Lets talk about the "S" word....that's right "sex!" Why is it that soooooo many people try to avoid it like the plague? It's supposed to be beautiful, not shameful. I grew up in a household where we didn't speak out of line, raise our voices, or discuss anything such as sex. I didn't really learn about the birds and then bee's until I was in 7 months pregnant and by then it was far too late..nonetheless, I was still curious about many many things.Women love toys. Men love to watch women with experimental toys....why? Turn on big time. Remember, relationships are built on more than sex...unless it is of course a NSA relationship kind of deal and in that case, you get what you paid for.
We all know that for the most part there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to your sex life, but there are a few things concerning some of the props and fun additions to your sex life that you don’t want to do.
- Don’t put your toys away without cleaning them with toy cleaner after each use. Bacteria, germs and odors can cling to your toys. Keeping them clean will not only help them last longer it will also help keep you healthy. Clean your act up gals!
- Don’t use toys without proper lubrication. Lube is a girl’s best friend and a guy’s too. Lube will prevent chafing, tearing and painful friction. It is important to understand that toys can be irritating, they can cause pain due to their size and the fact that the person wielding the toy can’t feel what is actually happening inside you. Use care and lubrication to make sure that your toys are fun to play with. Try going without it just once and feel the pain, ...yeah, it won't happen again, ever!
- Don’t assume that good sex involves acrobatic positions. Remember that all those porn stars are acting; there is no way some of that stuff feels good. Find positions that work for you, that don’t cause muscle pain and soreness. A hot and steamy sex-capade can come to an abrupt halt over a pulled muscle or a bent member. Sex is not a circus; you can hit every button your partner has and satisfy their wildest fantasies without having to perform like Tarzan swinging from trees!
- Don’t ignore your lover’s instructions. You may not need a road map, but the sensations are different for everyone. If your partner experiences pain at a certain touch, or loses arousal from another stroke, pay attention to the instructions given to you both verbally and physically. You’ll find that no matter how skilled you are as a lover, if you don’t pay attention to the cues you will be unable to satisfy your partner completely. Pull out the handcuffs or the reddi whip....we've not talked about making a body sundae in a while...what are you waiting for? Tease her and please her....
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