One Sided Relationships...

Relationships are truly a give and take. It takes two to make it work, nonetheless only one to ruin it. Nothing in the world is as disheartening than when a man treats you poorly especially in a relationship that you thought was a relationship. Nothing is more inconsiderate than when he flirts, speaks of other women being 'hot' in front of you, or if he just ignores you.There are many ways of doing this so listen up. Before I start into this I must first state that given those of you who do treat your lady with respect and like a princess, you are truly the exception and perhaps the jackasses that think life is all about 'me, me, me' should read this and make some serious changes in their lives becoming more like all of you good guys.

When a women begins dating a man she has reservations. We all do. As days, weeks, or even months go by there is a certain limitation that one hits before she has to ask herself "Why do I even care about this man?" Have you made your relationship exclusive yet or is he beating around the bush? Is he seeing only you or are there others? Men love what they cannot have and men love the chase, ohhh but when they catch you the thrill is gone most often and we women end up with the short end of the stick clinging to promises and getting very little in return.

When a man that you have been seeing for some time hides his cell phone, puts it face down, or erases/deletes text messages that you asked to see, he is hiding something. Is he cheating? He may not think so, but he might as well be cheating. Flirting and sweet talking another woman while he is spending time with you is wrong, inconsiderate and uncalled for. When you are with someone and it has been long term (more than 6 months) and he has not changed his ways..ladies, it is time to seriously rethink your options regarding this one. He is not worthy of you or your love for that matter and I would say that you deserve so much better than the cards that you were dealt.

Relationships whether they have been deemed exclusive or not require honesty and most importantly communication. What happens though when the one you care for the most can't see the forest through the trees and can't make the connection that he is doing anything wrong? Does he have blinders on you ask, or is he riding today on the short bus? Some women, like myself stay single for a variety of reasons, but mostly because they fear getting hurt. How can we open our heart to love if we don't allow our heart to feel? Its a tough call, but when you meet that one man that makes everything else in your life seem minimal because he is all that you think about, breathe and dream about, you won't want to imagine your life with anyone else.Taking risks is what we do when we develop feelings for someone. They don't happen over night...but they happen if there is chemistry. Going out on a limb to make them happy before your own well being is a sign of compassion.

I believe that paths cross for a reason and I believe that we make our own destiny. I think that two people find their way and when they meet if it is real, the spark will never die. I believe that actions speak louder than words. Call me crazy but I want the fairy tale. I don't need the castle or the white picket fence. All you need is love. I want a groovy kind of love, with one man who wants me as much as I want him. Every woman longs to get complimented by a man and every woman desires to be loved. Wake up and smell the coffee guys...So, if you care for her, show her....if you love her, tell her...if you don't let her go, so that someone will love her the way that she deserves to be loved, don't you think she at least deserves that much?

Finding Your Prince in a Pool of Frogs...

Honestly, in your lifetime, how many losers have you kissed that you thought potentially they were Mr. Right? You know the one; at any given moment when they whispered sweet nothings in your ear, told you that you were the ‘only one,’ or proclaimed that you were the one for him only to learn shortly thereafter that he was not the one for you…not by a long shot? How does one tell what types of men there are looking for love? Don’t be looking in all the wrong places. There are generally 4 types of men that are No-Nos. Some of these guys are sneaky and good, so beware ladies and don't get caught in their web of deceit. What are their types and why should we be concerned?

Meet the Loner/The Rebel

Or as I would call home trouble with a capital ‘T!’  Many women meet Bachelor Number One when they're in high school or college. We’re young and naive and our heads are in the clouds. Problem is we never kept our feet on the ground and everything goes to hell in a handbag if you let this happen. He's usually a little older and he's in a rock band, he's an artist of some sort or he drives the fast slick car that your father hates. Oh, sure, he keeps to himself, but he seems like the coolest guy you've ever met. He writes poetry, sings you songs that he wrote about you and he may even read philosophy. For the first little while, you're enamored by how smart and worldly he is compared to guys your own age, ahhh but do not be fooled. My guess is that you’ll be peachy keen over him but your parents will absolutely hate him and with good reason, I'm sure. 

