What is Fashion?

What is fashion? Why is it so important? Do you recall the quote that Mark Twain once wrote? It went something like this; "Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society." What does that mean you to? Personally I do believe that it is the clothes that make the man/woman. From our Simply Delicious Lingerie and undergarments to our Diesel or Rock & Republic jeans to our Jimmy Choo, Chanel, Prada, Gucci, Burberry, Spade and Dior clothing and accessories... what we wear has, for centuries, spoken volumes about who we are, what we do, and what we want. It's the truth. To some this is so shallow, nonetheless, in the world of fashion it is of the highest priority. Am I stating that everyone must own designer labels, no. It means that it is all about your class and savvy ways. Create a fashion statement and you be the superstar! It's not what you wear, rather how you wear it.

Whether Americans have dressed to make a political statement, to assert their class status, or simply to be irreverent, every style has carried a certain social meaning. This is in part because our culture has long ascribed great significance to individuals' public image. The clothing industry is one of the least sustainable industries around. Everyone buys new clothes and they shop around until they find exactly what they are searching for. Lucky for me, I have two kids, whom adore fashion and designer clothing. I have a very biased opinion...each of them are both pretty 'on style' on fashion trends and they keep me dressed very classy and fun! I get the dos and donts from them often, and I seek their help with wardrobe issues and malfunctions all the time! If there is one thing that I've learned over the years is always have back-up, or as most call it a Plan B outfit ready to go just in case you spill your coffee or drop a bagel with cream cheese down your blouse.

 Fashion can also be used as a form of self-expression and adornment. People may dress to identify with a specific group of people, or with a particular performing artist they adore. Alternately, some people deliberately stray from mainstream fashion because they want to be seen as unique and one-of-a-kind. Others may choose not to follow mainstream fashion simply because it isn't important to them. If the way in which an individual dresses is not accepted by the culture and society in which the person wants to be accepted into, then the way in which the individual chooses to dress may change.

 Fashion is ultimately important because it is a form of communication. You are communicating to others who you are and what is important to you, whether or not you realize it. The same way of dressing could be viewed completely different in two or more areas of the world. Therefore, it is important to be aware of what is acceptable and what is not in a given society. 


What does your image say about you? For instance...
A woman's fashion personality says who she is, and it's expressed by her style. Most of us lean toward one particular type of fashion personality, although we may sometimes wear styles that are more closely related to another. What's your fashion personality? Do you view yourself as having a classic, romantic, trendy, or casual style? Think Audrey Hepburn wearing her little black dress in Breakfast at Tiffany's...in my personal opinion, wow! Now that's classic fashion. Women who have a classic fashion personality love timeless fashion designs--tailored trousers; single-breasted, semi-fitted jackets; sleek pumps. Because classic style stands the test of time well, the classic fashion personality type is often able to wear her clothing and fashion accessories for years. Wow! The way she dressed made a statement. This was the classic fashion personality.

What about romantic fashion personality? Women who have a romantic fashion personality type can imagine themselves in a Victorian setting wearing long, ground-sweeping hoop skirts. Ruffles, frills, lace, and other feminine details are all on their radar screens. Because the romantic fashion personality takes her style influence from the past, she sometimes looks a bit out of place in the modern world, but on the plus side, hers is the most feminine way of dressing and the one that will draw in the eyes of someone who sees her potential worth.

What about the trendy fashion personality? I say bring it on! It's all about the latest, newest, cutting-edge fashion designs in both clothing and accessories. These all catch the attention of the woman with a trendy fashion personality, and they very well should, fashion is quite important and we all want to dress to the 9's. Her friends are likely to consult her when it comes to fashion because they know she's always on top of the trends, and she's shopping for the newest styles before they even arrive in the stores.

