Finding Your Prince in a Pool of Frogs...

Honestly, in your lifetime, how many losers have you kissed that you thought potentially they were Mr. Right? You know the one; at any given moment when they whispered sweet nothings in your ear, told you that you were the ‘only one,’ or proclaimed that you were the one for him only to learn shortly thereafter that he was not the one for you…not by a long shot? How does one tell what types of men there are looking for love? Don’t be looking in all the wrong places. There are generally 4 types of men that are No-Nos. Some of these guys are sneaky and good, so beware ladies and don't get caught in their web of deceit. What are their types and why should we be concerned?

Meet the Loner/The Rebel

Or as I would call home trouble with a capital ‘T!’  Many women meet Bachelor Number One when they're in high school or college. We’re young and naive and our heads are in the clouds. Problem is we never kept our feet on the ground and everything goes to hell in a handbag if you let this happen. He's usually a little older and he's in a rock band, he's an artist of some sort or he drives the fast slick car that your father hates. Oh, sure, he keeps to himself, but he seems like the coolest guy you've ever met. He writes poetry, sings you songs that he wrote about you and he may even read philosophy. For the first little while, you're enamored by how smart and worldly he is compared to guys your own age, ahhh but do not be fooled. My guess is that you’ll be peachy keen over him but your parents will absolutely hate him and with good reason, I'm sure. 

Pros: You feel cool and interesting just being around him. He's pretty sexy in that dark, brooding kind of way, and he lets you wear his perfectly beaten-up leather jacket.

Cons:  He's actually pretty immature. Everything you do is on his terms, and he blames the "establishment" for everything.

Bachelor #2;

The Good Guy…at least on Paper that is. This guy has all the attributes of a guy you can and should bring home to meet your Mom, but beware gals, something is for sure missing. He's usually a nice guy with a well paying job. He owns property and even a dog, and just wants to make you happy. He cooks, cleans and reminds you to call your mother, but still, you aren't completely certain he's the guy for you. Why? Everything looks almost ‘too perfect!’ …And my grandmother always used to tell me that if it seems too good to be true that it probably was. Wise up gals or you’ll be in for a giant let down!

Pros: He will drive you or pick you up from anywhere. Your mom loves him. He always has a stocked fridge and clean towels, and his dog is pretty cute too. All around a happy guy but why is he so happy?

Cons: He's actually a little bit boring. He lectures you about finances and wonders why you're not more serious about investing. He treats you like you are 5 years old and wants you to follow him in success, nonetheless in truth, he reminds you a little bit of your dad. Good or bad? Your call.

The Ultimate Bad Boy #3

 You wouldn't think any smart, sane woman would fall for a guy who turns out to a be a real jerk off, ohhhh but we all do it. This is the guy with a bit of an edge. You know deep down that he isn't right for you, but you are very attracted to him, his passionate flair, and OMG the SEX!! Let’s just say you're not complaining about it. Oh sure there is an abundant amount of passion, but not a whole lot of anything else or any hope of moving the relationship forward. He doesn't show affection, and in the end, causes more heartache than he's worth. Don’t ever let a man call you ‘baby!’ As Beyoncé once sang; ‘Say My Name’ say my name, you acting kind of shady, ain’t calling me baby…shady is an understatement. Most men call women baby when they are doing multiple dating’s and can’t keep a woman’s name straight. Sure it’s easy to call them all baby. BIG RED FLAG!

Pros: Great sex, lots of passion, initial excitement, and you like'm because he is sexy and bad and everything fun in your eyes, at least for the moment.

Cons: He never tells you he loves you. When you suggest spending more time together, commitment or even moving in together, he laughs. He is emotionally unavailable, and a commitment phobic!

#4- The One Who Will Not Commit, No Matter What;

We usually meet this guy shortly before we meet The One. The guy who won't commit starts off very promising. The relationship has passion and intrigue, as well as camaraderie and friendship. You can have great sex and then a great conversation. You feel alive and in love. When the time comes to move in together or talk about marriage, however, he freaks out and eventually has to leave.

Pros: Great guy, almost Mr. Right

Cons: Can't commit despite your best intentions …BUT he’ll never be, because he has serious issues with relationships, and most likely with himself.

Buck up Princess...your Prince is out there waiting for all the others to clear the path just for him, and when you meet him there will be sparks, and smiles exchanged. You'll know he is the one that you desire to get to know...so be the man that she expects you to be, the man that she certainly deserves and make the everlasting impression that she won't forget!

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Relationships...Do Women Need a Man's Approval?

