A few years back I was at the country club with my girlfriends. We always sat at the bar talking to Whitney (our favorite bartender who took care of us so well.) As we sat we did what I like to call "window shopping" and "people watching." I am so good at reading a mans mind most of the time and knowing what he is thinking, however, I'm not so good at determining ones age. In fact, I dated a few of these super nice and quite good looking men only to find out later that they were at least 10 years younger than me, and they loved it! Me on the other hand, how did I feel? Well, it was intriguing and quite appealing, and just when my head would get stuck in that la-la cloud my friends would come around the corner singing "Mrs Robinson" to me. That song (and one of my favorites) became my nickname/theme song to my BFFs. I would by no stretch consider myself to be a cougar, rather a playful woman in her late 40s enjoying the scenery who enjoys men of all ages and walks of life....
Today, we call women that date younger men a "cougar." This was initially an insult that meant an older woman who stalked and pounced on unsuspecting younger men while hoping for a sexual liaison. Women called Cougar were thought to be pathetic, lonely old women who preyed on immature young men because no one else would have them. My, my my how times have changed! Now if you are a cougar its the younger women who what to know what your secret is and how you are getting these younger men? It's simple actually, we've been around for a lot longer, we know the ropes, we really know their moves and we don't play their games. Over the years the name has been redefined and it is quite a compliment to be called a "Cougar" by men.
1. Are you mature, independent and savvy?
2. Are you opinionated, sassy and fun?
3. Do you have a full fantasy life that you want to share with others?
4. Are you open to relationships with younger men?
5. Are you fun and enjoy humor of many different types?
6. Do you love to travel, explore and learn new things?
7. Are you getting sexier and more sensual as you age?
8. Can you assert yourself without worrying what others will think of you?
9. Are you happy whether in a relationship or not?
10. Do you know what you want and then go after it?
If you answered yes to more than one question then you have a true Cougar "attitude" and you can consider yourself a Cougar.
Being a Cougar is all in ones attitude - attitude of exhilaration about life. They epitomize beauty and strength. A Cougar can be of any age, mothers, sisters, wife, lover and friend. Being a Cougar is about finding balance. Cougars revel in their relationships and are open to spiritual and mental freedom. They are intelligent, confident, and enjoy life; celebrating triumphs and surviving heartache. From all socio-economic backgrounds, Cougars have met life's challenges head on and proud to be themselves.
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Ladies,...If you answered yes to more than one question then you have a true Cougar "attitude" and you can consider yourself a Cougar. Being a Cougar is all in the attitude - attitude of exhilaration about life. They epitomize beauty and strength. A Cougar can be of any age, mothers, sisters, wife, lover and friend. Being a Cougar is about finding balance. Cougars revel in their relationships and are open to spiritual and mental freedom. They are intelligent, confident, and enjoy life; celebrating triumphs and surviving heartache. From various backgrounds, Cougars have met life's challenges head on and proud to be themselves.
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