Pros: You feel cool and interesting just being around him. He's pretty sexy in that dark, brooding kind of way, and he lets you wear his perfectly beaten-up leather jacket.

Cons:  He's actually pretty immature. Everything you do is on his terms, and he blames the "establishment" for everything.

Bachelor #2;

The Good Guy…at least on Paper that is. This guy has all the attributes of a guy you can and should bring home to meet your Mom, but beware gals, something is for sure missing. He's usually a nice guy with a well paying job. He owns property and even a dog, and just wants to make you happy. He cooks, cleans and reminds you to call your mother, but still, you aren't completely certain he's the guy for you. Why? Everything looks almost ‘too perfect!’ …And my grandmother always used to tell me that if it seems too good to be true that it probably was. Wise up gals or you’ll be in for a giant let down!

Pros: He will drive you or pick you up from anywhere. Your mom loves him. He always has a stocked fridge and clean towels, and his dog is pretty cute too. All around a happy guy but why is he so happy?

Cons: He's actually a little bit boring. He lectures you about finances and wonders why you're not more serious about investing. He treats you like you are 5 years old and wants you to follow him in success, nonetheless in truth, he reminds you a little bit of your dad. Good or bad? Your call.

The Ultimate Bad Boy #3

 You wouldn't think any smart, sane woman would fall for a guy who turns out to a be a real jerk off, ohhhh but we all do it. This is the guy with a bit of an edge. You know deep down that he isn't right for you, but you are very attracted to him, his passionate flair, and OMG the SEX!! Let’s just say you're not complaining about it. Oh sure there is an abundant amount of passion, but not a whole lot of anything else or any hope of moving the relationship forward. He doesn't show affection, and in the end, causes more heartache than he's worth. Don’t ever let a man call you ‘baby!’ As Beyoncé once sang; ‘Say My Name’ say my name, you acting kind of shady, ain’t calling me baby…shady is an understatement. Most men call women baby when they are doing multiple dating’s and can’t keep a woman’s name straight. Sure it’s easy to call them all baby. BIG RED FLAG!

Pros: Great sex, lots of passion, initial excitement, and you like'm because he is sexy and bad and everything fun in your eyes, at least for the moment.

Cons: He never tells you he loves you. When you suggest spending more time together, commitment or even moving in together, he laughs. He is emotionally unavailable, and a commitment phobic!

#4- The One Who Will Not Commit, No Matter What;

We usually meet this guy shortly before we meet The One. The guy who won't commit starts off very promising. The relationship has passion and intrigue, as well as camaraderie and friendship. You can have great sex and then a great conversation. You feel alive and in love. When the time comes to move in together or talk about marriage, however, he freaks out and eventually has to leave.

Pros: Great guy, almost Mr. Right

Cons: Can't commit despite your best intentions …BUT he’ll never be, because he has serious issues with relationships, and most likely with himself.

Buck up Princess...your Prince is out there waiting for all the others to clear the path just for him, and when you meet him there will be sparks, and smiles exchanged. You'll know he is the one that you desire to get to know...so be the man that she expects you to be, the man that she certainly deserves and make the everlasting impression that she won't forget!

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Dating; This is for All the Single Ladies

In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what's  a girl to do? It's 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, forty or perhaps pushing fifty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love?  Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren't prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days...today it's Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let's talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. 

Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle  just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.  It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious. Internet dating is really becoming the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

 Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.

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Finding Your Happy Ever After...

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by 'right person' I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed..why?Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it's time for a change of scenery!

The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren't what we anticipated. Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn't come that easily for most of us because we haven't learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package. 

Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the storybooks. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn't happen...(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway...) The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you'll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won't feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share 'pillow talk' with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships. The  phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ...I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of 'wants and needs' in your partner. Ones demeanor, and expression transform into our desires. Don't skimp in the 'must have' department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place. 

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?