Are you contemplating a new relationship with someone that likes you but wants to change your ways because he thinks you would then be the 'icing on the cake' so to speak? We all like it sweet, but as an old friend once said "Sugar, You don’t need a man’s approval, you are in a league all of your own!" Somewhere along the line, a rumor was started that women became known as let’s just say; “the weaker sex”…said no one ever. Ok I’ll bite…

So why don’t you tell that to Annie Oakley, Betsy Ross, Beyonce, Cleopatra,  Ellen DeGeneres, Joan of Arc, Madonna, Rosa Parks or Susan B. Anthony? These women, and so many others that I have not made mention of, all strong willed have endured their own fair share of life, nonetheless, they are symbols of strength amongst women today. Obviously those women, an army of warriors and my guess is ALL of your friends would fiercely disagree right? We are not the weaker sex, and I am sure that I could get women around the globe to back me on this one. We don't need someones approval. You should seek out a man who can and will, or does accept you for the woman that you are. Some of us do, and many of us don't. 

So why are you surrendering yourself to get the approval of some guy? Women have radar and we generally use it all the time…I do, and it’s usually always right and has never let me down before…well, maybe once. The thing is gals that if you meet a good man and want to be with him, you should not need his approval for anything. He should like/love you for who you are with all of your pro’s, con’s, faults, and no faults highs and lows. You’re falling for an idea that psychologists call the “approval trap.” If you seek his approval, there is no turning back my friend. Before you start to defend yourself, yes, it’s great when you get affirmation from friends and co-workers for what you do. What do your friends think about this? Your true friends will try to make you understand why you should not compromise your happiness to appease him. Wake up girlfriend...can you not see the forest through the trees?

The problem is when you depend on their approval for who you are you lose touch with your independence and what makes you so special. Am I making any sense here? Do you see the difference? Handing over your self-esteem to anyone is a dangerous and usually a really damaging choice that should not be taken lightly. The person whose approval you believe that you must have can respond honestly or dishonestly. Are you willing to risk all of who you are for someone that easily? As another friend once said "Did you fall off the turnip truck and smack that nugget too hard on the pavement?" Since when do you need someone’s approval?

He could choose to be an encourager to you or he might verbally take you down to his level. Changing who you are to gain his approval is so wrong on so many levels. The price is simply too high.To attract a man who is secure in himself and ready to be an equal partner in a relationship, you have to be that kind of person. Are you that kind of woman? Are you emotionally stable, secure with who you are and happy with yourself? If the answer is no, girlfriend you need to take a good lookie deep within and ask yourself why? Once you determine what is causing you these issue you can address them and work on fixing them. You'll be on the highway to becoming a better you. You truly can become a better YOU! My grandmother used to always tell me that if you don’t like something …change it! Like minds attract you know? If you’re an insecure and a clingy woman (which oh geez I hope you are not) who has no idea who she is, or what her goals or aspirations are in life, then why do you think you’ll attract a man who is the opposite?

The type of man that you don’t want is counting on you to play the old role of doing whatever it takes to snag him. There are a lot of fish in the sea, so do not think for a minute that you have to latch onto the first one that comes along and grabs your bait. 

Are you making changes with yourself because it is what ‘you desire’ or what you know he likes? Do you change your wardrobe from business classic to low cut and glamorous because that’s what he likes? You begin doing things his way and for him, and you lose sight slowly of you. In no time, you make excuses to ditch your friends because he wants to “be alone” or “expand your circle.” Do you seriously think that the only way to snatch this guy is to give up your life and your identity to be his personal toy. Bad deal for you, great deal for him. Want my personal NON-PROFESSIONAL advise? DON’T DO IT! Don’t lose who you are. Don’t lose your ethics and values for some schmuck that thinks he can change you. Be happy with the way you are and you will find a man who will love you for all of those qualities that make you so unique.

History does have a way of repeating itself. It also shows men as pursing the hidden treasure. When motivated that the prize is worth the effort, men go to any lengths to win and get what they want. What if that treasure is you? Are you willing to make sacrifices to better suite his needs? Are you willing to lose your identity for him? Are you crazy? Any man that tries to change so many things about you that make you YOU is not the man you want to be with,…not now, not ever. Think long and hard before jumping into this frying pan ladies, the fire may be too hot and you will surely get burned!

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Online Dating and Disastrous Mistakes...