Hello? What about the casual,comfy fashion trendy gal?  Well, they say that comfy is the mantra of the woman with a casual fashion personality. I find a lot of truth in that statement. She wants to live her life free of the restrictions of fashion, so she avoids high heels and shapewear that sucks her flab or curves in like the plague and may not even own a dress. Hey, I say to each his own. She may be a bit confused by style, but, on the other hand, she'll never be at the mercy of fashion. Tiptoeing around on six-inch stilettos is definitely not her idea of fun; so what is exactly? That's a silly question; how about flip-flops and sneakers? These are much more to her liking, and so much more comfortable.

The bottom line is simple....To some people, it's not always about being on your game and always looking stunning,...for some it is fashion enough just getting dressed in the morning and feeling good about themselves.The confidence you carry with each step you take is what makes you...YOU~

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Self Confidence Is Style...

While it's nice to think that appearances don't matter, the fact is that you clothes can have an effect on your self-confidence. True or false? So very true! With that being said, the only important thing is how you feel about the clothing you wear, not what others may think about it. Style is essential to one these days. The way that you dress is noticed by many, but regardless of just how many view you and form an opinion, you have to be happy with 'you' first and foremost. 

Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and everything else will fall into place. Finding your own style is a great way to feel more confident about the clothes you wear. Look to fashion magazines, catalogs and your stylish friends and associates for inspiration, but then create a look that's entirely your own. Whether you prefer a tailored look or basic, whatever makes you feel comfortable with yourself is the right choice and it is YOUR CHOICE! Remember, whatever you choose to wear, make certain that the intimate apparel that you are wearing under the business attire is fabulous! Make sure that you shop Simply Delicious Lingerie.

There are times when you'll need to ignore this personal style and wear clothes that are appropriate for a certain occasion. When you're faced with such an event, or even if you have to do it every day for your job, find a way to make the required dress work for you, perhaps by adding your own style with subtle accessories.Give it a twist all of your own. No one ever said you had to follow the trends. I don't. It's nice to blend in, but it is likewise nice to march to the beat of your own drum. I like being different, it's unique and it certainly sets you apart amongst your peers.

A person's style includes many distinct elements and what you wear indicates to others who you are. Decisions concerning style should be determined by environment, the need to meet certain expectations to gain your desired result. It is a commonly held belief that people will get ahead if they standout in terms of style, but research does not support this. In fact, we sometimes become suspicious of those who are too unusual or different from our expectations. Bearing this in mind, the following should be taken into account when trying to create the right impression....Still not sure how to mix and match what you have in that closet? What are the right and wrong colors for you, the right trends? We've got the answers. I was raised to show a certain demeanor. Looking and acting professional goes a long way.

WOMEN'S SUITS, TROUSERS, AND DRESSES

Women who wear ladylike feminine-cut suits, or skirts, and matching jackets with simple white, off-white or pale-colored blouses are not only seen as strong and confident, but also as trustworthy, likable, and humble, but keep in mind that this might not work for all careers.

In more high-fashion professions, the suit should be more stylish, with more expressive accessories with your goal being a "ladylike" but professional look. Suits should be soft and feminine and strike a balance between understated and conservative, feminine and fashionable. Colors can range from navy, grey, and blue to cream and mahogany. The look should be rich but businesslike.

A masculine-cut suit reflects more power and authority, but will be interpreted as more aggressive and domineering and less creative. A feminine-cut suit will show more expressiveness, and a heightened level of approachability, professionalism and confidence. Slacks and a jacket, or a dress, and a jacket is even more approachable, but less professional. A pant-suit is less professional and will not enhance your image of approachability. A dress without a jacket is the least professional alternative.