Many people ask me; "What keeps us from finding the love we are so hungry for?" The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

 Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,... look past superficial flaws. 

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,...Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside. 

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Where do Men find Love?

So, you’re on the prowl for a nice, fun loving, cute woman to date? Are you ready for love and if so,...Where are you going to find her? Have you any clues where to look for a truly unique woman? My guess would be no. When it comes to finding women to date, you have to be a bit creative and look for opportunities wherever they might arise. Sometimes guys get lucky and are introduced to nice women that could be potentials indeed through friends or business associates.When this happens it has a better chance of working because someone actually knows this person that you are interested in and they can give you the 4-1-1. This is your chance to get the 'inside scoop' on what she's all about! 

Even though you might end up not liking the woman, people who know you have a pretty good idea of your personality and who might be a good fit, so if someone tries to play Cupid and fix you up with someone they know, at least give it a shot. The worst that could happen is that you won’t like each other and you'll want to kill your friend. I've done this before and been mad as heck at my friends. Hey. they are trying to play connect the dots for you, only my advice again, not professional is don't meddle in their business. Some say no harm done...I say 'then you try it and see how you like it?' I have had friends set me up with three blind dates in my life and by the end of the date, if that's what you wanted to call it I had fire coming out of my ears and was upset. I'll find love at my own pace thank you...when the right guy is supposed to enter into my life, he will, and only then it will be a great day for me!

 On the flip side, and the best cast scenario,...you could meet someone who you really do enjoy being around.

Don’t forget the opportunities that sound more like a sitcom side-story, like meeting a woman at the coffee house while waiting for your morning brew, or at the Laundromat, the grocery store, the gym or in line at the bank.The places to meet the right person are endless. I truly believe that our paths cross at the right times when we are to meet one another. It's pretty simple actually. 

If you see someone you think is attractive, just smile and say, “hi there!” Who cares if you’re dripping with sweat from your workout or wearing your best business suit? In sneakers or in stilettos. If a woman strikes up a conversation with you, don’t shy away – talk to her. It could turn into something, and if it doesn’t, you got yourself a little practice didn't you?

Depending on the type of work you do for a living, you may have many opportunities to meet women through your job. Some companies frown on dating among their employees, but some might tell you that there’s no harm in flirting a little, and if you’re not risking your job, you may find that there are plenty of single women at work. OK, time to slam on the brakes here for a second...I strongly disagree with that...don't cross that line! Once you do, they want more, and if things don't work out, as I said in an earlier blog, you are stuck day in and day out running into this person. Not fun at all, trust me!

What does a man really need to look for in a woman? A pretty smile and beautiful eyes are the two things that if men aren't looking at they sure should be! You can tell a lot about a woman from her eyes and her smile. My grandmother used to say that when there is romance in the air between two people that you can speak an entire conversation without ever having to open your mouth. Body language and the eyes give it away! That's one of the first things that I look for in a man, his eyes, then the smile...and his teeth. 1) he must still have most of them, and 2) they have to be pretty and white. I don't have a lot of issues but smile and eyes, good teeth are crucial here. Them comes the personality and sense of humor. Combined all of these will leave you wishing that you didn't have to leave her at the end of a date, BUT it will hopefully keep you enticed enough to come back for much more! When it is time for Mr Right to meet Ms Right, the sparks will fly!

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Sexual Chemistry and Dating

Man meets woman and the chemistry is explosive. Sound familiar? You know the routine....their eyes lock, their heartbeats race, everyone else in the room just melts away. But far from being some weird, mystical force, sexual attraction is actually quite prosaic.It's the product of millions of years of evolution all focused on one idea: successfully passing your genes on to the next generation. And the whole dating scene is really just people assessing the reproductive potential of prospective mates. Women want men with good genes to pass on to their babies and a caring mate who will protect and feed the family.