Everyone tries online dating at some point these days. It’s fun and intriguing and you might just get lucky and hit the jackpot and find the love of your life…or not. When online dating first came about, a lot of men saw it as the answer to their dreams. Could life get any better than this? It was like leafing through a catalog shopping for what delighted them…sort of like the ‘must have’ item or deal of the day. Years ago, if you wanted to join a dating agency, you had to jump through so many hops and you spent hours writing letter after letter to answer women's ads. In today’s era, no one wants to have a pen pal. Now you can just log on to a particular website, upload your profile and photo, write a couple of lines and wha-la! You’ve got yourself an instant profile and you’re now on the super highway to meeting Ms Right. Hold up...don't be delusional. You aren't Rico Suave. There are pros and cons to online dating.

There are millions of women registered with hundreds or even thousands of online dating agencies. I am an affiliate to a variety of them. There are always more women than men, or so it seems, and the proportion of women increases with age. So as a man, you would think all you have to do is get your profile up there and you will have millions of women fighting for you. Right? Ummm, not so much...

If you put your profile up and sit back and wait, you will probably get some interest. Sure. You will receive emails from women who like the look of you. And you will probably think that you can find success with a lot of women without working too hard.

But after some time, things may not be going so well. Progress is not as fast as you hoped. The ladies who approached you do not seem to be following through. They want to write or chat yahoo? Most of them won't even agree to meet you. Hey, they started it, right? Why are they suddenly pulling away? This should be the beg ole’ RED FLAG boys…as my grandmother used to say; “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is, and there is something rotten in Denmark!”

The fact is, that women do not see themselves as committing to anything when they write you online. For a guy, when he says 'I'm available', that's what he means. But for a woman, being available doesn't mean they stop being picky…in fact, it means that generally they are testing the waters, doing a background check and asking around about you and that may even mean writing other women on the website that they met you on to see if you copy and paste the same responses or notes to everyone just to see who will respond or who you can get a rise out of. Shame on you fellas. Now you should ask yourself why you can’t find a good woman and what are you doing wrong? My guess is that you have made some bad choices and big mistakes.

At this point a lot of guys make some big mistakes...

1. Aggressiveness won't work...

Don't push for a meeting if she is saying no. No means NO! Say OK and then just keep the dialogue open. If she doesn't want to meet you, that means you have not yet won her trust. You probably just need to keep talking.Don't accuse her of being afraid to meet you. Women love dares, but this could turn out to be the wrong move on your part. you don't want to force her hand and make her feel like she has to meet with you. My grandmother used to always say that anything worth having was worth waiting for. Give it time. You're not in a marathon to find love...

2. Looking for an ideal lady?

If you have an ideal lady in your mind, you will probably not find her. Your dream girl is just that…a fantasy. A lot of guys have illusions about women who look or act a certain way. Your ideal lady probably does not exist, or if she does, she will not look exactly like you imagine. If you hold onto ideals, then 99.9% of women will not fit. Be open to the unexpected, and you will have a lot more success.

3. Lying and talking yourself up? Don't do it!

Why do men do this? There is simply no point to do it. If you lie about how much you earn, how many times you have been married, if you are or are not married, what you do for a living, your friends or social status, she will probably find out eventually and even if she does not, the fact that you know you have lied will affect your relationship. Lies are so hard to keep up with…just be honest!

If there is something you prefer not to discuss right away that's ok,...you don't have to spill your guts all at once, but you should be up front and open. Later, when you have built up some trust and you feel that you can tell her in a confidential way, a woman will accept most that you have to tell ... provided you did not lie about it. My theory is that honesty gets you everywhere, and if you wish to find a woman that you can get to know, spend time with and enjoy her company, she wants to meet the real you, not what you’ve built her up to believe is the true you. 

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Men Want The Modern Day Cinderella...Where Does He Look? How About Online Dating?

Sure we all want the magic,...you know, the "Bibbity Bobbity Boo"...Ummm, but guess what? We don't all find it. Why? Some of us don't know where to look. Most people would state that finding that spark is like looking for the needle in the haystack. Haystacks are far over-rated, and they are a dime a dozen. A good mate is within reach for you. In fact, fate has a way of working its own kind of enchantment. You won't find him/her if you are not optimistic! You won't find them by being deceitful, or rude, and you won't find love if you don't allow it to enter. My grandmother used to always tell me; "Michele, if opportunity doesn't knock, build a  door!" Sometimes gals, we need to put on our tool belt and do a little renovation. 

