all may think, everyone has flaws! Everyone has fears, doubts and insecurities; some people are just better at hiding them than others. Embrace your talents, skills and strengths and use them to make the world a better place. Turn off the voice in your head that tells you you're unworthy of love and happiness and replace it with a sense of purpose and compassion for yourself and others. If you have a bad attitude it will show.

So many people still meet at office parties, neighborhood parties, when they are set up by friends and family on a 'blind date' or at bars and clubs , which in my personal opinion is not the best place to meet the man or woman of your dreams. If you are that percentile that wants to find someone without having to sift through all the bar flies, consider Internet online dating services. It's safe, at least for the most part. Never give out personal information until you are comfy speaking with someone, and be honest for heave sakes. No white lies...they only get more and more difficult to remember, and for goodness sakes, use current photos. Your profile is going to state you to a "T!" Soooo make it something for her/him to remember! Keep in mind what I said; Make the subject line catchy, and the first three sentences captivating! You don't just what to 'whooo' the new sweetheart you want to knock their socks off! 

Live in present: Enjoy each and every moment in the present. You, and only YOU control your life and your destiny so if you have something from the past tugging at you...let go! Leave out the grudges and negatives of the past. It is you who can release the negative energy and bring in the change required to see the happiness of the present. Fresh starts are the only way to go. Starting something new with someone is fun, and special, so start with a solid foundation, great communication and a smile!

Live from your heart: Live every moment of selfless love, happiness and bonding. This will only come in after you shred out the negative moments and learn to express gratitude towards whatever life has given you! You may find that special someone sooner than you thought...so be prepared to enjoy life and laugh for heaven sakes, life is far too short not to. Be yourself, and be honest. 

 Brace fear with love: Love is the secret potion that helps cure any negative barriers and blocks. First love yourself, then love the situations you face, and then love the people around you. When you start giving love will you get love and slowly you will be successful in not only finding your own true happiness in life rather finding your true Cinderella! It may be that you are looking in all the wrong places. In this fast paced world, there are a lot of feet, and a lot of shoes to fill, but only one person to wear the right slipper....REAL LOVE, oh it does exist. 




                     

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