WOMEN'S SHOES

Trendy styles have the same negative associations and stereotypes as other parts of your wardrobe. More functional shoes enhance image as long as they are not too flashy. Less functional but more stylish shoes send a message that you are more concerned with appearance than performance. If women wear heels taller than two inches they accentuate their sexuality. Boots should not be worn with dress attire unless they are very frequently worn by others in your professional environment. Generally they look tacky. Shoes that are simple and elegant are best. Closed toe pumps with one and a half inch heels top the list. Shorter women can wear two inch heels but they should not be spiked heels. Stay with basic colors and don't try to match your shoes to bright colored clothing. Always keep your shoes clean and polished for a professional look. If I had my choice, and could constantly afford to dress to the 9s I would wear Jimmy Choo and Prada, my two favorite designers. They scream class, success, and confidence!

COLORS - THEIR EFFECT ON OTHERS

Colors have a very powerful way of affecting our impressions both of people. Colors can affect our impression of such traits as status, effectiveness, attitude, credibility, friendliness and intelligence. Most colors can be grouped into one of six general categories, each of which conveys a distinct set of messages.

1. Black, dark blue and dark charcoal grey are strong authoritarian colours. Those in positions of leadership, or authority will project an image of no-nonsense confidence, strength and power. Black is also seen as serious, secretive, mysterious and depressing. For that reason, those who dress in black are not rated as warm and friendly. People at the top of an organization wear black effectively, but also service oriented occupations such as drivers and waiters are often seen in black. It is often said that black is stylish and sophisticated and makes you look thinner. That's true, but it's popularity doesn't overcome the stereotypes and emotional responses it evokes.
2. Lighter shades of grey and navy blue are also associated with power, authority, leadership and even loyalty. Unlike dark grey and black, studies show that they are warmer and more approachable. For men, navy blue is definitely preferred; but for women, a medium shade of blue is ideal. Grey pinstripe has been associated with projecting wisdom. Green, particularly olive and can project flexibility and friendliness.
3. Bright colors like red, turquoise, purple, bright blues, and greens and fuchsia are sexy, energetic, hard-charging, and aggressive. They are generally  not considered as professional as darker colours, or lighter shades of colors.
4. Lighter shades of blue, green, and yellow, as well as tan and beige, convey a sense of warmth, friendliness, approachability and trustworthiness. They do not communicate the same sense of authority, power, or leadership that dark blues or greys project. Subtle tones, however, can be very effective to combine friendliness and professionalism. Certain shades of tan can remind people of government employees and come across as dated or institutional.
5. Autumn colors-like rust, brown, muted shades of yellow or gold, olive and burgundy are perceived as trustworthy, caring and humble, but lacks in the strength, competency and leadership categories.
6. Pastels are the most feminine of all colors. Not surprisingly, stereotypical feminine traits are associated with them, such as caring and nurturing on the positive side, and weakness and vulnerability on the negative. Not a good choice if you want to be viewed as serious, intelligent, competent, and professional.

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No Second Chances to Make First Impressions

We've all heard that saying 'you only get one chance to make a first impression?' Right? If you haven't pay close attention to what I'm about to say for this could make, or break a good thing. There are do's and don'ts when it comes to approaching women for the first time. The following contains just a few helpful tips to assist all the beloved men who sometimes don't know any better than to scratch themselves in public or display a complete lack of chivalry toward women. If the following "don'ts" apply to you, then put forth an effort to rectify your behavior so that women everywhere may come to respect you. I only have 2 suggestions boys... These are the make it or break it deal for 75% of the women so don't be an idiot!

watch what comes out of your mouth!

Think long and hard about what you say before you say it boys...Offensive hygiene aside, men also have a habit of coming up with corny, sometimes raunchy useless pick-up lines that never work on the majority of able-bodied sound-minded women. Which adolescent-minded man thought of "I wanna bang you into next week"? Did the man who first came up with this line really believe that a woman would appreciate this and reciprocate? If you think the answer is yes, you have even bigger problems than I thought.

Then, there's the bad ass type man who thinks that the ruder and more arrogant an aura he emits, the more likely women will somehow become attracted to him. What turnip truck did you fall off of when you smacked your head? So perhaps calling a woman a bitch is acceptable in a rap song for now, but it is definitely not sanctioned when in the midst of trying to seduce a potential horizontal mambo partner, so sweet cheeks, don't even think about it! You are pathetic if you think that you can get a woman's interest and even more nuts if you think she wants to go out with you.

stop flaunting your cash...