Finding the right person for you isn't as easy as one might think, in fact...these days it is far more difficult than most people would think. Making that connection with someone is something that not all people get to experience, and some never experience it. Life is different than it was years ago. With the hustle and bustle of the traditional dating world in the past decade or two it has made it virtually possible to meet someone without having to leave your home, your couch or your desk...where ever you may be. Unlike the old days of going to bars, or clubs or where ever people went to be sought out, today thank goodness for the modern day internet, we can shop for men and women on line now like we shop for our favorite NFL jersey or sexy lingerie with a few clicks you can download the man or woman of your dreams. No more trying to figure out what to say, or wondering when you'll see them, ...now, with the push of a button, you have the access to virtually find love anywhere, local, out of state or out of the country.

Yes, finding romance or even love just got a whole lot easier. Happiness may be just around the corner for you, so take the time to make sure that you do everything right...that means cross your 't's and dot you i's. You want to come across as a great catch so really think long and hard about what your bio will state, and remember, that most men and women read the first three sentences. If yours sizzle you can bet your ass they'll continue to read on- but if what you write is not eye catchy you may be that fish in the pond surrounded by hundreds of others in competition for that one possible connection. Most men that I speak with regarding dating, they share with me their 'wish list ' if you will of what he wants in his very own "Cinderella!" What does that mean in modern language? It's simple...he wants a woman that has her act together. A woman who is alluring, captivating, enchanting, intriguing, etc. 

Soooo, what do you do and how do you pursue your Prince or your Cinderella? First before you bring someone else into your life or into your world, make sure that you area truly happy with you who YOU are. Start off on the right foot, and be open. Suggestion? Focus your thoughts on the present moment, and make a decision to be happy now, not in the future, after you have attained some goal. Nothing will ever happen in the future. It will happen in the NOW. I try to remind people never to sell themselves short...so many people do that these days and that may come across as being not so confident. Going into the dating pool you certainly want to express confidence,...not lack there of. Men L-O-V-E confident ladies...and ladies adore men with common sense, who are witty, who have a great sense of humor, and who can be himself. 

So many people tend to think that they are missing something because they are single, regardless of their age. Realize you're not lacking anything if you're single. Not everyone wishes to be married, or dating or in a relationship. Although contemporary culture often reinforces the idea that single people are second-class citizens, I say that is hogwash... Moreover, if you go out into the world with a "woe is me" attitude, you'll more than likely drive away potential romantic partners then draw them near. 

My non-professional advice; Accept yourself for who you are, including your flaws because on the contrary to what you all may think, everyone has flaws! Everyone has fears, doubts and insecurities; some people are just better at hiding them than others. Embrace your talents, skills and strengths and use them to make the world a better place. Turn off the voice in your head that tells you you're unworthy of love and happiness and replace it with a sense of purpose and compassion for yourself and others. If you have a bad attitude it will show.

So many people still meet at office parties, neighborhood parties, when they are set up by friends and family on a 'blind date' or at bars and clubs , which in my personal opinion is not the best place to meet the man or woman of your dreams. If you are that percentile that wants to find someone without having to sift through all the bar flies, consider Internet online dating services. It's safe, at least for the most part. Never give out personal information until you are comfy speaking with someone, and be honest for heave sakes. No white lies...they only get more and more difficult to remember, and for goodness sakes, use current photos. Your profile is going to state you to a "T!" Soooo make it something for her/him to remember! Keep in mind what I said; Make the subject line catchy, and the first three sentences captivating! You don't just what to 'whooo' the new sweetheart you want to knock their socks off! 

Live in present: Enjoy each and every moment in the present. You, and only YOU control your life and your destiny so if you have something from the past tugging at you...let go! Leave out the grudges and negatives of the past. It is you who can release the negative energy and bring in the change required to see the happiness of the present. Fresh starts are the only way to go. Starting something new with someone is fun, and special, so start with a solid foundation, great communication and a smile!

Live from your heart: Live every moment of selfless love, happiness and bonding. This will only come in after you shred out the negative moments and learn to express gratitude towards whatever life has given you! You may find that special someone sooner than you thought...so be prepared to enjoy life and laugh for heaven sakes, life is far too short not to. Be yourself, and be honest. 

 Brace fear with love: Love is the secret potion that helps cure any negative barriers and blocks. First love yourself, then love the situations you face, and then love the people around you. When you start giving love will you get love and slowly you will be successful in not only finding your own true happiness in life rather finding your true Cinderella! It may be that you are looking in all the wrong places. In this fast paced world, there are a lot of feet, and a lot of shoes to fill, but only one person to wear the right slipper....REAL LOVE, oh it does exist. 

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