1) Flaunt your fragrance...don't over do it!
Our noses are subtly attuned to the smells of potential mates, and our natural body odours carry powerful messages of attraction. So don't be afraid of your own fragrance. All the same, don't throw out the deodorant and run off to the gym to intensify your natural funk, either: weak odours are more attractive than strong ones, and many odour molecules only have a very brief lifespan before they oxidise and become decidedly unattractive.

Although women are many times more sensitive, both sexes are attuned to the aromas of love.

2) Fitness...try to maximize it
Both women and men are genetically hardwired to look for physically attractive partners. Why? Physical cues are an instant and relatively accurate method of assessing the quality of a potential partner's genes, health and reproductive status. Some aspects of attraction are universal, so if you've got the goods, flaunt them, and if you don't, work on disguising the fact. It's a well-known phenomenon that, for any of us, symmetry equals beauty, especially when it comes to faces. So gents, keep those sideburns trimmed with a setsquare and spirit level if necessary.Men are on the prowl for good reproductive potential. This means that for the ladies, the appearance of youth and a clear complexion are good indicators of fertility, and so are healthy curves. A modest waist-to-hip ratio - specifically, a waist about 70 per cent the width of a woman's hips - is a predictor of youth and good health. Find a treadmill and and use it. Dance to a video, or take a bike ride. Tone muscles and good health contribute to how your body reacts to health and immunities. Take vitamins also, we are getting older and we need all the help our bodies can get to keep our youthful ways.

3) Tune in to natural rhythms
In agreement with conventional wisdom, researchers have found that men are pretty much attracted to the same things all the time. However, the lads need to understand that what turns a woman on can vary significantly, depending at what stage she is in her menstrual cycle. Women ovulate only once a month, so their bodies are tuned to be most receptive to the signs of potential mates - sexy faces, shapely bodies and alluring odours - at the time when they're most likely to fall pregnant.At this time, women tend to take more care with their appearance.

4) Socially lubricate
Science backs up the common perception that alcohol does tend to make things happen that otherwise might not. And this applies for both sexes. Did you know that alcohol disrupts frontal lobe functioning, which is the seat of inhibitions. But be wary of flirting when drunk, as your judgement could be slightly off kilter. I'd tend to say that the 'beer goggles' effect, in which people in a pub or bar seem to get more attractive as time wears on, is well documented.' Studies on this particular group have found definitively that alcohol increases the chances of engaging in casual sex, and of having sex outside a long-term relationship. So although becoming inebriated is a scientifically proven method of improving your chances of coupling, it comes with its own considerable pitfalls.

5) Bring on the laughs
Cracking a carefully timed and well-mannered joke is a great way to show off your intelligence and social skills. Both sexes are attracted to humour in potential partners, but in opposite ways. Research shows that women tend to appreciate men with a high-quality sense of humour, while men are more concerned with finding a partner who laughs at their jokes.One theory advances the idea that humour gives clues to the quality of an individuals genes by hinting at the number of genetic mutations a person is carrying. The theory proposes that people with fewer mutations have better genes and produce higher-quality humour.

6) Talk with your body
Guys, you can say a lot to a girl from across the room without even talking to - or looking at - her. Research indicates women look for traits in men that indicate that they can provide well for them. This includes high social status, intelligence and conspicuous wealth. And there are a number of ways of demonstrating these attributes without saying a word. Body language is a great way to communicate. It's sexy and sensual, try it if you don't already.

7) Get dolled up!
It might seem superficial, but it's effective. Being well groomed and looking presentable can radically alter how people respond to you, especially if you're a woman. Recent studies that examine the effects of cosmetics use on social perceptions of women routinely find that observers of both sexes find the same woman looks healthier and more confident when seen wearing make-up than without. Eye make-up and foundation seem to be the most effective in improving observers' attractiveness ratings. The scientific reasons for the effectiveness of cosmetics are unconfirmed, but the likelihood is that they allow women to even out skin tone, cover up blemishes and sculpt more symmetrical faces. Personally, I find it more natural and inviting for a man to desire a woman who is dressed simple and wears very little make up. Next time you decide to find a new mate and wonder what to look for, sit down and do the math.....

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