It's 2012 and most women that I know have good jobs and make a good living, so please...daddy warbucks, silence your money clip. Don't know what that means? Let me spell it out for you then...Oh yes, there's the man who believes that all his self-worth and dignity lies in his snakeskin Armani wallet, his Prada belt or his Gucci shoes. Some women will probably be more willing and  accepting of your company upon eye contact with your wad, and I don't mean the one-eyed monster in your trousers. But if money is all you have to offer, then eventually you'll be out of a woman... and a few hundred/thousand dollars. Men who pull out their roll of bills to impress women are usually the first ones to complain that women are gold-diggers. Get real guys... if you insist upon flaunting your cash, then isn't it logical for women to spot that instantly and want to spend it? On the contrary to what you all may think, most women that I know of would much rather have a good man that earns an honest living and works hard than an arrogant flamboyant jerk who thinks he can buy his way into your G-string. Pull your head out of the sand lover boy, and get a reality check.

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Stylish Tips for Dating and Standing Out...

We all like a little attention every now and then from the guys. This article will inspire you with a few stylish tips on how to accentuate your appearance without going overboard, furthermore, it will tell you how to stand out in the crowd amongst men! Have you ever wondered what items of clothing that a woman can wear that will set us apart from so many others? What does the guy notice first, what sticks in his hear for the longest time and what will he take to bed with him tonight in his dreams? That vision of you that he see, the image (if you will) is what makes the memories of what he sees and how he sees you come alive when you are not with him, so ladies, do something that is going to make you stand out, but do it in a classy, simple 'girl next door' kinda way...

1. Try wearing something ordinary BUT in a very unexpected and ordinary way!
It doesn't have to be a huge statement like wearing your pants backwards, besides, he wouldn't see that as sexy, and if he did, girlfriend you have problems; but lets say that you decided to take a basic man's polo shirt (slightly over-sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in, or hey, just let it hang leaving only a button or two buttoned and let me tell you...he'll remember it!


2. Try red lipstick. That's right; RED!
Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. I'm not saying to wear it all the time, but change is good so this summer season so do try branch out. Step out of your comfort zone. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone. Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. There is nothing like lighting up the room with a hot set of lips and a pretty smile. Men love a woman's lips, so try kicking it up a notch girls..isn't it time for a change? Hey men are attracted to women with red lips more so than other shades.

4. No Bling!
Leave it at home where it belongs, buried in a jewelry box that is no longer in use. Black may be chic, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous to many women...when you're going for the over-the-top look. No going all Mardi Gras! Might I please suggest looking for simple? Pass on thick chains, costume jewelry and makeup that make you look like a clown...instead wear something that will really let the dress shine along with your beauty.A simple charm bracelet or soft spoken necklace is the way to go as it accentuates your skin tone and your exquisite features!

5. Adopt  the soft tones;
The look is what makes the chase all the more alluring,...so you want to add tons of feminine charm.  Soft and chic are always intriguing. It is a fashion statement that says 'wow!' In my own personal opinion, I have found over the years that men truly love inner beauty as much as outer beauty, but when a woman wears a ton of make up he can't see the real woman. Less is more holds true in this statement as most men want to wake up next to a woman and be able to recognize her with very little or no make up verse a woman that takes 15 minutes to scrub her face off before she climbs into bed. Really gals listen to me here on this one..Guys don't like surprises so show them the true you! That's the real deal and the wonder of true beauty!

6. Protect the peeps.
That's right wear your shades! Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes.I don't leave the house without, my Jimmy Choos, Diors or my Pradas. I love the boys and how they make my eyes feel. I wear mine often due to migraines. Hey you only have one set of peepers so take care of them! I rarely take mine shades off.

