If you want to attract the love of your life, you need to make sure that all of your behaviors are congruent with that specific desire. The right man is out there...Most singles find a man to fill in the gap while they sit patiently and wait for Mr. Right to show up. Some call him the "one night stand" or the "he'll do for now" type of guy. Yes we all know that men have a way of playing games, but so can women just the same, and personally I find it to be quite unhealthy and disturbing. To tease is one thing, but this is far beyond any form of having fun.
Some of you may have a friend who has done this for years? She is the type that is always convincing herself that every man was the right one...well, the right one for right now. Now, you're thinking that if you had a dollar for every man that she's taken home and slept with on her road to finding Mr. Right...you my friend be a rich woman! Look at your friend from a "finding her prince" point of view,...she'll most likely state that she has kissed wayyyyy too many frogs. But something just keeps driving women like this back to the pond...What was it you wonder? Their attitude sucks! Some women are so negative about men and some women are so picky that no one would ever be good enough for her even if she did meet 'the one.'
Some of you may have a friend who has done this for years? She is the type that is always convincing herself that every man was the right one...well, the right one for right now. Now, you're thinking that if you had a dollar for every man that she's taken home and slept with on her road to finding Mr. Right...you my friend be a rich woman! Look at your friend from a "finding her prince" point of view,...she'll most likely state that she has kissed wayyyyy too many frogs. But something just keeps driving women like this back to the pond...What was it you wonder? Their attitude sucks! Some women are so negative about men and some women are so picky that no one would ever be good enough for her even if she did meet 'the one.'
My parents and grandparents raised me to not judge people and to look for the "good" in everyone. You should too! There are signs and warning signals; Take a lookie at the big picture; Are they emotionally ready for a solid relationship or do they find something wrong with every man? Some woman (and you all probably know someone like this...) where the inside was cold as ice and she may just need a new personality!
Many women prefer sabotaging their own efforts. I witnessed this conduct with single people all the time. Some women may say that they want a partner but still have sex with guys that didn't want any sort of commitment. Do they even really know what they want. Actions speak loud and clear.
If you are a lot like this person that I describe, or if you have some of those same similarities, take a good hard look at "you" as a person. Be true to yourself ladies.....beauty from within is what a man will see shining through and that is how you will attract the man of your dreams, your very own Mr. Right! It takes courage to step out and state what you want. Be 100% clear of what you truly desire. You have to break through this pattern so that you can allow room for any kind of real love to appear. If you are dating someone casually, and you don't think he is your Mr. Right you may need to tell him that you do not want to see him anymore because you wanted a real, committed relationship. You owe it to him, and he deserves better. Love has a way of finding you (my grandmother once said.....when you least expect it to, it will appear,....Boom! Wham-o!) Maybe it happens by coincidence, or maybe the universe is simply just waiting for you to finally make up your mind about what you really want?
Let's talk turkey.....What do you want? What type of man do you want him to be? Do your actions support that desire? Will he complete you? Is he your moon, your stars and the entire solar system? Is he the man who will 'rock your world?' From the time we are all little girls we dream of meeting Mr. Right, my advice to you ladies is be yourself, let your inner beauty, strength, intelligence, and warmth shine through. Confidence is the best suit you can wear. A man will notice a woman from across the room because he will see, and admire her confidence, not her breasts, and if it's the boobs he notices first, don't give him a second though. The right man will fall in love with you for all of these wonderful qualities you portrait....Never give up on your prince. He's out there, his horse is just a little bit lost right now, but he'll find you. No one takes a wrong turn onto easy street....life doesn't work that way. True love is something that is worth the wait, your paths will cross..... timing is everything. Sometimes you just have to let fate step in. In the mean time, just be YOU!
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