7. Find an unforgettable fabric! Make sure that it looks good on you and works with your skin. Forget everything you've ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins, sister this is no longer the 1980s. Cashmere, silky satin, and buttery soft suede's are the real scene stealer's. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other's touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered.Remember, it doesn't have to be expensive, it's not always about the dollar amount/ what it cost or who the designer is, it is how classy you can look in it that matters most!

8. Playing peekaboo...
That's right, it's OK to tease a little bit, just don't bare more than you should. It's classy to keep the girls covered and just expose them a little! No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive.
If somewhere during the evening you just happen to end up in bedroom, make sure that you play peekaboo with a cute babydoll or fantasy costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie!

9. Steal the show with a grand exit! 
Most women want to be the belle of the ball walking into a room where all eyes are on them, but turn it around sister,...wear something that looks simple from the front view a dress or outfit that will bring down the house when you exit.

10. BE YOURSELF! That's what he is going to be attracted to first and foremost. If you look flattering, sexy and simple he will notice and he will remember. In his eyes you'll be the belle of the ball. Before I step foot into any social situation, I create the ending in my mind. I plant that seed of intention, and then I allow all of the lovely pieces to come together to create my own experience.
Seeing the end is the first step to creating anything you want, getting what you want, and feeling like you are the most beautiful woman in the room.

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Find the Perfect Fit!

On the contrary to what many define a modern day princess....I am your not so typical Cinderella type seeking her Prince....I am a hard worker, and a dedicated woman who generally puts the needs of others before my own true happiness. Anyone who knows me, truly knows me...will agree. So what is it that I seek? Well, would it be too improbable to state that I want a man who can "show me the magic!" Unlike so many women, I'm "not" searching for a man with deep pockets, ultimately it's not the monetary value I'm after. What I'm in search of is true chemistry and companionship. Sure I want the refined fairy tale....but without all of the red tape. My glass slipper can only be found on high end avenues, or so I thought...then I met this guy...

My "wishes" - have always been to find a genuine man I can communicate with, share laughs. Where is the man who can't wait to see me at the end of the day and the one who is thrilled to see me when he awakens? A man who can understand me well enough to read me like a book, who can look deep into my eyes and read my thoughts, to finish my sentences. I want many things that most women seek and desire, however, I won't settle, nor should you ladies.... I wish to be courted because I am old fashion in many ways and I want a true gentleman. ladies...I demand respect, and you should too. A life full of joy, happiness and everlasting love....isn't that all that women really want?

While some call me a mystery, others call me a real handful. Like the gameboard I can be TROUBLE! That be as it may, my character has been defined as both sexy and sensual. I'm confident, classy, educated, sexy, witty, charming, spunky. Insistent, persistent, intriguing, enthusiastic, influential, independent, skeptical, well rounded, not at all easily intimidated. My unprofessional advice for you? Find what defines you, and explore your possibilities. Beware of the man with the fast tongue and empty promises. If you believe this is love, you must have fallen off the turnip truck too hard and smacked your nugget on the pavement.

What took me years to learn, but I understand now...and that is that you can have the best of both worlds. When you find your missing piece to the puzzle, finally everything connects, and your life changes for the better, simply because he is in it. Don't stop searching ladies until you find the right one,  be a true connoisseur of romance in search of her one in a million. We have various intimate pieces at our online boutique suitable for any type of Cinderella. Affordable prices can be found at  Simply Delicious Lingerie.

I've learned throughout life's difficult lessons to be true to yourself because your words and your actions speak loud and first impressions are everything. On the contrary to what so many may think,...I don't seek glitter and glamour, rather a simple lifestyle made for two people that are happy just being who they are....I wait for that one man who will sweep me off my feet, and make all of my dreams come true......Never give up, he's out there.....and the thing is....he has probably been waiting a life time to meet you! Search for your perfect fit, your glass slipper, whatever the brand or type may be.....